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drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 05:49 PM
I was just wondring if there any women who actually prefer short guys? It just seems that most women's ideal man is tall, dark and handsome. Well I have dark hair and don't think I've hit the ugly tree too much but I'm 5ft4 which makes me pretty damn teeny.

Yet lotsa girls seem to like Michael J Fox, Seth Green and Kelly Jones from the 'phonics who are all bout the same height as me. Maybe I just need to become famous lol!

Any thoughts welcome :)

flamingskullballs
10-19-2005, 06:00 PM
i tend to like short girls...which is good for me cause im 5'9"...not too terribly tall, but cause they are usually quite a few inches shorter then me, they see me as "tall"...

i dont know man....women are strange...ive seen the goofiest, short, pale guy kissing hot babes...its crazy...

just be you, and wear boots...cause they might add an inch....haha, sorry....that may of been a bit low (no pun intended)

SensiRide
10-19-2005, 06:00 PM
I was just wondring if there any women who actually prefer short guys? It just seems that most women's ideal man is tall, dark and handsome. Well I have dark hair and don't think I've hit the ugly tree too much but I'm 5ft4 which makes me pretty damn teeny.

Yet lotsa girls seem to like Michael J Fox, Seth Green and Kelly Jones from the 'phonics who are all bout the same height as me. Maybe I just need to become famous lol!

Any thoughts welcome :)

I personally prefer men to be taller than me (5.4ft) or at least the same height but def not smaller, it wouldnt feel right

buddymyfriend
10-19-2005, 06:07 PM
It's all about short girls, im 6' 2'' and just lurrrve ickle girls. If your taller than me honey, i'll prob run off scared

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 06:07 PM
Flamingskull funnily enough I do have a pair of "rock boots" that have really thick soles with metal bits round the bottom which I wear if I go out to rock nites, they served me well on Sat nite but 1 of the ladies I kissed gave me the flu which wasn't good :(

Short girls always seem to be popular with blokes which makes more competition for lil ol' me :(

I could always backcomb my hair that might add a few inches lol :D

TonyD
10-19-2005, 06:08 PM
I think most women probably do prefer men to be taller than them, but its not that much of a disadvantage mate you can compensate with good humour, and character.

flamingskullballs
10-19-2005, 06:09 PM
and maybe they dont mean tall as in full body height??? (wink wink)

flamingskullballs
10-19-2005, 06:10 PM
oh yeah, buddy...if a girl i met was taller then 6' 2" i think i would run also...

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 06:10 PM
I do have a pretty good sense of humour as far as I'm aware and I'm not some kind of player either. Its just I'm 25 now and I wonder how long I can do the whole "cute" thing for!

TonyD
10-19-2005, 06:12 PM
Until your 30 mate then your pushing it.

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 06:13 PM
Ah well 5 more years!Then I may have to grow up (no pun intended!)Still I don't look 25 which is no bad thing I guess!

flamingskullballs
10-19-2005, 06:14 PM
yeah, and then you start losing massive amounts of hair...and then all of your friends are married...and then you win the lotto...and then you dont gota get married, cause your rich and women will fall to your feet...

SensiRide
10-19-2005, 06:14 PM
If a girl shunned you because of her height she wouldnt be worth bothering about anyway. I'd much prefer a small down to earth guy that I could have a laugh with than a giraffe that wasnt on the same wavelength as me

TonyD
10-19-2005, 06:19 PM
people are loving this thread i've never seen so many replies in such a short time.

A giraffe... lol.

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 06:21 PM
Hmmm well I'd rather not have women like me cos I had money, thats just false I'd rather people liked me for me rather than what I have. Its weird though cos g/fs I've had in the past my friends have always described as being cute when I've found them to be gorgeous, guess its all personal preference or summin. At least I can disguise my bad eyesight with contacts, can't do the same bout being short unless I employ even shorter peeps to surround me to make me seem taller!

TonyD
10-19-2005, 06:23 PM
Sounds like a plan we'll find some midgets for you to chill with.

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 06:26 PM
Cool nobody taller than 5ft4 can play :D

SensiRide
10-19-2005, 06:27 PM
Isnt Tom Cruise 5.2ft or something? Im sure he is tiny

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 06:30 PM
I dunno hard to tell need to compare him to somebody else I guess. Leat I'm in proportion rather than being fat or muscly which would make me look even shorter. I don't wanna look like a cube!

TonyD
10-19-2005, 06:32 PM
Yeah he's an oompa loompa,

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 06:41 PM
Would that make me an oompa loompa, I'm not orange I promise!

TonyD
10-19-2005, 06:43 PM
I dunno i see some oompa loompa's walking about Motherwell/Glasgow too much of that tan in a bottle shite.

robert42
10-19-2005, 06:46 PM
im small and im a man whore....

TonyD
10-19-2005, 06:47 PM
How much do you earn rob?

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 06:48 PM
We have them near me Tony in Liverpool lol, and thats just the blokes lol! Robert42 how small and do you earn a good living :p may have to try that :D

robert42
10-19-2005, 06:58 PM
How much do you earn rob?

allot.... how do u think im able to post so much from my penthouse suite :cool:

TonyD
10-19-2005, 07:00 PM
Yeah man, you got the 4.2 jag parked outside blazin mate.

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 07:01 PM
Good retort, how tall Robert?

robert42
10-19-2005, 07:02 PM
im bout 5'5 / 5'6

and ive been around the block :)

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 07:04 PM
Perhaps you could take up a sideline of sharing your knowledge with us lesser mortals, for a small fee of course :p

robert42
10-19-2005, 07:05 PM
ok

I HAVE A HUGE COCK

need i say more?

TonyD
10-19-2005, 07:05 PM
Yas, your all blowing my ego up like fuck cheers. Im 5'11. On a GOOD day.

TonyD
10-19-2005, 07:08 PM
Im a bored cunt, add me on MSN and i'll make you bored to.

[email protected]

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 07:08 PM
Rob is that your opening gambit to a lady in a club lol, if its I'd love to see it in action(the line, not the cock!), aaaaah to be 5ft11 :)

robert42
10-19-2005, 07:10 PM
na seriously

its all about the way u pimp ur self out

with bitches lol (sorry) u gotta sell u self

comedy is always good make em laught
if all else fails
i whip out my piece lol

the best way with the ladies isnt taught or read or anything it comes naturally :p

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 07:15 PM
I'm pretty funny I think without being too much of a prick, I guess jus feeling a bit unsure of my self after having been negaged for 2n a half years and finding myslef back in the game, despite being single now for 4months just need to step things up a bit now if ya get what I mean :D

robert42
10-19-2005, 07:17 PM
yea i get u m8

you can either:

go out to a club / pub / w.e chat up some bird take her back to urs and live happily ever after

OR

get ur self out up on the town, get chattin to some lady, get her drunk take her back to urs and pimp that shit RECORD it, sell it on ebay and change your doornumber as she leaves (is shes a munter).

TonyD
10-19-2005, 07:25 PM
Aha im off to pick up a half oz, have fun mere mortals !!!

robert42
10-19-2005, 07:28 PM
enjoy tony ;) take it easy

beachguy in thongs
10-19-2005, 08:01 PM
Yeah man, you got the 4.2 jag parked outside blazin mate.

No, it's right here.

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 08:08 PM
Awwww man I wish my dealer didn't suck in such a bad way, need to find a new one, everytime I order I can never get it on time, this lot is now a week late :( :( :(

KoRnStaR
10-19-2005, 08:58 PM
No chick wants to bang a bump on a log, when they can have the whole tree.. :)

420purplehaze420
10-19-2005, 09:35 PM
girls definently like guys taller or the same height as them, ask some of your friends that are girls if they like short guys

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 09:39 PM
Might have to be careful with that one, they might think I'm hitting on them :( basically my findings here seem to be not many women do like short guys, what a bummer :(

Ousted
10-19-2005, 10:30 PM
My husband is relatively short. He says he's 5'9" but he's more like 5'7", and Im 5'6". I always thought that the man I marry would be very tall. My dad was 6'5" and large build, so it came as surprise to everyone that I fell for someone of smaller stature, since women supposedly like guys that remind them of their fathers.

I think in theory women want a tall, handsome man. The motive for that want I believe is a feeling of protection and safety. However, women don't stick to their "standards" the way men do, women have a lot of flexibility if a man has confidence, a sense of humor, and shows that he has a drive to one day live a comfortable life and beable to support a family. Nothing is more of a turn-off for a woman than a man with no ambition. And you cant feel safe and protected by a big, strong, tall man who doesn't have a job, or lets himself stay stuck in a dead end job.

Its apparently a fact that tall men are more likely to get promotions and make more money, and I think women have a subconscience awareness of that reality, that definitely could also be why tallness is a desirable quality as well.

But women are flexible with whom and what we find physically attractive. Thats what makes us so awesome, lol. I dont know many women who will say "I'll NEVER marry a fat man" or "I'll never marry a short man." I do, however, know many women, including myself, who dont have hesitation saying "I will not be with a man who lacks direction." "I will not be with a man who cannot or will not provide a comfortable life for his family or at the very least contribute to the effort of making the home comfortable, safe, and secure and the best it can be to his ability." What makes me laugh is that many find the latter examples to be the shallow ones. What the fuck ever. You being good-looking and tall benefits me very little if you aren't a contributer to our happiness and well-being. You being a stud fades away over the years. My equating your looks with your value is what's shallow. But sizing you up based on your ability to be productive and driven for a higher quality of life for yourself and/or your family, thats not shallow at all. Its smart, and gives a man value because he deserves value. Not because he happened to have the right DNA. His parents can value him for crap like that, haha.

drgreenthumb1238
10-19-2005, 10:53 PM
Thanks for that Ousted, that was really interesting to hear somebody more mature(please don't take that the wrong way :) )give their opinion. Its kinda tough being a short guy because, as is a well known fact being petite as a woman is an attractive quality whereas for a man it isn't.

If you strive to do well/stick up for yourself when people make cruel comments you are accused of having "short man syndrome". Throughout school I was fair game for people to highlight my diminutive stature, however they wouldn't dream of doing the same to somebody who is overweight. Now not everybody who is overweight can do something to change that ie thyroid problems etc but some can. If you are short there is nothing that you can do to change that, no amount of bitter teenage tears will ever make you taller. The bizarre thing is in my family my sister is almost a polar opposite of me despite both sharing the same parents, she has blondde hair and blue eyes and is 5ft10 whereas I have brown hair and brown eyes and am 5ft 4, go figure!

I suppose taller men get better promotions etc as they are seen as making better leaders and being dynamic and productive. However put me in a room with a group of people I'll have them eating out of the palm of my hand quicker than any 6ft2 giant will, and I'll tell you why, self deprecation and sensitivity. I'm not an arrogant person and I don't take myself too seriously, I am confident but not a prick. I listen to what people have to say and respond rather than waiting for my chance to speak (dunno if that makes sense or not?). I suppose that certainly the self deprecation has been a self defense mechanism for as long as I can remember, as I'd rather get an insult in myself than have somebody else do it for me.

It just seems strange that even in this day and age height is still perceived as being so important, yeah thousands of years ago taller men would make better hunters and could provide more effectively for their family, father stronger children more likely to survive etc but thats not the case now. I earn a good wage and am both intellient and ambitious and in actual fact earn considerably more money than my group of friends out of whom I'm the shortest buy about 5-6inches.

Anyway I'm not really sure where I was gong with this but rant over I guess :)

TonyD
10-20-2005, 02:06 AM
Fuck.. i never even realised short people actually really felt discriminated against thats right mad. I never even think of height as being an issue its just that way around here, most people are short in this area.

HeLTeR.SKeLTeR
10-20-2005, 03:00 AM
well i'm a mexican midget wrestler and i get laid alot so yeah,
its all about the confidence
and the cojones gueeey

Omni05
10-20-2005, 03:24 AM
no... there is no hope for short guys. ;)

my friend was tiny, had really tiny feet. He dated a lot of fat chicks though. Not sure if it helps, but he did get girls.

Satovan
10-20-2005, 03:52 AM
No, women are attracted to horses so they want a man who will have a cock like a stallion. That's why they're attracted to bigger "darker" men.

SensiRide
10-20-2005, 06:20 AM
No, women are attracted to horses so they want a man who will have a cock like a stallion. That's why they're attracted to bigger "darker" men.

Bull.Shit.

beachguy in thongs
10-20-2005, 06:51 AM
I've heard Midgets have horse dicks. Anyone know about this? Anyone seen any midget porn?

dark0ne
10-20-2005, 07:06 AM
the only advise i can give is: let your hart and curage shine brighter and taller than any moutain or man, then you will feel 40 Ft tall and truly be a giant. it's not how tall you are but your actions. walk tall head high

TonyD
10-20-2005, 11:48 AM
Why fucking horses? Thats some mad shit mate, you've got some fucked up theories please don't share any more with us.

ladyM
10-20-2005, 01:54 PM
I'm married, but have always liked thin, little guys. Not skinny, but thin with a good chest. That whole big hands/ big feet/ big d*** is mostly a bunch of bullshit. Of course there are always exceptions to that rule, so dont get bent out of shape!

My daughter likes big guys, so its really a matter of personal tastes. I have lots of friends that agree that the little guys are hot, no doubt! [ especially with longer hair, not bed head]

Canadabis
10-20-2005, 02:32 PM
isnt there a song aboutshort people?
Even my mom doesnt like short men, and shes like 4'11 :cool:

SensiRide
10-20-2005, 02:36 PM
[QUOTE=Canadabis]isnt there a song aboutshort people?
QUOTE]

Yes. Its some woman with fucked up voice singing 'I dont want no short short man' about 10 years old

soHi
10-20-2005, 02:48 PM
wasn't that song by bart simpson??? eat my short shorts man!

well, if it was a woman, she probably wasn't talking about height!

Canadabis
10-20-2005, 02:52 PM
well i was thinking of that one with hte guy singing "short people got, no reason. short people got no reaaaa-son to liiiiive" it was supposed to be like the whole anti discrimination pc circle jerk stuff, but the guy that wrote it recieved death threats from "the vertically retarded" or wahtever name midgets are now :cool:

SensiRide
10-20-2005, 02:55 PM
Vertically retarded lol
I think itâ??s vertically challenged or something
There was a big deal about it because some idoit banned calling a play â??snow white and the seven dwarfsâ?? for fear of offending small people.

drgreenthumb1238
10-20-2005, 03:01 PM
Lol I don't think I'd be offended by the word dwarf unless somebody called me a dwarf or a midget, which I'm not, as for the whole tall guy big dick thing hmmmm not true in all cases :D commonly held misconception, plus big dick frequently means big dick on the head lol :)