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BlazinHaze
10-01-2005, 12:00 AM
Almost every time someone responds to something I say, positive or negative, they assume I'm a man. I don't know if my username is manly or something, but just so y'all know... I'm a girl :) .

Oh yeah, and also, I think I'm comfortable enough here to be on a first name basis with people. So, my name's Sarah.
beachguy in thongs
10-01-2005, 12:07 AM
LOL!!! Yeah, right, some dude!!!
death of sXe
10-01-2005, 12:08 AM
the boobs gave it away, man
beachguy in thongs
10-01-2005, 12:08 AM
Sara, I'm Chris, and my last girlfriend before I lost my virginity was named Sara.
GHoSToKeR
10-01-2005, 12:08 AM
No offence, Sarah, but you make a really crap dude. :)
beachguy in thongs
10-01-2005, 12:09 AM
Some people call everyone a "dude", though.
BlazinHaze
10-01-2005, 12:11 AM
No offence, Sarah, but you make a really crap dude. :)

Thanks. I'm just glad no one who meets me in person ever thinks I'm a guy (cause that would really suck).
Nochowderforyou
10-01-2005, 12:11 AM
"Whoa, Dude! Excellent!"
Canadabis
10-01-2005, 12:11 AM
You are a dood.
GHoSToKeR
10-01-2005, 12:18 AM
Ya, I call everyone a dude, regardless of whether they're male or female. Alot of the time people don't even notice, but sometimes people are like "Dude? I'm a chick!" or "Dude? LOL You're such a stoner!".

At the last place I worked I didn't really get on with the guys there. I don't mean to be concieted at all, but the reason I didn't get on with them was because most of them were assholes, real fucking assholes. They would stress out and shout and pull their hair out all the time, and expect everyone else to do the same. I never used to be like that (at least not most of the time), because even is something is important or urgent there's no need to stress about it. But because I have a really relaxed attitude to everything (wel, most things) and because I used the word dude alot, the two guys I got along with the least used to walks around saying the word dude in a really exagerated way, with one of those fake, californian surfer accents. Used to piss me off so much you wouldn't believe it.

Anyway, dunno how all that was really relevant, but hey, wotrugonado?
beachguy in thongs
10-01-2005, 12:19 AM
Thanks. I'm just glad no one who meets me in person ever thinks I'm a guy (cause that would really suck).

Hey, meet me on the boardwalk, I'll tell you if my first impression of you is one of a guy............................................... ..................................?
GHoSToKeR
10-01-2005, 12:21 AM
Sorry to post again, but if it makes you feel any better, BlazinHaze, I definately would. :D :p
poorman3
10-01-2005, 01:20 AM
Thanks. I'm just glad no one who meets me in person ever thinks I'm a guy (cause that would really suck).
Being I`m from N.C. I must say you will not have that problem here! :D
We like to drink and smoke as well as sleep and wake and bake... then ??? Tell me? LOL :eek:
BlazinHaze
10-01-2005, 01:24 AM
Being I`m from N.C. I must say you will not have that problem here! :D
We like to drink and smoke as well as sleep and wake and bake... then ??? Tell me? LOL :eek:

where in NC?
benagain
10-01-2005, 01:31 AM
yea, where at in NC? i'm from there. at least a part of there nobody seems to know about.
WeedWorm
10-01-2005, 02:26 AM
your signature makes you ok with me ;) and you should add on to your siggy "I'M NOT A DUDE!"
hipEstoner
10-01-2005, 02:48 AM
im roach
ermitonto
10-01-2005, 03:55 AM
Hell, as a second-generation hippie, I'll call anybody "man", regardless of gender. You know what I mean, man?
seedbare
10-01-2005, 08:55 AM
A Dude is really a derogatory term it means: an ingrown butt hair. It can also mean that you dont fully trust someone, or a term for somebody who is a scammer.
l330
10-01-2005, 09:18 AM
depends on my mood
trance,progressive ,classical,rock ,hip hop
and u?
soHi
10-01-2005, 09:19 AM
You definately dont look like a dude, dude! In fact you've got the breast looking avatar in this place, so dont worry dude, we can all see you're a chick, man!
ilikerabbits
10-01-2005, 09:39 AM
You definately dont look like a dude, dude! In fact you've got the breast looking avatar in this place, so dont worry dude, we can all see you're a chick, man!


lol, you said breast, instead of best, lol.
robert42
10-01-2005, 10:59 AM
u mean ur not....
BUZz UK
10-01-2005, 12:21 PM
Almost every time someone responds to something I say, positive or negative, they assume I'm a man. I don't know if my username is manly or something, but just so y'all know... I'm a girl :)
I'm gonna need some proof here...
beachguy in thongs
10-01-2005, 12:23 PM
Hell, as a second-generation hippie, I'll call anybody "man", regardless of gender. You know what I mean, man?

I don't get it, man.
beachguy in thongs
10-01-2005, 12:24 PM
A Dude is really a derogatory term it means: an ingrown butt hair. It can also mean that you dont fully trust someone, or a term for somebody who is a scammer.

Awesome.
beachguy in thongs
10-01-2005, 12:27 PM
You definately dont look like a dude, dude! In fact you've got the breast looking avatar in this place, so dont worry dude, we can all see you're a chick, man!


Originally Posted by soHi
You definately dont look like a dude, dude! In fact you've got the breast looking avatar in this place, so dont worry dude, we can all see you're a chick, man!

ilikerabbits Quote:
lol, you said breast, instead of best, lol.

my quote:
LOL. A Freudian slip, how did he pull it off?
Breukelen advocaat
10-01-2005, 06:13 PM
A Dude is really a derogatory term it means: an ingrown butt hair. It can also mean that you dont fully trust someone, or a term for somebody who is a scammer.

The first time I ever heard the word used extensively was in the term "dude ranch", many years ago.

In the movie "The Man Who Shot Liberty Valence" (1962), Lee Marvin, as the Western outlaw Valence, uses "dudeā? as a put-down of Jimmy Stewart, who is from the East:

Jimmy Stewart: "What kind of men are you??"
Lee Marvin: "This kind, dude."
Valence hits him
Marvin: "Now, what kind of man are you, dude?"

I saw this movie when it came out. If I remember correctly, we saw it in a drive-in. It's on TV once in a while, and John Wayne is also in it.


"Dude" stated being used in New York in the late 60's in a similar meaning as the usage by the California surfers who adapted the word. Now it can refer to women, also.

I have never yet heard the word used in any references that you have named. I guess it depends on where you live.
poorman3
10-02-2005, 05:06 AM
where in NC?
Sorry I missed your reply. I`m south of greensboro 1 hour. :eek:
StarcommanderX
10-02-2005, 05:16 AM
hey sarah. how about you and me going back to my place. so you can wash my dirty clothes.
tokosan
10-02-2005, 05:22 AM
lol
Garden Knowm
10-02-2005, 07:41 AM
prove it!
Bman719
10-02-2005, 08:50 AM
Thanks. I'm just glad no one who meets me in person ever thinks I'm a guy (cause that would really suck).
That would totally suck... I was at denny's really stoned a few days ago... and there was this chick there that me and my friend thought was a guy. We were with my friend kristen and she knew the girl (evidently it was um... female) from highschool and talked to her for a minute and then came back to our table and I actually had to whisper to her and ask her whether the it was a he or she.... and evidently it was female. I say it because it was quite disturbing and I honestly couldn't tell....