would getting head be considered cheating

[friendowl]

ive been with my lady for 5 years.shes cool and she lets me hit whenever i want and shes good in bed but she dont like giving head.shes tried but she doesnt like it.i dont really mind cuz shes good to me but there is some female i know who will just start sucking as soon as i whip it out.no kissing no touching none of that its more like i say are you hungry and she says always.i say whats for lunch and she says you.i say what time is lunch.after i smoke a bowl and forget about it.i dont feel bad cuz i dont kiss her and shit but what do you people think.id like to hear from the ladies point of view and the fellas.by the way when we were in vegas she offered to pay some girl to give me a bj so i just figured id save her money and get it for free.

[beachguy in thongs]

Yeah. Even talking to another girl is cheating.

Sorry, though. You wanted to hear from a girl. This is from experience over the past five years with the most straight-up girl you'll meet.

Also, sorry for not reading your post before I answered. My ex-g/f would consider chatting online with a girl cheating.

[Make it Hempen]

Hmm... that last part kind of makes it sound like she is disappointed that she cannot pleasure you in that way but she wants you to experience it. ... but as for this other girl... if this is an on-going thing... I dont know. I just know that I would be PISSED if I found out my boyfriend was getting head from another girl, even if they never kissed or anything.

Just tell your girlfriend you really like it and that you'll give her oral in return and she'll probably do it for you...

- Kate

[ADaisyChain]

ask her

[ladyM]

It wouldnt be very good for my husband if he was getting head somewhere else!
We are married, not dead. We can both look, but no touch. I would have to go postal on him and her for that shit. And I am not even a jealous woman. But then my old man doesnt need to go elsewhere.
Damn, where else has that chicks mouth been? If shes having you for lunch, who was breakfast and dinner, let alone bed time snack?

[Make it Hempen]

Damn, where else has that chicks mouth been? If shes having you for lunch, who was breakfast and dinner, let alone bed time snack?

Hahaha! Good point, Lady!

- Kate

[Psycho4Bud]

"i dont really mind cuz shes good to me but"

Don't mind but? But what? It seems this is an issue for ya. Better just discuss it open with her and IF it is an issue for ya then....better to leave now than to get busted later! :thumbsup:


I had to look in on this one! I had a buddy back when I was 20 that took the same proposal to his wife. DAMN, the boy had himself one HELL of a black eye!

[DonnieDarko]

The girl that sucks yur dick is a psycho and will find a way to break up the relationship.

[Euphoric]

oi
dump your girlfriend
you already have a rebound
enjoy
:)

[theprettiestprincess]

From the 8th grade to the 11th grade I was with the same guy and we had sex but he always wanted me to do that. I never did and with my permission he would get it from other girls(no kissing or touching also) and I didn't care at all, never gave it a thought. Now that I really think about it, that was not the serious relationship that we claimed to have. If you love someone you have to accept the fact that they don't like to do certain things and just let it go. So in other words of course its cheating.

[Corporal Punishment]

just stop messin around with that whore and stop taking your gf for granted!

[friendowl]

ask her thats the funniest one yet

[1234abcd]

your a fucking idiot if you can't figure that one out on your own.

[friendowl]

fuck you 1234 with your non pimping ass.i know what the fuck i know i just wanted to hear some opinions.i dont really care what you think but when you speak and call me an idiot well its on.first of all if you knew me i guarantee you that you wouldnt be talking this way.im very much into respect so ill let this go but watch your mouth.

[lizka4200]

hey mayeb some girls dont mind who knows..

[Pichacho]

i dont think my gf particularly likes giving head, which shes done a few times, and only to me. but i love her and she loves me, and she sometimes does it. if your relationship means anything to you, and if you mean enough to her, she might do it for you, but not regularly.

as for what we consider cheating, hugs are totally cool (shes a big hugger). she also likes going to school dances and shit, and i dont really, so she goes with her friends, and as long as she doesnt do anything dumb, its cool. like, if a guy kisses her (which has happened), and she doesnt let it do anywhere, its cool. by kiss, i mean a single kiss, not making out. i wouldnt be so happy with that. and in turn, i dont do anything dumb when shes not around. look but dont touch. shes got PLENTY of eye candy all over the school. ive got my fair share too;)

[ADaisyChain]

Alot of people would deem you an insensitive asshole, but I'm more of half-full type of guy and like to think you're probably just really self-centered, ignorant, and horny. If you were really all about respect like you claim, you'd ask her if she thinks of it as cheating. Because until she says its not, it is.

[BalliN]

Yeah. Even talking to another girl is cheating.

Sorry, though. You wanted to hear from a girl. This is from experience over the past five years with the most straight-up girl you'll meet.

Also, sorry for not reading your post before I answered. My ex-g/f would consider chatting online with a girl cheating.


fuck that shit

[beachguy in thongs]

fuck that shit

If you think you can...

That's what happened with the first girl I talked with over the internet, because I allowed that girl to call me. It was like cheating to her.

[jweed]

hummmm

[hawaiianstyle]

Its only cheating if you cum on her face.

[friendowl]

self-centered yes. i am at the center of my world. horny yes i love making love to females ignorant no.it seems to me that the ones who know dont talk and the ones who talk dont know

[Reefer Rogue]

It's cheating yeah, but keep getting the head.

[powair]

My boyfriend got head from another girl. He told me when we were on acid, so I don't think he's lying. He said she was just like, "i wanna give you head" and he was like, ok and whipped it out. But he said she was sucking it and she just didn't turn him on and it was soft hehehehehehe. So he told her "you dont turn me on" and it ended awkwardly.

He was crying when he told me this. He's so cute! Anyway, I wasn't mad at all. He can do stuff with other girls if he wants, as long as he wears a condom and tells me. I dont think he has any interest though.

[friendowl]

let the dog roam and hell find his way home..great attitude

[reallybaked]

I was at a local biker rally awhile back and there was a camp with a huge sign hanging between 2 trees. Sign said "Suckin' ain't fuckin' & Eatin' ain't cheatin'!!" Thought it was pretty cool. What went on in the camp was even cooler! ;)

[tankgirl]

i <3 to give head i do it when ever i can to my BF.....but i guess yah i would consider it cheating..and she must be a slut.....lol :p

[Nikita123]

ive been with my lady for 5 years.shes cool and she lets me hit whenever i want and shes good in bed but she dont like giving head.shes tried but she doesnt like it.i dont really mind cuz shes good to me but there is some female i know who will just start sucking as soon as i whip it out.no kissing no touching none of that its more like i say are you hungry and she says always.i say whats for lunch and she says you.i say what time is lunch.after i smoke a bowl and forget about it.i dont feel bad cuz i dont kiss her and shit but what do you people think.id like to hear from the ladies point of view and the fellas.by the way when we were in vegas she offered to pay some girl to give me a bj so i just figured id save her money and get it for free.

Our ex-prez didn't think it was cheating......LOL!

Follow his example. :D

[slipknotpsycho]

a friend of mine used to say "eating aint' cheating" (so if oral on a girl isn't cehating then i'm sure he woudlnt' consider oral on aguy cheating) it is, not matter what way you look at it... cheating is having relations with another person, while in a relationship. that includes anything that isn't strictly friendly (talk to a girl, that's not cheating, kissing her, fucking her, oral sex and any of that shit that involves closeness of any type, is cheating.)

[powair]

let the dog roam and hell find his way home..great attitude

Exactly. It seems to me, and my boyfriend too, that a guy feels the need to fuck around with other people because its like, once you can't have it, you want it. If he knows he's allowed to do it, it kind of takes the purpose away. But really I wouldn't mind anyway. The only thing that's important to me is that he lets me know.

[beachguy in thongs]

a friend of mine used to say "eating aint' cheating"
But all you have to do, is "ch"...If you don't, you're a "ch"eater.

[sMOkeY bOB]

powair ur an awesome chick, y cant females take more of an example from you, ur so understanding its scary ur man is one hell of a lucky fula,

[powair]

I really appreciate you saying that. :) thank you

[420kidder]

Yeah really. :) My girlfriend and I have not the same type of relationship. We sometimes will like have a threesome with one of her guy friends, and I can't say it's not awesome because it really is, but I don't think she would be quite as lax. =) Definitely stay this way if it works for you, it's a great way to think.

[newbySmoker]

Cheating or not , its wrong . You are lucky enough to have a good relationship with what sounds like a nice girl for 5 years ,,, and even risking it just to get your junk wet is stupid.

[sMOkeY bOB]

ahh dont sweat it, i jus wish more woman were so understanding as you, ur so laid back, y the hell are woman so messed up i jus dont understand

[Stoner Shadow Wolf]

would consentual polygamy be considered cheating?



where can i find another polygamist?!? :(

[powair]

ahh dont sweat it, i jus wish more woman were so understanding as you, ur so laid back, y the hell are woman so messed up i jus dont understand

Shit I know what you mean about that. Most chicks are fucked in the head. I'm almost ashamed that I am one. :p

[floydzeppelinfan]

I never get blowjobs from my girlfriend...... only sex :pimp:

[motorcycletony222]

Who cares if its cheating. What are you going to do, marry your gf? Most end in divorce. Fuck every thing that comes your way, youll be happier in your old age.

[beachguy in thongs]

Especially, with Herpes.

[motorcycletony222]

Its just a blister.