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ScarlettCrush
02-10-2006, 06:13 PM
When I get in fights with my beau it always feels like the end of everything. I don't know how to end it, I don't know how to act or feel.
What do you do when you get in fights with someone you love?

beachguy in thongs
02-10-2006, 06:14 PM
Keep going until she gets too pissed off to argue. :smokin:

robert42
02-10-2006, 06:15 PM
the word CUNT but if its someone i love it usually ends with them being burried under my pattio like brookside MU HA HA ....

mmm arguements with loved ones? they dont end... they fade out , they happen dont worry about them. its if they happen more and more then u worry and get ready with a sharp knife... cos ive heard stories u know.... crazy crazy stories

robert42
02-10-2006, 06:15 PM
Keep going until she gets too pissed off to argue. :smokin:

Abuse?

sophiastarchild
02-10-2006, 06:15 PM
I just had this problem this morning. Unfortunately lately we both yell until one of us leaves or we can't take it anymore, followed by uncomfortable silence. However, I am working on simply ignoring my husband when he pisses me off.

Brittoker
02-10-2006, 06:15 PM
Take a hit from my crack pipe.

benagain
02-10-2006, 06:16 PM
ususally our fights are all about little stuff like where we're gonna eat and shit. I've never enjoyed fighting with the ladies. I just give in early on and after a few mins it's like nothing happened. It all depends on the kindof person you are. I get over shit real fast. My wife takes much longer to get over things, so I give her space till she's calmed down.

robert42
02-10-2006, 06:17 PM
Take a hit from my crack pipe.

He knows about brookeside ;)

del...
02-10-2006, 06:17 PM
most arguments are over nothing anyway. nothing the next day won't fix anyway so why bother going on with it? i walk away...

ScarlettCrush
02-10-2006, 06:18 PM
I am trying to just ignore it and let him cool out, but I can't stand it when someone is mad at me. I always want to talk about it, talk until it's dead I guess.

If I leave him alone I am afraid he will just stay mad about that one stupid thing forever.

bedake
02-10-2006, 06:32 PM
I am trying to just ignore it and let him cool out, but I can't stand it when someone is mad at me. I always want to talk about it, talk until it's dead I guess.

If I leave him alone I am afraid he will just stay mad about that one stupid thing forever.

get a blunt, smoke it with him

or forget about it, i dunno i havent been in a fight with anyone in like... 5 years, the trick is evading arguments and being a happy person. but yea getting high with people is usually a good way to settle people down

justinsane
02-10-2006, 06:42 PM
the way i end it. is by packing a bowl.

PEACE

fractur
02-10-2006, 06:42 PM
The argument ends at the point where continuing the argument would be more hassle than to acquiesce.

Whos Carl
02-10-2006, 06:42 PM
Smash a glass bong on his head. Then the Anti-Marijuana supporters will actually have a case to say "Weed and Weed paraphenalia are damaging our youth".

SensiRide
02-10-2006, 06:46 PM
Siimply say 'Lets agree to disagree' and leave it at that.











Then sprinkle itching powder in his boxers.

3 Sheets To The Wind
02-10-2006, 06:50 PM
With a single bullet..

Whos Carl
02-10-2006, 06:51 PM
A silver bullet if they are a WEREWOLF. It can happen havent you seen Dog Soldiers.

ScarlettCrush
02-10-2006, 07:14 PM
itching powder in his boxers? lols I'd like to get laid sometime this week.

I think I'll just make lunch, have that and a bowl waiting when he gets in.

sophiastarchild
02-10-2006, 07:16 PM
Scarlett, I am uncomfortably waiting for my husband to get home after our morning fight. Unfortunately he cannot smoke due to random tests...that sucks so bad! We get along so much better when we both smoke...

Looker
02-10-2006, 07:31 PM
This always works....

beachguy in thongs
02-10-2006, 07:53 PM
Abuse?

Not nearly. But I'd like to use your next quote.




its if they happen more and more then u worry and get ready with a u know.... crazy crazy stories
Those are happening, more and more. Except, we won't grab a knife. I just get less and less words in.

beachguy in thongs
02-10-2006, 07:57 PM
I just had this problem this morning. Unfortunately lately we both yell until one of us leaves or we can't take it anymore, followed by uncomfortable silence. However, I am working on simply ignoring my husband when he pisses me off.
The future looks bleak, dear sophia. Especially, for your husband. That works with me (ignoring me), but that's when what I say means the most because I wasn't cut off.

justinsane
02-10-2006, 08:00 PM
world is spinning round
sun is shining bright

beachguy in thongs
02-10-2006, 08:02 PM
I am trying to just ignore it and let him cool out, but I can't stand it when someone is mad at me. I always want to talk about it, talk until it's dead I guess.

If I leave him alone I am afraid he will just stay mad about that one stupid thing forever.
100% match (blink several times (please))

That's the biggest difference between my partner and I. Every single part of our personalities are the exact same way (exactly the opposite). She holds it in, I blab it out. Sooner or later, I'm gonna talk myself senseless, but, once again, she'll cut me off.:cursing:

beachguy in thongs
02-10-2006, 08:03 PM
world is spinning round
sun is shining bright

The World is flat
JustinSane, you're not right.

friendowl
02-10-2006, 08:09 PM
scarlett i feel yeah
im a nice guy and when my lady gets in a rage i flip out.
i feel like if she is in a bad mood and wants to pick on me i just match her anger.if ive done nothing wrong and shes tripping then its on her.
if your man is just a grouch and youve done nothing to provoke him then fuck his ass.ignore him and he will come back and apologize.
when someone is angry and your not it makes them more angry.

Lily420
02-10-2006, 08:11 PM
I always ended an arguement with my past boyfriends by walking away....staying away for awhile and then they come running back. But now that i am older and much more mature than that since the last time i dated anyone i feel that was a mistake, you cant walk away from a problem, and wait it out, and what if none of them came back for me? Im sorry i can not be much help with ending arguement with your guy, but if you need help on ending an argument with a friend let me know. Best to you, scarlett! Peace! :)

orangeman
02-10-2006, 08:12 PM
When I get into a fight with some one a care for alot I just say "fuck it" and smoke a blunt lol. Usually they appologize to me then we're all cool again like it never happened.

Elfmannbca
02-10-2006, 09:41 PM
Been married now for 6 years. Believe me we have had a few disagrements but not once had a fight. Both of us in brevios relationships did the fighting and screaming and what it get us nothing. We eventualy moved on. When the Wife and I first started to see each other I told her of the past and how did not want to go down that road again. When we have a disagrement we discuse it and in end we might not agree but at least understand. One will win this round but is not a relationship a thing of comprimises. Win some loose some. I end we show and treat each other with respect. Can not do that by screeming at each other. Mind you been a few times we had to give each other space to cool things down. lol. And it is fun after it all over.

Easy Roller
02-11-2006, 12:37 AM
When I get in fights with my beau it always feels like the end of everything. I don't know how to end it, I don't know how to act or feel.
What do you do when you get in fights with someone you love?

Use a ClubHammer [5 pounder] That should sort out most problems for you.

kiki
02-11-2006, 01:12 AM
i hate arguing! hate hate hate it. so i usually just change the subject or walk away until they get over it.

Skink
02-11-2006, 06:20 AM
Yes Dear,Im sorry you were right...

Das Boot
02-11-2006, 06:44 AM
Your face.

Garden Knowm
02-11-2006, 07:34 AM
i love you

pabloescobar209
02-11-2006, 08:03 AM
Siimply say 'Lets agree to disagree' and leave it at that.

































Then sprinkle itching powder in his boxers.
I was with you









































Until I scrolled down:thumbsup:

gjayde
02-11-2006, 09:33 AM
What if you've been smokeing for so long its seems like if you stop smokeing
everything would fall apart and when you do stop smokeing for a break or whateva it does: majorly shit hits the fan, because nobodys being listened to each other and you forget what the issues are behind a bowl every nite.

This is my problem right now after 4.5 years togeather Smokeing togeather today in fact we spent
NZ$180000 plus costs??? on our 1st house fuck this is some stressful shit
i never woulda gessed buyin a house was so bloody hard fuck it

Kones on. i know we agreed to stay off for a while but this shit deserves a kone.

Peace.

No man is an island entire of itself,
Every man is a piece of the continant a part of the main,
Any mans Death diminishs me beacuase i am involved in mankind,
And therefore never send to know for who the bell tolls
It tolls for thee.
John Donnes: Devotions 17

lizzie on low
02-11-2006, 10:05 AM
That's funny Scarlett - you're just like my fiance!

When we fight, all he wants to do is talk, and truth be told, if I'm angry, I don't want to talk because I don't want to say something without thinking.

If your hubby likes a cool off period, let him have it. Don't let the fight escalate to the point where you can't talk in a civil manner - when you sence it's going past where you want it to, just say "I don't want to fight about this, let's cool off, but would it be Ok to talk about it latter when we're both feeling less upset?"

That phrase has worked miracles for me. It gives me the cool off time that I really need, but it lets Scott know that I'm not brushing the issue under the rug and that he will get a chance to talk it out.

But hey, what works for me might not work for you... still, some food and a bowl is a great way to make up!

Az.
02-11-2006, 11:30 AM
I try my hardest not to argue back. It seems to only lead to her/him getting more and more stressed out.
It depends really.....what the argument is about. If im right and they dont want to admit it then ill just say fuck it and leave it at that. If I realise they are right then I normally say sorry and walk away knowing a little bit more...

sorry if I missed the point.....mad hangover :(

Hope everything gets better for you soon Scarlett.
Peace out dude :)

Shelbay
02-11-2006, 11:46 AM
We don't fight but when we strongly disagree (haha) he has the final say and we drop it...done. Works for us.

drinksmokesleep
02-11-2006, 11:54 AM
I wish i had that problem......

I can only argue with myself being single an all..............and i do

buddymyfriend
02-11-2006, 11:57 AM
Apologise, that simple lil word. Sorry. Works all the time if it's sincere, fuck it say sorry even when I'm not in the wrong. Anything for a quite life and to keep the peace. :)

Peace

Buddy

Satan666
02-11-2006, 12:00 PM
When me and my woman fight. i just say fuck it and not talked. then she gives in and good times ensue.

SensiRide
02-11-2006, 12:35 PM
Nah I was only joking about the itching powder (though I have done it to someone before when I was younger)

Just spend some time apart to cool down then forget about it, arguments create bad karma, just try and laugh about it and move on.

Rarrr
02-11-2006, 12:58 PM
The best way to end an arguement is to not start or provoke one to begin with. Don't focus on the negatives but focus on the ways of making it positive.

Elfmannbca
02-11-2006, 03:13 PM
The best way to end an arguement is to not start or provoke one to begin with. Don't focus on the negatives but focus on the ways of making it positive.

Love that and so true. There is always a positive. Might have to dig for it at times even if learning for the future

Lily420
02-11-2006, 03:43 PM
best argument breakers are: Apologizing, pot, and sex.

chisme
02-11-2006, 06:54 PM
the word CUNT



lmao thats was beautiful man

Nikita123
02-12-2006, 12:24 AM
Try placing a butcher's knife next to his jugular vein.......that has a tendency to calm people down.:rasta:

esrabalamir
02-12-2006, 12:40 AM
classical relation arguments u mean?
say him or her "ok dear you are rite".....lol
i am sure he or she is gonna come back in 24 hrs