So here's the deal

[buddymyfriend]

Man, where do i start? At the beginning i guess. Ive gotta tell me best mate in about an hours time that ive been playing around with his girl behind his back! Okay. i know wotcha thinkin, wot an asshole am i? But would the situation be diff' if he'd fucked my gf behind my back (split up bout 3 mths ago)


I found out he'd fucked my gf coz HIS gf told me. Too cut a hug long story short he's an ass and make us weed smokers look bad! Ya know wot i mean, it effects folk in diff' ways and he shud jst put it down. He does nothing around the flat they live in and i mean nothing. For fuck sake i do more about the place than he does, and i dont even live there! Trust me he's a waster! Not the sort of man that makes boyfriend material. Smokes himself into an early bed and it seems that's all he wants to do. I coulod write a a HUGE long list why he's no good for her. He does nothin for her, and she deserves sooo much more!

It all started a few months ago, him fallin asleep early doors and his girl and me wud sut there and chat until the weed was gone and the sun rose. She gave me back my life back after i split up wid my girl, gave me my confidence back & made me feel like a man. And it kinds just snowballed frm there! Now she wants to leave him but doesnt have the heart to tell him and its down to me. SHIT !! I shud be enjoyin this after the shit he's brought upon me, but im a bottl;le of whiskey uop and i dunno wot to say?

It all started lika revenge thing but then i got to know his gf and stupidly have fallen for her BIG TIME!! Man im such a mess, dunno wot kinda answers im lookin for. Just didnt know where else to turn i guess. Im pished and i need of help......


Buddy hurts soooooo bad he wanna cry....

[Warlock]

Why tell him?
I've been fucking about with my mate behind her fiances back, it's nothing.
You don't have to tell him

[buddymyfriend]

Yeah i do, coz she wants to leave but doesnt have the minerals to tell him. This whiskey aint helpin me find the answres!

I just want her in my life sooo bad, mayb i shud take thids to Jerry Springer, he seems to sort this kinda shit out!

LOL


Buddy needs help b\ad

[Fattie]

Why is he your best friend if he is a douche?

[buddymyfriend]

He was......but know fuck him. I cud handle him teefin weed of me but fuckin my gal? Nah me neva forgive and now ive fallen form his gal. I'll do one better it wont just be a one night stand.......im takin hids girl and maikn her mine.


BbbbbWWwhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

A vey pished buddy

[Warlock]

Yeah i do, coz she wants to leave but doesnt have the minerals to tell him. This whiskey aint helpin me find the answres!

I just want her in my life sooo bad, mayb i shud take thids to Jerry Springer, he seems to sort this kinda shit out!

LOL


Buddy needs help b\ad

You're sure that she's gonna go for you when they break up?
In my experience, the girls I got with through them cheating on their previous boyfriend, are very likely to do the exact same thing with me. May be the same for you...

[buddymyfriend]

I cudnt say the thought neva crossed my mind, but its different! I know she wont cum ruunnin to me after( other than a shoulder to cry on) but id wait foreva for her. She makes me, me.

Man love sux ass

Buddy

[Warlock]

I cudnt say the thought neva crossed my mind, but its different! I know she wont cum ruunnin to me after( other than a shoulder to cry on) but id wait foreva for her. She makes me, me.

Man love sux ass

Buddy

So why is it upto you to tell him if you're not even sure she's gonna be with you after they've broken up?

[buddymyfriend]

Only 20 mins b4 i i shatter my mates world, fuck why am i feelin soooo bad? For fuck sake he did it to me only diff' is i havent fcked his gal coz we want it to b prefect wen it happens. Even his exes came onto to me atleast three of em and i turned it down coz he;s me bezzie mate. WOT A TWAT!! Sometimes friendships are juast one way. Me bottle of whsikey is telling me wot goes around cums around, but im failing to c it.

Peace

Buddy wanna die

[ladyM]

Cork yer whiskey bottle! What makes you you, is you. Not some girl that cheats on her boyfriend. I know its easier said than done, but look elsewhere, most cheaters never change their spots.
Listen to your friend Warlock, hes making sense man.

[buddymyfriend]

Big shouts to the produces of Bells Whiskey.....yeah i loves ya man and even bigger props goin out to Jack Johnson....man he knows his lyrics. Dont care if ya not feelin it but it's helplin moi. Tryt the tracks : Better together, sittin waitin wishin or banana pancakes. Man wot a dude.


Why must i always be waiting for you, why must i aleays be playin the fool?


Peace

Buddy wants to be happy

[Greensworth]

Damn man... If feel for your pain. I am currently try to make this girl i have been seeing my GF. She is amazing, makes me laugh, cute, caring, fun to hang with. It was rough until I met her because i wasn't myself before. I was always getting down on myself about how I let my EX get away. But fuck that now, she wasn't worth the time i spent. She is outta my head and this new girl is what I am all about! Amazing! Listen Buddy man, i believe just from what you have written that you can do it, i believe in you, i think you have the mineral's to take her away from him and set this mate of your straight. I would have personally put my fist through his head if he would have cheated with my girlfriend... best of luck to you guy, you ever need someone to watch your back man lemme know. I will fucking swim if you need a mate dude! Totally! Anyhow man, take it easy, keep your head about you (even though the whiskey is totally a good idea to!) haha.

[buddymyfriend]

Cheers greensworth i'll hit ya up im the am if i remeber ya name! Ur a true member of cann.com . That;'s y i came ova frm mariehmp.com thers sooo much luv herre. Yreah i shudve smashed his face....mayb i will...ive got 10mins 2 decide. Either i'll either let ya no frm the in side or th out. Hersw goes nothin........ Peace to you all especially greensworth....unrequited(sp) love hurts dont it?

Peace

Buddy' sortin shit out

[mrdevious]

holy shit buddy, learn to spell. there's abreviations, then there's spelling every word with 3 letters, and that just makes it hard to read.

[BobBong]

i particularly like "shudve", "cudnt" and "wot"

p.s.. Cheaters suck. Grow some balls, and talk to this guy. you sound like you like to sneak around your.. "friends" back. have you no shame?

[somebody someone]

wow the last 2 guys that posted are DICKS. yeah i hate cheaters 2, but what goes around comes around, he FUCKED the guys girl, i wud hate that alot more. and BTW hes drunk, dont tell me youve never had a slur on your voice in your life.

[BobBong]

wow the last 2 guys that posted are DICKS. yeah i hate cheaters 2, but what goes around comes around, he FUCKED the guys girl, i wud hate that alot more. and BTW hes drunk, dont tell me youve never had a slur on your voice in your life.
I don't drink, Alcohol is for the weak.

[NightProwler]

cheaters suck. face the concequences of being an asshole.

[tylerkane]

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Why tell him?
I've been fucking about with my mate behind her fiances back, it's nothing.
You don't have to tell him

Wow, your one big piece of shit buddy.

[Mojavpa]

cheaters suck. face the concequences of being an asshole.

Exactly. I mean, are people that clueless that they think that they can sleep with their friend's girlfriends/boyfriends and not realize more drama will result?

[NightProwler]

i, honestly swear to god would indirectly kill myself if i found out my friend was fucking my girlfriend. by indirectly i mean i would drink a bottle of gin a night and start abusing hard drugs. out of depression.

[beachguy in thongs]

Wow, this sounds so odd!

I went to college apart from my best friends and they found girlfriends. I transferred to their school and hung out with them. I left after a semester and came back after three years, one of them was dating the other's g/f and the other was alone.

I thought about them a lot and their relationships. Maybe you should wait.

[mrdevious]

wow the last 2 guys that posted are DICKS. .


I'm a "DICK" (capital letters and all) just because I'm pointing out that it's difficult to read when there's no grammar or spelling?

[Canadabis]

Infidelity and a lack of honour.
No honour=no respect.

[jacquelyne]

I dont care my best friend did that to me when i see her fucking hell u would not believe what i will do.That was the biggest mistake of her life im very serious.Be very careful that you dont fuck with the wrong person.Now for me im not invited certain places by my own family because that fucking low life slut is there and they know what i will do.They 100% know that i will bash her to unconsiousness if you knew the circumstances you would understand why i feel this way.I cant help it my anger takes over and i loose control especially when i had such faith in a person.Sorry about those nasty words but you and your mate are both fucking assholes and the sluts are just as bad.NIL HONOUR NIL MORALS NIL RESPECT.TOSSERS.

[Canadabis]

So you do get it.
People without honour are tools, when a tool breaks you toss it.

[Warlock]

Wow, your one big piece of shit buddy.


No, I see what I want & I get it. No ones being hurt so no harm done.

[GHoSToKeR]

Wow, your one big piece of shit buddy.
I was scrolling down to the bottom of the paeg to type pretty much the same thing, but I see you've already done it. Cheers.

[tylerkane]

Ohhh, so you justify being a prick by saying "What I want, I go and get it."?
NO HARM?
SHES FUCKING ENGAGED.

Ghost:
cheers back atcha

[Warlock]

Ohhh, so you justify being a prick by saying "What I want, I go and get it."?
NO HARM?
SHES FUCKING ENGAGED.

Ghost:
cheers back atcha

So what if she's engaged? SHE is the one engaged! Not me!!
No one knows anything, I've been friends with her for like 12yrs, it's an act of friendship rather than love or cheating. No one is being harmed.

[GHoSToKeR]

Except for the fact that it's just low.

[Warlock]

Except for the fact that it's just low.

Is not, she's my best bud, it's natural.
Plus, she's a readhead & very hot

[GHoSToKeR]

Well............. if she's a redhead........................... :D

[Warlock]

Exactly. I mean, are people that clueless that they think that they can sleep with their friend's girlfriends/boyfriends and not realize more drama will result?

I KNOW it wont result in drama, because I'm leaving to another country soon & then it'll be all over with. So clueless doesnt come into it.

[Warlock]

Well............. if she's a redhead........................... :D

Indeed, redheads are far superior to any other female species.

[soHi]

Is not, she's my best bud, it's natural.
Plus, she's a readhead & very hot


cumon m8, its not really natural to be shagging your best bud, the fact that shes ginger makes it even worse, but, a saddo like u probly cant get it anywhere else.

Smoke your best bud, dont violate it! ;)

[Warlock]

cumon m8, its not really natural to be shagging your best bud, the fact that shes ginger makes it even worse, but, a saddo like u probly cant get it anywhere else.

Smoke your best bud, dont violate it! ;)

It is natural, it's what friends do.
Some people are mad for redheads, some arent, I cant understand why people arent though. Yes I can get it elsewhere, but why bother when this one's so hot? Think about it.

[soHi]

Indeed, redheads are far superior to any other female species.


what the hell r u on m8, we all know ginger birds have pissy minges!!!!!

Down with the gingers! :mad:

[Warlock]

what the hell r u on m8, we all know ginger birds have pissy minges!!!!!

Down with the gingers! :mad:

That's like saying all blacks are thieves... just not quite as contraversial, but generalising too much

[GHoSToKeR]

Hey, I used to agree with you, soHi, until I saw some program recently on Channel 4. It was about women's sex drives and stuff. On it there was this extreeeeeeemely fit redheaded chick, and I fell in love. All my mates thought she was alright but her hair let her down, but I totally fell in love with redheads from that day on. lol :p

[Warlock]

How can you tell me this chick aint hot?
Click (http://galleries.artgps.com/harrisarchives/harris012/001/pics/001.jpg)

Work safe

[soHi]

How can you tell me this chick aint hot?
Click (http://galleries.artgps.com/harrisarchives/harris012/001/pics/001.jpg)

Work safe

she's got goosebumps on her legs

now i just think you're sdad for showing me a pic of some random fit redhed u pulled off the net.

[Warlock]

she's got goosebumps on her legs
Like you'd give a shit once you have your duck in her!


now i just think you're sdad for showing me a pic of some random fit redhed u pulled off the net.

I care?

[soHi]

i'm shaggin a ginger that disguises herself as a blonde, but the curtains dont match thje carpet and shes a bit pissy herself, she'll do till i get my room back, but at least shes not engaged to someone else, man how must that feel to know that shes going home shagging the man she wants to spend her life with????? She probly just feels sorry for u

[Warlock]

i'm shaggin a ginger that disguises herself as a blonde, but the curtains dont match thje carpet and shes a bit pissy herself, she'll do till i get my room back, but at least shes not engaged to someone else, man how must that feel to know that shes going home shagging the man she wants to spend her life with????? She probly just feels sorry for u

When they disguise themselves with black hair that's extra nice, especially when they get roots.
She dont feel sorry for me, no way, & they hardly fuck, he has problems in the bedroom department.

[soHi]

i prefer my ladies natural thanx, black hair with ginger roots, you need help man!

[Warlock]

i prefer my ladies natural thanx, black hair with ginger roots, you need help man!

So i have some strange ideals, it suits me.

[buddymyfriend]

So here i am sporting a broken thumb, two broken toes and one hell of a hangover! (no fightin, kicked my kitchen table and then put a hole in the wall) Didnt quite go to plan, thinks maybe had something to do with the whiskey! Man i feel soooooo shit! Went round to his n hers last night, saw red and went mental at my mate, he phoned the police because i wouldnt leave. All i wanted to do was talk, to try and sort out this crazy bullshit! And to all the folk that have said im low have no morals etc, heres a big fuck u. I have every right to turn his life upside down. He did to me only difference is ive got the balls to be honest about it.

So heres the deal she dont wanna know me now, he hasnt got a clue whats been going on and ive got a broken heart. I said to her she can take a runnin jump as she totally sided against me and that she'll never find someone that loves her like i do. So i guess im admitting defeat. Gonna go out to with one of my true mates, one that wont fuck me over get a nose bag and a bottle of something. Here's a toast, aint love grand?!

Buddy

[Dopenologist]

Any relationship that starts with cheating with end the same....

[buddymyfriend]

Thanks everone for your input, some of you have helped me for which im hugely grateful. Ive decided its time to get my life on track, ive had enough. Ive made an appointment to see my Doc as i feel at a loss and cant handle things at the moment. Im not sleeping, not eating, using coke to numb the pain and drinking waaaay too much. I've lost my job bacause of my drinkin i was either hugely hungover at work or not there because i was too pissed or hungover. Ive woken up with girls i dont even know or want to know. I've lost friends and my dignity. I cant stop crying and i never cry, but i seem to be real good at it at the mo. I need help and im gonna get it. Ive had enough of feeling like this, and i dont like the person im slowly becoming.

Why cant i stop these feelings inside?
Why, oh why cant they just reside?
It's gotta stop, I must stop
I can't, It won't.
I want you out of mind,
I just need to unwind,
And find piece of mind,
With you out of my mind.

Peace bmf

[soHi]

you'l find yourself again buddy, chin up and remember a wise man once said ''Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted.''

[Warlock]

Good luck with it man! Hope things pick up very soon for you.

[buddymyfriend]

Thankx for the encouragement, it's good to know there's some decent people left in the world.

Bit worried bout my toe, canes like a mofo. I think i may have broken it.

Peace buddy

[somebody someone]

fuck dude see a doctor! but really..


that would happen wouldnt it... didnt someone predict that youd lose both of them? unlucky, try and get her back prove that u care. Do it! peace

[buddymyfriend]

Couldn't care about losing my friend, he lost that when he fucked my ex. Ive also cut all ties with his girl. Changed my mobile number, stopped answering her calls emails etc. Im not being a puppet on a bit of string. Not for anyone.

I will get through this, i just feel a bit lost at the moment.

Peace

Buddy