When engaged in sex.. (help)

[JackNoble]

Okay. Here's my problem.. I have no trouble at all satisfying her IF it's my second time having sex that day. I can go for hours, whatever, just think around it, right? But the first time it's like 4 minutes. Wtf, huh? Why is this and what can I do to fix it?

[MyAntiDrugIsAmy]

masturbate before you see her that day

[Stoner Shadow Wolf]

the first cum of the day is always the quickest, you've been asleep and inactive for so long... it's only logical.


give it a wank beforehand.

[ATLien]

yea if u jerk off beforehand then itll give u a little longer to fuck without bustin ur load. I should have used that method.

[beachguy in thongs]

Well, then the second time you fuck her will be your third time. Don't blow a load when you jerk off and you'll build up your muscles. I heard it from a sex therapist when I was little. You kind of train yourself to skip the orgasm.

[powair]

Can't you make her cum in 4 minutes? ;)

[pikes peak 69]

Hey powair, that's what I was thinking. My wife says that she starts cumming as soon as I slip it in.

[Fengzi]

Hey powair, that's what I was thinking. My wife says that she starts cumming as soon as I slip it in.
I'm not sure who's luckier , you or your wife.

[friendowl]

rub some icy/hot all over your dick and see what happens

[straight]

^^^^^^^FUCK NO!!! that hurts so BAD!!!!

[slipknotpsycho]

^^^^^^^FUCK NO!!! that hurts so BAD!!!!
rofl, i take it you've tried that then.....
once (when i was working for sonic) i came home and forgot to wash my hands....and me and my wife get busy....well lets just say i eventually found out that i had jalapeno juice all over my hands about 30 seconds too late....

[beachguy in thongs]

rub some icy/hot all over your dick and see what happens

No, No, No...that stuff is for brushing your teeth.

[Fengzi]

^^^^^^^FUCK NO!!! that hurts so BAD!!!!
No, no no. The correct term is "Hurts sooooo good" ;)

[turtle420]

Okay. Here's my problem.. I have no trouble at all satisfying her IF it's my second time having sex that day. I can go for hours, whatever, just think around it, right? But the first time it's like 4 minutes. Wtf, huh? Why is this and what can I do to fix it?

Stop jerking off alone dude...

If you jerk off alone, then your body/mind is conditioned to have the orgasm relatively quick... Sex, on the other hand, shouldn't be quick... unless it's a quickie

But, if you jerk off a lot, you 'cum' very fast... you don't take 3 hours to jerk off, do you?

If all your jerk-off's are with your woman, slowly but surely you'll last longer and longer... until your body/mind is re-conditioned to go those 3 hours of sex before going fireworks on her...

Hope this helps.

[JackNoble]

Kay.

[beachguy in thongs]

I don't know, but I can jerk-off for three hours alone.

[Stoner Shadow Wolf]

i just need the damn alone time :P

[KoRnStaR]

Okay. Here's my problem.. I have no trouble at all satisfying her IF it's my second time having sex that day. I can go for hours, whatever, just think around it, right? But the first time it's like 4 minutes. Wtf, huh? Why is this and what can I do to fix it?

If only I had "problems" like these, I'd be a happy fucking man.

[Garden Knowm]

Stop jerking off alone dude...

If you jerk off alone, then your body/mind is conditioned to have the orgasm relatively quick... Sex, on the other hand, shouldn't be quick... unless it's a quickie

But, if you jerk off a lot, you 'cum' very fast... you don't take 3 hours to jerk off, do you?

If all your jerk-off's are with your woman, slowly but surely you'll last longer and longer... until your body/mind is re-conditioned to go those 3 hours of sex before going fireworks on her...

Hope this helps.


CORRECT again... damn it!!! grrrrrrrr



4 minutes is fine...

do the math

1 minute kissing
2 minutes sucking on tits
20 minutes her sucking your kack
1 minute didling her poon
4 minutes eating poon
4 minutes pony ride

that's 32 minutes of sex according to my calculations


that's perfect... if she wants another pony ride.. so be it..
it will probably require another few minutes of blowing the KACK..

i love you

[AcidFreak]

So since I jerk off a decent amount, and come in a few minutes, if I stop jackin' off will I last a long time having sex? Or what?

[beachguy in thongs]

A sex expert said the best way to build up your stamina is to masturbate and then stop before ejaculation.

[Juggalotus]

coming from a guy who just lost his virginity :P, anyways yeah, that is true...but that takes months. Everything you're goin to hear takes time...so stop jacking off..

[beachguy in thongs]

My mouth, if it is. I don't know. I'm editing and fucked up;

[hank]

That sort of reminds me,

I lost my girl about a week ago, so due to the lonliness, I jerked off,

then I had to stop and swing my shoulders because the back part of it became sore, ....

yeah... when you have sex, the penis does learn how to control itself

[zomg]

Can't you make her cum in 4 minutes? ;)
lets see if i can make you cum in 4 mins :cool:

[zomgs wife]

/\ bitch even as a 6 year old boy u wouldnt be able to make michael jackson cum in 4 minutes... OOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!

[zomg]

/\ bitch even as a 6 year old boy u wouldnt be able to make michael jackson cum in 4 minutes... OOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!
i make your mom cum just by yanking on those udders feeg. :dance:

[hank]

try this

When you are peeing in a bathroom (I'm assuming you are a guy)

Try to stop the pee from coming out, then letting it go, then make it come out

It basically exercises the same muscle that helps you control your cum, that is called multi orgasm training, you don't need to pee, you can do it without peeing when the muscle is built up enough and you can feel it

[zomg]

try this

When you are peeing in a bathroom (I'm assuming you are a guy)

Try to stop the pee from coming out, then letting it go, then make it come out

It basically exercises the same muscle that helps you control your cum, that is called multi orgasm training, you don't need to pee, you can do it without peeing when the muscle is built up enough and you can feel it
yo hank is a PIMP!! :pimp:

[MullManiac]

i make your mom cum just by yanking on those udders feeg. :dance:
Yeah well i can make you mom cum just by pointing at her and saying 'Booya'!

[zomg]

Yeah well i can make you mom cum just by pointing at her and saying 'Booya'!
youve practiced too much on you daddy though, so it doesnt count

[zman0185]

fuck all that jack off before hand crap turtle420 was right do it with your girl on a regular basis and you should start to build up.also it helps to tell yourself mentally when you have sex that this is for her.your whole goal is to not focus on the feeling in your cock and see what happens.works for me.see i figure it like this wemen generally take longer to come and as for me im going to come no matter what and in this case better late than sooner.eventually it will get to the point when,when you see her comeing youll come.seeing all those funy faces she makes and knowing i did that just does it for me.good luck to ya..z

[Onelove420]

yeah just dont go in with a loaded gun.

[Doobie Snax]

try this

When you are peeing in a bathroom (I'm assuming you are a guy)

Try to stop the pee from coming out, then letting it go, then make it come out

It basically exercises the same muscle that helps you control your cum, that is called multi orgasm training, you don't need to pee, you can do it without peeing when the muscle is built up enough and you can feel it

I can do that, ain't it great. Booya!

[justinsane]

ive only been able to make a girl cum with the first 1 minute like 5 out of 50 times
but i have the similiar problem. i usually jizzle within 5 mintues, but i found a helpful tip
keep switching positions until you find one that you cant feel too much of. like if shes on her back, youll blow faster, if shes on top, you can last quite a bit longer.... and if its doggy style... lets just hope you can get it in there before you blow

[bellaluna]

get a book on tantric sex; opens up a whole new world for you boys. also, those claiming their women cum instantly, my money says she's lying to protect your ego. statistically speaking, a woman who cums on penatration is a freak of nature (plenty of research to support this, read a few studies. these studies also support the fact that MOST women fake it - OFTEN). if it's true, she is unbelievably rare and lucky. :-)

[Doobie Snax]

Man i'm 16, and my girlfriend lost her virginity to me on Sunday just gone, and i know what a girl does when they come. They seem to tighten all their leg muscles, along with theyre pussy and sort of squeeze, maybe even arch their back a lil depending on who it is, and she did that more than once, but i was only going for about 25 minutes until i came. I'm not sure if that's good or bad. Like i said, im 16 lol

[bellaluna]

all you list is certainly an indication she's into it, and may very well be climaxing. Then again, nothing you list can't be faked. Did she squirt? I don't mean was she wet, did she ejaculate?

BTW, new here and not trying to piss anybody off, just thought a middle aged female perspective from someone who has studied sexuality professionally AND personally for 2+ decades might be unique around here. :-)

[zomgs wife]

i make your mom cum just by yanking on those udders feeg. :dance:
I make both your grandma and your mom cum just by dancing on their feet and stepping real hard on their finger nails! They told me it turns them on when i lick them inbetween the buttcheaks!

[Doobie Snax]

all you list is certainly an indication she's into it, and may very well be climaxing. Then again, nothing you list can't be faked. Did she squirt? I don't mean was she wet, did she ejaculate?

BTW, new here and not trying to piss anybody off, just thought a middle aged female perspective from someone who has studied sexuality professionally AND personally for 2+ decades might be unique around here. :-)

Well as i was inside her i wasn't paying much attention or waiting by her entrance with a cup lol. But she said she did, and if she did, it happened more than once.