how to make a move.

[JohnnyCutCorners]

hey guys, i need an answer quick because i might be goin to the movies with this girl thats really attracted to me and really does like me. shes talked about what she wants me to do to her on msn and what not. ive only really hung out with here twice..

shes pretty cool and im down with her. i asked her out and she suggested to go see a movie and a boring one:D . soo once we're in the theater n i got my arm round her n what not, how do i start to make out with her? should i say something to compliment her looks, or something and then make a move from there? haha im just so confused its not even funny...

[KronicKilla]

hey Don Juan just go for it! if she wants it you will know

[JohnnyCutCorners]

She does, but how do i move in .. Im a total square like what hte fuck. shes the only girl Ive told that I have 1 ball and shes cool with that. but I cant get hard infront of her ... she intimidates me :(

[dewdrinker]

wait wait wait wait hold it right there. you have one testicle and you have a limp dick when u are around her?

[JohnnyCutCorners]

uhh yah some what. but i cant get hard because im generally nervous .... i think i could if we were bout to fuck round but i have never tried to bring it up infront of her.

EDIT :: i could get hard before we started getting more sexual about her easily , but i dont know why im so nervous .. i dont want to be.

[pinky27]

this thread is funny but uhhh i dont know, with me and my girlfriend, if i look at her during the movie, she'll look at me back then i'll lean in for a kiss then kiss again and then start making out. then boom chika.

[paparose]

just say wanna f.ck?

J/K be yourself, plain and simple

[PureEvil760]

well if things are still goin good wait u know what fuck you

[buddymyfriend]

If she wants you, believe me you'll know about it. I've come to learn girls generally get what they want! And thats usually me!:cool:

[PureEvil760]

but i cant be ur superman cant be ur superman

[silasbotwin]

one ball?

[silasbotwin]

why?

[friendowl]

oh shit this has me rollin
non pimps are funny
man she wants you to take control
just kiss her slow and touch her softly.
you 'll come to a point where shell get
that hungry look in her eyes.
that look means its time to plow

[JohnnyCutCorners]

thanks everyone, ill give a try..

but to people that trashed my thread, thanks all i wanted was a bit of advice. and yes I have one ball because i had cancer when i was born , so pureevil, you know what fuck you.:D

[friendowl]

uniball
that should've been your name.
fuck it who cares if you got one nut
just hope your meat aint to shriveled
cuz then your assed out

[JohnnyCutCorners]

haha yah its regular size dont gotta worry bout that.

but uhh when im not hard it seems like it looks sooo damn tiny but theres times when i can get really big, does anyone else have this haha?

[Euphoric]

Dont move in too soon..in fact resist making any moves as long as possible while being suggestive. Keep it fun, keep it hot.
This creates a safe atmosphere for her to express her hormonal urges
And read about seduction. Ive read lots of good books on this subject. :pimp:

[Euphoric]

http://www.michaelkelly.fsnet.co.uk/seduction.htm

knowledge is power

[d00d989]

euphoric ur a goofy guy

damn man 1 ball? that sucks nuts (no pun intended)

[420purplehaze420]

start rubbing her leg or making any physical contact, then if she looks you in the eyes and is smiling or lookiung happy in general lean in for a kiss and then your set, if she said she wants to fool around its my bet you will.....wait one nut? hmm i guess if everything still works properly down there it should be no problem

[exoticnoise]

yeah man, got right for the leg, inner thigh, just rub it... my brother had testicular cancer and he has no nuts.. so feel special!! lol but i guess i kinda know where your commin from with it, do you think that could be the real reason why your nervous tho??? cause J (my brother) im talkin to right now (19) has the same problem with girls he hasent knowen for awhile. but he says it pass's once you get into the girls charm there will be no more time to even think about being nervious. so just dont worry about it and have fun, maybe ull get road head on the way home or something i really dont know how this girl is but cross ur fingers that you dont get blue ball. and about the normal size dick/looks small sometimes but bigger other times while not hard. i get that all the time. but we want a report on how the night goes! so good luck and have fun.. but be safe. later.

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

...You guys with girlfriends are lucky, you know that?

[PureEvil760]

no matter what happens all is as it should be

[Naamah]

JohnnyCutCorners, Did you know there is a surgery you can have done where they will give you another ball? I saw it on Dr. 90210 today. They put a silicone ball on you. I am sure it cost a small fortune though and not sure how safe it would be.

[JohnnyCutCorners]

Yes I do that naamah. I have thought about this prostethis testical were they insert the 2nd one. I have to wait another year to have the surgery done and I am not wiating any longer to get laid.

anyway we didnt get to go to the movies becuase i have to work all weekend and on monday wich sucks.

[PureEvil760]

you could just rock the fact that you have one ball so much so that people get jealous of it.

[JohnnyCutCorners]

haha no shes cool with it, I told her my other g/fs had no problem with it considering i havent had one and from what you guys siad she shouldnt care. and she doesnt.

is it normal to be nervous when your going to lose your virginity?

EDIT :: even if you havent done a single thing with a girl other then make out with her.

[JohnnyCutCorners]

edit again i havent made out with her , but other girls i have just not any farther.:(


there's also sometimes where i get so nervous talking to her that if we were going off to go have sex some place, i think i wouldnt be able to get it up. shes asked me numerous times over our MSN conversations on web camera to show her my dick and I dont want too because I cant get it hard and it looks too small..

[MikeNugz]

Dude, you'll know the right time to do it. I mean you should, like tell her she's hot then lean in and kiss her. Something like that. If she's more refined and you barely know her, tell her she's cute. Whatever. Generally from there on it's all electricity and you should be making out all night. Of course be confident and make sure to compliment her now and then, but don't be like overly persistent to where you're like constant just to where you are obsessive just pamper her a bit. Remember approach it with confidence. Alot of guys have trouble with that.

[MikeNugz]

Alot of your problems probably stem from a mental disorder that deals with lack of confidence. I've struggled with similar sexual complications as well, not the exact same situation, but very similar which I think may have alot to do with your dilemma. It's probably nothing to worry about. If you just relax and stop thinking so much about sex you'll probably get over it. Generally relying on the problem is what causes the stress and health related issues. Although I could be wrong. It could be your partner, your body, various things, but for most young people it's nothing. Hope that helps.

[JohnnyCutCorners]

Mike, I think you've solved it. I do think too much , when ever I have a problem I sit down and try to think it out, thanks for your help. Any other idea of something to bring down your nerves? Im thinkin of drinkin a bit of beer b4 i go out with her. Not fucking loaded drunk but drunk but can still co-operate normally without people knowing, just that my nerves will be down. Good idea or bad?

[MikeNugz]

Depends I don't know. Girls can be really turned off if you get all messed up and don't hold your own or have bad breath (beer breath). If you can drink and cover it up fine then go for it. Different partners different turn likes and dislikes, it's just a perpetual cycle of looking for that special someone until it comes along. Just go with your gut.

[AcidFreak]

I'd say have a beer or three to calm your nerves, but the last thing you want is beer dick! :p

[Mary Jane x3]

wait wait waaaait, you can have surgery where they can add in another nut. Im gonna be super man and have 3 nuts!

[JunkYard]

I knew a guy with one nut, and he was a full on lady killer. ;)

[Kryzco]

wait wait waaaait, you can have surgery where they can add in another nut. Im gonna be super man and have 3 nuts!

ha that cracked me up

I think your best approach is to try to get as comfortable with her as possible, I'm lettin u know now, sex is nothing like on porns and shit, I mean I've had some damn good sex in my day, but its never like how you picture it

once your comfortable and u guys are fooling around, I'm sure you'll have no problem getting it up, just don't dwell too much into performance, try to get your mind off of it, relax and have fun

[HiddenBeauty]

hey guys, i need an answer quick because i might be goin to the movies with this girl thats really attracted to me and really does like me. shes talked about what she wants me to do to her on msn and what not. ive only really hung out with here twice..

shes pretty cool and im down with her. i asked her out and she suggested to go see a movie and a boring one:D . soo once we're in the theater n i got my arm round her n what not, how do i start to make out with her? should i say something to compliment her looks, or something and then make a move from there? haha im just so confused its not even funny...


How much making out can a couple do in a cinema?I would not be impressed with your choice of places.

[JohnnyCutCorners]

i got my house to my self alone for the whole week cuz my rent went to vancouver for buisness.

anyways we're down and cool and i feel more comfortable around her now. still havent boned her tho.


her birthdays comin up and she said she wants somethin special, i dont know wut to get with about 40-50$ help indeed.

[HiddenBeauty]

Spend the cash on weed and get high with her and then if it don't work out you haven't wasted any money on her :D

[JohnnyCutCorners]

lol.

[MikeNugz]

Man bro, you still got this problem? I'd just go with the original info I gave you. Don't rely on it so much it seems like you're doing better just chill and enjoy life. Sex comes naturally.

[BestTonicIsChronic]

Run your hand through the tips of her hair, and say "Your hair looks like its really soft" lol i no it sounds corny. And the look she gives you will tell you yes or no. and dude pop some anti-histamines before if you nervous, they reduce sweating expecially the palms, and will calm your nerves. only do this till your confortable.

[LISTEN2KMK]

loss of testicle= loss of confidence and stamina? maybe that explains it ....sorry to here bout tcancer man. it is a son of a bitch and killed my grandpappy. RIP

[LISTEN2KMK]

P.E.N.G.U.I.N i hear yoa brotha...

[partyguy420]

get the girl alone, and whip out my dick, and see what they say, but not realy. i take them alone, and cuddle with them, then if they do let me cuddle, then i will cuddle with them, then give them a quick kiss, and see if they push me away, then i quit, but if they do let me kiss them, i will give them a more pasionate kiss, then i will slowly make my way to fuckin them, and if they say to take it slower, then i will. and if she will let me keep movin then i will.

[partyguy420]

p.s. i have been able to win both of my 2 girls in my life with that. not at the same time, while sort of.

[poorprincess]

from a girls perspective, here is the answer:
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if you need to warn her, let her know what your doing, say something like, "I'm gunna kiss you" and just do it. She'll stop you if she doesn't want you to and then you'll know.

[PureEvil760]

using this logic can I walk up to a girl on the street and be like can i fuck you and start fucking her?

[poorprincess]

not just any girl, she'd have to be special