approvals and disaprovals

[JohnnyCutCorners]

hey guys i need some opinions.

i met this girl recently and i hung out with her for a bit tonight. the only problem was there was nothing to talk about, i never knew this girl until i started associating more with her, even then there was not much to talk about it was a simple hey wahts up, hows it goin, thats good, cya later type of thing. but what im trying to get at is how can i spark up a conversation that is some what intresting, i hung out with her for the first time tonight and she asked if she could hug me:confused: i let her and hugged her back without a problem, think she shows some intrest?

and the other thing, im worried on what my rent and my olda sis with think of her or any girl that i go out with, i went out with some before but when ever we got into fights she always brought that shit up so ... i dont know what i can do or if i should even care.

[JohnnyCutCorners]

are you serious guys? what the hell..

[beachguy in thongs]

If the conversation can't get up at the first time, your pretty much not gonna have a chance with the relationship. You might have a good run, though. Keep your chin up. :smokin:

[Skink]

If the conversation can't get up at the first time, your pretty much not gonna have a chance with the relationship. You might have a good run, though. Keep your chin up. :smokin:
That's pretty closed minded... Maybe their just nervous...

Dude just "Be yourself"

[justinsane]

someone else will set your clocks

[Zinnia]

Find out if you have something in common, and talk about that.
If you don't have anything in common, find out what she likes and talk about that. Tell her you want to hear all about it(even if you don't).

[justinsane]

we all smile, we all sing.

[Skink]

Find out if you have something in common, and talk about that.
If you don't have anything in common, find out what she likes and talk about that. Tell her you want to hear all about it(even if you don't).

There you go!!! No better source than a woman to tell you what a woman wants to hear...

[JohnnyCutCorners]

Alright guys well it boils down to my nervousness now, if i do get closer to her and around her, im really nervous like i can feel it in my stomach. i try to act cool and be my self but i cant keep the feelings down. i think its because that when i think if i get into a relationship with her and start sexn, well i had a post earlier about me and having testicular cancer, and i only have 1 testical, im nervous about her reaction to that mostly.

[Reefer Rogue]

Ask her if you can hug her every time you see her. It will be funny.

[beachguy in thongs]

:smokin:

That's pretty closed minded... Maybe their just nervous...

Dude just "Be yourself"
It's, sort of, the truth. Unless they're young and shy.

Stay off my rink, skink.

I'm gonna have a blue sweater running through my mind everytime I see, either, a lizard or any word that rhymes with skink.

[Zinnia]

Alright guys well it boils down to my nervousness now, if i do get closer to her and around her, im really nervous like i can feel it in my stomach. i try to act cool and be my self but i cant keep the feelings down. i think its because that when i think if i get into a relationship with her and start sexn, well i had a post earlier about me and having testicular cancer, and i only have 1 testical, im nervous about her reaction to that mostly.


Nervousness is perfectly natural and normal.

As far as the other, I don't think it will matter much if she is attracted to you..

[Skink]

:smokin:

It's, sort of, the truth. Unless they're young and shy.

Stay off my rink, skink.

I'm gonna have a blue sweater running through my mind everytime I see, either, a lizard or any word that rhymes with skink.
I don't know what that meant,but it sounded childish...

[beachguy in thongs]

I don't know what that meant,but it sounded childish...
Oh, c'mon. You make me feel like a little boy because I have that image of that sexy iguana in my head.

[Wesley Pipes]

Alright guys well it boils down to my nervousness now, if i do get closer to her and around her, im really nervous like i can feel it in my stomach. i try to act cool and be my self but i cant keep the feelings down. i think its because that when i think if i get into a relationship with her and start sexn, well i had a post earlier about me and having testicular cancer, and i only have 1 testical, im nervous about her reaction to that mostly.
dont stress dude, just chill, and it dont matter bout that, aslong as everything is in workin order i doubt she will mind

peace:D

[JohnnyCutCorners]

hey guys thanks for all of your kind remarks and showing respect in such a manner.

anyway i hung out iwth her tonight and i still felt nervous, but do you think it could be that im still a virgin and she might not be?

[KeanBean]

i cant take di shit no mo, im out

[Jennifer K]

Nervousness is perfectly natural and normal.

As far as the other, I don't think it will matter much if she is attracted to you..
Could not have said it better myself. I dated a fellow with only one testie and I could not have cared less.:) :stoned:

[JohnnyCutCorners]

thanks for your replies everyone.

although I do feel the need to address 1 more thing if you all dont mind helping me.

My neverousness is down and up, almost like a rollercoaster. I am 16 years old now as it stands and yes I am a youngin but it dont stop me from understanding the same as you guys. But what Im tring to get to, is that from the ages 13 - 15 i was isolated by my computer and I feel like a nerd, but im not a nerd. I have nothing to talk about, my buddys n all talk bout cars, trucks, skidoos, etc that kind of shit and the girls well they talk about alot of stuff. the only problem is , when my friends are talkn bout the cars and shit around the girls, i wanna jump into that conversation but I dont know jack shit on cars and non of my buds will teach me, maybe wen summer comes round but Im stuck with NOTHING.

You guys are telling me to 'be my self' I would really love to be my self but do you think Im confused because Im still to find out who I am.

[beachguy in thongs]

That's when you find the girl who's not into the other things those guys are talking about. If they're all interested in those guys, change the subject.

[BestTonicIsChronic]

k guy, your on a drug forum so im pretty sure ur not against doing drugs. k dont be doin this everytime you go out with her do this just at first. #1 dont smoke weed, because if your like me and get nervous which u said u did, weed will only make you more nervous and even worst you will think almost every reaction she has to you is against you. k now what you should take. take like a low dose of oxys or codein or alcohol or some other depressant these will help you relax, be in a better place and be yourself. DO NOT take a stimulant these will make even more anxiety and nevousness. and dont tell her you took anything even if shes cool with drugs it just sends a bad message. do this till your comfortable on your own and dont get addicted.

this will work but only if you want it to so good luck

[BestTonicIsChronic]

O and that "Be yourself" adivice ya FUCK that. alright if YOURSELF isnt working change. i know it sounds drastic but it will work. just try and pick up what there taklin bout i was in sorta the same situations ur in now. i was ya sorta isolated in grade school like i had friends n shit but not like a ton. so when i went to highschool i changed my entire personality because i didnt like myself before. so just pick up what your friends are talkin about and no matter what dont act or be smarter than your friends. and play dumb to things like computers and video games n shit like that

so in short dont be yourself go with the crowd i know everyone says be indepentant n things like that but people like other people like themselves so remember that