Quite possibly my biggest mistake EVER!

[w4terb0ng]

yeah, so anyhow.... i got trashed and screwed this ugly chick a few weeks ago. now she calls me today and tells me that she's late on her period. OOPS!
so now, i may be totally fucked. AAAAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! i already have 2 kids and don't need anymore. i'm just another statistic now. just another jerry springer episode. sheesh. how my life sucks this terribly, i'll never know. ah well...peace!

[WeedWorm]

GET AHOLD OF YOURSELF MAN! GO NOW, GET A JOB, GET AN ABORTION! RUN RUN RUN MOTHER FUCKER!

lol, well good luck with that

[crystal clear pepsi]

i got trashed and screwed this ugly chick a few weeks ago :o . now she calls me today and tells me that she's late on her period. :eek: OOPS! :rolleyes:
!


mistake # 2 dude :mad: (#1 is fuckin her :eek: :eek: :eek: ) u GAVE THAT UGLY ASS TRICK YOUR NUMBER :rolleyes: :D :rolleyes: .......... if ya woulda took care of taht she couldnt have tracked ya down :rolleyes: :p , better luck next time ;)


P.S. HERES A PIC of the FUGLY CHIC taht w4terb0ng FUCKED

[amydan420]

He SAID UGLY CHIC NOT FAT CHIC DUMMY :eek:

[crystal clear pepsi]

He SAID UGLY CHIC NOT FAT CHIC DUMMY :eek:


same thang

[w4terb0ng]

no, he's right. she's FAT and UGLY.
BUT, the problem with her having my number is that she's good friends with my best friends sister. so it wasn't hard for her to get my number. i'm soooooooooooo FUCKED!

[sdffa11]

fuck that. deny deny deny

you never seen that bitch before in your life - if anyone asks.

or

just kill her so you dont gotta pay child support

haha =P

[geoffrowley19]

man that sucks ass i duno wtf i would do in that situation, fuck fat chicks

[w4terb0ng]

they have DNA tests for that.
unfortunately, i'm not a person that really believes in abortion. (yeah, i know...shut up)
so i have no fucking clue what to do, because i don't wanna be with this bitch.
but if she IS pregnant, and she gave the kid up for adoption....i may hate myself later on down the road for that. i don't know what the fuck i should be doing... but i'm not going to make a relationship with this skank.

[t3chyo]

should've just been really baked....

[w4terb0ng]

no doubt.

[nickx760]

abortion.

[w4terb0ng]

someone can't read.

[nickx760]

if u dont believe in abortion ur only option is to suck it up and be man, u got her pregnant so u gotta take care of ur kid, theres no way around it...say bye bye to your youth

[w4terb0ng]

my youth? lol. i already have 2 kids... my youth was shot to hell even before i had those two. that's not what i'm worried about. i just don't need MORE kids, and i REFUSE to be with/around that fat chick. FUCK THAT.

[nickx760]

well idk, u sounded like u were young, sorry.
but yeah if u dont want to be around this chick ever again, either be a deadbeat dad, or have her get an abortion, dunno wat to tell u man, never been in a situation like that and i hope i never will

good luck with everything though

[w4terb0ng]

well personally...i think it's a line of bullshit. i think she's picking up on the fact that i don't want anything to do with her or to even speak to her. i think she's just saying that shit because she thinks i'll hang around. WRONG! this bitch don't even know who's the father of the kid she already has. she's just a ho. and everybody knows that you can't turn a ho into a housewife.....especially a fat, ugly one.

[nickx760]

has she actually taken a pregnancy test yet? make that fat bitch go to the doctors, and see how far along she is...maybe itll prove u aint the father, or that shes not even pregnant at all

[w4terb0ng]

no. she just says that she's a week late. so it doesn't mean that much yet. BUT, there's still that possibility. but hell yeah, there would definately be a DNA test involved for sure.
fuck it. i'm just going to keep on living my life until something else is said about it. fuck her.

[death of sXe]

chicks always say that man
wait a couple of months THEN get worried.
duh.

[Ganj]

yeah, so anyhow.... i got trashed and screwed this ugly chick a few weeks ago. now she calls me today and tells me that she's late on her period. OOPS!
so now, i may be totally fucked. AAAAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! i already have 2 kids and don't need anymore. i'm just another statistic now. just another jerry springer episode. sheesh. how my life sucks this terribly, i'll never know. ah well...peace!

she's a predator of inebriated men. she's probably had sex with many more men since your unfortunate meeting.

[w4terb0ng]

i feel violated.

[Garden Knowm]

Hey water boy.... deep breath dude... this may be the mother of your child.. you need to stop calling her an ugly bitch.. not for anybody but yourself.. I can tell you want to do the right thing... it will make things a lot easier on yourself if you start by accepting her as a beautiful creature and the nuturing mother of your off spring..

You will be fine... good luck

I love you

[w4terb0ng]

um. NO.

i will never see this chick as a "beautiful creature and the mother of my offspring"
what the hell?!?! the only way i would want to be doing the right thing is by not having an abortion. BUT, i will NOT form a relationship with this girl. nor do i care to speak to her. aside from being horridly fucking ugly, she's already a bad parent to the two children that she already has, and if you read the above statements....she doesn't even know who's the father of one of them. she's definately NOT someone i'd want to be in a relationship with, no matter how you look at it. i fucked up. BAD.

[t3chyo]

ok well from what I gathered is you believe you might of gotten her pregnate meaning you didnt use a condom. Now you say shes a slut and probably slept with alot of other guys...you should worry about some STD's also...Good luck with everything!

[w4terb0ng]

lol.


i'm going to die. great.

[beachguy in thongs]

Where were the pills when you needed them?

[Killa.Kali]

If you were a starfish you could just cut off your tesicles and they would grow back with different...features :p

but your not so forget that idea

[beachguy in thongs]

Killa Kali, if you were on the East coast, you'd be a starfish. :)

[chisme]

if u dont believe in abortion ur only option is to suck it up and be man, u got her pregnant so u gotta take care of ur kid, theres no way around it...say bye bye to your youth


nick is right think of it smartly

1.you dont want a kid
2. u dont want fat ugly kids
3.abortion
4.if your relig doesnt allow abortion youre fucked

5.if your desprete i guess u could push her down the stairs?? :D

[clembob101]

it happend twice when i was younger both of them were lying . what the fuck girls see they know it fucks with our heads , and they might get some cash out of it , check reciet it will proberbly be for lypo sucktion

excuse spelling just woke with a bong !! MMMmmmmmmmmmmmm

[nickx760]

i knew this one DIRTY DIRTY chick and it seemed like every other week she thought she was pregnant...she never used condoms, and shed go and brag to me how she fucked like 4 random dudes in a night, i was so disgusted, meanwhile the whole time she is telling me she wants to fuck me...i was just like "fuck no ur a whore"

[GHoSToKeR]

Wow. I'm like, totally pro choice and all that shit, but I can't believe how many replies have basically said "abortion!". Fuck. Be a fucking man.

[Reefer Rogue]

Dem boyz in da hood sell anythang 4 profit.

[Torog]

yeah, so anyhow.... i got trashed and screwed this ugly chick a few weeks ago. now she calls me today and tells me that she's late on her period. OOPS!
so now, i may be totally f*cked. AAAAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! i already have 2 kids and don't need anymore. i'm just another statistic now. just another jerry springer episode. sheesh. how my life sucks this terribly, i'll never know. ah well...peace!
Howdy w4,

Such are the wages of Sin...and promiscuity....

Don't compound yer sins,by murdering yer unborn son or daughter,remember,yer unborn child,is innocent !

Are you married and have 2 children..or have you simply fathered 2 children ?

Do you support yer other 2 children ?

Do you think that it makes you more of a man-to go around and father children,without being tied to their mother/s legally ?

I am praying that God will spare the innocent child and that you will stop being so irresponsible..be mindful of the consequences of gittin 'trashed'..it could have been worse,you could have killed an entire innocent family..while you were out gittin trashed. Why should anyone have to die..because you thought that gittin trashed..was a good idea ?

Have a good one ...

[japan4]

just tell her you dont want the baby (if there is one) and you want nothing to do with her or it. then she can decide what to do according to her beliefs. such as abortion. which is ok.

[wardrobe grower 78]

some1`s too thick to try stickin a condom on his drunken cock

[Funken Monken]

Watebong. Seems to me if you've made this 'mistake' twice already and you still have learned about...well hey, just a word here, CONTRACEPTION...and uhh...well, you're some pro-lifer, and your in a right state of contradiction, your only option would be to cut your own dick off. I mean, its the only way you can be safe given the stupid nature of what you've done, and that aint trying to be harsh man, its just the honesty of the situation. Get a grip and learn from previous mistakes.

[ilikerabbits]

lol.


i'm going to die. great.


yes YOU ARE !!

[notanovice]

You`re the dumb ass that had intercourse with her WITHOUT using protection.
you weren`t raped by her
so get some balls and take responsability
if she`s as promiscuous as you claim,
i`d be rushing to the clinic to get tested for STD`s
and
you call her a skank, well she fucked you didnt she :eek:

[CGB1013]

what is so hard about using a rubber, I don't get it

[buddymyfriend]

You`re the dumb ass that had intercourse with her WITHOUT using protection.
you weren`t raped by her
so get some balls and take responsability
if she`s as promiscuous as you claim,
i`d be rushing to the clinic to get tested for STD`s
and
you call her a skank, well she fucked you didnt she :eek:

Well said!

[w4terb0ng]

Howdy w4,

Such are the wages of Sin...and promiscuity....

Don't compound yer sins,by murdering yer unborn son or daughter,remember,yer unborn child,is innocent !

Are you married and have 2 children..or have you simply fathered 2 children ?

Do you support yer other 2 children ?

Do you think that it makes you more of a man-to go around and father children,without being tied to their mother/s legally ?

I am praying that God will spare the innocent child and that you will stop being so irresponsible..be mindful of the consequences of gittin 'trashed'..it could have been worse,you could have killed an entire innocent family..while you were out gittin trashed. Why should anyone have to die..because you thought that gittin trashed..was a good idea ?

Have a good one ...


I NEVER said anything about even considering an abortion. I DO NOT, and will not EVER support abortions. Which is why I find myself in such a hard place. SECONDLY, the two children that I already have were NOT mistakes. Yes, I was married when I had those children, and yes, I DO support those children. As a matter of fact, they are here with me right now and I love them more than anything else on this planet. I realize what a stupid thing I have done and what the consequences might very well be. Don't take me the wrong way. I am not someone who just goes around making babies and not taking responsibility for my actions. I was basically putting my story up here to share, so that maybe other people could see what happens when you DON'T act responsibly. Yes, I had a few harsh things to say about the situation, but I'm only still trying to figure out what the hell I'm going to do about it. ALSO, just so you know, I would NEVER EVER EVER be out drinking and driving. (that was for the comment on killing an innocent family while out getting trashed)

Torog, I totally understand your comment, and have nothing to make an arguement about. I'm just stuck between a rock and a hard place now, and it's all my fault. Well, I hope you guys learned something here.

[Void]

Adoption.(SP?)

[weirdo79]

Wow so many people actually assume she's telling the truth....she's less than what about a week late, a completely normal biological occurence. Id honestly just say to her "Ok , 1. prove its mine(demand DNA before you'll help out if its even true), 2. Prove your actually even late".....Sorry I've dated psycho's (thankfully not fat and ugly ;) ) , and they try this trick all the friggin time. Entrapment of a man so that you can control him (they usually believe this is the only way they can control and keep a man and usually because of their behaviours it is....).

Id seriously tell her to fuck off until she's showing if you despise her so much. With all due respect to her and yourself you have no legal obligation to anyone for just having sex with them (the pregnancy has to be proven ladies sorry your word isnt enough too many crazies out there, you should test us too before you commit to our crazy asses ! ;),the courts recognize this and so should you )


Oh and Torog its nice to see your particular brand of fundamentalism crop up makes me smile mah man ;). Mostly smiling AT not with ;) but I love ya all the same.

[MyAntiDrugIsAmy]

men!!! carry rubbers and prevent this

[bluntman3000]

jsut think about the childs sake.....it would be the right thing to have an abortion because the child is not goin to want parents who hate each other....and never see there dad or mom.....also by having this child u would probely jsut fuck up its life...so it might not be better to bring the child into he world at all.....if she is even pregnant......or if u say this girl is as bad as see says i wouldnt want here to be part of its life so u could take care of the child yuorself tho i doubt se would let that happen.

[w4terb0ng]

if i had the option of just taking the child myself, and never having to see her face again.... then yes, i'd probably do that. my only other option would be adoption. i will not be responsible for murdering a child. i couldn't live the rest of my life and sleep at night if i did that. i'll just wait it out and see what comes out of it. if she really IS pregnant... then i'll start worrying.

[Completely Stoned]

this thread made me fuckign laugh my ass off. Especially-->

fuck that. deny deny deny

you never seen that bitch before in your life - if anyone asks.

or

just kill her so you dont gotta pay child support

haha =P

-sdffa11 (holy shit that was funny)

[Ousted]

this thread made me fuckign laugh my ass off. Especially-->

fuck that. deny deny deny

you never seen that bitch before in your life - if anyone asks.

or

just kill her so you dont gotta pay child support

haha =P

-sdffa11 (holy shit that was funny)

Apprarently you have never witnessed the many many fools who appear on Maury's paternity shows who follow the same logic you do.

The act doesn't fool anyone except maybe yourself. And when people are defensive, it makes their intelligence come off to others as extremely low, even if they are highly intelligent beings. Being defensive or "deny deny deny" is probably the worst advice you could give or take, IMO. Unless your dignity isnt of much value to you.


Listen, whats done is done. Im sure she doesn't feel much better about the situation, if you look at it from her point of view. A possible pregnancy from a man who is divorced, already fathered 2 children and views her as a fat ugly bitch? Sorry to be harsh, but I think you need it: It doesn't sound like she baited much of a fish either, and if she's smart, she would hope she isnt pregnant by someone who is so blatenetly disrespectful of others, and someone who lacks self-respect because he will screw those he finds repulsive in altered states.

I would check your attitude. If she is pregnant, and its yours, viewing her as you do will only make the situation for YOU much much worse. I understand you may be being unkind as a way of coping with a very stressful situation, but fuck, be a man with some dignity. You're not some 15 year old punk, dont act like one. Own your mistakes, and if you do view her as the nastiest bitch who ever roamed the land, then keep it to yourself. You gain NOTHING saying such nasty things out loud, and you lose respect of those who hear it (whether they agree or not) and you'll lose respect for yourself, because only people who lack character behave in such a childish way.

If she's pregnant and its yours, wouldnt you be happier with yourself knowing that you said from the beginning "I'll do what a man is supposed to do" while maintaining your self-respect and dignity during this stressful time? Cuz the end result may be the same (pregnancy, and its yours) whether you throw a tantrum like some little punk, kicking and screaming, cursing the heffer who mothered your child to hell, and/or resenting the child because of its mother. None of those behaviors says "man" to me. And I would bet you'd rather be a man than some defensive, unkind, bratty piece of shit person who likes to think of himself as a man, without bothering being action-oriented to be one.

[welddiver]

If your going to make adult decisions (i.e.-sex) , then your going to have to deal with adult consequences. Sorry dude, but have no pity for your situation. Moreover, you'll be lucky to get out of this situation with your life if she is the "Skank" you say she is. Anyone who has sex nowadays without wearing a rubber is a fucking moron in my opinion. I would'nt care or worry so much about weather or not she is pregnant; as I would be about if I had contracted something that would kill me or cause my cock to fall off. ALWAYS WEAR A ROOT SUIT!!!!!

[crystal clear pepsi]

next time u get horny jsut do this and u wont think bout fuckin a skank again

[hipEstoner]

id get drunk again and kill her and eat her body to get rid of the evidence and as for you sons fetus body you dry it and hang it above your bed and dance around singing random sylabyls and eat a pound of yellow cocaine and shit on the world

[DazedandConfused]

lots of things can cause her to miss her period. was she sick recently? even a cold, also if she was worried about missing her period a lot, that can even delay it. so maybe she was worried that you got her pregnant and was so tense waiting for her period, that it stressed her out a lot and that's the cause of her missing it.

[likemclever]

You seem to be bad mouthing this girl pretty hardâ?¦â?¦.uglyâ?¦fatâ?¦bad motherâ?¦.slut. Itâ??s part of YOUR personal responsibility to either not sleep with these so called â?¦.bad womenâ?¦..or you could always WEAR A CONDOM.

What do you think she feels like right nowâ?¦..

Weeee��.I get to have another illegitimate child by a man I barley know�..who has no intention of being a father to his child��.

Man that sounds like a fucking blastâ?¦

[beachguy in thongs]

Hah, I didn't get through one word before I laughed at your post, carrielikemclever.

[likemclever]

... ;) ...

[flamingskullballs]

i dont fuck a fattie unless its winter...the big ones keep you warm in the winter, skinny ones cool in the summer...never completely huge though, just large body parts (tits, ass)

[Melton420]

oops ... all i can say

[theprettiestprincess]

Omg, ousted that was the greatest thing!!!!!!!! I agree 100% with everything you said!! Are u a guy or girl? Either way u r really intelligent:)

[Torog]

I NEVER said anything about even considering an abortion. I DO NOT, and will not EVER support abortions. Which is why I find myself in such a hard place. SECONDLY, the two children that I already have were NOT mistakes. Yes, I was married when I had those children, and yes, I DO support those children. As a matter of fact, they are here with me right now and I love them more than anything else on this planet. I realize what a stupid thing I have done and what the consequences might very well be. Don't take me the wrong way. I am not someone who just goes around making babies and not taking responsibility for my actions. I was basically putting my story up here to share, so that maybe other people could see what happens when you DON'T act responsibly. Yes, I had a few harsh things to say about the situation, but I'm only still trying to figure out what the hell I'm going to do about it. ALSO, just so you know, I would NEVER EVER EVER be out drinking and driving. (that was for the comment on killing an innocent family while out getting trashed)

Torog, I totally understand your comment, and have nothing to make an arguement about. I'm just stuck between a rock and a hard place now, and it's all my fault. Well, I hope you guys learned something here.
Howdy w4,

Well thanx for setting things straight,you are to be commended for having the courage to come forward and admitting yer mistake..good for you sir.

Also,you are correct to point out-that drinking and driving is a horrible thing to do,and it can't be said-often enough.

As for a practical solution to yer dilema,you need to establish paternity..and then go from there,if you are indeed the father,I'm confident that you will do the right thing. There's a price to pay,for all of our actions that result in a bad situation,accept that fact and then work on what will be best for your child..why should a child be made to suffer the sins of the father and mother ? The child is innocent....

If I were in yer shoes,I'd seek to gain full custody of the child,so that he/she,will have a good and loving father,who will place their needs and wants,above their own wants and needs,that you treasure yer children,is great and wonderful. I don't know if yer a person of Faith,if you are,ask God for help and to that end,I will pray for God's help in this matter too.

I believe that you have learned yer lesson..hold yer head high-you could be a father again ! Children are a blessing and a miraculous gift from God,rejoice in that and work towards a good future for your child and yer other children.:)

Have a good one !

[highjinx]

haha thats it t3chyo think positive! :D

[Ousted]

Omg, ousted that was the greatest thing!!!!!!!! I agree 100% with everything you said!! Are u a guy or girl? Either way u r really intelligent:)

:o Wow, thanks, that certainly made me feel good. And Im a girl. :p

[theprettiestprincess]

Darn, I was gonna ask u to marry me:( jk ;)

[beachguy in thongs]

lesbianism at it's finest... ;)

[DazedandConfused]

haha

[420purplehaze420]

theres only one aoluion to your problems friend.....FLEE THE COUNTRY

[Torog]

Howdy Y'all,

I would like to point out,like likemclever said,that w4 and others,have said hateful things about the gal in question,appearance. Making fun or light of,other folk's appearance,is a very immature thing to do..But for the Grace of God...there go I.

The physical shell of a person,is not what folks should be judged by,if they are to be judged at all..but rather,the content of their characters and the soul inside the shell. Shame on those who judge by appearance alone ! Shame on me-when I slip and do it at times !

Have a good one ...

[ladyM]

WTF! Ever hear of condoms? Youre fucked if she doesnt want an abortion and since you are the male, not man or it wouldnt have happened in the first place, you have no say in the matter. Damn, everybody knows ugly chicks look better when youre fucked up! If its not a decent steady piece, stay away from it. Now you need to start on a testing regimin, you never know what you'll catch. Your dick might not explode on entry, but it might 6 mo. from now.

[beachguy in thongs]

WTF! Ever hear of condoms? Youre fucked if she male, have no say in the matter. Damn, everybody knows ugly chicks! If decent steady piece, stay away from it. Now you need to start on a testing regimin, you never know what you'll catch. Your dick might explode on entry, but 6 mo. from now.

I'm sorry, Mrs. LadyM, this had too many sexual references in it.

:cool: I'm blind. Still.

Awwwwwwwww, I meant to post that in the funny quotes thread, so Robert can see it.

[ScarlettCrush]

you are an adult having unprotected sex with someone you don't know or like or are attracted too....
why did you have sex with someone you where not attracted too in any way?
why did you have unprotected sex?
...I will never understand men...

So you just used this chick for sex when you where wasted, didn't talk to her about birth control, didn't track down the morning after pill or even care about her well being until you heard she was late and now you are mad at her?
You mad at the wrong person.

you know you where taught better- I hope this comes out ok for ya'll

[Ousted]

So you just used this chick for sex when you where wasted, didn't talk to her about birth control, didn't track down the morning after pill or even care about her well being until you heard she was late and now you are mad at her?
You mad at the wrong person.


Amen!

[Nochowderforyou]

you are an adult having unprotected sex with someone you don't know or like or are attracted too....
why did you have sex with someone you where not attracted too in any way?
why did you have unprotected sex?
...I will never understand men...



Saying that pisses me off.

What about women? They never have unprotected sex? :rolleyes: I know some girls I went to school with way back when. Lets see, 1 of them gave up custody of their daughter, unknown father.

Another one has 3 kids now, all unknown fathers, all different fathers.

And, the other one I knew personally (not THAT personal). She had a baby boy named Jacob 4yrs ago now. She tried killing herself, now dad has custody. She now has a baby girl and is now pregnant with another...2 unkown fathers, 3 kids, all seperate dads.

So you can't say "I'll never understand guys..." I'll never understand women and their fuckin mind games they like to play. Women are just as slutty as guys.

[Ousted]

Saying that pisses me off.

What about women? They never have unprotected sex? :rolleyes:

Of course they do, but if men dont take the extra step to be careful either, then surprise, she's pregnant, and like fools men claim that they were tricked or are being trapped by a woman, its fucking laughable men's ego's sometimes.




So you can't say "I'll never understand guys..." I'll never understand women and their fuckin mind games they like to play. Women are just as slutty as guys.

Sure are, and dont assume otherwise, wear a rubber.

[ScarlettCrush]

everyone makes mistakes, but stuff like this past the age of 22 is just ridiculous.

I don't get why chick would have unprotected sex with someone who was hammered that she barely knew. Something is going on there, so if you must be with a chick like this know that she already has questionable judgement. This is why you talk about birth control, and if you're too wasted to talk about it before hand you should talk about it the next day and if there isn't any, then the little morning after pill will cost ya about $30. You get it, you say goodbye, you get tested for std's and you staple a little note to your cock that says "NEVER AGAIN WILL I LET YOU LEAD ME INTO THE VALLY OF FAT CHICKS, PREGNANCY, THE UNWASHED, BAD LAYS AND STD'S. YOU HAVE BUT ONE EYE AND CANNOT SEE THE WHOLE PICTURE"

My ex roommate would tell guys she couldn't have kids, but that was a lie. She took pregnancy tests all the time and would lie about having miscarraiges and shit just to get the attention of guys like this who didn't really like her but fucked her anyway.

[w4terb0ng]

ok ... seriously. i've decided that if this chick IS pregnant.... i would very much so be keeping the child. the thing about it is this though... if i were to keep the child myself, i don't think i'd want her to be around it. because of the way she already treats the two kids she has now. i don't KNOW her know her.... but i've been around while sober and seen how fucked up her priorities are when it comes to her kids and other things having to do with responsibilities. she already leaves her kids with whoever will take them for as long as they'll let her leave them there. she's just so fucked up in the head i don't think it would cause anything but confusion and such for the child. i happen to be a GREAT father to my two children, and i love them to death. i just freaked out when she told me that she was late. i was worried about shit, because i recently found out that her youngest child's father is unknown. she doesn't even know who the fucking daddy is!!! i guess all this just scares me, because the first thing in my mind was "I'm going to have to see this girl for the rest of my life if she's having my child". that's just something i didn't wanna do. anyhow, i wanted to clear all this up and let you guys know that if it all comes down and she's pregnant for real, i'll be taking up my responsibility and raising this child. i just don't want her to be around, but she'll make sure that doesn't happen anyway. man, i better get like 3 jobs!! fuck. anyhow, still haven't heard anything back on it yet. i'll keep you posted. thanks for all the replies and kind/hateful words. peace.

[Ousted]

ok ... seriously. i've decided that if this chick IS pregnant.... i would very much so be keeping the child. the thing about it is this though... if i were to keep the child myself, i don't think i'd want her to be around it. because of the way she already treats the two kids she has now. i don't KNOW her know her.... but i've been around while sober and seen how fucked up her priorities are when it comes to her kids and other things having to do with responsibilities. she already leaves her kids with whoever will take them for as long as they'll let her leave them there. she's just so fucked up in the head i don't think it would cause anything but confusion and such for the child. i happen to be a GREAT father to my two children, and i love them to death. i just freaked out when she told me that she was late. i was worried about shit, because i recently found out that her youngest child's father is unknown. she doesn't even know who the fucking daddy is!!! i guess all this just scares me, because the first thing in my mind was "I'm going to have to see this girl for the rest of my life if she's having my child". that's just something i didn't wanna do. anyhow, i wanted to clear all this up and let you guys know that if it all comes down and she's pregnant for real, i'll be taking up my responsibility and raising this child. i just don't want her to be around, but she'll make sure that doesn't happen anyway. man, i better get like 3 jobs!! fuck. anyhow, still haven't heard anything back on it yet. i'll keep you posted. thanks for all the replies and kind/hateful words. peace.

I think its great that you want to make a responsible decision regarding this possible child. If I were you I wouldn't just make assumptions about her behavior, I would give her the opportunity to do right, and if she doesnt, then you can feel justified fighting for sole custody without visitation. Making assumptions could, in the courts eyes, make it come off like you have a personal agenda like wanting her out of the picture cuz you personally dont care for her, not that you're looking out for the best interest of the child. If your interests are completely 100% about your childs best interests (a good way to make that point would be offering an agreement for her to have visitation rights because you recognize how important of a role a child's mother is) then custody might lean in your favor...and if she is someone who might make an ass out of herself with defensiveness, dysfunctional personality, abrasiveness, or whatever, if you stay composed and maintain your dignity, you wont have to utter one negative word about her. If she's really as bad as you say...they'll know it, you wont have to say it. No amount of words, examples or passion on the subject will change a judge's impression he gets from the person themself. So to make her have the worst impression, you need to give the best impression of character and dignity you can possibly muster. That alone may eat at her and she may blow up right in the court just because of that, because she might have expected you to be nasty and fight on her level...its much more annoying (when you want to be right, that is) when someone is composed, then when they are running their mouth off trying to be right, too.

Anyway, much luck with it all, keep us posted! Hey, maybe she wont even be pregnant, and all this worry was for nothing...except maybe a good lesson in safe sex. :)

[w4terb0ng]

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[w4terb0ng]

ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLRIG HT. no babies being made. i am fortunate enough that it turns out this chick wasn't pregnant. WHEWWWWW!! LESSON LEARNED. now it's time to smoke a fatty. :D thanks for your input everyone ... good or bad.

[Melton420]

you fucking psyco

[kiwi]

:mad: Nevermind the fact that this women may or maynot be pregnant, saying she is fat and ugly is not the way to go, someones looks and size shud have nothing to do with any of this. It is no ones place to stand in judgement of another human being..... :mad:

[w4terb0ng]

um. IMO she was ugly. i have spoken my opinion as i have the right to do. given that maybe i shouldn't have included my opinion with the rest of the story..... i did, and i can't change that now. BUT, if you'll take a look, i DID stop calling her fat and ugly and just stuck to the heart of the matter after first posting. anyhow, it's all over with now anyway. she's not pregnant, i don't have to see her anymore, no babies... i HAVE learned a valuable lesson though, so i guess that's what counts here.... not the fact that you or anyone else has a problem with ME calling someone fat. as far as i can see, the rest of you jumping down my throat for calling somenoe fat or ugly is just as judgemental as you are claiming me to be. no hard feelings though. i'm just happy. moving on.............................................

[the ghost of buzz]

:mad: Nevermind the fact that this women may or maynot be pregnant, saying she is fat and ugly is not the way to go, someones looks and size shud have nothing to do with any of this. It is no ones place to stand in judgement of another human being..... :mad:
yeah, don't judge, eh? those are fine words, coming from a bannin' ass foo'!

[the ghost of buzz]

only joking (like i was when i got BANNED)

[w4terb0ng]

lol.. banned for what?

[kingcannabis]

here's your last resort. Snap her neck and then push her down the stairs. If anyone asks, yes you were at her house from whenever till whenever (give the correct times you were there incase someone saw you coming or going). tell the police or whatever that you were "seeing" her but you two didn't have a solid relationship yet. When you left she was about to get into the shower/change the laundry/go to bed...ect. The police will assume she fell down the stairs breaking her neck. just don't be ruff with her or you'll leave fingerprint bruises.

[kingcannabis]

by the way....my idea is probably the worst idea you'll be given so i'd recommend not doing it

[the ghost of buzz]

lol.. banned for what?
nothing

[w4terb0ng]

here's your last resort. Snap her neck and then push her down the stairs. If anyone asks, yes you were at her house from whenever till whenever (give the correct times you were there incase someone saw you coming or going). tell the police or whatever that you were "seeing" her but you two didn't have a solid relationship yet. When you left she was about to get into the shower/change the laundry/go to bed...ect. The police will assume she fell down the stairs breaking her neck. just don't be ruff with her or you'll leave fingerprint bruises.


you've obviously NEVER had any experience in pushing people down the stairs....you've got it allllll wrong there pal. i'd surely get caught doing it your way.

[kingcannabis]

no way, you can easily break bones falling down stairs. i mean shit, 6 people die every year because vending machines fall ontop of them, so weirder things have happened. i think i'd work. i'd never do it, but i think it'd work

[ladyM]

Sorry I jumped you like that, and Im glad things worked out for you. I unfortuneately know a woman like that, and now her kids are grown and having kids of their own and they havent seen her in 7 yrs. They are better off and getting on with their lives, they're happier people now too.

In your defense, you did only say 'ugly', not fat. looks are subjective