words mean shit

[Ganj]

alright. last night i had this girl in my room. everything was fine and cool, we were jamming the doors while i gave her a backrub. anyway, she turned over and we start playing around a bit. finally it lead up to me kissing her. we start making out and during this whole time i've made my intentions clear of what i wanted to do. crystal clear! i suggest taking off her shirt, she says, "no, stop it". this went on for a litle while longer.

now, i'm certain that she wanted more. words dont' mean shit, her actions were speaking loud enough for my neighbors to hear. well, nothing happened last night. just us making out and whatnot. my problem is she's coming over again tonight (tease), now how do i assert myself to make sure she's dropping the panties, without getting caught up with the words in my head?

[opiuser]

dont do it unless she says yes.

words may not mean shit to you, but in a court of law, they make all the diff

[187]

take a knife to her throat and tell her to take off all her clothes :) haha jk

[devils dream]

just take it easy on the girl she might want you but do you want to scare her off?
if she wants you and you can be a little patient i'm sure youll get your girl. :-)

[Powder Puff]

Just NEVER.. EVER.. Be to attached to the girl, they hate that..!:p

Just be cool, but not to cool..!;)

If she wants to do smoething more, she will let you know..!:)

[ADaisyChain]

next time don't ask, just do it. I used to make the mistake of asking first, and its kind of a turn off to girls I've decided. Like anti-authoritarian or something. Polite, but not correct.

Just listen to the tone of her voice. You'll know what she means. But "NO! STOP IT!" means just that. You'll know though by the way she says it if you listen hard enough.

[Ganj]

i've been mislead somewhere. her tone of voice wasn't serious enough, so i persisted. i unhooked her bra and when i tried to bust a feel was when she held back. tonight i'll be more patient. tonight will be a more sensual evening between us. i never asked her anything, infact i explained that my room acted as a dictatorship and i was the dictator lmao! it was all in good fun though. i've never had sex, so you could understand my impatience, especially since she was in my room and we'd already started making out. i realize i've been patient all this long (eighteen years), but i figure if i want us both to enjoy the night then patience is going to have to be key.

she drove for twenty minutes to get to my house for a massage. i hope i didn't get the wrong idea. i get caught up in thinking people are playing games with me which is probably why i assume when she says, "no" or "stop it", i take it has, "are you going to take control or allow me to dominate you". i'm the alpha-male! lmao! i'm not into that dominatrix stuff. tonight i'll try to maintain total control over myself and her. i definitely don't want to scare her off. i'll try to keep the akward situations to zero. i don't want her to feel uncomfortable around me.

any tips would be appreciated. thank you very much, friends.

[beachguy in thongs]

You don't need tips, ganj. Just be yourself. :thumbsup: ... :stoned:

[Ganj]

that'd be best. tips are what got me into that situation last night.

[mellow mood]

dude drink a couple of beers with her while jamming a bit. then say she is pretty attractive and start kissing her and go ahead

good luck

[Reefer Rogue]

Good luck Ganj my man. Bone her, bone her! :dance:

[Lakota]

Ah she's just one chick in a line of chicks to come through that front door....relax, so many out there. Act aloff like you don't care, that works for me.

Then boner her hard....Good Luck Bro

[slipknotpsycho]

act like you dont' want her.... girls usually want what they can't have.. gay guys for example.... i've found that if you act like you dont' want them, then they decide they want you... think of it as a game of who can act like they dont' want the other the longest.... if both of you really do want it, someone's going to break sooner or later...if she doesn't just start doing stuff to you then they usually get this pissed off tone in their voice and ask stuff along the lines of "do you not find me attractive" "what am i doing wrong" and so on.. once there was this girl that i had just met, and she started hanging out in my room all the damn time so i knew she wanted me, so i just acted like a friend (tho every moment i wanted to rip her clothes off and go hog wild <.<) eventually, one time when i was just talking i think telling her about my family or something, she jumped on me basicly and started makin g out with me, following with phrases like "i want you" "you're so sexy" and so on... i lost my virginity that day.

[robert42]

be ya self

give her weed / booze

tell her she looks nice

to watch the snake dance first you must charm it

[devils dream]

boys boys you all have so much to learn about the workings of a female mind.
not all girls are the same and none of us now the girl ganj is talking of.
just take it steady and let things take there natural course. if she's a virgin too she is probably as nervous as hell and wants someone who'll be kind and caring not to be fucked hard that'd just hurt her if it is her first time.be good be safe be happy and good luck!

[Ganj]

you guys are awesome! she's not a virgin and i may have played too pushy. lol, i hadn't seen the girl in a year and thought the wrong idea. it's all g-double o-d good though. i'll find someone. she's a cool girl and i shouldn't have put her in a situation like that. it's not a game. i was persistant. i tried to control the situation, but she wasn't feeling it. who knows?

[Its a Plant]

I think the first quote in your sig pretty much sums up how you handled that situation.... good luck findin that special lady to fool around with.

[powair]

Sometimes I pretend I don't want sex by saying no and trying to get away. It really turns me on to be forced to do it, even if it is just pretend. That girl probably feels the same.

[Garden Knowm]

Sometimes I pretend I don't want sex by saying no and trying to get away. It really turns me on to be forced to do it, even if it is just pretend. That girl probably feels the same.
yeah, me too..

hey GANJ... you need to drop the intentions..

i love you

BE in the NOW...

i love you

Who cares if you get to her tits, who cares if she blows you... nothing is better than being present..... witness her... give her your undivided attention....

i love you

flood her with energy... still your mind and open up the NOW..

i love you

accept her fully for who she is!!!

LOVE her....

and wen you see her in the present in the NOW.. everything will be yours..
and you can givehe r the ultimate pony ride...


i love you

but I am gonna guess that if you are so anxious to get wit her, that you will nut in less than 30 seconds... which is ok... but not ideal///

LOL


i love you

[friendowl]

when your massaging her homie you should tease her.like rub her and right when your gonna get the titty stop and go somewhere else.just keep teasing.after awile her body will turn on her.instead of being teased she will need to be pleased.when her breathing pattern changes thats a good sign,just be gentle and use your fingertips.turn that broad into jelly.

[Garden Knowm]

"when her breathing pattern changes"!!!

wow... friendowl.. that's some freakin' good advice!!!

i bow to you..

i love you

the breath tells all

[Ganj]

yeah, me too..

hey GANJ... you need to drop the intentions..

i love you

BE in the NOW...

i love you

Who cares if you get to her tits, who cares if she blows you... nothing is better than being present..... witness her... give her your undivided attention....

i love you

flood her with energy... still your mind and open up the NOW..

i love you

accept her fully for who she is!!!

LOVE her....

and wen you see her in the present in the NOW.. everything will be yours..
and you can givehe r the ultimate pony ride...


i love you

but I am gonna guess that if you are so anxious to get wit her, that you will nut in less than 30 seconds... which is ok... but not ideal///

LOL


i love you
that is the best advice anyone has ever given me. you've opened my eyes, garden knowm. i appreciate your words of wisdom.

i love you, too.

[Garden Knowm]

: )

[hank]

just fucking smell her, and cuddle with her and shit then act like uninterseted, like make tea or something HaHA

Then when she comes to you, like grabs your crotch or grinds into you, cuddle with her a bit and say something like "you are kinda foward" hen if she says what, then pull away from her, then say nothing

Let her come to you, if she gets excited then the sex is a whole lot more fun, I found this tip out from my buddy some time ago and it kinda works wonders

[Smoking Ganja]

just fucking smell her,
smell her? whatever just make sure you make it subtle , and not some loud sniffing noise that might turn her off

and when there is an akward pause in conversation....

"so you wanna make out or what?"

works like a charm

[Breukelen advocaat]

The title of this thread is "words mean shit". I agree. When money talks, nobody walks. Spend some bucks on the chick.

If that doesn't work, there's no shame in having some fun with a pro - just be sure to use protection so that you don't catch anything.

Good luck!

[johnfcthree]

while were on the topic i got a question myself. theres this girl that lives down the road. my friend nick brought her over to my house one day and got her to suck my dick and that was the first time we met. n e wayz, shes a virgin. i go over to her house every once in a while. ever time i go over there we start makin out. she lets me squeeze her tits but when i try getting my hand down her jeans shell grab my arm and move it away. but shell stick her hand in my pants and play with my dick. so what the fuck do i do?

[Powder Puff]

It is like friendowl says, breathing patterns are very noticable, when they are calm, she's not turned on, but when they get more intense, and irregular, she's either mad:p or just turned on and horny..!:)

[johnfcthree]

yeah but if shes shoving her tongue down my throat and grabbing my dick shes obviously horny. but she wont let me finger her. so im confused. shell let me rub her pussy through her jeans though. i did that for about five minutes and i could feel her starting to get wet. and then she still wouldnt let me. it might be kuz her mom is one room over and the door is always open lol but if thats the case she wouldnt put her hand in my pants.

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

Damn, well, maybe you should just wait it out. I'm sure that after awhile she'll get tired of being rubbed through the jeans and want to experience the full power of your fingers!

And then after she gets over those...

She might want your dick!!!

I don't know, just wait it out.

[Powder Puff]

yeah but if shes shoving her tongue down my throat and grabbing my dick shes obviously horny. but she wont let me finger her. so im confused. shell let me rub her pussy through her jeans though. i did that for about five minutes and i could feel her starting to get wet. and then she still wouldnt let me. it might be kuz her mom is one room over and the door is always open lol but if thats the case she wouldnt put her hand in my pants.


I had that once as well.. Bugged the hell out of me..! Turned out, she had her period..! :p :o

[Powder Puff]

Watch where you put your fingers, they might end up bloody..

[johnfcthree]

lol ill definitley keep that in mind

[Paige]

haha the period thingy made me laugh. but i think ... she is just nervous really. have you fingered her before?

[johnfcthree]

not yet.

[Paige]

has she ever been fingered?

[johnfcthree]

yeah

[Paige]

hhmmm still she probably is nervous.. i was going to say she might be nervous about how to react

[Powder Puff]

LOL..! I still think shes on her period!:)

[Paige]

haha a girl is only on her period for 3-8 days! so soon it will be gone if shes on it in the first place

[ScarlettCrush]

Maybe if you want the whole package you need to take her out and treat her good. Try asking her out, the park and mcdonalds or something, get to know her head a little before you get in her pants.

(this is a good reason to start carrying a condom in your wallet)

[friendowl]

the flesh is willing and the spirit is weak.you still havnt hit it yet.maybe thats a good thing.its kind of hard to respect a girl if they give it up to fast.its fun to play hard to get.im sure she wants to fuck but maybe shes more of a lady and wants to wait a lil either that or you dont got no game

[Garden Knowm]

Maybe if you want the whole package you need to take her out and treat her good. Try asking her out, the park and mcdonalds or something, get to know her head a little before you get in her pants.

(this is a good reason to start carrying a condom in your wallet)

seems like I love poeple the second I meet them.. looking deep beneath the surface I see them as JUST a PERFECT light... and then they start to talk and do everything they can to hide this TRUE ME ... then their veneer becomes so thick I can only see a glimmer of this light.. and I realize that they are still beautiful but they can't except it! They try everything in their power to hide WHAT they are...

I love you just for what you are.. no reason to get to know each other and have our attatchents and hangups fuck up our relationship..

tell me where you like it and I'll put it there.. we can be lovers for life..

i love you

[Easy Roller]

seems like I love poeple the second I meet them.. looking deep beneath the surface I see them as JUST a PERFECT light... and then they start to talk and do everything they can to hide this TRUE ME ... then their veneer becomes so thick I can only see a glimmer of this light.. and I realize that they are still beautiful but they can't except it! They try everything in their power to hide WHAT they are...

I love you just for what you are.. no reason to get to know each other and have our attatchents and hangups fuck up our relationship..

tell me where you like it and I'll put it there.. we can be lovers for life..

i love you


Sheer fucking Lunacy!! :D


What was the question...all women,bless them, are 'funny' about being labelled slags or slappers.so the male has to pretend that he is really interested in her and what she has to say!! Which they are of course[because we know we have to be]..
The reason for this is because we want desperatley to fucking have our way with them!!As nice as they are we wish they would just allow us to fuck them like we want to fuck them....willingly and often.!
But girls are a bit funny about being "slappers"..so you have to talk shit for ages to prove you are honourable.

When you get older..ALL woman are slags and you suddenly realize that ALL woman want you to bang them [even more than you do]
AL woman are mad rampant nymphos..am I wrong?
Lifes fucked ;)

[Not Enough Herb]

well heres my 2 cents

when making out, try kissing her neck. girls love it. I love when my girlfriend kisses my neck as well. The move up to her ear, blow in it, nibble on it, lick it, and whisper sumthing in her ear like "your fuckin sexy" or "or i want you"

if that goes well kiss her down her stomach till you get to her hips. kiss her and lick her all down there. thats what usually works for me so hopefully you get lucky

good luck bro

later

[Easy Roller]

On a more serious note, use a romantic chat-up line like,"Get your gums around my plumbs" or "Nice legs ...what time do they open?" Whisper sweet nothings to her like,"your cunt feels all warmlike" and "pretend you don't want it"