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CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-14-2006, 05:39 AM
I met this girl ummm, online. She toked so yeah ya know, anyway. We've been getting on really well and i have really deep feelings for her and i think she has feelings for me. But she live's really far away, seroiusly, like half way around the world from me (she's in america and im in england) and she's been going through really rough times recently and she dos'nt deaserve it and i think she deaserves to have a break. I would really like to be with her but its really hard for this to be so. But im thinking mybe if we work on it and stay in touch all the time it could work out and mybe in a year or w.e we could meet up. But i'm not sure because i know its gonna be hard when we're not together but i can imagine myself being with this woman for the rest of my life, and we've only been talking for like a week, but we get on like fish and chips, shes like a female version of me lol. I mean, she smokes weed, she LOVES rock, and she likes offspring :thumbsup: Also she seems almost as sexually active as me (oh wait, NO ONE is as sexually active as me, muahahah) but yeah, she seems just so perfect, and she's sooooo hot. But i also feel kinda embarrsed because its kinda like "hey man im totally in love with this girl..... i met her online", and i dunno, its just you get those sad people that drool over girls on the internet all the time and it just makes me feel like im a bit.. sad lol. Also iv never had a g/f which is ALSO embarresing, but then again i don't give a shit what other people think because i think im in love with her and anyone who disagree's can go fuck themselves and then go lick my dogs ass and then i'll cut the fuckers balls off so he won't be able to have children and raise them to be assholes as well.

Anyways, i don't know if she feels the same way for me or not, but i don't think this is just some crush, i really do she's the only one for me. But as i said, we're very far apart and if we do get to meet up its gonna be a very long time, and i'm worried she'll get bored of me or something. Also, say if we could get the money up and a year or so has passed or w/e and we're in a relationship, and she could move down here and get a job and start living in england so she can be with me, well... that would be GREAT, but its not really fair on her because then she would have to leave her friends behind and her whole life, and i could'nt ask her to do that, its just to selfish of me. I'm thinking of asking her if we wanna kinda be a thing together and to be loyal to each other til we can finally be together. I just don't want her to loose instrest in me because i really like her and would'nt like it to get wrecked because of the distance.

Lol, im crap with paragraphs....

HiddenBeauty
04-14-2006, 08:07 AM
You make it sound like it will be easy for her to move here or for you to move there but I don't think this will be the case.I also think relationships over the net are quite difficult because you don't have physical contact and that is a need in all of us.You don't really know if the person is being truthful about their lives or themselves either,using the cam only reveals what they look like and maybe their age but that is it.It don't prove they live alone,are single or childless for example.

It could work I am sure many have met and lived happily ever after I am just saying be careful and don't rush things I guess.I hope I haven't put you on a downer,I wish you all the best.

Synthesizer Man
04-14-2006, 03:13 PM
Well I'm going through exactly the same thing. Yes I do love the girl in question, but I live in Oxford, UK, and she's in California!

I've already met her once, but to be honest the distance is just too great. I can't stop thinking about her. I can't move over there because I have too much business here, and I'm not sure she'd like it here.

Fucking hell man, I should be able to find a girl in my own town, but none of them show any interest whatsoever. Almost 21, no girlfriend and still a virgin! :rasta:

insanity
04-14-2006, 06:15 PM
As a general rule of thumb, the greater the distance the harder the relationship... I don't know how it would work from across the pond, but I could imagine with time differances and work and school schedules that you might not get very much time to talk. Talking is the key to a LDR (my gf goes to college 300 miles away, so I'm doing the same thing). Lots of trust, growth, and hard times are required to do the LDR right. That being said, if you feel like she is worth all your time and effort then go for it. Fuck, you only get to live once and it would be a shame if you spent it with someone you didn't care about.

LIP
04-14-2006, 09:21 PM
Im in the same boat. Theres one girl from these forums that i think i am in love with, obviously she dont know, but we talk and i think were good friends, we both toke, so alls good, and she loves me saying the word stupid over msn lol... She just likes it... shes great, and i dunno what to do, it sucks... :(

Maybe on day we'll meet up and have lots of fun lol... i wish , tho seriously, id do anything for her, im getting really deep feelings for her, like shes the girl for me, shes so perfect lol... :(

JUst keep in contact with her, and have some cyber sex, works for me, or it used to untill i stopped doing it... anyways... just carry on talking and maybe one day ;)

P.E.N.G.U.I.N.
04-15-2006, 02:21 AM
I think it'll work out if it's really love...

I guess you'll see, eh?

And like someone said above, the key is communication.

kaneda7777
04-17-2006, 04:39 PM
Hey come on guys

If two people want something so so bad then they wont let anything get in the way!

My advice to all you guys is to follow your hearts.

Whos to say your souldmates and true loves are right in front of us in the next town or neighbourhood!
your true loves and soulmates could be anywhere!

MAKE IT HAPPEN!

DISTANCE IS JUST A NUMBER!

Whats important is that you at least TRY

dont let your life be fucked and plagues with regrets and what ifs!

Just DO IT!

good luck to you all!

peace

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-17-2006, 06:30 PM
I need to talk to a mod to get this thread deleted. lol.

I think i've just been thinkin with my dick over the past few weeks.

dog420
04-17-2006, 06:33 PM
^^ lol......

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-17-2006, 07:18 PM
and all the girlie's say im pretty fly.... for a white guy ;)

Friends say he's trying too hard
and he's not quite hip
But in his own mind He's the, he's the dopest trip

HiddenBeauty
04-18-2006, 07:21 AM
At least you have good taste in music :thumbsup: :smokin:

PureEvil760
04-18-2006, 08:31 AM
well as long as you are british you are pretty damn fly to me ::Eating:: ::Crack:: ..hope that works

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-18-2006, 10:09 AM
well as long as you are british you are pretty damn fly to me ::Eating:: ::Crack:: ..hope that works

Yes, mybe crack will help me get away from reality

cannabis campbell
04-18-2006, 03:44 PM
I need to talk to a mod to get this thread deleted. lol.

I think i've just been thinkin with my dick over the past few weeks.

Why?

and a mod wouldn't delete it anyway

kaneda7777
04-18-2006, 06:51 PM
you dick i spent ages giving you all a Tom Cruise motovatonal talk

LOL :P

(sry cant spell :( )

pEACE

psychocat
04-18-2006, 07:05 PM
Don't forget that you're talking about a massive commitment to someone who you know only through what they tell you, I am cynical of the fact that anyone is really honest about themselves to the point where you "know" them. I believe that the net acts as a mask enabling everyone to be exactly who they want to be even if they aren't,the "real" person may well turn out to be the worst match in the world.
Always procede with caution.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-18-2006, 11:23 PM
lol. Nar, she's been lyin to me. I have her "ex b/f" email address as well, well, she told me they split up, and that he still expsected shit like sex, but a few days ago when she had'nt been coming online atall i asked him and i ended up gettin in a kind of arguement with him, he told me they're still going out and he never said anything about still exspecting stuff like sex when they broke up. Also, she told me on msn to not tell him about all the stuff we say on msn, like "hey babe" and "hey sexy" and stuff like that, and he tells me that she told him that i've been saying i love her,thats just like wtf, the only time i did that was about once or twice when she went offline.


then when i told him some of the stuff she had been telling me (stuff that OBVOIUSLY showed that she had feelings for me) and she told him that was a friend of hers saying that shit for a joke, but i KNOW that was her, considering i talked to her friend a few times and the spelling TOTALLY changed

So.... yeah, i don't know why she did that, but she has'nt been online and so i sent a REALLY nasty email, trust me, a VERY bad email, a very unforgivble email... which i should'nt of really wrote. But yeah... im kinda confused but she's been lying to me so obvoiusly i can't trust her. As some other people said, its the internet. Very easy to lie on the internet. But it really does suck after making a thread like this :(

d00d989
04-19-2006, 12:36 AM
:( thats too bad homie, love can be a bitch.

i love my girlfriend so much, and i know you'll have that too sooner or later.

look for someone new! go out alot, meet as many new people as you can. you'll find the right one

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-19-2006, 12:40 AM
Its hard to find a chick that loves rock and is'nt fat and ugly... lol, and she loved rock. Im going download festival this year (its in castle donington, people from all over the world come to see it, and i live in castle donington, its like a 5 min walk to get there) and i was acculy gonna raise the money to get her a flight to come here to come to downlad with me. But oh well, mybe i'll meet someone at download. Its gonna kick ass, last year we had people playing like slayer and system of a down and motorhead. I'm not sure who's playin this year apart from metalica and prodigy, but theres gonna be like 50 or so bands playing there. its gonna be tight as hell and im gonna be stoned the WHOLE time. :thumbsup:

But i was really hopin i could of gotten her to travel here to live with me for like a month so we could go to the festival together :( oh well

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-19-2006, 12:41 AM
Btw, heres a link just for anyone who's intrested

http://www.downloadfestival.co.uk/news/index.asp

420purplehaze420
04-19-2006, 01:01 AM
so your dick likes the pussy that is halfway around the world? weird

just cause you cant get laid by any of the girls you know doesnt mean you have to go to other countrys via the internet

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-19-2006, 01:10 AM
so your dick likes the pussy that is halfway around the world? weird

just cause you cant get laid by any of the girls you know doesnt mean you have to go to other countrys via the internet

Purplehaze dos'nt exsist btw. ;)

cannabis campbell
04-19-2006, 02:46 PM
wtf have my dealers been giving me then when they say its purple haze because its like 20 times stronger than normal skunk

poorprincess
04-19-2006, 04:31 PM
::Eating:: ::Crack:: ..hope that works


uh...yup

Wesley Pipes
04-19-2006, 09:29 PM
Hey come on guys

If two people want something so so bad then they wont let anything get in the way!

My advice to all you guys is to follow your hearts.

Whos to say your souldmates and true loves are right in front of us in the next town or neighbourhood!
your true loves and soulmates could be anywhere!

MAKE IT HAPPEN!

DISTANCE IS JUST A NUMBER!

Whats important is that you at least TRY

dont let your life be fucked and plagues with regrets and what ifs!

Just DO IT!

good luck to you all!

peace
best advice i've ever heard on this subject :thumbsup:

psychocat
04-19-2006, 10:12 PM
Purplehaze dos'nt exsist btw. ;)


You are naive on more than one level,firstly you fall for a BS net relationship :error: and then you make a BS statement like Purple Haze doesn't exist. :eek:
You really need educating.:(

MegaOctane12
04-19-2006, 10:31 PM
Never really understood net relationships. I can see its appeal and why some people would go for it over a normal one, lack of self confidence, shyness e.t.c e.t.c. Frankly I see through it. I can't make myself believe I love someone who talks to me in a box, regardless of what they look like. I would rather be alone than have a relationship over the internet. Alot of people I know fall for the people they talk to. I have a private giggle to myself when it goes tits up, and it always does, not because i'm nasty, its just amusing what it does to otherwise rational people. Its a fools paradise and some people learn faster that others

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-19-2006, 10:39 PM
Bud can be grown in cold temp's to make it "purple" this does not make it purple haze. It is a myth to me... But hey, if you wanna randomly change the subject of this thread then go ahead. But there's a thread about wether purple haze exsist or not in the lounge. I still don't think it exsist imho

psychocat
04-20-2006, 02:21 AM
Never really understood net relationships. I can see its appeal and why some people would go for it over a normal one, lack of self confidence, shyness e.t.c e.t.c. Frankly I see through it. I can't make myself believe I love someone who talks to me in a box, regardless of what they look like. I would rather be alone than have a relationship over the internet. Alot of people I know fall for the people they talk to. I have a private giggle to myself when it goes tits up, and it always does, not because i'm nasty, its just amusing what it does to otherwise rational people. Its a fools paradise and some people learn faster that others

I couldn't agree more :D :cool: :thumbsup:


Bud can be grown in cold temp's to make it "purple" this does not make it purple haze. It is a myth to me... But hey, if you wanna randomly change the subject of this thread then go ahead. But there's a thread about wether purple haze exsist or not in the lounge. I still don't think it exsist imho

Not changing anything, you simply failed to notice I also mentioned net relationships and how you were fool enough to get involved.
Seems to me a lot may slip by you ,,, like life does for those who believe the net is the answer to their problems . :confused:

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-20-2006, 02:26 AM
Not changing anything, you simply failed to notice I also mentioned net relationships and how you were fool enough to get involved.
Seems to me a lot may slip by you ,,, like life does for those who believe the net is the answer to their problems . :confused:

Please quote where i said the net was the answer to my problems????

and "how i were fool enough" lol?

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-20-2006, 02:29 AM
Also. purple haze is a MYTH, you know what a MYTH is????

HiddenBeauty
04-20-2006, 08:16 AM
Never really understood net relationships. I can see its appeal and why some people would go for it over a normal one, lack of self confidence, shyness e.t.c e.t.c. Frankly I see through it. I can't make myself believe I love someone who talks to me in a box, regardless of what they look like. I would rather be alone than have a relationship over the internet. Alot of people I know fall for the people they talk to. I have a private giggle to myself when it goes tits up, and it always does, not because i'm nasty, its just amusing what it does to otherwise rational people. Its a fools paradise and some people learn faster that others

Well that is why people meet up to see if they feel the same way offline as they do online.How else do you explain the many success stories?

The ones that I think are probably not going to work out are the ones where they are both on different sides of the world because even if you meet and you do fall in love,before you have even got the relationship off the ground, it will be tested to the limits by each others laws.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-20-2006, 08:46 AM
Well that is why people meet up to see if they feel the same way offline as they do online.How else do you explain the many success stories?

The ones that I think are probably not going to work out are the ones where they are both on different sides of the world because even if you meet and you do fall in love,before you have even got the relationship off the ground, it will be tested to the limits by each others laws.

Laws? im confused. How would laws get in the way of a long distance relationship? lol

HiddenBeauty
04-20-2006, 08:49 AM
Well you can't just move from one country to another you have to apply for visa's,if it is a partner they ask you questions about each other and you have to have so much money in the bank.If a couple can survive that then they are in love.

You can't have a long relationship over the net without plans to meet up and maybe take it further that would be crazy and totally pointless.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-20-2006, 08:53 AM
Wow.... pingu's on tv. Im gonna go watch that shit, hell yea. If only i had some bud. Oh well, i'll just get drunk as FuCk later.

HiddenBeauty
04-20-2006, 08:59 AM
I would need more then weed to watch pingu.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-20-2006, 09:00 AM
what the fuck you talking about? pingu own's. I hav'nt seen it in like 7 years :D

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-20-2006, 09:01 AM
Well you can't just move from one country to another you have to apply for visa's,if it is a partner they ask you questions about each other and you have to have so much money in the bank.If a couple can survive that then they are in love.

You can't have a long relationship over the net without plans to meet up and maybe take it further that would be crazy and totally pointless.

Also, im not in a long distance relationship... lol.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-20-2006, 09:04 AM
Pingu's ended and now some shit called luna jim or something has started and he lives on the moon. He sliped on the floor and picked up this green nug looking thing and said "moon moss".... yeah, "moss"... Im sure thats what it is... haha, this luna jim guys quite an ugly bastard but i reckon he's got a MILF :)

HiddenBeauty
04-20-2006, 09:04 AM
I want to watch Tom $ Jerry but the bastards don't put it on anymore and no I don't have cable I just have 4 shitty channels.

You were sort of in a relationship or wanted to be.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-20-2006, 09:07 AM
lol, tom and jerry was good. But the audio was kinda cheap, they just played the same music everytime and none of em ever talked... still a classic. I wanna see pink panther again, the orijnal one were the pink panther could'nt talk either

"hey the pink panther, look the pink panther, everyone loves a panther thats PINK"

and well, we were "kinda" if you were call it that, but we've fallen out and she's PROBERLY never going to talk to me ever again. So.... this threads kinda pointless but oh well, lol. Something to read i guess.

HiddenBeauty
04-20-2006, 09:18 AM
It's a subject that I think needs addressing because there are a few niave guys and girls who are charmed after a few nice words especially if life at home is particularly bad.It's the people with money I feel sorry for they can get conned left right and center by people.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-20-2006, 09:20 AM
I don't have money haha, jeeez, im only a teenager you really think i'd have money? my dads not doing to great on money either because my mum put him £1000 in debt. But yeah, it was'nt her fault (i'm talking about the girl i met, not my mum lol) that this is kinda wrecked now, its mine for sending that email. I've apoligsed of course but i don't exspect her to talk to me again, because it really was a very bad email. Hell, if i posted the email here i'd proberly get banned. or flamed off the boards.

Btw, now i dunno whats on tv, i turned around and there was some boy with face paint lion thing on his face and some man said "He's a lion".... lol, the man sounded quite carcastic...

kaneda7777
04-20-2006, 09:28 AM
best advice i've ever heard on this subject :thumbsup:

Thx man :)

HiddenBeauty
04-20-2006, 09:33 AM
I didn't think you had money and I know you are a teen too lol

I can't say wether or not you were right to send it but wasn't she mucking you about and not been honest with you anyway.I have sent a couple of nasty emails to this guy I was just friends with because he kept bullshitting me and then saying I had got it all wrong and that I wasn't a very good friend.Obviously I don't talk to him anymore but I don't lose any sleep over it.

Anyway I am going to roll a smoke and make a cup of good english tea :D :smokin:

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-20-2006, 09:44 AM
I dunno. She told me she broke up with her b/f and her "ex" b/f told me on msn they're still going out. He also told me that she said to him that i said i loved her on the first ever conversation we had. But i did'nt... I dunno, mybe her "ex" b/f was bullshitting... Really tho i should'nt be talking about it because she post on here and so does he,lol...

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-20-2006, 10:08 AM
Wow... now some movie's on tv about a duck called Charlie that lay's golden eggs....

cannabis campbell
04-20-2006, 07:15 PM
wtf pingu =s i would rather watch a blank wall its more entertaining

psychocat
04-21-2006, 01:01 AM
Please quote where i said the net was the answer to my problems????

and "how i were fool enough" lol?

I never said "you" said the net was the answer that was a statement based on my own opinion but in England we have a saying that sums that up "If the cap fits wear it".


By your own admission you fell for a load of BS from some girl.


I met this girl ummm, online. She toked so yeah ya know, anyway. We've been getting on really well and i have really deep feelings for her and i think she has feelings for me. But she live's really far away, seroiusly, like half way around the world from me (she's in america and im in england) . But im thinking mybe if we work on it and stay in touch all the time it could work out and mybe in a year or w.e we could meet up. but yeah, she seems just so perfect, and she's sooooo hot. But i also feel kinda embarrsed because its kinda like "hey man im totally in love with this girl..... i met her online", and i dunno, its just you get those sad people that drool over girls on the internet all the time and it just makes me feel like im a bit.. sad lol. Also iv never had a g/f which is ALSO embarresing, I'm thinking of asking her if we wanna kinda be a thing together and to be loyal to each other til we can finally be together. I just don't want her to loose instrest in me because i really like her and would'nt like it to get wrecked because of the distance.

Lol, im crap with paragraphs....


I believe you to be not only a fool but also extremely rude ,ignorant and above all a friggin hypocrite.
Why do I think that about you?
Simple.
One - You make false accusations (namely that I went off thread when it was really that you hadn't read the post properly)


Purplehaze dos'nt exsist btw. ;)

Also. purple haze is a MYTH, you know what a MYTH is???? You do realise you are talking out of your arse.

Two - You fail to apologise for making a mistake.
Three - You then compound your error by doing exactly what you accused me of (hypocrite)


Wow.... pingu's on tv. Im gonna go watch that shit, hell yea. If only i had some bud. Oh well, i'll just get drunk as FuCk later.


You are the kind of person I would avoid in real life so I will do that here because I really can't be bothered with someone who is so obviously retarded and I feel sorry for the people who may be taken in by your BS,because thats what I believe you are full of.

cannabis campbell
04-21-2006, 01:10 AM
To be honest i must agree with you psychocat you put up a really good arguement :thumbsup:

psychocat
04-21-2006, 01:27 AM
I can't say wether or not you were right to send it but wasn't she mucking you about and not been honest with you anyway.I have sent a couple of nasty emails to this guy I was just friends with because he kept bullshitting me and then saying I had got it all wrong and that I wasn't a very good friend.Obviously I don't talk to him anymore but I don't lose any sleep over it.


When will people realise that the perfect partner is never going to be found on the net?
If you were just friends then don't you think it was a little OTT to send nasty e-mails just because he wasn't living up to expectations?
Surely it was your mistake for falling for his BS in the first place?
It may sound harsh but it is your own responsibility to protect yourselves from the risks. Peoples relaxed attitude towards the net and trust and the idea that people on the net are any more open or honest and trustworthy than the people in your own street is just ridiculous. I take everything I am told by someone with a large pinch of salt because people like to embelish and make themselves appear better than they are and honesty seems far too often the last thing on the agenda.This and the fact that you only get one persons opinion of the "friend" you choose and thats their own opinion.
If you were to ask me what I think of me and then you asked my friends the same question you would notice we gave slightly different answers and without that "second opinion" you're really taking a massive gamble.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-21-2006, 04:56 AM
You are the kind of person I would avoid in real life so I will do that here because I really can't be bothered with someone who is so obviously retarded and I feel sorry for the people who may be taken in by your BS,because thats what I believe you are full of.

Yes, i think it'll be smart if you avoid me. Also, yes, i won't start falling for BS off people off the internet. I'll first start by not listening to your bullshit. Thanks for the advice ;)

HiddenBeauty
04-21-2006, 06:47 AM
When will people realise that the perfect partner is never going to be found on the net? .


Well I just got an email from my friend saying that her bf is the best thing that has happened to her and they met on the net.

I am not discussing this anymore it does my head in.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-21-2006, 06:54 AM
Well, im talking to her again :D

She gave me her phone number. But when i put it in with the area code it dos'nt ring, then i did'nt put area code in, it was a womans voice but it was breaking up like crazy, then when i tried phoning again it was a man's voice, lol. Then 3rd time when it was a man's voice again i asked if she was there, and i think he hung up.. lol? so... that was kinda... confusing.

HiddenBeauty
04-21-2006, 06:59 AM
She has a bf and everytime they have an argument she will come running to you and make you fall for her again and again and again until you go fucking crazy.

Why am I still discussing this subject when my brain is bubbling :confused: :stoned:

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-21-2006, 11:23 AM
psychocat's just angry and in a fit because i said purple haze dos'nt exsist.. lol, boo hoo. :dance: :dance: :dance:

You take offense quite easily.

Nathaniel
04-21-2006, 07:36 PM
HAHAHAHAHAHA!
we all have the same fucking problem...
maybe its a stoner thing.....

Nathaniel
04-21-2006, 07:39 PM
Damn... after re-readign all this shit.
Ive relized im fucking ready to die over this. lol
same thing wit me, girl talks to me an such.
I Obviously have feeling for her, everyone elts can tell.
but she doesnt. and i cant just TELL her..
you know how it is....idk im ready to get on 1 knee for this girl
an she dont know O_o
k, sorry, im rambling :D

psychocat
04-21-2006, 11:08 PM
psychocat's just angry and in a fit because i said purple haze dos'nt exsist.. lol, boo hoo. :dance: :dance: :dance:

You take offense quite easily.

Actualy I am more annoyed at your rudeness!

I just believe that it is naieve to believe Prince (or Princess) Charming is gonna come rescue all the lonely people, also net friends aren't exactly going to give you a hand moving house if they live on another continent, then you have the need for one of them to travel massive distances and give up thier home and life for any real relatioship to have a chance.
Worst case scenario is simple , young lady arrives at destination of loving net boyfriend and the sweetest man she has ever met. She never leaves ! but then neither do the other 6 shackled in the basement.(LMAO) I know that it rarely happens but it DOES happen and where are you going to go for help if you find yourself raped and freezing 3000 miles from home??

Talking in chat rooms is fine but making the mistake in believing you are anything more than words on a screen is foolish and sometimes dangerous.
People on the net are no better than those in real life except for the fact that you can be more selective about when you want contact with them (they can't exactly pop round if they don't know where you live (none of my net mates do)) and thats it.

If I am playing poker on the net one thing I miss is the "tells", that's the little habits people have, like one guy I know who sticks out the tip of his tongue when he's bluffing. Without the "tells" of real life it is impossible to know if you are being sold a good one or a dummy and thats why net friendships and relationships will always be superficial.

Net friends will never replace the real thing.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-22-2006, 05:01 AM
Damn... after re-readign all this shit.
Ive relized im fucking ready to die over this. lol
same thing wit me, girl talks to me an such.
I Obviously have feeling for her, everyone elts can tell.
but she doesnt. and i cant just TELL her..
you know how it is....idk im ready to get on 1 knee for this girl
an she dont know O_o
k, sorry, im rambling :D

Lol, yes you are but who give's a shit. we're all stoner's, we all do it time to time. Just people like psychocat have trouble keeping their thought's to themselves. You know, those kinda people who just HAVE to tell someone what they think of them. Like i give a shit what you think of me psychocat? mybe you should chill out and stop crying.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-22-2006, 05:04 AM
Actualy I am more annoyed at your rudeness!

I just believe that it is naieve to believe Prince (or Princess) Charming is gonna come rescue all the lonely people, also net friends aren't exactly going to give you a hand moving house if they live on another continent, then you have the need for one of them to travel massive distances and give up thier home and life for any real relatioship to have a chance.
Worst case scenario is simple , young lady arrives at destination of loving net boyfriend and the sweetest man she has ever met. She never leaves ! but then neither do the other 6 shackled in the basement.(LMAO) I know that it rarely happens but it DOES happen and where are you going to go for help if you find yourself raped and freezing 3000 miles from home??

Are you trying to suggest i'm the type of person that would rape someone? dude, go fuck yourself. Prick

cannabis campbell
04-22-2006, 02:02 PM
No, hes suggesting someone would wanna rape you.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-22-2006, 02:49 PM
No, hes suggesting someone would wanna rape you.

lol, i doubt she would wanna rape me, and she dos'nt look like the kinda person that could even try to atempt it either. But rape is no laughing matter, i know people who have gotten raped and its not the kinda thing to joke about.

weezy
04-22-2006, 04:33 PM
chillax people

everyting will be better in the morning

psychocat
04-22-2006, 11:22 PM
lol, i doubt she would wanna rape me, and she dos'nt look like the kinda person that could even try to atempt it either. But rape is no laughing matter, i know people who have gotten raped and its not the kinda thing to joke about.

I am simply pointing out the fact that people forget that people on the net are just like people anywhere and a degree of caution is needed in how much we trust people we don't realy know ( we only think we do because we talk daily) since that trust can lead us to do careless things.

http://www.smh.com.au/articles/2004/05/29/1085641765286.html
One example of netnutters.

http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/chronicle/archive/1999/07/23/MN96897.DTL
Yet another

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/2969020.stm

http://www.sptimes.com/2005/02/12/Worldandnation/Chat_room_planned_mas.shtml

Staying safe yet enjoying the benefits of the net is important to me and making sure that others realise it is nothing to be complacent about, more so because I fear for those I care for much more than I could ever fear for myself (most folk have the sense not to mess with me as I can be something of a maniac) and because it's too easy to be sucked in for some.

http://www.personal.psu.edu/users/t/j/tjw214/283_portfolio.htm

psychocat
04-22-2006, 11:30 PM
Are you trying to suggest i'm the type of person that would rape someone? dude, go fuck yourself. Prick
Once again I am forced to repeat myself in saying "if the cap fits".
I don't ever "suggest" something like that , if I believed it I would say it!! That's a promise.
BUT the fact is that women have been lured into dangerous situations by perverts on the net and care is needed in who we trust.
May I point out that not all my comments are about or aimed at any one person(CrAzYpOtHeAd) and any attempts to deviate from the point of the thread will just be ignored.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-23-2006, 08:15 AM
I thought you were going to "avoid" talking to me? lol, and i know the internet can be a dangeroius place. But she's all the way accorss the other side of the world, and as i said on my first post when i made this thread, i don't exspect her to give up her life to come live with me. Yes, long distance relationships CAN be hard, but not impossible.

PS: Mr.fibble's says high.

partyguy420
04-24-2006, 01:52 AM
Well, im talking to her again :D

She gave me her phone number. But when i put it in with the area code it dos'nt ring, then i did'nt put area code in, it was a womans voice but it was breaking up like crazy, then when i tried phoning again it was a man's voice, lol. Then 3rd time when it was a man's voice again i asked if she was there, and i think he hung up.. lol? so... that was kinda... confusing.

dude, guess what, when called the first time and the woman picked up, it was my mom, and she heard your name and i told her to just hang up cause me and deb were working out our problems, the second time was me, and i hung it up agin, then the third time, i hung up agin.

but anyways, stop trying to get girls from the other side of the world, espishaly my princess, cause shes gonna be with me until the day one of us die. shes one of the best things that happened to me, and she says im the best thing that happend to her.

and from your first post, it said u have a sex life and that u have had more sex then any person on here, yet, i was reading yours and debs chat logs and i read in it that your a god damn virgin, so dont try and make it seam like u can fuck anygirl u wanted to while they were sober. i bet u that u couldnt get a drunk girl on XTC to fuck you.

but yea, i guess im gonna quit insulting you, but yea, even if she did go out with u, she would end up cheating on you with me, she would be moaning like a wilderbeast, while she pays my lil bro a hit off the pipe to sit on the coumputer to cyber with you.

HiddenBeauty
04-24-2006, 06:24 AM
Bloody hell its the crazy couple again lol

Partyguy I wouldn't be saying my gf was a princess if she had told everyone that I was fucking some 13 year old and basically aired our dirty washing in public.

Crazy don't get involved in their crazy shit and stay away from girls who have a bf or have just broke up because I guarentee you it usually brings you nothing but grief.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-24-2006, 07:55 AM
lol, im confused. When did i say i have a huge sex life? :confused: lol, most of what you said just confused me, mainly because of the HUGE spelling mistakes and mis use of words... but, im to stoned to care... Do you need a tissue? i need a tissue, but thats for diffrent reasons :dance:

partyguy420
04-24-2006, 06:47 PM
Bloody hell its the crazy couple again lol

Partyguy I wouldn't be saying my gf was a princess if she had told everyone that I was fucking some 13 year old and basically aired our dirty washing in public.

Crazy don't get involved in their crazy shit and stay away from girls who have a bf or have just broke up because I guarentee you it usually brings you nothing but grief.

dude, she never said anything about me fucking a 13 year old, she said i was constently hanging out with this one 13 year old until odd hours of the night.

partyguy420
04-24-2006, 06:50 PM
....Also she seems almost as sexually active as me (oh wait, NO ONE is as sexually active as me, muahahah)....

and fyi i dont think shes all that sexualy active, well with me she is, but thats a different story.

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-24-2006, 07:53 PM
and fyi i dont think shes all that sexualy active, well with me she is, but thats a different story.

well lol, she TOLD me to phone her. But lol, once again im to stoned to care. I don't really give a shit if she's ur g/f. Now im gonna go play on my guitar and use my effects peddle. Cuz its trippy as fuck. Now you have fun spending all your time on the internet because you've got a LITTLE peice of pussy (while cheatin on her with a fucking 13 year old haha,, sad cunt). Loads of people get a SHIT load more pussy than you but you don't see em bragin about it on the internet like its a big deal, do you?

Btw, stay off the hard drugs like meth and mybe you'll learn to read and write properly :thumbsup:

CrAzYpOtHeAd
04-24-2006, 08:31 PM
and fyi i dont think shes all that sexualy active, well with me she is, but thats a different story.

Why did you quote that as me? that was YOU who said it, omfg, dude seroiusly. lay off the hard drugs.

DuMaSs

psychocat
04-24-2006, 11:59 PM
I am now convinced that Crazy and Partyguy are headcases.
Crazy you should get a life and stop trying to interfere in someone elses shit and Party it sounds like you are some kind of friggin redneck inbred hillbilly (imo) .
You both sound about as grown up and mature as the Tweenies.

Psycho4Bud
04-25-2006, 12:03 AM
You all need to kick back and chill.

Have a good one!:thumbsup: