nervous thought

[sgS2]

well i had sex for the first time like a week ago and ive been doin it like everything after that w/ my gf. ive never used a condom but right b4 i cum i just pull out haha..anyways..even though i do all that..i still think about all that scary stuff like her becoming pregnant n stuff..and i regret it kinda at times in stuff..cuz like once i cumed on the bed after i pulled out and she was still wearing her panties (pulled it to the side when doing it) and she kinda sat in it, only a lil got on her panties but it was in the ass area *whew* haha..but still.im just nervous..like what i a squirted a droplet or something b4 i pulled out..:/ anything thoughts and input would be nice..and if ur just going to say something bad or make fun of this..then plz just dont post :/ thanks

[kuulbns]

Get some condoms. Your girfriend should get on birth control. The "withdrawel "method does NOT work. A small amount of sperm, "precome" is released somewhere along the ride before you orgasm. You are putting yourselves at risk of pregnancy and possibly disease. I hope everything turns out okay. Good luck to you both. :)

[tokosan]

Get some condoms. Your girfriend should get on birth control. The "withdrawel "method does NOT work. A small amount of sperm, "precome" is released somewhere along the ride before you orgasm. You are putting yourselves at risk of pregnancy and possibly disease. I hope everything turns out okay. Good luck to you both. :) yes, kullbuns is definately correct. Use a condom even with birth control, u dont want the AIDS or the cancers

doesnt help in shotting webs

[MullManiac]

Use a condom! but being nervous is normal man

[ScarlettCrush]

yes! use a condom if you would not like to get her pregnant. pullout doesn't work!!!! Get some now, and you can get cool studded for her pleasure kind as well. works for everyone.

[fikusroot]

just use a condom man, it wont kill you

[fadingyouth]

i'm not going to rip on you, but would you like to see some fantastic pictures of my son? he's so cute and while i adore him to no end, he was a surprise I recieved after I decided I did not need to be protected. Besides, condoms can be so much fun. They come in colors, they're flavored, and when you buy them, you're letting the little old lady at the drug store know you're getting some.

[NightProwler]

condoms just seem so.... unatural.

[sgS2]

yea forsure im getting some ....ive had sex 3 times so far, all pulled out and after i pull out and let it out on the bed, i finger her for awhile..i uno if that would do nething but i use my left hand to finger her bcuz i use my right hand to let it out and if by any chance it got on my hands, there wont be the risk..haha...well do u guys think ill be pretty safe? all 3 times ive pulled out and then busted the load, never felt like precum but i never know..oh and i wont lie, im like 5 and a half inches, not as big as all you guys claim to be, ..im just putting everything out so that others that read have as much info on what went down and can give me the most accurate input..:/ well thanks..keep it comin!

[sgS2]

oh and she had her period today too..but today like in the MORNING when ppl are still sleeping haha..so it wasnt that long from the last time we did it, had sex yesterday and the days b4..3 times total...would having her period help things in a good way or bad?

[MudFu]

God, this just seems so easy. If you have to ask then maybe you shouldn't be having sex until you have some basic education on it. Ok I have never, NEVER heard of a girl getting knocked up by some cum on her panties. Sperm needs a certin environment to stay alive and if exposed outsde for a while they die. Besides that, unless shes rubbing her panties in her (you never know, whatever gets her off right?) then that really shouldn't be much of a problem.

Reading your post I can't help but think this is a joke topic. If it isn't then you really don't know much about how the reproductive oranges work. Sex + Gril on Peroid = Bad timeing...You want a little kid running around?

[fikusroot]

Reading your post I can't help but think this is a joke topic. If it isn't then you really don't know much about how the reproductive oranges work.
well i dont know how the reproductive oranges work either but whats that got to do with anything? I bet you that orange is getting more action then me.

[ScarlettCrush]

ok dude, you lucked out because you actually had unprotected sex with her while she was ovulating and most likely to get pregnant. Dont ever have unprotected sex again. If you are going to have sex like a grown up, then be responsible about it by protecting her life and yours. Be a man.

[sgS2]

she is?!?!?! ^^^whattt

[Polymirize]

In other words, it seems you got lucky with the oranges this time. but be responsible for yourself and make sure you wear a helmet when exploring in the future... For another nervous thought, ask yourself if she's slept with anyone other than you.

[MudFu]

Sorry about the oranges part Lol organs. I ten to mistype a few things but you know what I mean Lol.

[sgS2]

ooooH! so i lucked out cuz shes having her period? hahaha im still a lil confused :/

[ScarlettCrush]

Women are most fertile three days before and during their period. We have eggs inside us that descend from the fallopian tubes and into the uterus. Once in the uterus they find a little home and wait for sperm to fertilize. Whie there the uterus builds up a layer of proteins that help to feed a baby and there is a hormone surge in the woman which causes increased sexual feelings. (also moodiness) The eggs will sit in her uterus for a few days ready to be inseminated and when they are not, her body will flush them out, this is why stuff comes out during period. It is not safe to have unprotected sex during this time because the eggs are not washed out first and are still inside there totally ready to make a person.
She will want to have sex with you because her body is ready to reproduce. You will want to have sex with her because on another level your body picks up on these hormones and instincts of hers and because you are both wanting to have a baby you have unprotected sex.
I'm seriously floored by your lack of knowlege, how can you work the equipment if you never read a manual?
Learn how we work, and for gods sake tell us you bought some condoms.
Be a man and not another punk who's just happy to be getting some and doesn't look out for his girl or his self.

[ScarlettCrush]

of course she is always fertile, and you have live sperm in your preseminal fluid. Preseminal fluid is that leaky stuff that comes out of your penis when you are erect and excited, someone else called it precum. You might not have felt like you had any, but preseminal fluid or "precum" does not have the same feelings that an orgasm feels, it is simply how a man's body works. You have it.
So even if you are pulling out, you are still filling her with sperm before you cum.
Yes you are incredibly lucky she isn't pregnant, didn't your dad talk to you about this stuff already?
If you care about her, and her life then use a condom. If you care about yourself, your education, your life and future, use a condom. If you want to be a man, use a condom. If you want to show you are responsible and smart enough to have consentual sex, then use a condom.
use a condom
use a condom
use a condom
use a condom

[ScarlettCrush]

and even though she is having her period, she could still be pregnant so to make sure she is not, no unprotected sex for two weeks after her cycle then take a test. stop fucking without a condom.

[hank]

having a baby sucks,

it will probably cost you an additional $35000 annually, so if u have two kids, your net income with your girlfriend should be $140000 or more, otherwise if u leave her, the corrupt government will take care of her with aid

:)

[DonnieDarko]

Both of you should stop having sex. Neither of you are ready to deal with the consequences.

I'm not sure where you are in life, but you should be working on an education, job, relationship skills, and having a plan for your life. After you get all that done, then love and sex will fall into place.

[MudFu]

I don't know about that but I do think they are both not ready by the sound of it.

[Make it Hempen]

Condoms! Now! Pullout doesn't work because there is pre-ejaculate semen that kinda ... seeps out before you cum. Even when using condoms, the nervousness is normal. Have fun and be safe!

- Kate

[sgS2]

k..i really dont get how i LUCKED out then...lol..if ur saying its easier to get pregnant when u have sex right b4 period...lol...and aboutt the condom thing, yea i was not educated about what to do ill admit that..bbut i didnt do that to be a jerk and ruin someones life alright, ppl fuck up at times and learn from it, just like i am now,..no need to get all on me n stuff :/

[ScarlettCrush]

don't get defensive dude, just buy some condoms.
And don't think you are out of the woods yet, women can have their period for months into a pregnancy and she could very well be pregnant now. If you have unprotected sex, or a condom break then call the local health department and ask for a morning after pill prescription. It is just one pill she can take 24-48 hours after unprotected sex, it floods her with hormones and makes a period start. It is about 95% effective and at $30 is a fuck of a lot cheaper than any of the alternatives.
You should also know that one in five people you meet has herpes, and many people with herpes do not know they even have it. Some people are born with it and it can be caught very easily from casual contact. If you have unprotected sex you will get it in no time. There is no cure.
If you guys think a condom feels unnatural, just wait till you feel what herpes is like.
Nothing get you laid faster than a cock full of sores. chicks dig it.

[MudFu]

See with girls and their period they become extra fertial. So a few days before their cycle till the end of their cycle they have a higher chance of getting pregnant. They can get pregnant at any time of the month but the chances are not as high. So you lucked out by not getting her pregnant while she was on her cycle.

[justinsane]

dude... what are you gonna name your kid?

[chilli]

ok i agree on using condoms. it doesnt make that much of a difference during sex, and make a hell of a difference where babies and diseases are concerned!!!

by the way, i've been wondering for some time now, sgS2 - please could you tell me, where did you get your avatar and is there anywhere i can find a bigger size on the net? i just LOVE it and want to print it out, but your avvie is a bit small. any suggestions where i can find it? google turned up nothing. i would be so grateful to anyone who knows. thank you!!!!! :rasta:

[ADaisyChain]

No use worrying about it. From now on use a condom, in a month if you're sick of worrying, buy a 7 dollar pregnancy test at wal greens, watch it test negative, and stop messing up.

If you're both std free, try the sponges they sell for like 15 dollars for a 12 pack. They let you have sex without the rubbery desentization of a condom. Much better experience and almost as effective. Just doesn't do anything for sex diseases.

As for those of you who told him to quit having sex because he's not ready....

lol.

ps - valtrex

[Midnight Baker]

Sex is a gift that should not be toyed with. You've gotten lucky thus far..ok...odds are not in your favor in the long run. Birth control of some kind should be used. Pre cum does have the chance to get a girl prego. yes that lil drop can mess up your life in a hurry. Dude would you rather have safe sex ie:still getting some, still cumming everyone likes sex...just be responsible about it. If you can't tell your parents your smoking weed...imagine how hard its going to be to tell em you knocked up your girl. yeah that'll be a fun time and a half...hmmm condoms n sex...talk with the parentals about knocking up your girll....tough one there eh.

[Midnight Baker]

btw a rubber will make you last longer if that makes a difference at all...just throwing that out there.

[Breukelen advocaat]

If your girlfriend gets pregnant, does not terminate it through abortion, and you do not marry her, you could very well be required to pay child support until the kid is 18 years old -in about 2024. If you're 16 or 17 years old now, it's more years of paying then the amount of time you been alive as of now. By the time you are 35, you'll have spent over HALF of your enitire life paying child support - not to mention all the other hassles of dealing with her and the child.

I've done the same thing you did, and this could have happened to me (or anybody for that matter) - but I was also "lucky". When I think about what could have resulted from this behavior, I don't know why I acted so stupidly those times. I guess it seemed like the right thing to do at the time, but definitly was NOT.

[lizka4200]

awww....condoms suck...birth control is the way to go..and one partner /....if theres more than one than birth control is only gonna solve half your problem

[420kidder]

Condoms or birth control. Obviously birth control feels the best for ya. It's only like $20/month, you can take turns buying it.

[Juggalotus]

Yeah, but the chance of getting pregnant while she's on birth control is extremely high.

[Smoking Ganja]

If you're both std free, try the sponges they sell for like 15 dollars for a 12 pack. They let you have sex without the rubbery desentization of a condom. Much better experience and almost as effective. Just doesn't do anything for sex diseases.


just make sure you are "spongeworthy"

[mikomomma]

if you are young, even if you are new at this like you said, a condom could help you out. I dated a guy once who had a difficult time keepin it up, condom helped.

[sgS2]

yes i know :/ i screwed up and ill be honest...i wasnt educated haha..scarlett im sorry i was trying to say stuff when i shouldnt have been cuz i wasnt even smart enough to research b4 doing it..it just like..happened outta nowhere..honestly didnt think i was going to do that with her that day..HONESTLY...yea..i didnt have sex w/ her DURING her period... the period started AFFFTER the 3rd time we did it.....and yea...she seems FINE right now..and she says shes not really worried...im still gettin her tested at the parenthood clinic FORSURE! haha..and yes yes..condoms and BC all the way next time.....but recently she got a kanker sore on her gum..not sure if its nehting to worry about..but ill probally get paranoid if she said she had a LITTLE stomach ache even..lol..well..thanks for ur guy's and gal's input and thought..im still not in the clear...but..hope things work out good..bcuz i sure as hell learned my lesson

[sgS2]

OH AND..for the avatar, this is the biggest one i could find :/ http://kr.img.image.yahoo.com/ygi/gallery/img/79/28/41034fec97c90.jpg?410788ac

[NathanDigweed]

i thank god my girls on the pill, unless its a serious relationship condoms all the way there too many nasties out there as well as the risk of her getting pregnent, be safe, wear a helmet and dont smoke cheap hash!! :rasta:

[sgS2]

i thank god my girls on the pill, unless its a serious relationship condoms all the way there too many nasties out there as well as the risk of her getting pregnent, be safe, wear a helmet and dont smoke cheap hash!! :rasta:

good lookin :rasta: