I really like this girl.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

She's from my school, im on my last year of school. I've never talked to her before but i added her on MSN yesturday and talked to her today. I don't fall in love much, if i see a good lookin' girl im like "wow,shes hot" but i don't take it any further. Months ago i fell in love with a girl, but i got to know her personality and it turned me off her. But this other girl, even though iv never talked to her in real life she has an amazing personality, even my mates tell me so. She's really gorgeous and sweet. I really like her but we don't know each other that well. There's a prom this year at school (last year of school prom) but she's already taking someone else (as a friend). So that hurt quite a bit. But i was thinking of asking her on MSN tommorow who she is taking to the prom (even tho i know who she's takin) and she would tell me and ask me who im taking and i thought i could say something along the lines of "I was gonna take this girl i really like, but she's already going with someone else" and then she might be suspisous that its her but not 100% sure.

I do really like her, but i know i dont have a chance because she's a queen and im dirt. I don't fall in love much but i REALLY like her and i wish she had a place in her heart for me. Im very shy when it come's to this sort of thing and it hurts that i can't tell her how i feel.

I really don't have a chance, but does anyone have any advice? Because i do REALLY like this girl.

[Satan666]

i ddidnt read what you said but go for it. life sucks too much to think about it.

[tyrael]

Its your last year go for it, may never get that chance again.

[heyman]

I do really like her, but i know i dont have a chance because she's a queen and im dirt.

You need to be more confident in yourself, girls don't like guys who don't have any confidence in themselves. She's a queen but your the king, take control and ask her out. Tell her how you feel about her and make her your queen.

[Jim Morrison]

ask her out right away dont be like me youll regret it if you dont

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

ask her out right away dont be like me youll regret it if you dont

Well, as i said on my first post to my thread (i cant acculy remember if i did put this, cus i cant remember making this thread) that i've never talked to her at school before, and yesturday was the first time ever talking to her, and that was on MSN, so im gonna try and talk to her at school alot more, get to know her better. Try and become pretty good friends and i'll proberly ask her out in like a month or so...

I was drunk off wine when i posted this thread so im pretty suprised that it made sense. Lol.

[Musician]

dude u wanna get a girl but you are too gay to do anything

just get a fat chick and get over it

"i didnt post for the last few days because im in love"

OMFG HAHAHAHA

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

dude u wanna get a girl but you are too gay to do anything

just get a fat chick and get over it

"i didnt post for the last few days because im in love"

OMFG HAHAHAHA

Lol, your just angry because i called you a french fag. Please don't post on my threads. You toad sucking asshole :D

[Euphoric]

try to hook up with that girl is what i think

[beachguy in thongs]

No, I think Musician's got something there if he's really sucking on toads.

Snow White was based on a true story.

[sdffa11]

dont be a pussy, just do it. if you get shot down, you get shot down. its better than being a lil bitch about it and not doing anything. its better to know and get shot down than not to know and never have had the chance to find out

[anycraic]

fuck it man, if it doesnt work it doesnt matter, cause ull regret not trying later

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

Guys, quit giving my homie so much trouble.

That one guy was right, pothead, you need to have confidance.

Wherefore art thou, Ganjasaurasrex?

[Zinnia]

Sometimes you'll get turned down, sometimes you won't.
Go for it.

[anycraic]

indeed

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

well, as i said. Im gonna give it time, we hav'nt even talked in real life before but im gonna try to as much as possible. I don't wanna rush it and people just saying "go for it" dos'nt really help, no offense tho because i still aprriciate the advice. But i wanna know how i can build up a good friendship to then ask her out and have more of a chance of her saying yes.

Thanks for all the advice so far tho.

[UrDrugDealer.]

GROW SOME BALLS AND ASK HER OUT!!

[Capt. Carl]

just get to know her well, then one day just ask her if she wants to hang out.
You will get to know her better and she will get to know you better and hopefully you guys will connect and you will both be attracted to eachother.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

GROW SOME BALLS AND ASK HER OUT!!

lmfao, you OBVOIUSLY did'nt read my post JUST above yours. You proberly just read the thread title... Haha. :rolleyes:

Thanks for the advice Capt. Carl :)

[Zinnia]

Asking her out is just another part of cultivating a friendship. You go to the movies with your friends. You go to eat with your friends. Think of it that way.

The difficult part is trying to put out the vibe that it's a friendship thing and not a "Friendship" thing.

[Ganjasaurusrex]

Hey crazy,

First off,

When I hear you call yourself "dirt" that is not good.
Internal scripts carry powerful messages whether they be positive or negative.

Here is why.

When the conscious mind tells the subconsciuos mind something the subconscious mind will then externalnize that thought and make it true, it is then expressed subconsciuosly in your facial expressions and body language and is picked up on by others, especially women who are highly intuitive.

So from now on red flag any thoughts that you are dirt or not good enough or ANYTHING that is negative. Bag it, Tag it and cast it out of your thoughts.

Bottom line. It kills your confidence. If you are not confident she will sense this. Internal scripts are like mental telepathy.

Replace those thoughts with:

"I am amazing at connecting with women"
"Women are drawn to me"
"I can connect with her like no other man"
"Do you want to experience an intimate connection with me"

Say these things to yourself when you are around women or while you are in conversation with women, have these thoughts simultaneously running in your mind at the same time.

The auto-suggestion aspects will allow you to employ parts of the brain that will assist you in making your internal statements true. In addition you will give off a vibe that you believe what you are internally saying.

She will pick up on that. Its the same as if you said to yourself: "I want to rip her clothes off" It will be obvious in your look and you are likely to scare her off.

Look at yourself in the mirror.

Feel free to make some negative comments: "I am a loser", "people hate me", etc. you will notice that your face will slightly change to reflect those internal thoughts.

Now say a series of positive comments. "I am amazing", " I connect with women", "I AM THE MAN"! lol

You will now notice how your face has made another slight physical change, your positive vibe give-off has just increased 1600%! Even though the actual physical change in your face was only 0.1%!

Transform yourself internally first. I cant stress how important this is. Ebrace yourself and your uniqueness. When talking to her or when you are in her presence try to say genuine caring things that reflect unselfish intentions.

It is important that a man feel as though he is sexually desirable to women.
This type of confidence affects your overall confidence more so than any other type of confidence. The guy with more confidence in a dating environment will overwhelmingly attract more women than his lesser confident counterparts.

If you are charismatic then your efforts to turn her on sexually will be extremely easy, almost effortless. This is the quality of having others magnetized to you on a non-sexual level.

When a woman sees how you can consistently inspire others and how easily you can make other people (male or female), BRIGHTEN UP, she will have no choice but to be drawn to you.

Obviously if you are charming to others, you will appear charming to her as well, but the process of her observing your charismatic effects on others will have a positive effect on a different level.

Here is how it works.

Super charisma= Confidence + Engaging + Compassion + Sense of Humor.

You must have:

1. Confidence in yourself.
2. Compassion for others.
3. A sense of humor. (comic sense of humor and seeing the world
optimistically).
4. The ability to engage and interact effortlessly with others.

This turns you into a babe magnet.

For a woman to be really drawn to you she has to know that she can only get what YOU got from YOU. This is your uniqueness. Then she detects and sniffs out your you-ness she'll say things like:

"there is just something about you"
"your not like everyone else"
"Ive never heard that before"


Ok. Back to this girl your talking about.

Avoid these mistakes.

You cant tell this girl how you feel. That is the wrong approach to attraction.
That will definently scare her away.

You cant ask her out over the internet. That definently shows no confidence.

If you establish conversation keep it going in person. Keep it light and friendly and project like I told you to at the start of this letter with internal script, and YOU be the one to always leave first on a high note in the conversation. Keep it short.

Directly after a compliment of the clothes works well. Say, " By the way you look good in yellow". She will most likely say "thanks" then you need to leave right away. This will capitivate her attention and the compliment will last for days. Its powerful let it work for you.

One good compliment lasts for a long time so dont think that more is better because it has the opposite effect.

Always be the one to leave first, be off the phone first, or when you walk her to her door after a date. Leave first. This is a powerful thing to do. You lower you value when she is always first at these things or tells you its time to go.

You said, "I was going to take this girl I like to the prom but she is going with someone else".

That shows you are giving up sexual value. NEVER do that. If you have a good looking sister or know other girls start being seen with them around this girl. This will increase your value.

Avoid statements to yourself with a girl you havent even dated, "I hope she has a place in her heart for me".

Stay away from feelings and talk of such things, these come much, much later in small doses only and given with the notion of "MIGHT have feelings for you", "I THINK there MIGHT be something there but Im not sure"

This makes you an emotional challenge which is what she REALLY wants and will make HER chase YOU. When you flat out make conformations of your feelings early it has the opposite effect of what you want and scares women away because you have now removed the emotional challenge and make them feel obligated at the same time. There is an old saying with wisdom, "Dont wear your heart on your sleave" there is a reason for that.

I saw your photo on the lounge page by the way. Nothing wrong with you at all.

Loose the knit cap. If you have some contacts that would help.
Make sure you are dressed nice around this girl. Put on slacks, dress shoes and a shirt and tie. They love a guy that dresses well. And the more women that notice you being dressed nice around this girl will help because your value will go up. Its the competition factor amongst women. Play it to your advantage.

When your in public around her keep your chin up your shoulders back, make eye contact, (never look down after a woman makes eye contact with you, its a sign of submission). Walk slightly fast. All these things project confidence. Combine these things with super-charisma, and transform your internal scripts and you are now at a huge advantage.

When you have conversations with this girl try to allow about 5 days from seeing you again. Then have another conversation. If your in her face constantly day after day it drives her interest level down. Women need this amount of time of breathing space.

I want you to read everything I posted for Wannagethigh two days ago so I dont have to type all that out again. There is alot of info there. Also review past thread, (asking a woman out the right way).


Im trying to do several things here:

Increase your value, build seduction, eliminate anti-seduction traits.

Ill be around if you need help.


Take care

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

Thanks for the advice man! Lol, i'll try to be more confident with-in myself. iv never worn that hat around her anyway 'cus school makes us wear crappy uniforms with a blazer and a tie and crap. So dress wise im already wearing a tie.... I've never really talked to her in real life before but im gonna try tommorow, someone thats in my school form i think hangs out with her at lunch tmies so ill proberly just ask him if i can hang out with him to get closer to her. But im not a very good person at bringing up subjects.

"hi, how r u?" "im good thnx, you?" "im gd"....

one time when i was staning with some of my mates outside a classroom waiting to go in her and a big crowd of people were not so far away, and i noticed she glanced at me a few times. So she very well could be intrested. I'm thinking, mybe of becoming a good friend to her over the next month or so, then ask her who she's takin to the prom (all tho i already know) and she'll proberly ask who im taking and i could be like "i was gonna take this girl i really like, but shes already taking someone else" and she might ask who it is.... I guess confidence is the key. Never really realised that women could detect it or not but from what you've said seems very usefull to me, and i'll be sure to look for those other threads you were talking about. Thanks :)

[rab]

she glanced? dude, she's been having sex with you for weeks! Imagine what her brains would be like if they were anything like what they really are. You have already been as good for her as her fingers are able to be. Start by adding your fingers to hers.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

Just talked to her on MSN, took your advice Ganjasaurusrex and left first, she came online, i said hey, asked her how she was, she asked how i was ect. then i asked how the baby sitting went, she sed it went good thx, and then i thought i wud do that always be the one to leave first thing, so i told her that i had to run and put "cya xxx" but her status was set to busy so i waited for a response for about 5 seconds but then i just signed out.

I dont know wether it was a good thing, or a bad thing that i just did that....

[turtle420]

Kid, I'll give you one piece of advice that worked wonders for me... take it to heart:::

He who hesitates, masturbates....

[Musician]

im still laughing at crazypothead "im in love" quote

hahahahahaaha

what a nerd

[Reefer Rogue]

I feel for you Wooman. We all want that special girl. I always portrey confidence, while being cocky. The cocky and funny technique works wonders. However, I really can't stand being rejected. It just makes me depressed. After it happens I'll just psycho analyze myself. 'Am i ugly?' 'Why would she go out with HIM and not ME?' ''Fuck, just being friends, I want some pussy!' Those are some of the things that i say to myself when i'm rejected. I just can't help it. With every rejection I lose more and more confidence. Just keep talking to her on msn and being yourself. Just be wary of the 'only be friends zone' =/ It's a killer.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

im still laughing at crazypothead "im in love" quote

hahahahahaaha

what a nerd

Im still laughing at the fact your a bold french freak with no fucking eye brows. That thinks im 14 altho im 16 pretty soon.

hahahahahahaha

What a dumbass. Owned.

Go away, frenchie

Learn to drive on the right side of the road for once :thumbsup:

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

Im still laughing at the fact your a bold french freak with no fucking eye brows. That thinks im 14 altho im 16 pretty soon.

hahahahahahaha

What a dumbass. Owned.

Go away, frenchie

Learn to drive on the right side of the road for once :thumbsup:

Hey, hey, Americans drive on the right side, not the left like you guys.

Stick to something better...like YOU TOAD SUCKING POTATO FRYING SON OF A BITCH!

[Zinnia]

Kid, I'll give you one piece of advice that worked wonders for me... take it to heart:::

He who hesitates, masturbates....

Hit the nail on the head! (So to speak)

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

Well, today was very bad :( I saw her in the morning at assembaly and DAMN she looked so beautiful. Then at school lunch i was hanging out with a few guys she hangs out with that i kinda consider as "friends" the orijnal guy who was friends with her and friends with me was'nt here at school today and i asked another guy if i could hang out with him and told him why. He could'nt keep his mouth shut, and when i was with them, the girl i like walked through a door, and the first thing some fuckingprick said was "stuart fancies you" and then it kinda went silient and i was just kinda siting there like "thanks a fucking bunch" i think she got embarrsed, she had her head turned away from me, and was just staring at nothing, then she left out the door skipping a lil bit and kinda hummming in a jolly way.... i think she was just trying to forget what just happened, and walked out the door and was just out the door and was still there. Just somewhere that she could'nt be seen by me..... So i was embarssed as fuck.... she was embarssed as fuck.... and now i dont have any chance. I did'nt even get a chance to talk to her... and now i don't think i ever will.... I might block her on MSN because im to embarssed now and i defintly now i have no shot now.... And then some other guy was like "well, u never really had a chance in the first place, because shes just to fit"....

And then i saw her walking past at bus stop, she did'nt see me....

So now im very depressed and sad :(

I would of said "oh well, at least i tried"... But i never got a chance to try. Now she proberly thinks im some freak.

[Ganjasaurusrex]

Crazy,

Guys do this all the time. Never fails. Especially the ones you think you can trust.

Reasoning is, "If I cant have her, he cant have her" so they ruin it for the buddy. I have had my best buds do this same thing when younger. It is embarrassing, that is their intention.

They are simply jealous/insecure and intentionally try to ruin your chances.

Trust only your dog with your intentions of the women you have an interest in.

When a buddy says "you dont have a chance because she is just too fit"

That is a comment from an insecure man.

He's trying to affect your confidence. Your confidence must be like steel.

Women love confidence in a man and men hate to see confidence in other males remember that.

Thats what causes fights by the way with men.
Men who dont have it try to lower yours instead of becoming more confident themselves.

If I was sitting next to you I would tell you, you do have a very good chance and would help you, not block you, whether I had a girl or not.

Its not over. Just hang back. Your buddies did set you back some.

She doesnt think you are a freak just knows you have interest thats all.
Dont block her MSN just yet. Just hang back for a bit and see what happens.

Take care.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

well thank fully it has'nt ruined our chances of getting to know each other better, i said sorry about today on MSN, she said it was ok and was like "i thought it was a joke anyway" and i was like "i think i kinda made it obvoius it was'nt from the way i reacted" and she was like "oh ok" and we just started talking again like normal. We talked for quite a bit. Then she had to go so she put "g2g cya xxx" and another friend always tells me that you should always put the lil xxx's back cus it shows u care about her.... which i dont understand but i still do it anyway cus i just guess its polight...

But yeah, i dont think im gonna try and find her again tommorow, i might leave it tommorow, and then mybe ask her if she wants to meet up with me so we can talk without people like him making rude comments...

but yeah, it has'nt seemed to of made her turned off me, and we were talking loads of msn today... So thats good. I think she's looking for a meaningfull relationship. Not just a fling. Which i want too so mybe it will work out over time :)

[yzstoned]

i've had people say that you like her shit, numerous times in front of girls i like, sometimes its better to play it off as a joke.

anyway man good luck!

[Swizzy89304]

im still laughing at crazypothead "im in love" quote

hahahahahaaha

what a nerd

Musician, do you always act like a cunt from the land of Cuntish? Fuck off and eat a fucking Cuntish Pasty.

[GanjaBob]

Your pretty pathetic. dont be a poon and ask her out on msn messenger do it in person and then how much more of an internet nerd could you be ... "I said Cya xxx" wow i bet that really won her over and then theres the "i might BLOCK her because im embarassed" lol funny people

[Mr Greenthumb]

I'm kinda surprised anyone has actually been able to help you with this. Usually advice on how to pick up chicks doesn't work for the reciever of the advice. If you can pull it off then good job buddy.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

Your pretty pathetic. dont be a poon and ask her out on msn messenger do it in person and then how much more of an internet nerd could you be ... "I said Cya xxx" wow i bet that really won her over and then theres the "i might BLOCK her because im embarassed" lol funny people

I never did say i was gonna ask her out on the internet....

[streettrash]

Who else thinks this kid should just take the plunge and ask her out ASAP?

I had a crush on a very beautiful girl in 10th grade. I became friends with her, got to know her, figured it might make it easier to ask her. We became VERY good friends. So good, in fact, that I was the first one to hear when she was asked out by another guy.

Now, we still talk all the time, we love each other, but not romantically, we kind of went our separate ways in that respect and any spark of sorts died out. A few months ago we were talking about the old days and I mentioned my crush, apparently knew I liked her and constantly wondered why I never asked her out. She says it made her feel really bad like she was so ugly and stupid that she embarassed me too much to ever tell her.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

Hmmmm, well at school today i passed her in corridoors and shit about twice... I did'nt say anything cus i was kinda nervoius btu the second time i was kinda looking at her and smiling in a kinda way like i was gonna great her... but she did'nt even look at me, tbh it looked like she was avoiding looking at me...

and on msn i got my status set to appear offline and she for "SOME" reason is staying on msn longer than she normally does when im talking to her.........

.......DOTDOTDOT............

pfffft, this is why i hate love. Gives me such a horrible feeling.

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

Ouch.

"listen stuart, im really sorry but i would like it if you could leave me alone, i dont want to sound awful but we dont really have much in common and i dont see anything happening between us"

oh, well...

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

It really hurts :(

[zero2104]

ino this thread was a rly long time ago but i am interested to see wat heppened to you crazypothead?

[zero2104]

o well nevermind i just read that he was banned, how do u get banned from this site?

[Its a Plant]

He was like one of those flies that just won't leave you alone. In my opinion, he was just a lonely kid who had way too much time on his hands.

[make it legal]

what? expain...

[willystylle]

This sucks - I know, I'm a shy guy - but just go for it dude. The worst that could happen is that she says no.

(Or, the worst that could happen is she lays sexual harrasment charges against you - but go for it anyway.)

Remember that chicks love confidence so just the fact that you approach her will impress her, even if she says no. That way you 'advertise' to other potentials, so picking girls up gets a little easier. Its a win-win situation!