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CYRAX
04-25-2006, 07:48 PM
Im sick of being 14, it seems like im missing so much and all the people i care for are older then me which doesn't help, i mean the average age out of all my friends is 16-17, i have like 40 friends my age that are NOTHING like me, i honestly think im mature enuff to act as an adult, maybe not as smart but i don't show off or do childish things, i picture myself a man, plus i can't even support my own habit of smoking by buying my own cigs which makes me mad too...

Will i still have fun when im older?... that's all im worried about to this day, i have no real problems beside probation, my family life was horrible but we are working on it and it's getting better, same with school.

Age just seems to be the only thing bothering me :(

orangeman
04-25-2006, 07:51 PM
Get over it, I felt the same way when I was 12 and just stopped thinking about it and decided to wait for my time when I was 14. And this board is the worse place you can post a problem like yours, it's not like anyone cares xD.

CYRAX
04-25-2006, 07:55 PM
yeah people care too much about themselfs, i forgot if you dont know me you basicaly can't care, i was looking for advice more than remarks...

I bet afew people care how todays youth feels, but youth can change so much upon location...

The ghetto's aren't easy.

Az.
04-25-2006, 07:56 PM
Dude your 14!
Think about it....14 years ago you were a baby!
Thats really not that long ago lol

imo you really don't want to be smoking at 14....your body and brain is still developing! I know this won't make you stop....but you know.....you do have a long way ahead of you.

Live fast, Die young......or somthing like that

CYRAX
04-25-2006, 08:00 PM
Thanks for the comment Az.

I can totaly agree with that because if someone meets a 14 year old that smokes and drinks, they would think the 14 year old is a basic troublemaker...

Which is kind of true... maybe im just thinking about myself too much and i just need to slow down and enjoy the time ahead of me...

friendowl
04-25-2006, 08:00 PM
you should be concerned with having fun thats it
1] school [very easy and so important]
2] peers [learn how to interact with others]
3] sports [learn about yourself and how to perform in a team]
4]bitches [learn their ways]
5] grow [that bomb ass weed]

what more is there to do for a 14 year old
all thats ahead of you is bills,maturity,problems
enjoy youself right know or else.
carpe diem

orangeman
04-25-2006, 08:02 PM
yeah people care too much about themselfs, i forgot if you dont know me you basicaly can't care, i was looking for advice more than remarks...

I bet afew people care how todays youth feels, but youth can change so much upon location...

The ghetto's aren't easy.

Wtf, I am apart of todays youth but I havent heard anybody complain about what they can and cant do and tired of being a kid.

CYRAX
04-25-2006, 08:04 PM
i got school in the bag, people that know me irl love me (afew exceptions, lol), i play football alot cuz i have the body for it, im done with bitches for the moment, im growing atm :)

thanks that did help, all i should worry about is having fun, i'll sit back, relax, and wait for my future problems..

:)

CYRAX
04-25-2006, 08:05 PM
Wtf, I am apart of todays youth but I havent heard anybody complain about what they can and cant do and tired of being a kid.

I was able to tell you were a kid as soon as you left your first remark...

but let alone that, your not me and thats the only way i can explain that..

Just because you dont want to be an adult doesn't mean i don't... same with your friends..

Fengzi
04-25-2006, 08:10 PM
When I was 14, 15, 16 etc I thought it sucked being a kid. Now I'm 36 and would do anything to be a teenager again. I think its just something everyone goes through.

orangeman
04-25-2006, 08:15 PM
I was able to tell you were a kid as soon as you left your first remark...

but let alone that, your not me and thats the only way i can explain that..

Just because you dont want to be an adult doesn't mean i don't... same with your friends..

Actually I do want to be an adult I'm just not in a hurry. I dont like the restrictions that are put on "children" either but it doesnt bother me because I still do what the hell I want.

GhostFace2K
04-25-2006, 08:16 PM
well i'm 21 and i'm probably considered one of the "older" people on this forum... and i'm telling you, being 21 and trying to graduate college and get a real job, and a real life, pay bills, etc etc.... trust me be happy your 14, cuz i wish i was 14 again

LIP
04-25-2006, 08:20 PM
When i was 14 i was smoking at home and growing plants... Come to think of it, i was 11 when i first helped my older cousin geoff to grow weed.

My cousins though it was best to get me into it at an early stage. Weed is like a family tradition. I love weed now, and i think its great.

If you wanna smoke, smoke, but make sure it nice and responsable...

Lay back man, your still a kid, and i mean it in a good way, i know you wanna be an adult, i was EXACTLY like you, but just wait, enjoy school and enjoy hanging out smoking weed with close mates. ACt like an adult., and eventually you'll be treated like one, and then, in no time at all, you will be one, and then you'll be saying, damn, i wish i was at school again...

Seems like a long time away, but ITS NOT!

Your at a mature age, where you wanna prove yourself, and thats good, just relax and enjoy going to school, going on the computer, playing games and smoking weed. Take it easy bro

easton
04-25-2006, 08:25 PM
Thanks for the comment Az.

I can totaly agree with that because if someone meets a 14 year old that smokes and drinks, they would think the 14 year old is a basic troublemaker...

Which is kind of true... maybe im just thinking about myself too much and i just need to slow down and enjoy the time ahead of me...

Dude, just concentrate on football then....you have no idea how much you will miss it after highschool. You want to push yourself everyday in high school, and try and get a scholarship so you dont regret it later on.

Fengzi
04-25-2006, 08:43 PM
well i'm 21 and i'm probably considered one of the "older" people on this forum... and i'm telling you, being 21 and trying to graduate college and get a real job, and a real life, pay bills, etc etc.... trust me be happy your 14, cuz i wish i was 14 again

Shit, what I wouldn't give to be 21 again.

dog420
04-25-2006, 08:47 PM
14 sucks, you may think that, but hey make the most of it!

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-25-2006, 08:58 PM
Im sick of being 14, it seems like im missing so much and all the people i care for are older then me which doesn't help, i mean the average age out of all my friends is 16-17, i have like 40 friends my age that are NOTHING like me, i honestly think im mature enuff to act as an adult, maybe not as smart but i don't show off or do childish things, i picture myself a man, plus i can't even support my own habit of smoking by buying my own cigs which makes me mad too...

Will i still have fun when im older?... that's all im worried about to this day, i have no real problems beside probation, my family life was horrible but we are working on it and it's getting better, same with school.

Age just seems to be the only thing bothering me :(

lmao. "will i still have fun when im older?"...

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-25-2006, 09:01 PM
i got school in the bag, people that know me irl love me (afew exceptions, lol), i play football alot cuz i have the body for it, im done with bitches for the moment, im growing atm :)

thanks that did help, all i should worry about is having fun, i'll sit back, relax, and wait for my future problems..

:)

lmfao. I love how your so easily upset (well, upset over NOTHING) and then your so easily brought back up again.... really, it is.... funny... RoFl :stoned:

Swizzy89304
04-25-2006, 10:05 PM
Try becoming upset over something substantial...

My mates 19th was the other day. He had a sleepover. I was invited, but his mum hates me (because whenever we meet up we get stoned. Like so what, most of the time when mates meet up they have a pint - we have a spliff) so I couldnt go. My girlfriend went though. The girlfriend - serious or not - that I had was like 2 years ago, because I never find anyone I like. Now I have. So she goes over there, and I tell her to be careful of Roberts (one of my other 'mates') because every girl that meets him really fancies him.
They all get drunk, and my girl ends up making out with Roberts. To top it all off, Ben wasnt even going to tell me.
Top that off with starting my antidepressants and mood stabilisers again, oh and seeing the psychiatric team tomorrow to assess whether I need to go back in the nuthouse. When that happens, then fucking bitch you pansy.

Swizzy89304
04-25-2006, 10:06 PM
plus i can't even support my own habit of smoking by buying my own cigs which makes me mad too...

Then stop smoking. Its not rocket science.

turtle420
04-25-2006, 10:17 PM
haha!

Before you know it, you'll want to start being younger instead of older!

Enjoy it dude... besides, if you're so mature, then start picking up girls!

The next years in your life are amongst the best EVER. Enjoy them dude... responsibilities will creep up on you before you even know it.

Ahhh... to be a kid again... :D

are you kind
04-25-2006, 10:24 PM
well i'm 21 and i'm probably considered one of the "older" people on this forum... and i'm telling you, being 21 and trying to graduate college and get a real job, and a real life, pay bills, etc etc.... trust me be happy your 14, cuz i wish i was 14 again


quoted for truth

robert42
04-25-2006, 10:38 PM
Dude your 14!
Think about it....14 years ago you were a baby!
Thats really not that long ago lol

imo you really don't want to be smoking at 14....your body and brain is still developing! I know this won't make you stop....but you know.....you do have a long way ahead of you.

Live fast, Die young......or somthing like that

i agree ;)

acrca
04-25-2006, 10:49 PM
I fell alot like you do sometimes, its like when kids your age act all stupid and immature, you are just like STFU!

The good thing bout bein young, is lookin forward in life, (old people cant do that), experiencing pussy for your first, lookin forward to bein old enough to gamble, drink, and all that fun stuff.

Just chill, it doensnt make sense for complaining about bein young, bein old is what to watch out 4

alienhed420
04-25-2006, 10:56 PM
Fengzi stole my avatar

acrca
04-25-2006, 10:59 PM
Fengzi stole my avatar
His is better anyway

NightProwler
04-25-2006, 11:05 PM
hey man i'm fourteen too, ive been smoking weed almost daily for a bit over a year, and i get drunk about 3-4 times a month.... I'm alot like that too, i feel way more mature than the other kids my age. but it's really not that bad being young, cuz you get more respect for being mature.

SmokinStella
04-26-2006, 12:45 AM
don't wish your days away

CYRAX
04-26-2006, 02:44 AM
ok thanks for all the talk peeps, just one more comment..

Swizzy i don't give a fuck about your shitty trailerpark life so you can go tell dr. phill cuz i don't care, i'm not dumb enuff to date the haggard bitches you date, so fuck off cockless.

MaryJaneintheCloset
04-26-2006, 12:42 PM
When I was 14, 15, 16 etc I thought it sucked being a kid. Now I'm 36 and would do anything to be a teenager again. I think its just something everyone goes through.

I second that! You don't know how good you have it til it's too late. I hated school, hated being a teenager, but now wish I was younger again. To have no real responsibilities other than school... take advantage of it while you can!

SensiRide
04-26-2006, 12:59 PM
I know how you feel but the grass is always greener on the other side (no pun intended)
When you are young, you always want to be older. When I was 13, I wanted to be 16, when I was 16 I wanted to be 18 and so on and so forth.

This is what comes with being an adult -

Hundreds of pounds worth of rent to pay a month, electricity bills, gas bills, telephone bills, internet bills, council tax bills & mobile phone bills.
You need to go out and buy your own food, I had no idea just how expensive food was till I moved out when I was 17, and unfortunately my job didnt pay enough therefore I had to go hungry, yip - no lunch, no dinner - I lost about 2stones in weight (28lb) at 17 because I just could not afford to pay rent AND eat.

You dont think about these things when your living at home with your mum and dad taking shit for granted, helping yourself to food when you feel like it.

If you cant afford to pay your bills, which is likely if you live somewhere where the cost of living is very high (UK!) you will get debt collectors constantly hassling you for payment, threatning court action,.stressing you out. I've been through all that shit and its not nice.

Even if you hate your job, you cant just get up and leave because where will the next rent payment come from? How will you feed yourself if you dont have a wage?

All these things to worry about - please please PLEASE just enjoy your time while you can and enjoy having barely any worries or finincial difficulty.
Everyone wishes they could go back to their childhood so to see a 14 year old wishing he could be an adult, well, its frustrating!

Just chill and enjoy your youth, you only get 1 shot at it :thumbsup:

daima
04-26-2006, 01:15 PM
Im sick of being 14, it seems like im missing so much and all the people i care for are older then me which doesn't help, i mean the average age out of all my friends is 16-17, i have like 40 friends my age that are NOTHING like me, i honestly think im mature enuff to act as an adult, maybe not as smart but i don't show off or do childish things, i picture myself a man, plus i can't even support my own habit of smoking by buying my own cigs which makes me mad too...

Will i still have fun when im older?... that's all im worried about to this day, i have no real problems beside probation, my family life was horrible but we are working on it and it's getting better, same with school.

Age just seems to be the only thing bothering me :(

When i was a child i spoke as a child
I wish i could remember what i said:thumbsup:

Enjoy your youth and keep an opened mind to all possibilities.
Growing up at nothing but a bunch of doubts, debts, and worries, that will hang over your head for the rest of your life.

dai*ma
Enjoy yourself
it's later than you think
Enjoy yourself
while you're still in the pink
The years go by
as quickly as a wink
Enjoy yourself enjoy yourself
its later than you think :D

kaneda7777
04-26-2006, 01:17 PM
some of the best times ive had in my life so far happened to me at the age of 14!

i would kill to be 14 again dude!


enjoy it cause you cant ever go back!

geonagual
04-26-2006, 02:10 PM
lmfao. I love how your so easily upset (well, upset over NOTHING) and then your so easily brought back up again.... really, it is.... funny... RoFl :stoned:

LMAO. Like a puppet

I have said it before and I will say it again, I am not sure if a 14 yo can get it or not I will try anyway

You cannot change the past--
You cannot control the future---
So, you have no choice but to live NOW!

Try it, and get over yourself

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-26-2006, 04:22 PM
hey man i'm fourteen too, ive been smoking weed almost daily for a bit over a year, and i get drunk about 3-4 times a month.... I'm alot like that too, i feel way more mature than the other kids my age. but it's really not that bad being young, cuz you get more respect for being mature.

I thought you said you were 16. On one of the other threads you said you were 16, and you said you did'nt think you should start tokin til your 16... wtf.

Az.
04-26-2006, 05:29 PM
LMAO. Like a puppet

I have said it before and I will say it again, I am not sure if a 14 yo can get it or not I will try anyway

You cannot change the past--
You cannot control the future---
So, you have no choice but to live NOW!

Try it, and get over yourself

lol I thought it was

There is no Past
There is no Future
There is only Now!

I dont know....might have just heRD This on a film of somthing....lol

CYRAX
04-26-2006, 05:39 PM
yeah i understand wutcha mean, not like anything can be changed about it just cuz i don't like it...

oh well, as long as i smoke till im older, i think i'll be fine, lol.

dog420
04-26-2006, 05:55 PM
You got a long way to go if you think like this .........

muncheemama
04-26-2006, 06:23 PM
keep on smoking those ciggerettes, lt'll make you older sooner...your face will look like a crumpled old paper sack by the time youre coaching little league

CYRAX
04-26-2006, 06:29 PM
i look fucking 20 as it is, thanks for the tip though.

CYRAX
04-26-2006, 06:30 PM
im like 6'3' and 235, obviously if i ever did coach it would be football, lol.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-26-2006, 06:45 PM
Doubt you look 20 cuz you smoked a few cigs. Lol.

CYRAX
04-26-2006, 06:47 PM
well 16ish to be dead literal, lol.

CYRAX
04-26-2006, 06:47 PM
my pic is in the Lounge thread: One Fun Night, im the one with the hat if u wanna see.