WWJD

[stars stars stars]

What would you do in this situation? My dealer comes over and gives me a bunch of pain killers and muscle relaxors. Were chillin' high as hell and all, and he starts trying to get me to give him head. Well I'm basically to the point of retardation and haven't been interested in sex or anything sexual for the past six months when my exboyfriend and I had a horrible terribly rocky breakup, but anyway...some shit goes down and he's having sex with me. He had no condoms. He's done, he leaves I pass out and then he texts me "you better not get pregnant from that shit, if you do you better get an abortion." What in god's name do I make of this?

No, this isn't rape. I don't consider this rape, if anything he took advantage of me. Please don't start telling me I should call the cops and shit.

P.S

I'm not new, don't treat me like a newbie...I'm just under a different name.

[Psycho4Bud]

What would you do in this situation? My dealer comes over and gives me a bunch of pain killers and muscle relaxors. Were chillin' high as hell and all, and he starts trying to get me to give him head. Well I'm basically to the point of retardation and haven't been interested in sex or anything sexual for the past six months when my exboyfriend and I had a horrible terribly rocky breakup, but anyway...some shit goes down and he's having sex with me. He had no condoms. He's done, he leaves I pass out and then he texts me "you better not get pregnant from that shit, if you do you better get an abortion." What in god's name do I make of this?

You obviously had unprotected sex..
No, this isn't rape. I don't consider this rape, if anything he took advantage of me. Please don't start telling me I should call the cops and shit.

P.S

I'm not new, don't treat me like a newbie...I'm just under a different name.

I'd say one of two choices:

Kick the s.o.b. right square in the nuts!
"Text" him that your H.I.V. positive and he'd better get checked out....by the way, you may want to also.

Best of luck to you, NOBODY deserves that!!!:mad:

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

What was your old name?

Make it out to be what it is. A filthy drug dealer took advantage of someone under the influence. Don't give it too much thought. Just tell him you don't want to be doing that shit and that all he is for is for buying drugs from. Case closed.

[zephyrinne]

Please go get checked out at the doc.. that should be your top priority.

And if it were me, I'd stop all contact with the guy. That's just a really shitty/shady thing for him to do. But then again, I do understand if he's the only dealer that you have.. if you do keep him around as your dealer, let him know what's up and that shit won't be happening again.

[partyguy420]

yea, ive got my baby pakin a knife around for shit like that

[poorprincess]

dont smoke with him anymore, or if you must, buy some damn condoms for yourself and start on some birth control.

[friendowl]

sounds like bfa
what the fuck you expect him to say
i luv you
lets keep the kid
your just a sex toy
get used to it
or change

[weezy]

why do chicks always go fuckin any bloke that comes along after they break up??and then they go bak to the ex boyfriend cryin and tryin to get back with him,

i know this was 6 months after ur boyfriend stars,im just askin a question coz that happened me a couple of times

anyways about your dealer,he just wanted sex and probably gave u all the drugs with the intent of nailing you but he done nothing wrong there because you were obviously up for it and no doubt you enjoyed youself due to the cocktail of drugs in your system

as for the text messages that was a bit out of order
tell the bastard how crap he was and how small his cock is and he wouldnt even have the capability of impregnating anyone in a wild 100 hooker orgy with a 5 gallon bucket of cum and a power hose let alone impregnating you

next time just dont let yourself be rode bare back,make sure the bloke gets in the saddle and puts his hat on
or else just blow the bloke
or better still say no and go finger yourself crazy in the barn


please tell me he didnt have the cheek of makin you pay for the drugs

[Az.]

I'd say one of two choices:

Kick the s.o.b. right square in the nuts!
"Text" him that your H.I.V. positive and he'd better get checked out....by the way, you may want to also.

Best of luck to you, NOBODY deserves that!!!:mad:

Nice advice!!!
I would have to agree....

or next time....just pretend to take your meds or whatever....and then when he goes for the plunge cut his dick off!! :thumbsup:

[Skink]

I'd say one of two choices:

"Text" him that your H.I.V. positive and he'd better get checked out....by the way, you may want to also.


I think this is brillant...

[muncheemama]

he sounds like a real prince, i can see how you could be talked into unprotected sex with the town drug dealer. youre daddy must be proud

[stars stars stars]

I'm going to text him that, it'll be a laugh.

My daddy is dead. Fuck off. <3

As for the boy after the ex thing, some girls are just vulnerable I guess. It happens, there's always that "inbetween" boyfriend or boything..the one that you have after a serious relation breakup and before another serious relationship. That's not the situation here though.

Thanks for not being total assholes and for the meaningful advice, I appreciate it as I cannot bring this up with any close friends.

[tokinggreg]

No, this isn't rape. I don't consider this rape, if anything he took advantage of me. Please don't start telling me I should call the cops and shit.


Take advantage of you sexually while incapacitated = rape.

Call it what you like though.

[birdgirl73]

Please be careful of yourself and don't let yourself get in such a situation again with that low-life or with any other where you're zonked and someone gets over on you. That's not healthy or good. I hope for your sake you're not pregnant and that you're medically healthy after that no-condom encounter, too. Please get yourself checked out, OK?

[theprettiestprincess]

yea, ive got my baby pakin a knife around for shit like that
Dammit ur annoying!!

[SensiRide]

he sounds like a real prince, i can see how you could be talked into unprotected sex with the town drug dealer. youre daddy must be proud

You're a real bitch u know that, seen you make a few snide comments on this site.

Stars - is there nobody you can talk to about this? Sounds pretty traumatic. He shouldnt have taken advantage like that and dont feel guilty just becuase you were baked.

[cannabis campbell]

Not your fault, but you knew what you were doing.

Just try and avoid him fom now on, nothing else you can do really.

[Reefer Rogue]

Should've got to know him more :)

[weezy]

yea, ive got my baby pakin a knife around for shit like that


your baby is packin a knife so her drug dealer cant get her out of her head on drugs and sleep with her????

is this "deb" your talkin about???

the same deb that was tryin to get with a bloke from england tellin him she loved him?

shes just cock hungry and i reckon shes already bangin the dealer so i dont see wat shes packin a knife for unless shes makin sandwiches

shes obviously got no taste in blokes if shes with you,after all the shit you do be sayin about her on the net

lets face it,there is no "deb" and there never was

:thumbsup:

[partyguy420]

your baby is packin a knife so her drug dealer cant get her out of her head on drugs and sleep with her????

is this "deb" your talkin about???

the same deb that was tryin to get with a bloke from england tellin him she loved him?

shes just cock hungry and i reckon shes already bangin the dealer so i dont see wat shes packin a knife for unless shes makin sandwiches

shes obviously got no taste in blokes if shes with you,after all the shit you do be sayin about her on the net

lets face it,there is no "deb" and there never was

:thumbsup:


ok "bloke" she never told that fagget that she loved him, i have her packin a knife around when i aint there to protect her aginst all the fucking freaks(molesters kid nappers and rapists) and once agin, im not going to get into this with anyone about there being no deb, she bought me a web cam, so this next weekend when shes here, i guss i will have to set up a live feed to prove to you guys that shes real, and look in my profile on here and my msn addy is there, so i send me an email, and i will tell u when shes hear.

[JunkYard]

^^He's just breaking your balls, man! ;)^^

Ignore him...

[stars stars stars]

...kay...

anyway..

thanks for all your advice, once again.

[Euphoric]

that dude was cool

[weezy]

partyguy your livin in a haze man

theres no deb and we all know it

and "if" there is then u clearly have no respect for her with all the shite that spews from your festering mouth

im wide to your web cam scam,your goin to get your sister or a friend to pose for a minute and then say its deb.

anyways why would u be still with her wen shes tellin some english cunt she loves him and sendin him naked pics and shit,she sounds like a right dirty untrustworthy bitch to me

:thumbsup:

[muncheemama]

You're a real bitch u know that, seen you make a few snide comments on this site.

Stars - is there nobody you can talk to about this? Sounds pretty traumatic. He shouldnt have taken advantage like that and dont feel guilty just becuase you were baked.
wow, harsh. If you don't want honest opinions of your idiotic actions...then don't fucking ask. You put your dirty laundry on here to air out to random people and expect everyone to lick your ass by saying "oh poor, thing he raped you!" she admitted herself that it wasn't like that. She made a poor choice and now has to deal with the reprecussions of it. Girls need to start taking responsibility for doing stupid shit, not just blaming guys for being dogs. And youre just pissed because you got called out for having 15 million pictures of yourself online. :o heheee

[weezy]

wow, harsh. If you don't want honest opinions of your idiotic actions...then don't fucking ask. You put your dirty laundry on here to air out to random people and expect everyone to lick your ass by saying "oh poor, thing he raped you!" she admitted herself that it wasn't like that. She made a poor choice and now has to deal with the reprecussions of it. Girls need to start taking responsibility for doing stupid shit, not just blaming guys for being dogs. And youre just pissed because you got called out for having 15 million pictures of yourself online. :o heheee


well said,

that chick was well up for fuckin and suckin the drug dealer and it probly wasnt the first time shes done shit like that and wont be the last:thumbsup:

[ADaisyChain]

First thing you do is:


"Text" him that your H.I.V. positive and he'd better get checked out....

Then go get checked out yourself just because he sounds like a proppa scumbag and you dont want him to have given it to you.

If he tries it again, make sure your sober and you:


Kick the s.o.b. right square in the nuts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HARD.He'll live, so make it hurt. ;)


Best of luck to you, NOBODY deserves that!!!:mad:

Because that is some shady ass bullshit. Also, get the morning after if its not too late. If it is, just keep getting pregnancy tested until you're positive your not. If you are, its your choice, but tell him to fuck off. Make sure he's not a part of that childs life and you also make sure you get child support from him for all he's worth. I'll pray for you not to be. Good luck. ^.^

And you make sure it's the last thing you do something like that okay? Because you know how much you regret doing this and you can learn from this mistake.

A-Daisy-Chain (one who is wishing the best for you. :)))

[stars stars stars]

wow, harsh. If you don't want honest opinions of your idiotic actions...then don't fucking ask. You put your dirty laundry on here to air out to random people and expect everyone to lick your ass by saying "oh poor, thing he raped you!" she admitted herself that it wasn't like that. She made a poor choice and now has to deal with the reprecussions of it. Girls need to start taking responsibility for doing stupid shit, not just blaming guys for being dogs. And youre just pissed because you got called out for having 15 million pictures of yourself online. :o heheee

I thanked everyone, including you for your HONEST opinions. I wasn't expecting "awe you poor thing" because I know the people on here better than that. I don't want pity, I wanted advice and I got it. No need to be hostile towards anyone in this thread whether it be me or someone who responded. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't open your mouth. It's not appreciated. If I wanted pity I would have said "OMGZ I GOT RAPEDEDED" or something along those lines but I didn't, and I AM taking responsibilty and if I do turn out to be pregnant I'll most likely get an abortion or find a couple that can raise the child right because at my age it'd be unfair for a baby to be raised by me. Yes I MADE A MISTAKE and so did he, this thread should be locked now as I don't need anymore responses and arguments are starting over petty shit. Thank you all, once again. I appreciate the honest opinions and advice.

[Euphoric]

<3<3<3

youll be ok just stay cool and dont use drugs!!

just kidding always do drugs

[Mr.Whitey]

Were chillin' high as hell and all, and he starts trying to get me to give him head.
Why is everyone saying he took advantage of her? She said that they were both high. He didn't force it on her, and she did it willingly (under the drug, I suppose but he was on the same shit).

The guy was a scumbag with the abortion bullshit but he just sounds like another thug.

EDIT: Snap, didn't realize she didn't care what the internet thought anymore.

[SensiRide]

wow, harsh. If you don't want honest opinions of your idiotic actions...then don't fucking ask. You put your dirty laundry on here to air out to random people and expect everyone to lick your ass by saying "oh poor, thing he raped you!"

Why are you saying all this to me I never made the thread you idiot. Think you're a little bit confused. 15 million pictures of myself online? Right. I'll think you will find I have as many pictures as anyone else on here -whats that got to do with anything anyway? Are you offended by them? Do they bother you? Hmmm. Nobody else seems to mind as much as you.
Seriously, you sound about 14 or 15, grow up and learn to be nice to people instead of being a fucking bitch

[Wesley Pipes]

wow, harsh. If you don't want honest opinions of your idiotic actions...then don't fucking ask. You put your dirty laundry on here to air out to random people and expect everyone to lick your ass by saying "oh poor, thing he raped you!" she admitted herself that it wasn't like that. She made a poor choice and now has to deal with the reprecussions of it. Girls need to start taking responsibility for doing stupid shit, not just blaming guys for being dogs. And youre just pissed because you got called out for having 15 million pictures of yourself online. :o heheee
are you on fuckin crack or something??:confused:

[Wesley Pipes]

Why are you saying all this to me I never made the thread you idiot. Think you're a little bit confused. 15 million pictures of myself online? Right. I'll think you will find I have as many pictures as anyone else on here -whats that got to do with anything anyway? Are you offended by them? Do they bother you? Hmmm. Nobody else seems to mind as much as you.
Seriously, you sound about 14 or 15, grow up and learn to be nice to people instead of being a fucking bitch
of course she's bothered by your pics sensi... she's probably jealous cuz your better lookin than her.... plus your not on meth like her lol