Sexuality: Color her moods

[Ganjasaurusrex]

When it comes to a woman's mood conerning sex or not having sex her mood is always changing.

Learn to ride her wave.

I think sexual or non-sexual moods are best expressed in the color of clothing a woman wears to bed.

This avoids the conversation of "what kind of mood are you in" and makes it easier to just go with the situation without approaching her wrong for what mood she might be in.

Its a form of easy communication without the talk about it.

There are different kinds of sex/ non-sex moods:

Loving sex
Passionate sex
gentle sex
rough sex
and no-sex


For example:

If she is in the mood for Loving sex she might wear white. White bra, panties, etc.

If she is in the mood for Passionate sex she might wear black. Black bras, panties, etc.

If she is in the mood for rough sex she might wear shades of red. Red bras, panties etc.

If she just wants to cuddle up for the evening she would just wear a pair of pajamas.

This is a good way to communicate to a guy as he can key off and not have to search the mood through talking which kinda takes the fun out of it or face a rejection for a wrong approach. Not knowing what is next is interesting as well and this allows you to adjust to her mood.

For example. If she wore white victorias seceret-type underwear to bed, (loving sex) you would know to spend more time with loving attention, foreplay and verbal communication, maybe light some candles, play a cool jazz cd and adjust the setting.

But if she wore red you might skip the foreplay and just take her in the moment and adjust your communication style, sexual style and setting.

Obviously if she is wearing pajamas you wouldnt approach her wanting rough sex, which may have happened last time. This will get a rejection. This is a good time to watch a movie together, cuddle up and be intimate in a non-sexual way.

So this communication style avoids sexual rejection and lets the guy know the way to approach her mood.

Color her mood is a great way to communicate..........In my opinion.

[pikes peak 69]

First of all, no woman wears a bra to bed.
Second your taking the most important part of a relationship out of the equation, Communication. If she wants it differently than your giving it to her, she'll guide you in the right direction.
Thirdly, your system takes no account of how the guy is feeling, and what he wants.

Just mt opinion.

pp69

[Garden Knowm]

Ganja,,, you are not allowed to post such long POSTS...

I guess you didn't see the rules..

i love you
now you know
i love you

[Ganjasaurusrex]

Maybe we misunderstood each other on the word bed, bedroom in general maybe, and not the bed itself. I think were talking about the same thing, it could be the living room for that matter, or on top of the washing machine.

No offense, but if I feel like rough sex, if thats how im feeling, I will not force that on her in any way through guilt, complaining, or how I am feeling no matter what.

I mean how could I want rough sex if thats how I am feeling when she is in a loving mood? or has on a pair of pajamas and is on her period? She may even say yes but she will not enjoy that or consider that good sex even though the I did.

Their emotional states are more complex than a guys and for me, and just speaking for myself, its better if I make the adjustment than her. Im still having sex its just a variation so its not a big deal to me.

Women secretly resent a guy having his way when she is in a different mood or no mood. She may go along with that, but wont tell you, and I strongly believe thats one of the main reasons they start looking at other men due to long periods of resentment.

I mean what a guy wants is important too, sure, I agree with you in what your saying.

But me personally, I dont go against the mood at hand. I think this is the very reason that woman are always talking about "the mood". "depends on my mood" etc. I think they are looking for respect of the mood.

The relationship is on her turf the way I see it and 90% of the time they are the ones who decide when its over and when she does cheat she will justify the reasons why.

As far as communication and guiding in the right direction. Thats what its all about.

Once again no offense brother. We are just different in approach. I Respect your opinion though.

[pikes peak 69]

I think we are talking about the same thing, just different words. I never said or meant for a man to force himself on a woman. I too believe it's all about the woman, but her asking or knowing what I like or want is nice too.

[Ganjasaurusrex]

Knowm.

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Grow big gardens, love life and the universe.

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Send ganja great rewards of harvest.

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Throw rocks through windows, knock down girls, knock girls up.

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and when you cant defend your position I still love you.

[Ganjasaurusrex]

agreed.

[Garden Knowm]

wow
i love you

[Paige]

what if that girl only has two color of bras? haha

[Garden Knowm]

put it in her mouth

[Ganjasaurusrex]

Then I get uptight and confused! Damn you!

[powair]

You, my friend, are an idiot.

[Ganjasaurusrex]

LOL. So Im I your friend or am I just an idiot or am I your idiotic friend? .