Why is it so hard for a Girl to get a Girl?

[Sincity69]

Hey all,
I'm a 20 year old, average looking college student. For the past year, i have wanted so badly to fool around with a girl (do everything). Its to the point where it is driving me crazy, i want it so bad. Only problem is I dont know how to go about getting a girl?!? I have girl friends, but i could never ever ask them to do anything. I don't usually go to any crazy wild parties where that stuff might be taking place. So im not sure what options im left with. I went on one of these sex sites to try to find a girl, i even paid the 24 bucks, and still had no luck. I dont even know if half the girls on those sites are real. Im alomost thinkin my only option is to pay a professional. I dunno any ideas? ;)

I attached a pic of me, let me know if maybe its me? Sorry its really really blurry, cell phone pic.

[Strikerrr]

nah your pretty. If I was a girl I'd be down. sorry I'm not though, but I'm still down.

[slipknotpsycho]

get really drunk and go to mardi gras or something :D

[Euphoric]

Weird first post...
You do smoke cannabis yes??:upsidedow

[chakruh]

most likely your girlfriends are thinking the same thing.they want some pussy 2.. but you need to annitiate and take action... just go for it... dont forget to film it

[Euphoric]

DUDE its initiate.
secondly, your advice was right on.
probably.
:stoned:

[Mojavpa]

Just go to a lesbian bar or find out if your city has cruising locations. If not, drive to a bigger city where they have lesbian clubs/bars. If that fails, I'm sure there must be a site like gay.com for lesbians; i'm surprised you couldnt find any free lesbian chat rooms. Good luck!

[beachguy in thongs]

Yahoo! has lesbian chat. Also, local rooms. I'm a moderator in the lesbian chat room.

[KeanBean]

well its deff not your looks

[powair]

It shouldnt be difficult at all. You may have to initiate it but if you're interested in the first place, that shouldnt be a problem. I have never had difficulty finding bi/lesbian girls. They're everywhere.

[kobeite]

Where are ya? I could be with you :D I'm pretty hot myself :)
Only problem with lesbian bars is that you get some butt ugly butch looking women there. NOT too appealing.

[activedenial]

Your face is fine, but you could be a fat. So no I wouldn't hit it.

[Goodman3eb]

I think if you just started a casual convo with one of your girlfriends about "have you ever messed around with another girl or wanted to?", it could lead to some good times. It couldn't hurt, anyway.

[kobeite]

Dude, you cannot ask your girlfriends to do something like this. You gotta go with a hot stranger, definitely.

[mellow mood]

lesbs are everywhere

dont u know any lesb bars, sites, chats, anything

i mean there even are plenty of gay clubs in college.

[GypsyyWomyn]

Hey all,
I'm a 20 year old, average looking college student. For the past year, i have wanted so badly to fool around with a girl (do everything). Its to the point where it is driving me crazy, i want it so bad. Only problem is I dont know how to go about getting a girl?!? I have girl friends, but i could never ever ask them to do anything. I don't usually go to any crazy wild parties where that stuff might be taking place. So im not sure what options im left with. I went on one of these sex sites to try to find a girl, i even paid the 24 bucks, and still had no luck. I dont even know if half the girls on those sites are real. Im alomost thinkin my only option is to pay a professional. I dunno any ideas? ;)

I attached a pic of me, let me know if maybe its me? Sorry its really really blurry, cell phone pic.

As a lover of women, I can tell you it's not your looks...you're lovely
:dance:
But I've been a lesbian a long time and I still have a problem with gay women approaching me because they think I'm not gay...
Get a girlfriend or two and go to a gay club, one that's mostly frequented by women, have a drink (or three) and give it some time.
You'll be approached before you know it.
Word of caution: As with any club atmosphere, there are always people trolling for a one night stands. Please, be careful and be smart...

[purpledrummer1]

Hey all,
I'm a 20 year old, average looking college student. For the past year, i have wanted so badly to fool around with a girl (do everything). Its to the point where it is driving me crazy, i want it so bad. Only problem is I dont know how to go about getting a girl?!? I have girl friends, but i could never ever ask them to do anything. I don't usually go to any crazy wild parties where that stuff might be taking place. So im not sure what options im left with. I went on one of these sex sites to try to find a girl, i even paid the 24 bucks, and still had no luck. I dont even know if half the girls on those sites are real. Im alomost thinkin my only option is to pay a professional. I dunno any ideas? ;)

I attached a pic of me, let me know if maybe its me? Sorry its really really blurry, cell phone pic.
Try going into ginger beer (google it). It's a lesbian chat room.

[tokosan]

just grab a hold and dont let go

[chix4bud]

where do u live... curious hetero :rasta:

[budsbuddy]

sometimes I feel like I am a lesbian trapped inside a man's body. Maybe I could help:D;):D

[purpledrummer1]

Your face is fine, but you could be a fat. So no I wouldn't hit it.
That's just downright rude. What's wrong with you?

[beachguy in thongs]

Yahoo! has lesbian chat. Also, local rooms. I'm a moderator in the lesbian chat room.
I'm ashamed, I shouldn't have lied like that. All I know is that they have lesbian chat. :stoned:

[chix4bud]

[ All I know is that they have lesbian chat. :stoned:[/QUOTE]
ill second that :D

[Make it Hempen]

Ahh! Me too! I am really curious about sex with a girl... but I haven't been able to find one to be like... hey. you. me. mmhm.

... where do you live? Just curious. :)

- Kate

[chix4bud]

ill answer you since she wont..... indiana :D U? oh duh atlanta just saw that

[Make it Hempen]

Awww. Yeah Atlanta and Indiana are quite lengthy from one another. I was looking at applying to Valparaiso in Indiana.

Well, then let's meet halfway and bang.

Love- K8

[chix4bud]

im from birmingham ala maybe ill visit the relatives

[Sincity69]

Hey guys! Sorry its taken me a while to get back. I live in Sin city ;) Las Vegas!! Its awesome but im not 21 yet so its hard to go to any lesbian clubs or things in that nature. Plus i dont know if i would be into that. Im not looking for a relationship here, just a good one night stand ;). Even a 3 sum would be awesome. Ive done the whole chat room thing, and that just hasnt worked out. So ya still hunting...no luck yet. Maybe one day.

[jahjahjahjah]

Hi honey u live in vegas and still cant find a girl? id be glad to have sex with u but i moved from Colorado to London England.

[zomg]

Your face is fine, but you could be a fat. So no I wouldn't hit it.
since when did this become wouldyouhitthis? secondly, nice bloody avatar...lastly, you have to take the first step, you said you dont go to those crazy parties...well start like wtf? if you want oit that bad, do something about it other than over a computer...and you are sexy, so its the laziness thats stopping you from your goal. good luck

[Green Love]

I don't have problems talking 2 women, or hooking up. Ya'll mush be lacking some mojo juice. lol

[zomgs wife]

i got problems... serious problems... i have indian battle camps growing out of my forehead!

[zomg]

i got problems... serious problems... i have indian battle camps growing out of my forehead!
and ive got the cowboys to fuck them up with bits!!!!!

[zomgs wife]

NAZ BITS YA BITS MAWFUCKA! IT'S BITZ!! LASS TIME I TELL YA DIS SHIT OR I B CUMMIN TO YA HOUSE N I B PERSONALLY FUKKIN YO SOFA!!!

[robert42]

well this lil asian would...

[SensiRide]

sometimes I feel like I am a lesbian trapped inside a man's body. Maybe I could help:D;):D

trippy avatar!

[hank]

bi's have a sort of a freedom, the bi girls i knew, like a person in control, but they don't like to be controlled, because... they have a freedom, they know that deep within us, we are all sexual beings... and that's why i like bi's

well, getting girls for a lesbian is the same as a guy gets a girl, the worst you can get is "I'm not lesbian, or whatever..."

Don't get me wrong, i'm totally straight...

[Smoking Ganja]

i dont see how it could be so difficult specially in college... get drunk and go to some party ..your bound to hook up with another chick if u want to

[Stoner Shadow Wolf]

it cant be any harder for you to get a girl than it is me -_-

[DirkZooDiggler]

So why do you wanna experiment with a girl? Definitely not judging u or anything...I understand it's personal so u can just ignore this post if ya want...I was just curious

[zomg]

So why do you wanna experiment with a girl? Definitely not judging u or anything...I understand it's personal so u can just ignore this post if ya want...I was just curious
this guy wants to spank it to your post!! :p

[hls420]

curious about gals.....I'm in michigan, 30.....female.....

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I turn straight girls gay. Lol, seriously most girls are bi, if not atleast curious. Be flirty, that's what I do; throw in pet names (love, sweetheart, dollface, ect) and be a touchy person (hug girls when you first meet them vs. handshakes or what ever, touch their arm when you talk to them, ect). I'm quite open about my bisexuality and I've had straight girls approach me because of it. I don't go around screaming "I LIKE PUSSY" but I do make jokes and tease my friends. Maybe be a little more joking about homosexuality/bisexuality and more light-hearted about it and I'm sure your girl friends will be as well. You could always start a truth or dare session or "would you ever" to find out their beliefs on the matter.

You're gorgeous by the way so don't think any other way, gay girls might be intimidated by you if they aren't approaching you. (crazy chickies) If you're ever in Jersey gimme a ring <3

[kiki]

i wouldn't think it'd be that hard if you're a college student. i'm 19 and also in college, and there's tons of clubs and groups for LGBT or curious people and places for them to meet. i admit hooking up with a girl is something i've always wondered about, but i think i'd be too weirded out if i was actually in the situation... i've made out with my girlfriends while drunk before but nothing else.

[Vaughn Bardot]

Your face is fine, but you could be a fat. So no I wouldn't hit it.

Oh shit man, that's fucked lmao

[Easy Roller]

Hey all,
I'm a 20 year old, average looking college student. For the past year, i have wanted so badly to fool around with a girl (do everything). Its to the point where it is driving me crazy, i want it so bad. Only problem is I dont know how to go about getting a girl?!? I have girl friends, but i could never ever ask them to do anything. I don't usually go to any crazy wild parties where that stuff might be taking place. So im not sure what options im left with. I went on one of these sex sites to try to find a girl, i even paid the 24 bucks, and still had no luck. I dont even know if half the girls on those sites are real. Im alomost thinkin my only option is to pay a professional. I dunno any ideas? ;)

I attached a pic of me, let me know if maybe its me? Sorry its really really blurry, cell phone pic.


Go to a gay bar and flop one out

[jacquelyne]

I was with a girl for over 1 year.I was curious so i did it and liked it for a while.She was a bit too serious about the whole thing though it was more of a fun thing for me but i still talk to her sometimes but we live in different states now.And another time with my friend.The first girl was good.The second was not.Have a look on gay.com there are a few dirty lesbians or bi girls on there lol.PS dont do it with a friend that you want to keep.

[WeedFaerie420]

I'm guessing you haven't "come out" as bisexual or a lesbian yet? I'm bi but not "out" with most people and I know how hard it can be. If I didn't have a boyfriend right now i'd date women and since I have never had an actual girlfriend before and am not "out", I've had a hard time meeting girls. I met one girl one time over the internet, just from a chat room and thank god it worked out. She was hot as hell and we hooked up after talking on the phone for a while and knowing what eachother looks like. You should maybe do internet dating like that? Or maybe there are gay bars/nightclubs or clubs at school. -shrug- You look very pretty by your picture and Im sure plenty of females would be willing to fulfill your fantasies- good luck!

[WeedFaerie420]

I turn straight girls gay. Lol, seriously most girls are bi, if not atleast curious. Be flirty, that's what I do; throw in pet names (love, sweetheart, dollface, ect) and be a touchy person (hug girls when you first meet them vs. handshakes or what ever, touch their arm when you talk to them, ect). I'm quite open about my bisexuality and I've had straight girls approach me because of it. I don't go around screaming "I LIKE PUSSY" but I do make jokes and tease my friends. Maybe be a little more joking about homosexuality/bisexuality and more light-hearted about it and I'm sure your girl friends will be as well. You could always start a truth or dare session or "would you ever" to find out their beliefs on the matter.

You're gorgeous by the way so don't think any other way, gay girls might be intimidated by you if they aren't approaching you. (crazy chickies) If you're ever in Jersey gimme a ring <3


Good advice! It makes me think that this girl I'm friends with in class who I have a crush on, may be flirting with me. She looks like she'd be bi but it's hard to tell unless they are out & wearing rainbows or are the butch type.

[MaryJaneintheCloset]

Good advice! It makes me think that this girl I'm friends with in class who I have a crush on, may be flirting with me. She looks like she'd be bi but it's hard to tell unless they are out & wearing rainbows or are the butch type.

Yeah, I've actually been wondering the same thing about this chick I just met a few months back... :confused:

[beachguy in thongs]

Yeah, I've actually been wondering the same thing about this chick I just met a few months back... :confused:

Stop teasing! You're married!!!

[MaryJaneintheCloset]

Stop teasing! You're married!!!

I'm not teasing! I'm being completely serious... and either way, I'm bi. So if I want to play, play I will. :)

[letsdoit]

I had never thought about until just recently. My husband saw two drunk girls making out in public and thought it was really cool. Initally I thought he was crazy, but then I told my girlfriend about it and I was shocked by her thoughts on it. We both really wanted to try it but her husband wasnt cool with it.
We think it was because he was not here and hadnt been home for 3 months and didnt want his wife messing around while he was gone....he wanted to watch too. So we were going to have a bbq and get drunk, then see how he felt about it....who knows if it will happen.

It sounds like if you are willing to travel you would have no problem! Let me know if you are ever in washington!

good luck!

[CrAzYpOtHeAd]

Thats not even "her". You can tell because for ONE it has a white background and TWO you can see the way the light reflects off it, its REALLY obvoius that someone has just held up a picture from a magazine or something to they're webcam. Thats what it looks like.

Seroiusly, i would be carefull, this was someones FIRST post and that pic looks VERY dodgy. I really would'nt be suprised if that was some phycotic man trying to get together with a woman from the internet. I would be VERY carefull, it can be dangeroius. and that pic looks VERY VERY dodgy!

[letsdoit]

this guy wants to spank it to your post!! :p

thats what I was thinking too!!!hahaha:D

[letsdoit]

I attached a pic of me, let me know if maybe its me? Sorry its really really blurry, cell phone pic.[/QUOTE]


???:confused: let you know wha??

[beachguy in thongs]

So if I want to play, play I will. :)
Didn't you learn anything in chemistry class?

Two plays equal a negative.

[MaryJaneintheCloset]

You continue to elude me, BeachMan...

[beachguy in thongs]

Well, I'll stand still for ya'. :smokin:

[MaryJaneintheCloset]

I wanted to tell you that I enjoy your profile pic. That's exactly how I picture you. Do you actually live on the beach?

[beachguy in thongs]

I live a little over a mile from the boardwalk. Right here:


(And this was what Katrina looked like out my window.)

[MaryJaneintheCloset]

Ohhh wow, that's awesome, BeachGuy. So you must be over there like, everyday when the weather is nice? I've never been up there, but I've heard it's beautiful. :)

[gramzzilla420]

i have a close friend who let me know she would be down for it... maybe someday... i wouldn't want our friendship to change tho...