Help me girls

[Big Bad Brit]

I want to know why my ex wants sex with me but not a relationship , would any girls on here sleep with their ex just for sex or some other reason I maybe didnt think about??

Also do you think i should?

[HiddenBeauty]

You really need to ask your ex why they just wants sex and not a relationship.I could guess at the fact that they want you but doesnt want to commit.If you don't mind being used for sex then carry on seeing them but if you want more I think you should just walk away.

I wouldn't sleep with any of my ex's it would just complicate things and someone always gets hurts.

[Skink]

My ex wanted to maintain a sex thing... Sex to some woman is a form of control... She may be confused or scared of a permanet relationship,sex keeps the door open... Maybe you do not stimulate her mind,but make her cum... Maybe she thinks your ugly,but you have a nice swance...

The best thing to do IMO is what I did,show her the door...

[infinitereverie]

or maybe she's just really horny and doesn't want to have to get emotionally involved?

[orangeman]

Shit your gf has the mind set of how I used to be. I wish my girl wanted both but just sex more lol.

[insanity]

Dude, are you really asking why a girl wants to get off?

[420purplehaze420]

well shes doing this for the same reason we breathe air, it feels good

[partyguy420]

i have that same problem. i feel for you.

[partyguy420]

that was kizazz83 by the way not partyguy

[zephyrinne]

Us girls can be exactly like guys... I mean, we all know of guys that just want to have sex without being in a relationship. Well fellas, girls can be the same. I maintained a 'sex only' relationship with one of my ex's for about 4 months. But the feelings were mutual... neither of us wanted a relationship with the other.

I did it just because when you get horny, it's a good option. You already know 'how they are' in bed. :thumbsup:

[SweetDreams420]

because guys are horn dogs we only want sex.

[Sincity69]

Yes, i would and have before. Sometimes you really just cant see yourself being with that person anymore like in a relationship but your horny and no one else is around and maybe they were good in bed so you fiquere hey why not.

[Reefer Rogue]

I want to know why my ex wants sex with me but not a relationship , would any girls on here sleep with their ex just for sex or some other reason I maybe didnt think about??

Also do you think i should?

Coz she's craving the cock?

[Big Bad Brit]

Thanks for answerin folks its hard to say no to her but I want to ask a girl who I know if she will go out with me and my ex said we could still see each other but that means keepin secrets and I really like my new friend.

[yz250]

every ex.I have ever had has always came back for sex.Late night boody call all the time.Its weird,but we have done it until one of us finds someone else or we just get board.Its not all the time but we seem to call each around the same time so it must be some kinda comfort thing.You dont have to feel like there so much presure to perform,you know what each other like and it can be quick.

[HiddenBeauty]

Do you really think that this other girl deserves to be cheated on by you?

If you and your ex want to play games then do so but please don't drag an innocent victim into your stupid games.

[Big Bad Brit]

I don't think it's right to cheat but it is tough to say no to my ex coz we go back a ways and she is a hotty and I still like her but I like the other one better so I will have to tell my ex to leave me alone which will upset her but I'm stuck.Have to disappoint someone.

[HiddenBeauty]

I think you are making the right decision to be honest.The past is the past and it should be left there but I understand how hard it is to let go.I hope everything works out good for you.

[Big Bad Brit]

Thanks HB I think I am lucky I work away from home so much coz then I only see my ex at the weekends so I will tell her this weekend that we gotta stop bonkin :( :D :thumbsup:

[HiddenBeauty]

I'm sure the withdrawl symptoms wont be that bad.Stay strong my friend lol

[Kryzco]

Yeah man cheating is bad, and if your girl were to find out, the outcome wouldn't be good, too much drama

I agree the past should remain the past, I have a similar situation

I've learned that 9 times out of 10, sex just can't be sex, because in my case, feelings got involved and then drama started, so I think you might as well just stay with your new girl, and ride that out

Hope everything works out for you bro

[Big Bad Brit]

I havent asked the other one yet coz of the problem with my ex but thanks for all the input.Yeah Kryzco its hard for me to just bonk without feelings and that makes it tough to say no to her but I am only a man and we get urges.:)
:o :( :confused:

[HiddenBeauty]

Just flick that bugger and keep it in your pants lol

[Kryzco]

Yeah I know how you feel man

i may be female but I got a sex drive of a man

Thats my same problem, I just can't say no

Yesterday me and the guy got into a huge ass fight and well after that we said we would stop everything

15 mins later

back at square one

basically my only thing I can say is do what makes you happy, try not to give into temptation but if you dom you know the consequences

unfortunately I really suck at taking my own advice

[Big Bad Brit]

its done now coz I told my ex she better just stay away.

[Theduderino]

Simple word of advice: File the past away and start fresh :thumbsup: . That's the best way to avoid problems in the future. Besides, there are better people out there for ya.

The Duderino