Cheating

[cannabis campbell]

If you are in a relationship, this counts for male and female have you ever thought about cheating before?

Even if you are truly in love you must of thought about it but just in your mind at least and not told anyone?

if you had the chance to cheat, and not get found out by anyone would you do it? be honest.

[PureEvil760]

I did cheat before, after that my life was filled with darkness for years. Would not suggest it.

[poorprincess]

I follow my heart, I'm a free spirit. We're all free in spirit.

[PureEvil760]

6661..sorry

[MechAnimal]

Fuck yeah, it seems whenever i have a gf, its then everyone decides they wanna fuck me, and well...I do hate to say no to a naked girl....


Im a bad bad man...

[cannabis campbell]

Fuck yeah, it seems whenever i have a gf, its then everyone decides they wanna fuck me, and well...I do hate to say no to a naked girl....


Im a bad bad man...

lol true

[Doomie]

one thing i would never do is cheat on a girlfriend i have never done it befor and dont want to start

[robert42]

Yes nearly every girlfirned i had im ashamed to say i cheated on, the worse was i was seein 3 girls at once 2 of them knew about the other girls but 1 of the girls was my serious gf and when i dumped one of the others she grassed me up.

cheating sucks when u get caught lol

[beachguy in thongs]

Out of seven years, with two girlfriends, I cheated six times, but only half involved sex or a blow job, and I told them everytime out of guilt. But, my first girlfriend reciprocated.

[cannabis campbell]

Out of seven years, with two girlfriends, I cheated six times, but only half involved sex or a blow job, and I told them everytime out of guilt. But, my first girlfriend reciprocated.

do you think the fact of cheating comes more into a males mind or a females or is it just the same.

Are we more likely to cheat in relationships because of the way we think?

I cheated on my gf a long time ago about 3 years ago but sometimes she still brings it up i was really drunk and i had no couldn't remember much but thats still no excuse but i cant help thinking that she might do it back to me one day or if she already has without telling me

[mrtbone55]

It depends in what you consider cheatingâ?¦ If it is good as, or better than. It isnâ??t considered cheatingâ?¦.

[cannabis campbell]

It depends in what you consider cheatingâ?¦ If it is good as, or better than. It isnâ??t considered cheatingâ?¦.

well i meant fucking someone else really

but flirting, and kissing is still cheating

[d00d989]

I am insanely in love with my girlfriend and i can HONESTLY say that if there were 4 extremely hot chicks infront of me who said they wanted me to cheat on my gf and fuck them i would say no.

I'm not kidding. I've had many girlfriends before but this girl turns my fuckin world upside down.

[cannabis campbell]

I am insanely in love with my girlfriend and i can HONESTLY say that if there were 4 extremely hot chicks infront of me who said they wanted me to cheat on my gf and fuck them i would say no.

I'm not kidding. I've had many girlfriends before but this girl turns my fuckin world upside down.

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: good for you man

[JunkYard]

I really don't think humans were designed to be completely momogomous. Although, I think we cheat ourselves in the end, when we deny having exclusive relations when in love.

Go figure...

[poorprincess]

I follow my heart, I'm a free spirit. We're all free in spirit.

I would like to clarify that statement. I would NOT cheat on my boyfriend. I love him. But we are both people who are aware that we could love more than one person at a time.

[bedake]

I never cheat in relationships, i think its bad stuff. I really dont see the point of being in a relationship at all if you are going to cheat.

[beachguy in thongs]

do you think the fact of cheating comes more into a males mind or a females or is it just the same.

Are we more likely to cheat in relationships because of the way we think?


I heard a study, recently, saying that more females are cheating than males.

[zephyrinne]

I cheated on my first serious boyfriend.. and I hated myself for doing it. I told my boyfriend and broke up with him because I felt so awful. I learned my lesson for sure. My last ex, we were together for about a year and a half. It never even crossed my mind to cheat on him.. I had everything I wanted/needed.

I've always told myself that if I'm ever in a relationship and I'm thinking about cheating, then I should just end it with the boyfriend. I don't want to put him through the crap, I don't want to cheat.. and if I'm thinking about that, then maybe the boyfriend just isn't the right guy for me.

And I'd be straight up honest during the breakup.. I'd tell him that I just want to be single and see other people. It may upset the guy at the time, but it will be better in the long run instead of him finding out that I cheated. And I hope that any guy I'm ever with is like this as well... I'd much rather hear you say you want to be single than to hear that you cheated on me.

[HiddenBeauty]

I hate cheaters and would love to cut the balls off my ex who cheated on me.It's a long story but he cheated on me,gave me an infection(went undiagnosed)and which led to my infertility.Although I am totally clear of any infections I am still facing operations to try ease my pain from the damage.

So next time you think about cheating remember that it isn't just your fucking health you put at risk but the person you love so much too.

[Reefer Rogue]

If you are in a relationship, this counts for male and female have you ever thought about cheating before?

Even if you are truly in love you must of thought about it but just in your mind at least and not told anyone?

if you had the chance to cheat, and not get found out by anyone would you do it? be honest.

Yeah.

[cannabis campbell]

I cheated on my first serious boyfriend.. and I hated myself for doing it. I told my boyfriend and broke up with him because I felt so awful. I learned my lesson for sure. My last ex, we were together for about a year and a half. It never even crossed my mind to cheat on him.. I had everything I wanted/needed.

I've always told myself that if I'm ever in a relationship and I'm thinking about cheating, then I should just end it with the boyfriend. I don't want to put him through the crap, I don't want to cheat.. and if I'm thinking about that, then maybe the boyfriend just isn't the right guy for me.

And I'd be straight up honest during the breakup.. I'd tell him that I just want to be single and see other people. It may upset the guy at the time, but it will be better in the long run instead of him finding out that I cheated. And I hope that any guy I'm ever with is like this as well... I'd much rather hear you say you want to be single than to hear that you cheated on me.

if you had everything you wanted / needed why did you cheat on him i mean what was your excuse, too drunk / high or what?

[PureEvil760]

Guys will always..and i mean that..control just about all females they come in contact with..until a girl controls them..truth bitch

[poorprincess]

I follow my heart, I'm a free spirit. We're all free in spirit.


I would like to clarify that statement. I would NOT cheat on my boyfriend. I love him. But we are both people who are aware that we could love more than one person at a time.

In the beginning of our relationship we were both coming out of long term relationships and didn't want to belong to anyone or be tied down. Thats why we said we could love more than one person. But after 1 and a half years of being with him, today he tells me he no longer feels this way, and he does in fact now feel like I belong to him. While he maintains he has a fear of committment, he also wants us to be completely committed to eachother.... so no, I'm will not be dating or anything else with anyone but my boyfriend, Because now I know he wants things to be different.

I can still have boy - friends though.

[NightProwler]

cheating is not for me

[PureEvil760]

^ - sorry that your duality permited this false love. If I made you happy, it is my sole purpose of life. You cannot fix a problem with the same mind that created it. Put no trust into me, I am PureEvil760.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

I don't see love? i just see lust? Imagine if your g/f got in an accident and had a fucked up face or she lost all her hair and it would'nt grow back, would you still love her in the same way? doubtfull... lol

[PureEvil760]

In the beginning of our relationship we were both coming out of long term relationships and didn't want to belong to anyone or be tied down. Thats why we said we could love more than one person. But after 1 and a half years of being with him, today he tells me he no longer feels this way, and he does in fact now feel like I belong to him. While he maintains he has a fear of committment, he also wants us to be completely committed to eachother.... so no, I'm will not be dating or anything else with anyone but my boyfriend, Because now I know he wants things to be different.

I can still have boy - friends though.

FLIP MODE sorry again: So let me get this strait..he tells me he wants to not have you for awhile and fuck hotter girls then come back after that happens. It is already set in stone that you will not cheat I try to enforce this. Now that the EGO connection is telling him there is a fear that he may loose you to another being he must cling to the original fear the original connection which is never ending and will only be filled with fear, madness, lazyness..well basically every sin in the book. He says that you were the least (or one of the least) attractive people he has ever dated. He just wants to fuck other girls but also never loose you..yea this sounds like love to me. If he wants things to be different, it will never happen until the connection is severed. Human's greatest connection must be the intimacy with THEMSELVES, the key is in self-worth..anyone that clings to somone else essencially has no self-worth. I did cling to you as a friend, because that is what I want you to be..but I also want to love you truely..and that cannot be done until you love yourself. Do I love myself? yes..I am set up in a fashion that I will always be a MIRROR for other people to see themselves in..there is no me, you saw me maybe a couple times physically but you have never heard 1 true word because your perception is one of OMG GET THE CONCRETE..SHIT HERE COMES ANOTHER RECKING BALL..ARM THE ROCKET LAUNCHER..GET SOME BRICKS OR SOMTHING..PAINT THE CIELING!! HURRY!! lol this is getting retarded. I have given you my name rank and serial number it is all I know about myself. I can say I love you and mean it, I can say I love him and mean it. Which one of you can do the same? SC RLET69shadow
out. If you wish to trust me, only trust my actions. :cool:

[poorprincess]

FLIP MODE sorry again: So let me get this strait..he tells me he wants to not have you for awhile and fuck hotter girls then come back after that happens. It is already set in stone that you will not cheat I try to enforce this. Now that the EGO connection is telling him there is a fear that he may loose you to another being he must cling to the original fear the original connection which is never ending and will only be filled with fear, madness, lazyness..well basically every sin in the book. He says that you were the least (or one of the least) attractive people he has ever dated. He just wants to fuck other girls but also never loose you..yea this sounds like love to me. If he wants things to be different, it will never happen until the connection is severed. Human's greatest connection must be the intimacy with THEMSELVES, the key is in self-worth..anyone that clings to somone else essencially has no self-worth. I did cling to you as a friend, because that is what I want you to be..but I also want to love you truely..and that cannot be done until you love yourself. Do I love myself? yes..I am set up in a fashion that I will always be a MIRROR for other people to see themselves in..there is no me, you saw me maybe a couple times physically but you have never heard 1 true word because your perception is one of OMG GET THE CONCRETE..SHIT HERE COMES ANOTHER RECKING BALL..ARM THE ROCKET LAUNCHER..GET SOME BRICKS OR SOMTHING..PAINT THE CIELING!! HURRY!! lol this is getting retarded. I have given you my name rank and serial number it is all I know about myself. I can say I love you and mean it, I can say I love him and mean it. Which one of you can do the same? SC RLET69shadow
out. If you wish to trust me, only trust my actions. :cool:


well if you wanted to hurt me it worked. stop it.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

ummmm, ok... mybe you should talk about this OFF the internet? lol. Instead of making it so your both open to be flamed by loads of immature 13 year olds and before they will make it worse.... lol, i don't really know whats going on, im kinda confused. Just talk to each other face to face.

[PureEvil760]

Its a 4 hour drive to pull that one off. Its just a very explosive egotistical mess, I know what must be done but they wont put THAT much trust into me.

[psychocat]

Cheats deserve all the shit they get in my opinion, I would never forgive that indiscretion.

[Shelbay]

I follow my heart, I'm a free spirit. We're all free in spirit.
Yes,,beautiful way of life..just to have unquestionable trust in a relationship for it though:thumbsup: As long as there is an mutual agreement between both partners,,I consider it a personal between those two people...and always HONESTY.

[PureEvil760]

Yea, honesty is a big part. Now keep my word earlier. (I will be with you if you are lonely but never make a sexual advance under any circumstance) Sounds wierd, but my intencion.

[Psycho4Bud]

Yes,,beautiful way of life..just to have unquestionable trust in a relationship for it though:thumbsup: As long as there is an mutual agreement between both partners,,I consider it a personal between those two people...and always HONESTY.

Honesty is the biggest key. In an open relationship you still have to show your significant other that he/she comes first! If both partners can handle the jealousy aspect like adults, why not? That's not really cheating though if you have the mutual consent.
The only thing is, these days there's alot more things that can come back to haunt not only you but your number 1. In the old days, at least in my little hick Midwest town (LOL), about the worst that may happen is a case of the crabs. Now it seems that herpes and AIDs are more of a concern. Gotta be VERY careful, giving a gift to your number 1 that will last a lifetime wouldn't be cool at all!

Have a good one..LOL!:thumbsup:

[HiddenBeauty]

(I will be with you if you are lonely but never make a sexual advance under any circumstance) Sounds wierd, but my intencion.


Lmao yea right ;) :D

[MechAnimal]

You'd be suprised how many women these days will agree to be fuck-buddies, even if they know you have a gf......

This is a great age to be alive......

[psychocat]

I don't like easy women they are too much of a risk, and if you don't know the dangers of sleeping around then you really shouldn't have sex.
Sex to me is a bit more than just a shag and I really struggle to understand how people still have unwanted pregnancies and end up with STDs, but then when someone cheats the risks are not only for the one cheating.
Remember that you sleep with all your partners ex partners because any one of them could be a risk if they had unprotected sex and then you go there.

[DonnieDarko]

Cheating is not about sex ... It's about honesty. And agreeing with some of you above, there's nothing worse than a dishonest cheater.

Most relationships end .... and most of the time, it ends for one person before the other. At this point, the relationship should be ended, before another is started. It ain't that hard.

[cannabis campbell]

Sex is exactly what cheating is about

then weather you choose to admit it or not is about honesty

[Shelbay]

:thumbsup:
Honesty is the biggest key. In an open relationship you still have to show your significant other that he/she comes first! If both partners can handle the jealousy aspect like adults, why not? That's not really cheating though if you have the mutual consent.
The only thing is, these days there's alot more things that can come back to haunt not only you but your number 1. In the old days, at least in my little hick Midwest town (LOL), about the worst that may happen is a case of the crabs. Now it seems that herpes and AIDs are more of a concern. Gotta be VERY careful, giving a gift to your number 1 that will last a lifetime wouldn't be cool at all!

Have a good one..LOL!:thumbsup:
Well you know psycho that all intimacy with another male/female does not always invlove sex...well with me it doesn't haha.My husband is emotionally detached but he encourages my interests and my choice of friends..he trusts me totally..as I do him. I want a friend so bad that likes MJ that I could just spend a weekend hiking with and swimming. He is a great man but he doesn't try to monitor me (only a few times haha)..he trys and lets me make up for all that I missed out in younger years that he has already experienced,I love him! Anyway..I just say trust and honesty are the key.

[Psycho4Bud]

:thumbsup:
Well you know psycho that all intimacy with another male/female does not always invlove sex...well with me it doesn't haha.My husband is emotionally detached but he encourages my interests and my choice of friends..he trusts me totally..as I do him. I want a friend so bad that likes MJ that I could just spend a weekend hiking with and swimming. He is a great man but he doesn't try to monitor me (only a few times haha)..he trys and lets me make up for all that I missed out in younger years that he has already experienced,I love him! Anyway..I just say trust and honesty are the key.

Since this is about cheating I'll keep it to the opposite sex...LOL. If I go ridin' with the boys that's cool but If I was hangin' with some lady...that's developing emotional ties that I personally feel is crossing lines. That to me is suppose to be the "sacred" part. As far as sex......DAMN, the only comparison I can think of right now is shooting pool with a stranger at a bar. But that's wrong...LOL. Kind of shows that everyone has their own interpretation of what cheating is....be honest!

Have a good one!:thumbsup: Plotonically speaking of course....LOL

[orangeman]

Yeah, I always think about cheatin, I just think it's exciting lol but I never do it.

[minnesota man]

Love conquers all. It transforms our lives and how we think about stuff. You can say you feel this way or that way not but once you encounter big big love, your views may change.

[cannabis campbell]

true

[da highest]

very true

[WhiskeyGirl]

Well, here is my story:
I was married to guy for 10 yrs 2 kids by him , and I from a previous relationship. My x was all for family and kids , which was kool, but he had a temper and would do assanine shit, like if I walked by the bathroom while he was brushing his teeth, he would flip out and slam the door shut!!?? WTF?
Any way, he had a job when we first got married , then he lost it, he cant read for shit. But I was young and stupid when I met him at 17. I worked , he didnt and alot of shit when on with him dicipling the kids while I was at work, he has mentally abusive to all of us. After 10 yrs , I left him, way to long I know, but when we were seperated, yes I did cheat on him, mistake I know , because although he was an A hole, I know I hurt him deeply. Well, I met my husband on line , we talked for 6 months then met. Lived together 6 yrs , then got married. So no, I would never cheat on him , he is every thing I ever wanted, he works, good with my kids, he has no biological kids, and we are on the same page ( unlike my illerate X).
He is a bit insecure because I did cheat on my X, but i guess in time, he will trust me completely, cause I love him 2 death.And will never cheat on him!
So, no cheating isnt cool, just something that is exciting and I think people get into a rut that have been married for awhile, or as in my case, just married the wrong guy!!!
Sorry this is so long, do yall understand this, does it make sense?
ps. my x mistreated my boys and they will not forget it, but they have no contact with him, but he is their father (unfortunately), I told them if he wants to go through his lawyer to see them he can, but being he is on SSI, he is 2 cheep!!
Ok , im done Lol
tell me what ya think, but LIP -- I dont need your comments .TY

[Nathaniel]

Love Is Everything to Most people
It Everything.
thats the bluntest way to put it.
It The best
and the worst

[psychocat]

Well, here is my story:
I was married to guy for 10 yrs 2 kids by him , and I from a previous relationship. My x was all for family and kids , which was kool, but he had a temper and would do assanine shit, like if I walked by the bathroom while he was brushing his teeth, he would flip out and slam the door shut!!?? WTF?
Any way, he had a job when we first got married , then he lost it, he cant read for shit. But I was young and stupid when I met him at 17. I worked , he didnt and alot of shit when on with him dicipling the kids while I was at work, he has mentally abusive to all of us. After 10 yrs , I left him, way to long I know, but when we were seperated, yes I did cheat on him, mistake I know , because although he was an A hole, I know I hurt him deeply. Well, I met my husband on line , we talked for 6 months then met. Lived together 6 yrs , then got married. So no, I would never cheat on him , he is every thing I ever wanted, he works, good with my kids, he has no biological kids, and we are on the same page ( unlike my illerate X).
He is a bit insecure because I did cheat on my X, but i guess in time, he will trust me completely, cause I love him 2 death.And will never cheat on him!
So, no cheating isnt cool, just something that is exciting and I think people get into a rut that have been married for awhile, or as in my case, just married the wrong guy!!!
Sorry this is so long, do yall understand this, does it make sense?
ps. my x mistreated my boys and they will not forget it, but they have no contact with him, but he is their father (unfortunately), I told them if he wants to go through his lawyer to see them he can, but being he is on SSI, he is 2 cheep!!
Ok , im done Lol
tell me what ya think, but LIP -- I dont need your comments .TY

I'm sorry you had a rough ride :( but I still believe that you owe it to yourself and others to be honest about things and end one relationship before starting another.:thumbsup: :D :cool:

[WalkaWalka]

I just fucked up a realy good relationship with cheating. Its not worth it. Even if she would take me back I feel so fucking rotten it wouldn't be much fun.

[partyguy420]

Fuck yeah, it seems whenever i have a gf, its then everyone decides they wanna fuck me, and well...I do hate to say no to a naked girl....


Im a bad bad man...

i have that same problem, when me and deb first started going out, the were like 3 or 4 girls that were pissed at her the first fucking seconf we were going out. she only knows of one, and i ended up doing some stupid shit with one of them, and i dont sudjest cheating on your girls or men, and it ended up eating at my mind, even thu after that we broke up, and it was still eating at my mind while we werent going out and so when i asked her back out i had to tell her.

[cannabis campbell]

At least you told her

[partyguy420]

At least you told her

yea, i felt realy bad for it, so i had to tell her, it was just eating away at my mind and was pissing me off.

[muncheemama]

do you think the fact of cheating comes more into a males mind or a females or is it just the same.

Are we more likely to cheat in relationships because of the way we think?

I cheated on my gf a long time ago about 3 years ago but sometimes she still brings it up i was really drunk and i had no couldn't remember much but thats still no excuse but i cant help thinking that she might do it back to me one day or if she already has without telling me
guys, remember that girls NEVER completely forget, even if they say they will.
My biggest motivation for not cheating(besides my beautiful family) is watching Maury....No offense to anyone but I don't know how you can't know who your baby-daddy is....especially when you have 4 or 5 guys, and you still cant find him...I sure hope my results are better when I'm on TV, how emberassing.....

[HiddenBeauty]

I read that they did a survey and it showed that more women were seeking divorce and also straying out of their marriages then men.

I am good at holding grudges but only if it is something really bad like cheating.

[spatte21]

well i meant fucking someone else really

but flirting, and kissing is still cheating


flirting isnt cheating. actually, its what keeps me from cheating. lol long distance relationships blow ass

[muncheemama]

flirting isnt cheating. actually, its what keeps me from cheating. lol long distance relationships blow ass
Only if flirting doesnt involve touching..or exchanging phone numbers, or hotel room keys.....

[Big Calhoun]

I'm married.

Yes, I've thought about cheating on my wife. No, I've never done it.

Reason: I'm an asshole and it took me years to find my wife/soul-mate. Quite frankly, I don't think there's another woman that can deal with me.

[psychocat]

I'm married.

Yes, I've thought about cheating on my wife. No, I've never done it.

Reason: I'm an asshole and it took me years to find my wife/soul-mate. Quite frankly, I don't think there's another woman that can deal with me.

:thumbsup: Got to admire a man who knows where he's best off ! :D :cool:

I don't think I would be a free man for long if I caught a partner of mine with someone else,:mad: I would most likely kill them both. :(

[slipknotpsycho]

If you are in a relationship, this counts for male and female have you ever thought about cheating before?

Even if you are truly in love you must of thought about it but just in your mind at least and not told anyone?

if you had the chance to cheat, and not get found out by anyone would you do it? be honest.
better question, if you're in a relationship, have you NOT thought about cheating?


if you had the chance to cheat, and not get found out by anyone would you do it? be honest.
no.

[HiddenBeauty]

I wish I knew how to track my cheating ex down so I could fucking kill him or seriously harm him.Well it wouldnt be me doing it because I am not violent at all and I am usually the one saying no violence but this motherfucker deserves it,plus I think it will haunt me forever until justice is served.

[cannabis campbell]

bumpppp how dare we let this thread burn to the ground!

[birdgirl73]

I'll keep the thread going.

I've had opportunities to cheat plenty of times over the 22 years of my marriage, and I'm proud to say I've never taken a single one of them. Sure, when you're going through a particularly rough patch marriage-wise, it's easy to think about it, but acting on the idea is a whole different thing. I never could. I love my husband too much, and frankly the idea of sex with someone else is downright scary.

Back to what some earlier posters said. I don't think cheating is about sex or about honesty. I think it's often more than anything about self-esteem. Guys who cheat often have shaky enough self-esteem that they have to boost it with some tart on the side. And women with shaky self confidence sometimes try to boost that confidence with six or so inches of someone else's boyfriend or husband--or with just a single guy. Single women who like to cheat with other people's boyfriends or husbands usually feel lower than anyone else. If they really liked or respected themselves, they'd feel they deserved an actual full-time husband or relationship of their own.

I've volunteered for many years in our local women's shelter and been a part of thousands of lay counseling sessions. This self-esteem-cheating thing gets covered over and over again with those ladies, who're often the victims of cheating as well as domestic violence.

[Sabrinaleena]

That is so fucking awesome that you said that. I hope she reads these boards. Sometimes little things like someone else that I don't even know being in love makes me feel really damn good. I'm not even stoned I swear. :D




I am insanely in love with my girlfriend and i can HONESTLY say that if there were 4 extremely hot chicks infront of me who said they wanted me to cheat on my gf and fuck them i would say no.

I'm not kidding. I've had many girlfriends before but this girl turns my fuckin world upside down.

[NightProwler]

cheating is goddamn awful

[Ganjasaurusrex]

If there is one spiritual emotion that defines cheating it is the feeling of powerlessness.

A person who cheats feels powerless. Not the type of power you may be thinking of.

Sex with others outside of the relationship can never satiate this feeling.

It is emotionally and spiritually impossible to have a sexual connection with a human being and not ignite certain emotional patterns, but they are continual dead-end streets when there is no relationship or true emotional feelings to go with the act.

Therefore, there is a level of brutality, frustration, and eventually emotional disease which results in physical illness and breakdown because a significant pattern is being tremendously abused.

Remember, you do get what you ask for.

Asking for love is asking for the energy of the soul. It brings with it a genuine concern for the other. You cannot prey upon someone else who feels powerless as you, when another's well-being is in you heart.

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

Have I ever thought about cheating? Yes, many times before, and i had the chance many times before too, but i always say that if i'm going to cheat, then why be in the relationship in the first place? A relationship with someone is made because two people want to be together. If you cheat that breaks that tradition and you don't have the same bond anymore. I would never cheat on my girl friend that i have right now. I have been cheated on so i know how it feels. I'm not that low and stupid to cheat on someone i love because of some lust that comes from some other hot girl. Also, if you cheat on the one you love, they will never forget about it and may never forgive you either. Is losing the one you love truly worth it because of some lust?

[beachguy in thongs]

Guys who cheat often have shaky enough self-esteem that they have to boost it with some tart on the side.

That's wrong. I've cheated a couple times, with two long relationships, and, trust me, it had nothing to do with self-esteem.

But, I noticed that you had said "often". So, forgive me. :smokin:

The second relationship that I cheated, I was high on prescription drugs, trying to take away the pain (which never worked). The first one, I was in High School.

[baisez le monde.]

Of course everyone thinks about it, even when your'e in love, but if you truly love your husband wife gf or bf, then your not gonna do it. its wrong. get a fucking divorce or break up if u wanna bone someone else. shiiiiiit.

[420mory]

listen to "love woman"!:D

[Az.]

If you are in a relationship, this counts for male and female have you ever thought about cheating before?

Even if you are truly in love you must of thought about it but just in your mind at least and not told anyone?

if you had the chance to cheat, and not get found out by anyone would you do it? be honest.

...I have a girlfriend who I have been with for 5 years next month, She has just finished her second year at uni and is away the entire term time (different country)...

I have and never would go behind her back and slepp with another person, however I recently came out to her and told her I was bisexual....couldn't keep it from her any longer, and she accepted that for who I was

Since I only came to terms with my sexuality recently I had never been with a guy before....so I spoke to her and she completly understood that I wanted to experiment with guys...so she said I could...as long as I didnt hide anything form her (she is extremely turned on by gay guys which is lucky for me ;))

But yeah, I have slept with guys since I told her this and we are still happily together....lol I dont know why im telling you guys this...

.....I guess to see if you consider what I am doing to be cheating?

[Mr. TBAGU 420]

HOMO... hahaha.. before you reveal that you came out of the closet on a internet site... remember that it could haunt you forEVER

If you are doing "stuff" with another guy when you are with a woman.. that's kinda creepy. Also, it is considered cheating cause you are doing stuff with another person. Although, it isn't a girl, it's still a person.

[Az.]

lol dude if I was so uptight about it I wouldn't have told her....or said anything here
im quite comfortable with it now....and its not like im not going to have to live with it forever anyway

And I was wondering if it was cheating because I discussed meeting up with guys with her before I went and actually did anything with another guy....I didnt and never would go bhind her back

kmk rule ;)

[Az.]

And discrimination doesn't go down well here dude...

just thought id give you a heads up

[psychocat]

Why is it that because someone does not believe a certain way of life is right they get labled as discriminating or narrow minded.
Isn't everyone entitled to thier own opinion without people calling them names??
It seems that if you disagree with someone then you have to be enemies??

Cheating is BOLLOCKS and all cheats deserve is contempt.

[Thetrippinhippie]

what they dont know, dont hurt em
wink wink nudge a ludge :thumbsup:

[WeedFaerie420]

I read that they did a survey and it showed that more women were seeking divorce and also straying out of their marriages then men.

I am good at holding grudges but only if it is something really bad like cheating.


I heard about that survey but I believe it said that more women now than in the past are cheating but guys still cheat more. I believe this was on Oprah like 2 weeks ago...but I'm too lazy to try to find the stats on the internet -sigh-

[partyguy420]

some one said that its only when he has a girl that 1000000000 other girls want him to... same with me... when me and deb first started goiing out(the first GF i had in darrington) like 3 other girls decided they wanted me, and sadly enuf, i wanted that same girl, and we got away with it, only because we broke up the next day, i got blue balled, stayed single for about month, asked her back out.

[JuggaloAtTheDoor]

I was once with this one girl, who wasnt all compleatly there, and she did something horrible and I was gunna cheat on her, then dump her ass.. but it ended differently

[chochochum]

I just found out my girlfriend of a year and 6 months kissed another guy. I don't even know what to do, i told her i would give her another chance but she has to "think", but she still says she loves me more than anything.. I have no idea what to do