Reposting here cause it takes to long to get replies in the Sexuality forum: HELP MEH

[daZenfmeister]

Okay this is gonna take a while to explain and I'm pretty fucking hungover so it might not make all that much sense we'll see:

Okay so I'm going out with Mindy and me and her are kinda havein relationship probs and stuff like for ex. she wont do anything for me even after I finger her for like ten min and she will try and give me the shittiest handjob in the world in return even though I know when I finger her I'm damn good at it. So anyways shes moving to another city for college and she a year older than me so im still in highschool. Well her best friend is name is Amber (these are fake names BTW for protection) and anyways Amber is the same age as me just a tiny bit younger and shes going out with a guy whos like 7 years older than her (but it really works out because shes mature for her age and he is immature) and well I'm really attracted to Amber, I really think I'm in love with Amber, I mean me and Amber have known each other since about 3rd grade and I've liked her pretty much ever since. Well she recently came out and told me that she still had feelings for me (she said she USED to like me when I started going out with Misty) but so we've been alone alot lately and talking and we agreed that if our current relationships don't work out then we're gonna hook up DEFINATLY. Now alot of people would call me crazy for liking Amber over Misty but my current g/f (misty) isn't all that deep shes a ditz and has alot of bad personality problems...well Amber is probably not as attractive as Misty (to some people she may be unattractive but to me she is strikingly beautiful).

But me and Amber have so much in common:

1. We're the same age
2. We're both inexperianced
3. We've known each other for a long time
4. we're both more of the intellectual type
5. we're both not that popular (well shes more popular than me)
6. we agree on ALOT more things and me and my g/f agree on

So the bottom line is that I feel really bad because:

1. Shes my girlfriend's best friend
2. Both me and Amber are in a relationship
3. Amber is willing to break up with her boyfriend just for me
4. My g/f and her b/f would go together really well (my g/f's a nympho and so is her b/f)

So how can I handle this very volatile situation? I want to end up with Amber but I think misty is in love with me and i used to be but not anymore. And its the same thing with Amber and her b/f



Also I am not going to cheat on my g/f and i dont want to make Amber cheat on her b/f because we're kinda friends. :confused: :confused: :eek:

[Fattie]

Break up with your girlfriend. She's moving. Fuck that shit, if she cant even do something for you sexually, how is she goin to help you with serious stuff in the future. Dump her.

[daZenfmeister]

Well I'm kinda a winp and I don't wanna break up with her until she leaves or a little after like when shes situated just cause she wont make it without me....and I swear to god the girl is gonna get raped in college if shes out looking for guys cause shes like i said a total nympho

[Fattie]

Have break up sex.

[187]

u changed your girlfriends name from mindy to misty jsut thought i'd say that haha

[daZenfmeister]

lol sorry like i said im hung over and those arent real names like i said lol.........wow i must be worse off than i actually felll shit!

[daZenfmeister]

And just to add something me and Amanda (was that it) keep communication up we both keep talking about how we should be together....

[ezjim]

if she will dump her old man to be with you ..eventually she will do the same to you ..as far as the screwin part goes..if she cant give decent head and isnt willing to learn id move along ..but thats just me ..it's hard to be with a girl if there is no chemistry ..i had a simular thing with my oldest sons mom .. the sex was only ok but we still have way strong love for each other ..and now that we are just friends we can hang out and party together..it's nice to be able to sleep with who ever you want but still have some one that you know will love you and be there for you when you need it .. i hope things work out for you dude ..

[Breukelen advocaat]

Advice from someone who's been there and done that:

Fuck all this "romance" and "love" bullshit! Just get laid whenever, and wherever, you can.

Don't "break-up" with a girl - let them do it to you, and just walk away. There's always another one right around the corner, anyway.

I got married in my 40's - and am glad I waited. Most of the "relationships" I had were bullshit - I'm glad that they "broke up". If we hadn't, I probably would have ended up with child support payments for kids I didn't want to have in the first place.

My advice:
1. Don't get too involved at your age - you'll regret it.
2. Don't get them pregnant. I did once (got a girl pregnant), and got her a rapescrape because it had just been legalized (whew!). She later joined the cult of the
Guru Maharaji, the "boy guru" from India (the asshole is still around, I believe).

They're all, with a few exceptions, NUTS!

[daZenfmeister]

Well ezjim we both have been wanting to date since we were in like 5th grade but we were both too shy and now that we both are in our first (very first) relationships we really wanna get together. Now her current boyfriend isnt really right for her. she doesnt like him that much. I really doubt she would do the SAME thing to me if she does break up with me later then it will be because she doesnt like me ...

[ezjim]

Well ezjim we both have been wanting to date since we were in like 5th grade but we were both too shy and now that we both are in our first (very first) relationships we really wanna get together. Now her current boyfriend isnt really right for her. she doesnt like him that much. I really doubt she would do the SAME thing to me if she does break up with me later then it will be because she doesnt like me ...
i see what your saying now dude ..hell id give her a test drive and see how it goes from there ..if you both have been interested in each other that long then there could be some potential for it turning in to a really good relation ship ..i'll have a good thought for ya'll and i hope it works out ...PS let us all know how it goes bro take care and have a good weekend

[daZenfmeister]

Well I went to her place last night and stayed with her and we just hugged and she told me that she loved me and I said it back. Then this morning I woke up early and went over to her place and we just listened to music and talked and we kissed like twice and it felt sooo good because me and her are so much more compatable theres alot less nagging things in the back of my head with her.

So yeah shes gonna break up with her b/f on tuesday and im breaking up with my g/f within the next month (my g/f is kinda suicidal and i dont wanna psuh a breakup right as shes moving into college)

[MrsDarkIdol]

Just remember that you might as well stay true to yourself because otherwise your lying to everyong around you. I'm sure that you g/f would much prefer to know your your feelings about another girl then to end up feeling played a fool.
Not that that's what you mean to do....understanding you only want to save her from the pain. It's good your breaking up with her...just don't let the guilt trip get to you to much. We are not a responsible for other people as we would like to think ;)

Sorry if I made no sense....

But theres my two cents.

[daZenfmeister]

thanks darkidol thats some damn good advise and i appriciate, I'm gonna break up with her bit by bit. Try and make it easy but kidna fast so its not slow and torturous. I'm gonna say we need some time apart, then we need to just be friends, then if i can i'll stay friends with her. Then maybe in a few months she'll figure it out that im going out with jennifer, but i really wanna avoid the whole "You broke up with me for HER!?" bullshit that would inevitably go on if i told her i was going out with jen instead of her all of a sudden. I think my g/f is really conceited and she thinks shes alot better than jennifer and so it would probably crush her.

[daZenfmeister]

oh shit......lets hope noone notices that lol i hope i dont know anyone on this site in RL

[daZenfmeister]

Booyah listening to Godsmack: I fucking hate you! This song is perfect for me right now.

For everything you do
Iâ??d like to swallow you
And everyday Iâ??m gonna blame you
Even if you justify
Every fucking bullshit lie
It only makes me want to break you
You pull me down
And you crucify my name
You make me insane
Itâ??s broken now
Donâ??t ever look my way
Donâ??t even think Iâ??m playinâ??
â??cause I fucking hate you
Youâ??re such a liar
And I love to hate you
Youâ??re all the same to me
When you repeated me
Take advantage of me
The only thought I get of you sickens me
Everybody knows your fate
Youâ??re everything I fucking hate
And Iâ??m everything that you could never be
You pull me down
And you crucify my name
You make me insane
Itâ??s broken now
Donâ??t ever look my way
Donâ??t even think Iâ??m playinâ??
â??cause I fucking hate you
Youâ??re such a liar
And I love to hate you
Youâ??re all the same to me
I fucking you hate you
Youâ??re such a liar
And I love to hate you
Youâ??re all the same to me
(fuck you)
(fuck you)
(fuck you)
You pull me down
And you crucify my name
You make me insane
Itâ??s broken now
Donâ??t ever look my way
Donâ??t even think Iâ??m playinâ??
â??cause I fucking hate you
Youâ??re such a liar
And I love to hate you
Youâ??re all the same to me
And I fucking hate
Youâ??re such a liar
And I love to hate you
Youâ??re all the same to me
Fuck you (fuck you)
Fuck you (fuck you)
Fuck you (fuck you)
Fuck you (fuck you)

[Hektik]

^ good song. But yeah i'mma have to say go with amber 4 real.