Girlfriend Trouble wtf :-(

[welshkillabee]

My girl just decided to announce (to my mother) she hates me smoking and she cant take it anymore :mad:
she is far too ignorant to actually learn anything about it (her words "drugs are drugs theyre all bad and kill you etc etc"), so looks like she will be my ex now. I love her but I can't change my beliefs for anyone.

[SensiRide]

Hey

1) How long have you been seeing your girlfriend for?
2) What age are you both?

[welshkillabee]

Hey Sensi Im 21 shes 25.
We been together for 6 months I been a smoker way before that :mad:

[SensiRide]

OK.
I think in that situation I'd make a list (on paper/in your head, whatever) of all the good things about your relationship and all the bad things about your relationship.

Can you picture being with her for the rest of your life?
Does she nag you every time you smoke?
Does she generally annoy you more than bring you pleasure?

If you feel like this early on, I'd probably say find someone else who accepts you for who you are and what you do or at least someone neutral but to have someone on your case all the time about some bloody herbs will begin to wear you down and the longer you go out, I'm guessing the worse it will get. I dont know her so I cant really say.........talk to her - why is she so against it? Has she ever tried it?

The last thing you want to do is start being secretive, hiding your weed and your red eyes and all the rest of it

[welshkillabee]

OK.
I'd probably say find someone else who accepts you for who you are and what you do or at least someone neutral but to have someone on your case all the time about some bloody herbs will begin to wear you down and the longer you go out, I'm guessing the worse it will get. I dont know her so I cant really say.........talk to her - why is she so against it? Has she ever tried it?


She claims to have tried it, but that was most probs some soapbar :rasta:

I think we will have a talk tonight and call it a day I dont need this shit she makes me feel like Im evil for smoking weed and it some major thing I swear she puts all drugs in the same boat all drugs are bad.

[flamingskullballs]

that sucks man, happens to the best of us

[LIP]

She should be in love with YOU, and if YOU smoke weed, then she should accept it. If shes gunner say shit like "Drugs are drugs, and drugs kill" then she NEEDs to do some reasearch, cos shes 100% wrong!

[welshkillabee]

She should be in love with YOU, and if YOU smoke weed, then she should accept it. If shes gunner say shit like "Drugs are drugs, and drugs kill" then she NEEDs to do some reasearch, cos shes 100% wrong!

Yeah I know Lip
One time I had the Cannabible 2 in my hands and I tried to get her to read the article "Does Cannabis make you a better person?" and she said "No, Im not reading it I dont want to know" she can be so ignorant sometimes :mad:

[welshkillabee]

daima needs to come bless this thread :rasta:
Im stressed right now and mad

[thcbongman]

Deja Vu

My ex told my mom I was using Ecstacy every weekend. It was the weirdest point in my life, because all the sudden everyone turned on me and told me to stop and it was changing me.

Don't be with a girl like that, because they are trouble. You gotta have open honesty and not have someone undermining your trust.

[BobMaRleYIsGodLY]

my girl was the same way...we have had some hardcore arguments over herb....but she now knows she must respect the way i live my life or she wont be apart of it...so what im saying is you need to tell her how it is or be on your way

[muncheemama]

she knew you smoked before...If she's already trying to change you this early into the relationship, imagine what you'll be like in 5 years...run..run..run

[LIP]

Yeah I know Lip
One time I had the Cannabible 2 in my hands and I tried to get her to read the article "Does Cannabis make you a better person?" and she said "No, Im not reading it I dont want to know" she can be so ignorant sometimes :mad:

It's a shame, but sometimes people are TOO ignorant for their own good, and think their opinions are common fact, and that no matter what people say, they are right cos they said it.

Just have a quiet talk with her, and tell her why you do it, and that would she rather to be a nice gentle stoner, or a chain saw wielding alcoholic cutter her body up in the garden...

I think she'll choose to let you smoke weed...

If not, then maybe she has issues... It seems shes trying to control you, which would be havock in later years.

[Reefer Rogue]

Good luck buddy.

[enthused]

yeah...forget her. seriously. She went behind your back and talked to your mom. She won't even listen to what YOU have to say. Eff that, stay true. Don't change for anyone. I don't wanna say there are plenty of fish in the sea....but there are. Theres plenty of pot smoking laid back fish in the sea too. Nab one of them.

[benagain]

yea good luck for real. Never had to deal with that problem but i know people who have and they allways end up breaking up. Sucks.

[friendowl]

pot head + non-pot head = unhappy pothead

[WaKeNvAp]

pot head + non-pot head = unhappy pothead
dont get this equation wrong. i only did once, never again...

[Az.]

ahhh shit....tell her that if she ever drinks an alcoholic drink she is going to die from it....
then tell her that the drug you are using has less negative effects than the drug she is (may possibly be!!) using....

lmao thats why I spend most of my time with guys ;)

after reading the rest of your post.....

would you not change the way you live your life for the person you love??

no?....nor me......take me as i am, or leave me...

[tootsie roll]

Hon, it's not gonna get any better as time goes on. She is already in the mindset that all drugs are bad. She's 25 and isn't gonna change for you. She expects YOU to change for HER.
That is not a good relationship.
My husband doesn't smoke and only occasionally drinks. I smoke and I smoked long before he met me. If he wanted me, he took me the way I am. That was almost 15 years ago. Right now he's 5 feet away from me and my smoke and he's just fine with it.
I'd say since its only been 6 months, to cut ties now before she starts getting mean about the smoking and all the big fighting starts. Just cut it now. Do yourself a favor.

[tootsie roll]

pot head + non-pot head = unhappy pothead

Not always. Plus, it's more for meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!:dance:

[orangeman]

Meh Killabee me and my gf broke up some while ago. If you understood what went on you will understand me when I say.."fuck bitches." I dont mean all females so dont think I just hate all females, I just hate bitches which is to me: females that just pry on dudes like me and then in the end leave 'em when they are all in love and shit and go wit some other fucker. I hate to have to feel like this or feel heartless or w/e but gah, lol nvm I dont even know why I'm posting this.

[Mr.Whitey]

but I can't change my beliefs for anyone.
Awesome job man.

[welshkillabee]

Well everybody its over now ladies the welshkillabee is single again :cool:
So here I am I feel so lonley right now, the split was less than amicable unfortunately :( get the violins out

[cannabis campbell]

just teach her about it there must be some way you can still stay together but still toke.

[welshkillabee]

Nah there isnt dude shes being a complete bitch about it she wont even read up on it.
Screw this im gonna blaze some White Rhino