my g/f is shy gettin nude

[mellow mood]

damn this fuckin sucks. i mean goddamn WHY THE HELL ARE U FUCKIN SHY we fuck since 3 weeks.

omg i hate it

anybody have a solution. it pretty annoying i mean holy shit. and shes not ugly. i mean shes doesnt have the fuckin biggest boobs ive seen, but they are just ok. shes like "i dont like my body"

ever happened to sum1? thx for the answerz

[MyAntiDrugIsAmy]

tell her you like it and it turns you on. btw how young is she?

[mellow mood]

shes 18, soon 19.

and i told her 100 times i loved her body and all.

this sucks

[MaDd]

shes 18, soon 19.

and i told her 100 times i loved her body and all.

this sucks
obviously your new to this. u cant just say u love her body you have to make her feel the same way about herself. ive had many chicks like that you have to work slowly at it like undressin them in mirror and making them feel comfortable little by little. start with the shirt then work down to the socks. its all about her feeling comfortable. you cant pressure

[tylerkane]

You need to read a book or something Buddy, you seem to have absolutley no insight on this subject

[ADaisyChain]

After reading someone's response to some other thread "Finger the shit out of her" my brain wants to answer that to every question asked on the sexuality board. Im stopping myself, but just barely. "Im scared to tell my dad I'm gay" "Just finger the shit out of him, get him all loose, then tell him" That kinda stuff. But I don't think anyone would get the obscure reference.

In conclusion: Just finger the shit out of her until she's really comfortable and THEN get her naked.

Or just make her feel sexy.

[tylerkane]

haha, nice one

[mellow mood]

if i need to read a book and your so informed tyler could you give me any tips?

good to look intelligent but good to show it too :D

thx

[beachguy in thongs]

I haven't read this thread, yet.

- What, no picture???

I was disappointed, but I'm gonna go now and entertain myself.

[jacquelyne]

I think most girls are shy at that age unless they have been around quite a bit with a few guys.I definatley was very shy to get naked at that age in front of my bf.It took me till i was about 21 to feel ok about being naked in front of a man.

[MyAntiDrugIsAmy]

After reading someone's response to some other thread "Finger the shit out of her" my brain wants to answer that to every question asked on the sexuality board. Im stopping myself, but just barely. "Im scared to tell my dad I'm gay" "Just finger the shit out of him, get him all loose, then tell him" That kinda stuff. But I don't think anyone would get the obscure reference.

In conclusion: Just finger the shit out of her until she's really comfortable and THEN get her naked.

Or just make her feel sexy.

thanks for the reference to me, and yeah, finger the shit out of her

and yeah, i have no problem getting naked in front of a guy i'm dating, i walk around nude at my house all the time. shit, i think chica just has a problem with her self esteem so i guess do it gradually and i guess nicely... i dunno, some girls are weird

[beachguy in thongs]

After quoting DaisyChain...
thanks for the reference to me, and yeah, finger the shit out of her

and yeah, i have no problem getting naked in front of a guy i'm dating, i walk around nude at my house all the time. shit, i think chica just has a problem with her self esteem so i guess do it gradually and i guess nicely... i dunno, some girls are weird

Again, I saw this before DaisyChain's and had this eerie feeling of you two and a 12 year old girl sitting in the park at night, indianstyle.

[beachguy in thongs]

You're avatar's the best Mellow Mood. When I scrolled down, I could just imagine a skull sitting at a poker table with cards in his hands, a fat cigar hanging out of his mouth, and while arranging the cards in his hands, he says, "She's 18 soon 19." But I had originally put 18 or 19 and it was funny.

[slipknotpsycho]

ok well, some people will just always feel uncomfterable. i'll tell you this now, i'm very uncomfterable when it comes to being seen even in just my boxers. when i was alot younger i was really over weight, and it just kinda carried over (even after i lost all the weight and apparently many girls find me attractive, i still don't think i am but they always tell me i am) i've done my wife probably well over 1000 times, so she's seen me naked alot, yet i still feel weird. she might not ever get over it, but you need to realize sometimes it comes kids hammering the fact that they're 'fat and ugly' in school into their head for years and it isn't very easy to get rid of if you ever even can. do your best to support her and let her know there is nothing wrong with her body, but if she still does, just accept the fact she is self conconscience about it. maybe try making her feel more comfterable, ask her how you could do such a thing, maybe having the lights off, maybe not starring at her (even if she is drop dead hot to you and you just want to stare at her all the time)

first try this, sit her down, look her in the eyes and tell her something along the lines (you have to mean it for this, i'm not telling you this so you can just get her in bed, but i doubt that's the case) and tell her no matter how un-atractive she is to anyone else it doesn't matter, you love her you find her atractive and even if she was -insert absurd weight of 1000 pounds or more here- you would still think the same. and even so attraction isn't a matter, i love you for what's inside of you, not what's on the outside.

people with damaged ego's rarely recover, i am one of them...i can have as many people as i want tell me i'm 'hot as hell' or 'sexy as fuck' and i will still never get the fact outta my head that i am un-attractive. deep down i know i'm not over weight anymore, but i will never let myself admit it.

[hubblebubble]

you musnt be a very good bf if she wont take her clothes of for you after 3 weeks of fucking

[SamoanLawyer]

You're avatar's the best Mellow Mood. When I scrolled down, I could just imagine a skull sitting at a poker table with cards in his hands, a fat cigar hanging out of his mouth, and while arranging the cards in his hands, he says, "She's 18 soon 19." But I had originally put 18 or 19 and it was funny.

LMAO, I couldnt recognize him,with those sunglasses on and all.

[MyAntiDrugIsAmy]

After quoting DaisyChain...

Again, I saw this before DaisyChain's and had this eerie feeling of you two and a 12 year old girl sitting in the park at night, indianstyle.
hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

[DonnieDarko]

Just be patient with her .... girls have a really tough time growing up ..... and breast size is a touchy issue (no pin intended). If you really like her enough to have sex with her, then like her for her shyness ... She'll probably be freaky in the bedroom around age 35, when it really counts.

[mellow mood]

lol oj thx for the answers folks.

but im not plannin to dstay with her for a long period. anyway ill do my best and hubble shes takin off her clothes shes just shy. guess u didnt read my thread

[Lulu]

lol oj thx for the answers folks.

but im not plannin to dstay with her for a long period. anyway ill do my best and hubble shes takin off her clothes shes just shy. guess u didnt read my thread
Gawd, now I'm sorry I started reading this thread :rolleyes:

[Euphoric]

damn this fuckin sucks. i mean goddamn WHY THE HELL ARE U FUCKIN SHY we fuck since 3 weeks.

omg i hate it

anybody have a solution. it pretty annoying i mean holy shit. and shes not ugly. i mean shes doesnt have the fuckin biggest boobs ive seen, but they are just ok. shes like "i dont like my body"

ever happened to sum1? thx for the answerz

whenever some one asks me..hey..how can i change my life for the better? :confused: my response is always the same: i dunno!! pass me the joint tho
hehe no but seriously...youve read the celestine prophecy? like..where attention flows energy goes right. ;) ..so, basicly focus on the concept of her not being shy. :cool: maybe the ensuing aura of goodness will increase nudespeed :eek:

um..

or if you prefer working primarily in physical realms i suppose you could get her drunk.
:D

[DonnieDarko]

Gawd, now I'm sorry I started reading this thread :rolleyes:

That happens alot in this forum ....

[jacquelyne]

Yuck beachguy that just gave me a shiver down my spine lol
After quoting DaisyChain...

Again, I saw this before DaisyChain's and had this eerie feeling of you two and a 12 year old girl sitting in the park at night, indianstyle.

[beachguy in thongs]

Yuck beachguy that just gave me a shiver down my spine lol


Sorry, jackie

[jacquelyne]

Same here she probably senses that
Gawd, now I'm sorry I started reading this thread :rolleyes:

[jacquelyne]

lol along with a smile so its all good
Sorry, jackie

[mellow mood]

haha euphoric yea i read that book. maybe ill try this haha

and beer too :D

[Not Enough Herb]

yes damaged egos r probly the worst thing you can have happen to u. i was always the fat kid in elementary school until i lost a lot of weight just this year. mf gf tells me im attractive, but after being told ur fat everday for 12 years its like talking to a pole.

but back to the problem. my gf is a lot like yours. she doesnt think shes attractive even tho she makes me harder then a brick wall. u gotta be persistant and patient. tell her even tho she thinks she's ugly, you find her attractive, and that you wouldnt tell her she's pretty if you didnt mean it (you dont wanna be a lying bastard, now do you?) u should kiss all down her body, while pausing every so often to say sumthing like "wow baby you have a really sexy stomach" and so on and so forth. it takes time but before u know it, clothes will be getting ripped off.

goodluck

later

[flamingskullballs]

it doesnt matter if you like her body or not, if shes insecure about it then you have to make HER think its nice...

if all else fails then start eating her anus until shes a nasty girl...ha...

[Melton420]

get naked and run in public see what that does to her