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kontrol87
10-02-2005, 02:08 AM
She told me that and I said why and she said because it makes you lazy. What should I tell her?

StarcommanderX
10-02-2005, 02:12 AM
dont tell her anything. start taking off your pants slowly, gyrate your hips a little and spank yourself with a large wooden spoon while screaming "IM LOVIN IT!!!" then start licking the floor and grunting like a pig. that should change her mind!

Capt. Carl
10-02-2005, 02:13 AM
It does make you lazy man haha. dont say anything, she may have a point and your lucky enough for you to be allowed to smoke. my parents would rape my butthole

nickx760
10-02-2005, 02:15 AM
it doesnt make people who arent lazy, lazy, weed just makes the lazy people more lazy

but starcommanderx has a good idea too

firsttimefarmer
10-02-2005, 02:19 AM
She told me that and I said why and she said because it makes you lazy. What should I tell her?

IF YOU SMOKE EVERY DAY ITS NO FUN. YOU CAN EASILY GET PHSYCOLOGICLY DEPENDANT ON IT. [FONT=Century Gothic] NOT PHYSICALLY!!! MIND YOU . YOU MAY FIND YOURSELF NOT ABLE TO HANDLE CERTAIN SITUATIONS WITHOUT WEED

BUT AT LEAST U CAN SMOKE AT HOME :)

kontrol87
10-02-2005, 03:48 AM
no...I have only been smoking for like half a year and im 18...i have gone through a lot of situations...emotional, physical, and social situations without weed. Im not dependent on it because I dont NEED to have it. If I buy some, then i'll smoke it...why not, if i have some whats wrong with smoking it as much as i want? Some of you think weed causes something negative....nick you're dope man.....by the way...would it be the same thing if i started smoking cigarettes?....by the way...my mom smokes weed...she knows that I know because she asked me for some....and she also smokes cigarettes....so i dont get it.

Ganj
10-02-2005, 03:56 AM
She told me that and I said why and she said because it makes you lazy. What should I tell her?

when did she decide to tell you this? was it after you gave her some of that kush? if that's the case, she was probably just blown away and thinks that dank ass weed is just too damn strong.
if that's not the case try proving her wrong. i don't know what you do around your household, but if you see her doing something give her a hand. help out as much as you possibly can, do things when she asks you to do it and not just wait around to forget about it.

Rarrr
10-02-2005, 04:03 AM
It's your life and if she can't repect that then she has little repect for youre perspective or opinion.

whyamiwhite
10-02-2005, 04:06 AM
if that's not the case try proving her wrong. i don't know what you do around your household, but if you see her doing something give her a hand. help out as much as you possibly can, do things when she asks you to do it and not just wait around to forget about it.[/QUOTE]

he's got a point, do that and she'll more than likely overlook most of the bad shit you do; cept for smokin cigs i wouldn't do that if i was you, it's pointless. but yeah my mom doesn't want me to smoke everyday or even at all but i do what she asks and within a couple days it's done no problems at all.

Ganj
10-02-2005, 04:06 AM
when have you ever seen a parent not show any concern for their child's well-being? i know there are some out there, but this doesn't sound like one of those parents.

kontrol87
10-02-2005, 04:06 AM
when did she decide to tell you this? was it after you gave her some of that kush? if that's the case, she was probably just blown away and thinks that dank ass weed is just too damn strong.
if that's not the case try proving her wrong. i don't know what you do around your household, but if you see her doing something give her a hand. help out as much as you possibly can, do things when she asks you to do it and not just wait around to forget about it.

Its not like I dont do that...me and my mom have a really good relationship...I know that she just cares that I handle my business and that I be successful. But still, she shouldnt be telln me that and givn me a guilt trip of being open to her after she asks me for some kush and tells me how good it was.

Ganj
10-02-2005, 04:08 AM
maybe she's just trying to be cool with you, but at the same time letting you know that she doesn't want you to begin a "new" relationship with her.

kontrol87
10-02-2005, 04:15 AM
ok i dont care anymore lol

beachguy in thongs
10-02-2005, 04:23 AM
Yeah, you do care, because if you don't then your mom wins. Kiss the ganja goodbye.

Start surprising her, when she comes home, by cooking dinner, sewing her a dress, or changing a filter. Buy her one of those little things that puffs up incense smoke every 5 seconds. Give her some candy and a wink.

kontrol87
10-02-2005, 04:30 AM
My mom will always let me smoke weed...because she grew up with it...and my WHOLE moms side of the family is stoners....some of them are actually homeless...and thats what shes scared of me becoming...a homeless pothead....but what she doesnt realize...(and most woman dont think this way)....is that those kind of people never had any responsibilities and always did things and was basically destined to be homeless because of their own bad personality habits.

Basically i just think she's trippin.....and not all people who love weed are failures...she's just jumping to an assumption that im going to become like that...why she's doing that...who knows...its jus her trippin.

But everythings cool now because she said "yea sorry...im remembering now how you're dad used to smoke a lot when he was a certain age....we used to grow it out in the backyard before u were born" :rolleyes:.......

GHoSToKeR
10-02-2005, 04:51 AM
Don't argue with her, because you'd be lying. Using Cannabis almost every day "can permanently damage nerve cells containing dopamine, which regulate feelings of motivation and reward (http://www.cannabisnews.com/news/thread21149.shtml)". This is true.

Lying and saying that weed won't negatively effect you in any way if you smoked every day is bullshit. It will.

If you give a shit then i'll give you some advice; don't smoke every day. And if you have to then please don't smoke yourself retarded every time you smoke. The last thing we need is another stoner who fucks up his life by being irresponsible.

ermitonto
10-02-2005, 04:53 AM
My mom feels bad for me if I can't smoke weed every day and will try to hook me up.

kontrol87
10-02-2005, 04:58 AM
Don't argue with her, because you'd be lying. Using Cannabis almost every day "can permanently damage nerve cells containing dopamine, which regulate feelings of motivation and reward (http://www.cannabisnews.com/news/thread21149.shtml)". This is true.

Lying and saying that weed won't negatively effect you in any way if you smoked every day is bullshit. It will.

If you give a shit then i'll give you some advice; don't smoke every day. And if you have to then please don't smoke yourself retarded every time you smoke. The last thing we need is another stoner who fucks up his life by being irresponsible.

People like you piss me off. Did you do that study yourself? No. There are many fucking people who probably have smoked weed everyday since they were fukn 15 and are very successful in all of their goals in life. I bet many people who are happy with their lives and how far they have taken it can be a stoner as well. I think you are just following the American bullshit that makes people stereotype people who love weed. I am not irresponsble....I just recently graduated highschool and i start my college on monday...and no way is weed, or anything else i love doing going to stop me from accomplishing my goals.

kontrol87
10-02-2005, 05:06 AM
I also think people like you are whats keeping weed from being legal.

GHoSToKeR
10-02-2005, 05:14 AM
LOL

People like you piss me off.

Why do you think alot of people are ignored when they bring up the subject of legalisation? Because there are so many kids like you, with no concept of fact, only wanting to shut your parents up or stop them from grounding you. Your arguments are like "uhh weed shud b legal cuz like its not bad n stuff n FUCK TEH PIGS MAN YEAH!!!!".

Nobody listens to that, I don't even listen to that and I smoke weed, for fucks sake.

If we were just to claim that weed is harmless, with absolutely no negative physiological effects whatsoever, then how will we look when the next report comes out showing that long term use causes lethargy, paranoia, etc. Who cares if these reports are accurate or not? People believe them and that's all that matters.

But if we actually admit that yes, weed can be harmful when abused, just like everything else, then we'll appear much more credible as opposed to being seen as a bunch of stoners in denial. And yes, smoking every day is abusing the drug.

Now explain to me how I am stopping the legalisation efforts.

beachguy in thongs
10-02-2005, 05:23 AM
Don't argue with her, because you'd be lying. Using Cannabis almost every day can permanently damage nerve cells containing dopamine, which regulate feelings of motivation and reward[/url]". This is true.



In what context do you find this true?

Cannibus has no effect on dopamine, which regulate feelings of motivation and reward.

kontrol87
10-02-2005, 05:25 AM
I guess it depends on how you're raised, where you're raised, and you're culture also.

In holland no one gives a shit if you smoke weed. The country makes money off of selling it...in tern, makes the economy much better...people smoke weed everyday like my uncle.....and most of the dutch people are very friendly and happy. They stay out of wars...not because they dont have a military...but because they are simply a peaceful place. I am one those people who say fuck the pigs...because where I live and how i was raised its like that. Most of LA has a lot of hatred for the LAPD. Venice beach is where I took this picture. I listen to Bob Marley, Pink Floyd, Bone...people who stood up against a fukn society controlled by so many restrictions. In all reality...you do not need a whole bunch of fucking laws to regulate a civilized country...or even city....LA has one of the highest crime rates in the country...Why is it that in other countries...there are no censoring on TV or radio...there are no or high speed limits..legal prostitution...and yet there is less crime, and less accidents. You need to take a trip somewhere outside of the US if u havent done so already...go to a place like jamaica or holland...then you will see what its like to have freedom.

beachguy in thongs
10-02-2005, 05:29 AM
Dude, it's a forum.

This may be confusing their members.

http://www.personalmd.com/news/a1999032505.shtml

GHoSToKeR
10-02-2005, 05:33 AM
By 'this is true' I meant it's true that Cannabis, if abused, can cause lack of motivation, etc.. I don't see why there's any point in denying it. But whatever.

beachguy in thongs
10-02-2005, 05:42 AM
Abusing caffeine can cause a lack of motivation. Sniffing ants can make you not ever want to leave the house again. The lack of motivation comes from your involvement in the addiction. The only way you abuse marijuana is by holding the lighter to hit. And burning the fields. But that's another subject. The burning of an entire cannibus field is Genocide. It's like bombing a block of hot, 16 yr-old, virgin arabs.

Ganja Cat
10-02-2005, 05:45 AM
umm...you should get back to the subject of the thread

beachguy in thongs
10-02-2005, 05:53 AM
Kontrol killed it when he said his Mom was cool with everything. He doesn't need our help, anymore.

kontrol87
10-02-2005, 06:25 AM
you're right i dont, i just felt like preaching.

Edgar
10-02-2005, 09:46 AM
Ghost, what the fuck? What was with that lame ass link to that highly inaccurate article? They dont even mention the study they get that nerve damage bit from. I dont care what your arguing about, dont be bringing any more misinformation to a chronically misinformed message board.

Wow, it's from Daily Campus, that must mean it's true... Before you go spouting off 'facts' like they where the words of god, do you even bother to check around and see if your claims hold any weight? Where else have you read of this nerve damage?

Perhaps at the NIDA's website? That's were that bit comes from you know, they are the ones spreading that crap that the news drones pick up and repeat over and over, and here you come with a link to the same old bag of lies. Did you happen to notice the sources listed for that article?

Here they be: :
http://www.nytimes.gov
http://www.nida.nih.gov
http://www.drugabuse.gov
http://www.whitehousedrugpolicy.gov -sounds like a nice unbiased source of drug info to me, how bout you?

Edgar
10-02-2005, 09:54 AM
Before you go spouting off 'facts' like they where the words of god

edit: where to are

Dont ask me how i made that mistake...

MightyFourTwenty
10-02-2005, 10:25 AM
IF YOU SMOKE EVERY DAY ITS NO FUN. YOU CAN EASILY GET PHSYCOLOGICLY DEPENDANT ON IT. [FONT=Century Gothic] NOT PHYSICALLY!!! MIND YOU . YOU MAY FIND YOURSELF NOT ABLE TO HANDLE CERTAIN SITUATIONS WITHOUT WEED

BUT AT LEAST U CAN SMOKE AT HOME :)

Actually, the majority or tests and experiments show that it's not psychologically addictive either. Just thought I'd throw my two cents in there. NOTE : I'm sure there are people out there who have developed some semi-dependance to weed, but for the most part it wll not happen.

MightyFourTwenty
10-02-2005, 10:34 AM
LOL

People like you piss me off.

Why do you think alot of people are ignored when they bring up the subject of legalisation? Because there are so many kids like you, with no concept of fact, only wanting to shut your parents up or stop them from grounding you. Your arguments are like "uhh weed shud b legal cuz like its not bad n stuff n FUCK TEH PIGS MAN YEAH!!!!".

Nobody listens to that, I don't even listen to that and I smoke weed, for fucks sake.

If we were just to claim that weed is harmless, with absolutely no negative physiological effects whatsoever, then how will we look when the next report comes out showing that long term use causes lethargy, paranoia, etc. Who cares if these reports are accurate or not? People believe them and that's all that matters.

But if we actually admit that yes, weed can be harmful when abused, just like everything else, then we'll appear much more credible as opposed to being seen as a bunch of stoners in denial. And yes, smoking every day is abusing the drug.

Now explain to me how I am stopping the legalisation efforts.


All I say is PROVE IT. I've smoked damn near everyday since almost 6 years ago. I'm sorry, but I am a perfecty able, healthy, mentally stable 18 year old who smokes everyday, attends college full-time, and works on the side. I have never had depression, anger problems, etc. My aptitude test scores have only gone up, finishing my last year ACT with a composite score of 29, which definitely isn't bad. I'm sorry, but your "theory" is nothing more than shit.
However, I do believe weed shouldn't be abused, ie used to escape from problems. I myself smoke everyday, but I believe I do so in a responsible manner. I don't care what your little "study" link says, because I've already seen all the "weed is bad" bullshit propaganda that holds little to no truth.

kontrol87
10-02-2005, 12:57 PM
All I say is PROVE IT. I've smoked damn near everyday since almost 6 years ago. I'm sorry, but I am a perfecty able, healthy, mentally stable 18 year old who smokes everyday, attends college full-time, and works on the side. I have never had depression, anger problems, etc. My aptitude test scores have only gone up, finishing my last year ACT with a composite score of 29, which definitely isn't bad. I'm sorry, but your "theory" is nothing more than shit.
However, I do believe weed shouldn't be abused, ie used to escape from problems. I myself smoke everyday, but I believe I do so in a responsible manner. I don't care what your little "study" link says, because I've already seen all the "weed is bad" bullshit propaganda that holds little to no truth.

That goes for me too.

seedbare
10-02-2005, 07:09 PM
excellent post, while a may not totally agree with if pot causes a lack of motivation or not,. I would like to say I definately agree with your assesment of the state of affairs of the states,. we have so many rediculous rules and laws and therefore the high crime rate, MUCH of what is law is, is simply people being human beings and should not be illegal at all. It goes way beyond trying to have a perfect society into just being a way of authority to control your very thoughts and actions it is not tolerable and therefore we get people going insane and doing crazy stuff, they are rebelling against the noose of the control freak system.







I guess it depends on how you're raised, where you're raised, and you're culture also.

In holland no one gives a shit if you smoke weed. The country makes money off of selling it...in tern, makes the economy much better...people smoke weed everyday like my uncle.....and most of the dutch people are very friendly and happy. They stay out of wars...not because they dont have a military...but because they are simply a peaceful place. I am one those people who say fuck the pigs...because where I live and how i was raised its like that. Most of LA has a lot of hatred for the LAPD. Venice beach is where I took this picture. I listen to Bob Marley, Pink Floyd, Bone...people who stood up against a fukn society controlled by so many restrictions. In all reality...you do not need a whole bunch of fucking laws to regulate a civilized country...or even city....LA has one of the highest crime rates in the country...Why is it that in other countries...there are no censoring on TV or radio...there are no or high speed limits..legal prostitution...and yet there is less crime, and less accidents. You need to take a trip somewhere outside of the US if u havent done so already...go to a place like jamaica or holland...then you will see what its like to have freedom.

GHoSToKeR
10-02-2005, 08:32 PM
I said it CAN cause that. And Edgar, that article was pulled off the front page of Cannabis.com.

NYCZILLESTROLLER
10-02-2005, 08:34 PM
stop smokin weed and get even more lazy, then tell her "now that im not smokin weed, i can't think about anything but weed, weed helps me focus PLEASE LET ME SMOKE WEED EVERYDAY MOM!" good luck

Melton420
10-03-2005, 06:20 AM
Tell her ok and dont do anything, just keep smoking

ArtRollins
10-03-2005, 07:53 PM
dont tell her anything. start taking off your pants slowly, gyrate your hips a little and spank yourself with a large wooden spoon while screaming "IM LOVIN IT!!!" then start licking the floor and grunting like a pig. that should change her mind!

I have to reply to you first, MAN, that had me on the floor for 10 minutes. That is great. If Melton did that his Mom would never ask him anything again.

Melton, I see where you come from. I had that with my Mom. They don't know weed, so they have fears. Mom's love is too deep for us to know. Anyway, the deal is to live free and try and keep to your goals. Cannabis can be used as an excuse to just sit and stare, or you can use the feeling to do cool things. It is a choice. So, dont be lazy. Use the herb, dont let it use you.

Tell her you will watch your goals and not let cannabis interfere with it. That should be true anyway.

Kid Dynamite
10-03-2005, 07:55 PM
its true though man. Im a lazy fucker since i started smoking weed

ArtRollins
10-03-2005, 08:05 PM
Shit, by all your accounts I should be dead.

I have smoked since 1957. I have not stoped except for 3 days when I was 17. I wont forget them either. I have been to over 100 countries, speak 5 languages, have all my teeth and lots of hair. I may not be living proof it is harmless even in perfect health, but I am certainly proof that constant use does not hold one back from being creativem, healthy and happy all the time.
Now not everyone is the same. I have only a few friends that smoke like me. Most of them are in the industry or farmers themselves. We are the Weedmen so to speak. The THC in our blood allows this trivia to roll off our backs.