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Pungi420
01-11-2006, 06:27 AM
alrite so im a college kid and im sure all of u that live in college towns have local dealers who you are semi cool with seeing as that they arent some cracked out foos on the corner selling but students just like you...i guess im just getting all mistied eyed cuz its about half a year since this happend ne ways...my main dealer a real cool dude...me and him used to blaze SO MUCH like he had a sick ass pad isolated so we would burn blunts whenever we smoked and like just chill and play x box ...id go hook up off him like every week or so and chill ...the dude was hella coo...then i remeber that last day of summer session this year the second i got done with my final at 930 am i hit him up and i was like bro im coming over...he was like coo come over...i came over dude shot me an eight of dank for 45 and i walked out the door saying ill see you after break bro....heres the sad part...later that nite..as you can imagine the entire college town was partying since finals were done...my homie went out for the nite with a bunch of friends and like all you guys know how it is ...after a long nite at the bar you defintley wanna smoke some good dank eat some food and call it nite ...well home boy was driving home on the free way and got into an accident...he stepped outta the car without looking and was killed on the spot by an 18 wheller...i heard about it the nexxt day and it fucking blew me away...i had just seen the dude the same day he died and like i still had the chronic i hooked up ffrom him ...it was just so surreal and sad he was so young....

rest in peace ajitjot "bunz" bajwa

smoke ranger
01-11-2006, 06:34 AM
RIP to your bro, homie, Ive had a couple friends lost in my lifetime do to memory lapses....its a damn shame..hurts pretty bad too

GanjaBob
01-11-2006, 06:36 AM
thats shitty

d00d989
01-11-2006, 07:07 AM
that sucks man, 1 less cool person :-(

RIP

Solistus
01-11-2006, 09:42 AM
RIP :(

Th3 Chr0nic
01-11-2006, 10:11 AM
sorry for the loss of ur friend man , RIP

Toker4LifeVT
01-11-2006, 11:02 AM
man sorry to hear. RIP

Powder Puff
01-11-2006, 12:30 PM
I also have lost friends, and I know it hurts..!

R.I.P. To all who go to young! Also your friend..

But, one thing that helps to everything is put a :) on you face.. it might be a little crued to say, but it does help.. So.. :)

justinsane
01-11-2006, 02:06 PM
damn man,

but you know hes gonna want you to get real high with that last chronic he sold you.

daima
01-11-2006, 03:50 PM
fuck drinking and driving. If your friend chose to drink and drive i am glad that it was him that got killed and not a car full of kids with their parents.
One thing that seems to wake people up is acts of ignorance and inconsideration. I hope that your friends choice to drink and drive has implimented some sort of sense in you all. Dont get me wrong, i do NOT wish your friend dead. I wish no one dead. Long night at the bar? wake the fuck up dude.
Stats show us that 50% of all highway deaths are alcohol related. 65% of all murders and rapes are commited by those on booze.
Not only did booze help end your friends life, those beers you like to drink also contribute to building prisons and promoting anti-cannabis campaigns.
Shooting yourselves in the foot and then coming in here and saying "my boo boo hurts" doesnt qualify as an act that deserves to much sympathy. What it does and should require us to look at is YOU.
May your friend find the rest he desperately seemed to of needed. From the sounds of it it was either him, or me.
Drunk drivers really piss me off. I dont see one post here that shows concern for the Truck Driver, who must be tramatized.
If you care so much about your friends then you should try harder to keep them out of bars all night and then getting into a vehicle with him/her.
Any reason your cheap asses couldnt of taken a cab home?
dai*ma :mad:

smoke ranger
01-11-2006, 03:59 PM
why not bring this up later, and lets kinda feel for the family right now, ya know, a little compasion!!!

DazedandConfused
01-11-2006, 04:13 PM
sorry to hear man

Pungi420
01-11-2006, 04:16 PM
daima....ur right about what ur talking about ...but dont disgrace my friends legacy...cuz he wasnt drunk ...he wasnt a drinker...he was a smoker...i dint lay all the facts out when i told u the story cuz it has alot of details...he had a friend inthe car with him...he was hit in his car coming around a like free off ramp ya know and i know the dude and i know he wasnt drunk when he was driving...what i shoulda told ya is is that the friend who was in the car was hurt preety bad...the one who survived the reason my friend died had nothing to do with him driving his car into someone one else...he got into the accident.. his buddy in the seat next to him was unconncious...right after the accident happend he stopped to get out and check on him and his car....and like i said it was on a free way off ramp where u cant see if car is coming around the side and a 18 wheller came and killed him...so driving drunk would not have killed him seeing as that he wasnt killed while driving...thanks for the love tho ..daima...and i never said nething about my friend drinking did I? i said he was out partying and at a bar..what i shoulda told ya was that he djed part time ...man but who gives a fuck i just miss the guy...alot...

slipknotpsycho
01-11-2006, 04:28 PM
fuck drinking and driving. If your friend chose to drink and drive i am glad that it was him that got killed and not a car full of kids with their parents.
One thing that seems to wake people up is acts of ignorance and inconsideration. I hope that your friends choice to drink and drive has implimented some sort of sense in you all. Dont get me wrong, i do NOT wish your friend dead. I wish no one dead. Long night at the bar? wake the fuck up dude.
Stats show us that 50% of all highway deaths are alcohol related. 65% of all murders and rapes are commited by those on booze.
Not only did booze help end your friends life, those beers you like to drink also contribute to building prisons and promoting anti-cannabis campaigns.
Shooting yourselves in the foot and then coming in here and saying "my boo boo hurts" doesnt qualify as an act that deserves to much sympathy. What it does and should require us to look at is YOU.
May your friend find the rest he desperately seemed to of needed. From the sounds of it it was either him, or me.
Drunk drivers really piss me off. I dont see one post here that shows concern for the Truck Driver, who must be tramatized.
If you care so much about your friends then you should try harder to keep them out of bars all night and then getting into a vehicle with him/her.
Any reason your cheap asses couldnt of taken a cab home?
dai*ma :mad:
i can see where you're coming from, and to a certain extent i agree.. but damn dude you don't have to be all harsh about it... people do stupid shitty stuff all the time, don't mean you have to rub it in and basicly say "fuck him he deserved it" no one deserves death... what if it was like your brother or something? you may not agree with what he was doing, but i'm sure you wouldn't of said the same things... have some consideration...

Pungi420
01-11-2006, 04:42 PM
once again thanks for the love every one i really appreciate it ....ne ways also and im not lying at all i never do when it comes to life...and if you know ne one that goes to ucd you can ask em...my friend died on august 5th right 2005 and like two weeks later another friend of mine , ironically enuff he was going to be the roomate of my friend who passed on the 5th also died in a car crash in milpitas and two more indian students from davis also perished in car related accidents in that month of august....seriously tho guys appreciate ur friends n shit u know cuz u never even know when the last time ur gonna see em is and when they are gone ur mind will just go crazy with shit like...

but i jus saw em and their were fine---thats the extreme denial

then u go thru hella sad phases of realizing how young they were and how much of their life they are gon miss out on...

...well GOOD MORNING THO TO EVERYONE im about to go smoke a J ...who here is waking and baking this morning?

robert42
01-11-2006, 06:19 PM
dam did u raid his pad? jp

friendowl
01-11-2006, 06:52 PM
damn daima you got fucking problems.this guy comes on here to share a story and your gonna say your glad is homie is dead.if iwas next to you id bitch slap your poetic ass

pixel
01-11-2006, 07:13 PM
that totally sucks man, blaze up that eigth in his name definitely

daima
01-11-2006, 07:54 PM
I dont need to repeat what you said you said. It's here in the forum to read.
And i quote " after a long night in the bar" unquote.
Asking me to have compassion for people who drink and then get into a car and drive and get fucked up dont register with me. My heart goes out to the driver who has to live the rest of his/her life with a dead man on the hood of his truck. A totally innocent person has to live with the decision a drunk made. Cry me a river later. You can re-arrange this story any way you want to, but i know what its worth.
Let me guess...College kids in the bar drinking oj and pepsie all night.
I agree that people do stupid shit all the time. If we didnt have the DAILY HORROR stories, courtesy of drunk driving(ers), i would say that this was nothing more than a person doing another stupid thing. This is the action of thoughtless people who's only concern was that they had a good time and it was now time for these lil angels to go home. You know what booze does. This wasnt an act of stupidity. It was a greedy self-fish act, just like all drunk driving is.
As for slapping my poetic ass? give it up pal. Your bravado doesnt register with me in a chat room. You big man you. My heart goes out to the parents who had to bury their greedy selfcentered son. The excuse" we didnt know what could happen" is as empty as the idle threat i recieved from doofus.

dai*ma :p
I met every fool that ever signed their names upon these walls
In the back of all these beer joints and concert halls
I've been through 7 managers, 5 labels, 1000 picks and patched cables
3 bands, a van, a bunch of guitar stands and
cans and cans and cans of beer and bottles of booze and bags of pot
and a thousand other things i forgot
I thought that i'd be dead by now.......
but i'm not.

Tough love for knuckle heads. Remember kids. Life is hard, but life is hardest when you're dumb.

daima
01-11-2006, 07:59 PM
HARSH? me? Nonsense. It just that acts of greed and inconsideration dont have the same effect on me that it has on you. There is nothing easier to manipulate than a empty mind. Why dont you just hang a "for rent, empty space" sign around your brain? wowie.

dai*ma

Stfu its Matthew
01-11-2006, 08:01 PM
dai ma ur a lunatic ass hole u know u dont rub fken death in somones face u need to fuckin learn compasion u ass

and quit with ur gay ass rhymes please :mad:


sorry to hear about ur friend bro ive almost been hit by big trucks :(

and i know how it feels man
=-rest_in_peace-=

slipknotpsycho
01-11-2006, 08:56 PM
well i'm sorry to hear that, really i am.. cuz it will come back to you one day, sooner or later... and it will hit you hard... there's a diffrence between not agreeing with what someone does and seeing them suffer the ultimate consequnce for it, and plain and simple just saying something along the lines of "he deserved it" and seeing someone do something, pay the ultimate consequence for it, and realizing it could have been you, or your family, or your friends.... it's called compassion... you tell me you never do anything to endanger another human being, animal or anything at all when you are "impaired"? cuz i really don't believe that.... hypocrites... i just love people like you.

daima
01-11-2006, 09:14 PM
gee. I thought it was another coming into a cannabis chatroom rubbing death in my face and couldnt handle the critisism/opposition to what it was he was saying. I had a best friend "Jackie" who was waiting on the curbside holding their 4 month old baby when a drunk driver ran up on the sidewalk, killing Jackie, and leaving lil chris motherless, big Chris Wifelss, and mr and mrs cross daughterless. I have very little, if any, sympathy when i hear stories of people being in bars all night and then fucking up. My heart goes out to those who are unfortunate enough to cross their paths.
As for the "gay ass" rhymes?. Why am i not suprised that that seems to be the only way possible for you to describe anything that surpasses your intellect?

dai*ma :o
Life is hard, but life is hardest when you're dumb
No Joie de vivre, just endless hours of tedium
With a negative IQ , you'll be lonesome, sad and blue
Life is hard, but life is hardest when you're dumb

daima
01-11-2006, 09:23 PM
dont come crying to me when you stick your dick in the fan and the fan cuts your dick off. What the fuck did you think the outcome would be?
If you want to put your OWN ass in danger, be my guest. When your behavior puts me or others in danger, be prepared to face your biggest nightmare. But try to face it without crying me a fucking river, ok?

dai*ma
I know a guy whose got a lot to lose
He's got muscles in his head that aint never been used
seems like a nice guy, but kind of confused

Thats the way that the world goes around
You're up one day the next you're down
It's a half an inch of water
You think you're going to drown
Thats the way that the world goes 'round :thumbsup:

VoidLivesOn
01-11-2006, 09:29 PM
Am I the only one who probably couldn't smoke that weed after something like that? I would probably have panic attacks out the ass.

Just wouldn't feel right.

slipknotpsycho
01-11-2006, 11:18 PM
well then that's your problem, you're a hateful little shit, letting one thing form your opinions of everyone else who happens to share something in common with them. by what you're saying if i went in a bar all night, didnt' even drink so much as a coke.. and then left and got killed, then it was my fault for sitting in a bar all night... you dont' have a problem with alcohol/drunk drivers, you have a problem with anyone that associates their self with alcohol in anyway, shape or form. if his friend deserved death for being in a bar that night, then so did yours for whatever she did wrong in her life leading up to it, and you can't tell me no one's ever not done something wrong, every person makes a mistake and does something wrong/bad/unapprovable/unacceptable/whatever else fits here in their life at some point. so by what you're saying she deserved it too.. is that right? no of course that's not how you feel... i'll say it agian, no one deserves death, no matter what they've done...

slipknotpsycho
01-11-2006, 11:21 PM
Vengance is a closed door.
Forgivness is freedom.


make what you want of that. i'd expect you get what i'm trying to say if you are really as smart as you try to play yourself off as.

rollinKansas
01-11-2006, 11:46 PM
RIP CALVIN... and your homeboy

i know what its like to loose close friends and its one of the biggest shocks u can expirience...but it helps to think of part of that one song

"thats just the way it is, things will never be the same..." :o

Pungi420
01-12-2006, 01:01 AM
thanks again man for all the love...aye daima ...say whatever u want haha im sure every one that blazes is just to lit to give a fuck about what ur saying...so feel whatever way you want...but i dont think ud say something like that if somone close to you died like that ...iono think about that..im sure ur gonna come back and talk shit but whatever man..when it happens to u, u wont feel the same way

GanjaBob
01-12-2006, 01:06 AM
daima your an asshole, and sorry about your friend dude.

Jeff Spicoli
01-12-2006, 01:20 AM
Marijuana kills.

slipknotpsycho
01-12-2006, 01:30 AM
Jeff Spicoli has offically been slapped.

=/ to bad i can't reach through this comp and do it for real... for a comment like that..

Stfu its Matthew
01-12-2006, 04:37 AM
ur right he deserves to be slapped and u know what daima u do have a gay ass rhymes and u do need to learn compassion ur complete hard head and dont know what the fuck ur talking about but it looks to me like ur mentally retarded couse well....., u suck !


btw ur a faggot :p









:rasta: rasta this :dance: still i never really think u could do this but daima i think uve smoked ur self retarded (permanently or thats just u :D

Th3 Chr0nic
01-12-2006, 07:41 AM
dai*ma if someone u know was to make the stupid mistake of driving drunk regardless of it being their fault...would u still feel ok about it if someone told u that ur friend deserved to die and they are happy he is dead??? no u wouldnt like that, it may be someones fault when they do these things but that doesnt mean u have to tell their friends or loved ones that it is ia good thing they are dead....if someone told me some shit like that i might just kill them on the spot.... so u should watch ur mouth if u want to keep it (not a threat so dont get ur internet undies in a bunch)

streettrash
01-12-2006, 11:47 AM
An argument isn't going to prevent any more death, just produce more hatred.

Though I think it's already been explained that this guy wasn't drunk, I know a few people who have been known to drive after a few drinks. It's a STUPID decision. It really is. We all make stupid mistakes. Instead of playing the blame game, why don't we try to prevent more mistakes?

I'm sure everyone here is aware that drinking and driving is bad. Let's encourage others not to get killed. Don't drink and drive. Even one or two drinks, though it may be legal, kills people.

I think the other thing that may be a factor in this death (though I can't be sure) is smoking weed and driving.

A LOT of people think it's perfectly safe to smoke and drive, and there are lots of conflicting studies. I know I've done it before, and a lot of other people have.

Maybe that's something productive we could all do. I've been so high I can't operate the television remote, so logically I know it can't be safe to operate a ton of metal at 60mph.

Even if you CAN drive okay while stoned, even sober people crash, and if you get in an accident and you just HAPPEN to have some THC in your system, you only add to the case against marijuana.

I was actually the first of my little group of stoner friends to say "Hey, maybe we should just take the bus or walk". That was about one month ago. At first everyone looked at me funny and just said "YOU can fucking walk", but as I started to recruit more and more people, I don't think I've ever had more fun smoking weed. Every time we smoke it's an adventure. We meet TONS of new people all the time. Also, I've probably lost 10 pounds (I didn't really think I had a weight problem before, but I feel good so I can't complain).

Also, we have a "designated driver" rotation that applies to pot, alcohol, or any other drug we decide to do. Most of the time nobody has a problem being the designated driver because the driver gets free gas, food, concert tickets, movies, or whatever we're doing that night from the rest of us. Also, when we're smoking a bowl the green hit always goes to the last designated driver.

Just a thought. Anyone agree with me here?

robert42
01-12-2006, 02:43 PM
every1 needs to chill out with dai*ma, so what hes differant, cos he dont come to this site and post shit posts are we meant to all treat him differantly? lay off the man

vincevaper
01-12-2006, 05:24 PM
Maybe that's something productive we could all do. I've been so high I can't operate the television remote, so logically I know it can't be safe to operate a ton of metal at 60mph.

MJ is categorically a perception altering drug, so it follows that driving while stoned is not a responsible thing to do. It's an offense that should not be decriminalized.

slipknotpsycho
01-12-2006, 07:36 PM
every1 needs to chill out with dai*ma, so what hes differant, cos he dont come to this site and post shit posts are we meant to all treat him differantly? lay off the man
he's not "differant" he's an inconsiderate prick....

Professor Dan K.
01-13-2006, 03:30 AM
Am I the only one who probably couldn't smoke that weed after something like that? I would probably have panic attacks out the ass.

Just wouldn't feel right.

I dont think i could either man, i might even save it to remember him by or something.. but if i smoked it, i wouldnt feel the least bit happy.

Man that is terrible what happened i dont like thinkinga bout what would happen if one of my friends died, i feel for you man, as do many here. RIP

As for dai*ma, i understand how you feel as well, you have a right to feel how you feel, however you cant blame someone for making a mistake, yes that mistake will have great consequences but to error is human, to forgive that is devine (yes i quoted starsky and hutch :) ). there is no reason to rub this tragedy in his face. Compassion is not a weakness man.

pixel
01-13-2006, 08:38 PM
An argument isn't going to prevent any more death, just produce more hatred.

Though I think it's already been explained that this guy wasn't drunk, I know a few people who have been known to drive after a few drinks. It's a STUPID decision. It really is. We all make stupid mistakes. Instead of playing the blame game, why don't we try to prevent more mistakes?

I'm sure everyone here is aware that drinking and driving is bad. Let's encourage others not to get killed. Don't drink and drive. Even one or two drinks, though it may be legal, kills people.

I think the other thing that may be a factor in this death (though I can't be sure) is smoking weed and driving.

A LOT of people think it's perfectly safe to smoke and drive, and there are lots of conflicting studies. I know I've done it before, and a lot of other people have.

Maybe that's something productive we could all do. I've been so high I can't operate the television remote, so logically I know it can't be safe to operate a ton of metal at 60mph.

Even if you CAN drive okay while stoned, even sober people crash, and if you get in an accident and you just HAPPEN to have some THC in your system, you only add to the case against marijuana.

I was actually the first of my little group of stoner friends to say "Hey, maybe we should just take the bus or walk". That was about one month ago. At first everyone looked at me funny and just said "YOU can fucking walk", but as I started to recruit more and more people, I don't think I've ever had more fun smoking weed. Every time we smoke it's an adventure. We meet TONS of new people all the time. Also, I've probably lost 10 pounds (I didn't really think I had a weight problem before, but I feel good so I can't complain).

Also, we have a "designated driver" rotation that applies to pot, alcohol, or any other drug we decide to do. Most of the time nobody has a problem being the designated driver because the driver gets free gas, food, concert tickets, movies, or whatever we're doing that night from the rest of us. Also, when we're smoking a bowl the green hit always goes to the last designated driver.

Just a thought. Anyone agree with me here?


thats a great system for your designated driver

420purplehaze420
01-13-2006, 09:07 PM
I dont need to repeat what you said you said. It's here in the forum to read.
And i quote " after a long night in the bar" unquote.
Asking me to have compassion for people who drink and then get into a car and drive and get fucked up dont register with me. My heart goes out to the driver who has to live the rest of his/her life with a dead man on the hood of his truck. A totally innocent person has to live with the decision a drunk made. Cry me a river later. You can re-arrange this story any way you want to, but i know what its worth.
Let me guess...College kids in the bar drinking oj and pepsie all night.
I agree that people do stupid shit all the time. If we didnt have the DAILY HORROR stories, courtesy of drunk driving(ers), i would say that this was nothing more than a person doing another stupid thing. This is the action of thoughtless people who's only concern was that they had a good time and it was now time for these lil angels to go home. You know what booze does. This wasnt an act of stupidity. It was a greedy self-fish act, just like all drunk driving is.
As for slapping my poetic ass? give it up pal. Your bravado doesnt register with me in a chat room. You big man you. My heart goes out to the parents who had to bury their greedy selfcentered son. The excuse" we didnt know what could happen" is as empty as the idle threat i recieved from doofus.

dai*ma :p
I met every fool that ever signed their names upon these walls
In the back of all these beer joints and concert halls
I've been through 7 managers, 5 labels, 1000 picks and patched cables
3 bands, a van, a bunch of guitar stands and
cans and cans and cans of beer and bottles of booze and bags of pot
and a thousand other things i forgot
I thought that i'd be dead by now.......
but i'm not.

Tough love for knuckle heads. Remember kids. Life is hard, but life is hardest when you're dumb.
you dont even know the guy you fucking dickface, r u mad at life or something? ive never seen a positive post from your rude ass and id bet your not perfect either so keep your well thought out but ignorant posts to yourself