I HATE THE PHONE

[shrek45]

WHY IS IT THAT WHEN EVER YOU LIKE A GIRL YOU GOT TO CALL HE 24/7 JUST TO MAKE HER THINK YOU LIKE HER.



WELL QUICK QUESTION FOR GUYS AND GIRLS

IF A GIRL LIKES ME (AND I KNOW SHE DOES A LITLE BIT) AND WE DONT GET TO CHILL EVER CAUSE SHE LIVES A WAYS AWAY AND IS STILL IN HIGHSCHOOL. WE PLAYED PHONE TAG FOR A WEEK AND FINALLY GOT IN TOUCH WITH EACH OTHER AND TALKED WITH EACH OTHER AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. WELL AFTER A BIT I KEPT CALLING AND SHE WAS NEVER THERE. SO I KINDA STOPPED CALLING AND THAT WAS LIKE A WEEK MAYBE A WEEK AND A HALF AGO IS IT STILL OK TO CALL HER EVEN THOUGH IT HAS BEEN AWHILE. DO YOU THINK SHE HAS LOST HER INFATUATION WITH ME OR WHAT?

well my drunk ass is gonna do my best to navigate from my computer to my bed with out falling. have a nice night ya'll and dont forget to answer my question. BUH BYE

[beachguy in thongs]

Only one way to find out, and call her.

[Ganjasaurusrex]

You need to handle the phone properly with women.

You have this all screwed up.(no offense).

Do not get the idea that you have to call her 24/7 to show her you like her. Do the opposite to get her to like you.

How about using the phone to set a date and only a date. On the phone, off the phone. It has to be short. Your chit-chatting too long and driving her interest level down by "talking as much as possible". Big mistake.

You might be able to turn this around. depends.

The reason she is "never there" is that someone in the house is covering for her not to be there see what Im saying. She is avoiding you. Bottom line her actions and let the ego hear the truth.

You need to use the phone properly to come across as a confident, challenging and self-contolling man and that starts from day one.

Talking on answer machines until your relationship is set is a bad move also. You give up self control and patience when you do this. After the relationship is set its ok to leave messages on machines.

You need to show confidence by asking for the home phone number from the start.

"give me your home telephone number" NOW AFTER YOU SAY THOSE WORDS STOP AND OBSERVE HER BODY LANGUAGE AND ENTHUSIAM AND THAT WILL TELL YOU HER INITIAL INTEREST LEVEL. That tells you to proceed or trash the number.

Women who are interested make it easy for you to get in touch. She will give you her home phone number. If she hands you a business card or asks for your number instead OR ANYTHING ELSE OTHER THAN THE HOME PHONE NUMBER SHE IS TELLING YOU SHE IS NOT INTERESTED. Women have a hard time telling a guy "no".

Dont say "Ill call you". ever. anti-challenge. Reasurances are bad.

You must wait 5-9 days to call her for the first time. It shows you are not hungry. It shows you have patience, it gives the perception of you being independent and challenging because 90% of all guys call within 2 days.

Consider yourself lucky to hear this.

You need to be direct when you ask for a date. You use the phone to set the date and that is all. For example, "Lets go snowboarding sunday at noon". < was that a direct statement or is "what do you want to do" or "do you want to go out"< both of those are weak and show no confidence.

You need to set the date and get off the phone.

1st best date. Starbucks or similar
2nd best date. Activity date, ski, snowboard etc,
3rd best date. Activity date
4th best date. Dinner

Avoid dinner dates first off the bat. There is too much pressure on each of you.

During the first date you dont make plans for the second date. Keep her wondering.

Keep it short you be the first to get off the phone, you be the first to cut the visit short and leave on a high note.

If things go well. Start the process over again by waiting 5-9 days to call again.
Women need this time to think about you. She wont forget you in 5-9 days if shes interested trust me on that. The opposite happens. Which is what you want.

Dont be available on weekends for the first 3 weeks into dating. If she counters for a saturday. Too bad. you have things to do. Counter back for another weekday. If she has only weekends accept a sunday. But no Fridays or Saturdays for 3 weeks into dating.



Peace

[justinsane]

man.. im one of those guys who HAAAAATES phones, like i can never just sit and talk on a phone .. its just like. a waste of time to me. i just use my cell to like, text, or just quick have a 5 minute chat..

[friendowl]

i agree fuck the phone.at my pad i had the phone shut off.it would never stop ringin.
people call and say what are you doing whos there wheres the bud at blaze me out
ima go down and kick it front me a sack let me borrow some cash can you watch my kids lend me a movie lend me a game............fuck that shit [.no phone = peace ]

[kiki]

i would hate it if i was with some guy and he called me 24/7!! i think people think i'm rude bc whenever they call me i'm always trying to get off the phone as quickly as possible

[beachguy in thongs]

i would hate it if i was with some guy and he called me 24/7!! i think people think i'm rude bc whenever they call me i'm always trying to get off the phone as quickly as possible
Remind me that when I call, k?

[SonEtLumiere]

whoa that thing ganjasaurus, thats insane, very strict rules and shit lol but awesome. yeah i play all my shit by ear with my girl, i never thought about anything i was saying or doing, i just kinda go with the flow thats the key i think just let your mind do what it feels like doing and you can get into it, dont give it to much thought, if its meant to be man its gonna be you know what i mean,

[Paige]

i hate the phone

its really is a waste of time especially if you just sit there talking about nothing

sooo boring

and i dont want to be rude and .. liek. say i dont want to talk to them

so i make up excuses

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

i hate the phone

its really is a waste of time especially if you just sit there talking about nothing

sooo boring

and i dont want to be rude and .. liek. say i dont want to talk to them

so i make up excuses

There are only a few people I really like talking on the phone with.

*nudges Paige*

[Paige]

haha

im the same way

nudges that bitch back ;)

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

;)

<3

:D

Phones suck balls with other people, though.

[Paige]

your such a loser

and a virgo

stubborn little

bitch

haha <3

[loserstonergirl]

I think it depends on how she is acting, i mean maybe she really is busy. I am really hard to get a hold of. im like never home, why dont you just try calling her this time, and i dont neccissarily think those rules above apply, i mean i think its cute if a guy i met and gave my number to left me a message, now i mean, one message is okay, but dont over do yourself. Idk. I think you should try calling one more time sure, and if you get a hold of her pay attention to her. Maybe even try seeing her, i know i would lose interest if all i did was talk to some guy on the phone. but idk thats me.

[beachguy in thongs]

Damn, I live with a Virgo. I've been living with her for five years.

I'm an Aries. :rolleyes:

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

your such a loser

and a virgo

stubborn little

bitch

haha <3
I'm not stubborn, miss Scorpio.

I just get what I want (Virgo) and you're conflicting with that! :p

[beachguy in thongs]

Hah, I remember the back-seat and that Scorpio. A fling for an Aries.