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ibreakthings
01-23-2006, 01:47 AM
Theres this girl i know that tried smoking with her bro one time and didnt get high and hasnt smoked since. I keep tellin her she should try it cuz she hasnt seen what it can do but she just keeps sayin "i might but i just dont wanna get addicted" and shit...

I usually have a policy of not pressuring pepl at all into smoking, i say "do you want to do it" and if they say no i leave them alone and if they say yes, then yeah we smoke. But this girl wants to do it, but is just afraid of becomin a crackhead like her bro who went to rehab and stuff. I keep tellin her weed cant do that to you and to stay away from shitty drugs.. so should i keep tryin to get her to see how awesome weed is or just let it go... Shes gonna do it someday anyway though, and if i could just get her to try it once more i bet shed get high and then id have someone new to smoke with, and its a girl so thatd be cool too.... sorry if i wrote badly (u kno why)

GratefulDead4ever
01-23-2006, 01:49 AM
weed can do that to you i know a lot of guys who did weed and it can act as a gateway drug and cause you to do worse drugs but not always can it do that

Up In Smoke 420
01-23-2006, 02:17 AM
Weeds not a gateway drug. What you should do is let dont ask her to smoke for like a month then ask her if she would do it one more time with you and if she says no then I guess she just doesnt want to smoke. Give her erowid.org and tell her to do some research on Marijuana.

Swizzy89304
01-23-2006, 04:14 AM
Herb in itself is NOT a gateway drug... Herb mixed with the wrong person can be a gateway drug, but for 99% of people the high they get with Herb is fine. Some people just get greedy. I agree with what 420 says, point her in the direction of erowid.org and let her look at all the info herself, it also means she wont be bombarding you with questions all the damn time! lol.

PaulCT7
01-23-2006, 04:19 AM
I would say, invite her to places where it is going on every once in a while if she isnt already in the environment, and when the bowl, etc, is passed, offer her.

Dont be annoying about it, but just offer when it would be her turn. That way there is no awkward conversation about it, and she will have the option.

I think that made sense, if not, then whatever....

GanjaBob
01-23-2006, 04:38 AM
Tell her that if she dosent smoke you will rape her and her mother then make her rape her mother..... yeah that will put the bitch back in her place... muahahahahahaaa :stoned: :stoned: :stoned: :stoned: :stoned: :rasta: :rasta: :rasta: :thumbsup:

Das Boot
01-23-2006, 04:54 AM
Weed's not the gateway drug. The gate was opened a long time ago by coffee or donuts or McDonalds a long time ago.

endo..jay
01-23-2006, 05:02 AM
i pressure the shit out of my friend gf cuz she doesnt smoke and he does..and she dont even know he smokes and he has been smoking for about 4 years and dating her for 2

Mr Greenthumb
01-23-2006, 05:06 AM
Gateway drug my baige ass. The first drug i ever did was extacy. Just offer her and when she says know tell her how she knows she wants to do it. And not to be afraid and make offers such as you'll stop buggin her about it if she smoked up this one time. I love turning people on weed. Its all about being persuasive, like Mr Greenthumb :D

scream
01-23-2006, 07:28 AM
anyone who has smoked weed knows that it does not make you want to experiment with anything, including other drugs.

if she has smoked before use that to your advantage, i got a girl to smoke like that and she loved it. keep a positive attitude, and dont be annoying. you will win her to the light side

420ultimatesmokage
01-23-2006, 08:18 AM
i tried to get one of my friends to smoke before. never worked

gjayde
01-23-2006, 08:20 AM
just pass the bong man won day she'll just take it up if she's so inclined
or maybe she wont fuk who cares let the poor girl live as she wants...

but i'll give my mates shit all the time if they cant keep up
everyone knows you come to my pad you'll leave all fukd up...

toker22
01-23-2006, 08:25 AM
marijauna as a gateway drug aint a myth yo, it was my gateway drugs to cigarettes....but then again weed is also my nicotine patch thing...whenever i want a cigarette, just smoke weed instead :rasta:

daima
01-23-2006, 03:40 PM
leave her and her decisions up to her. What we cannabis users need to do is to practice what we preach. Not all of our friends/family , etc etc are going to want to use cannabis. We need to accept that no matter how much we want them to "experience" what we "experience". Some of my best friends dont use cannabis, and thats ok with me.

dai*ma :D

Jibboom
01-23-2006, 04:05 PM
I wouldn't pressure her. You're probably making her more anxious about it by constantly mentioning it to her. If it comes up in conversation just tell her that if she ever wants to do it then you're the right guy to do it with. After that, wait until she's curious enough to want to try it. I understand about the whole wanting her to experience it. I love getting stoned but you've got to respect the fact that not everyone wants to toke, maybe that's because a lot of people aren't really educated on it but constantly telling them that it's really good and that they should try it isn't educating them, it's just pressuring them. Hope she come's round :)

daima
01-23-2006, 05:06 PM
sounds abour right jibboom.
After all, those of us who prefer cannabis and enjoy cannabis all want one thing. CHOICE!! with no interference.

dai*ma
:thumbsup:

pixel
01-24-2006, 12:42 AM
I have a group of friends who are basically straightedge, but they know I use marijuana and they're basically fine with it. A few of them are extemely interested in it so I always offer it to them at a party or something. If they say no, I never go any farther with it. That's probably the best method and most efficient way to keep a friendship, be polite, and not have any problems :)

soxsuk6432
01-24-2006, 01:30 AM
weed can do that to you i know a lot of guys who did weed and it can act as a gateway drug and cause you to do worse drugs but not always can it do thatWeed definately isn't a gateway drug. It's not physically addicting either just mentally. But anything that feels good can become mentally addixcting like jacking off it can be pschoogically addicting to.

s2headhunter
01-24-2006, 01:48 AM
keep trying to get her to just until she get high once

Pius
01-24-2006, 01:57 AM
nah, man, like many have said, DON'T pressure her...invite her along to smokeouts every now and again, offer it to her, but don't be a pusher man....noone likes the pusher man