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jadeius
07-26-2005, 11:53 PM
I must be the only gay male on this website, or at least openly...all the other ones must be on gay.com, whorin' around as usual...lol...they set such a bad name for people like me
sToNeDpEnGuIn420
07-26-2005, 11:54 PM
Lol, that makes your location more funny lol.(didnt mean that in an offensive way) ANyways, i dont got a problem with gay guys, as long as they arent hitting on me. Shit i would have never even guessed if you wouldnt have told me! lol
makor01
07-26-2005, 11:56 PM
well honestly i thought you were a woman, but i guess that had to do with your location too....oh well rock on.
naturalmystic
07-26-2005, 11:56 PM
Doesn't make a difference to me.
jadeius
07-26-2005, 11:57 PM
yeah just thought i'd clear up that confusion, all my local friends know, and i don't hide it or anything, so hell, why not
makor01
07-26-2005, 11:58 PM
steer clear from torog tho man. im sure you know why.
jadeius
07-26-2005, 11:59 PM
lol...well he's entitled to his opinion...and i'm beyond that point in my life anyways
The Piper
07-27-2005, 12:00 AM
yeah i dont have ne problems with that man
thcbongman
07-27-2005, 12:00 AM
It's cool it really doesn't make a difference to me, unless you hit on me, which then I'll feel kinda quezzy. It's happened quite a number of times when I use to roll at clubs, it's flattering but at the same time sad, cuz I wish that many woman would hit on me. LOL.
LilRedDevil
07-27-2005, 12:01 AM
Doesn't make a difference to me.
I second that! :)
And now I have a question........
I have noticed (on the boards) when some people, think a thread is stupid, they call it gay, now it bothers me and I know damn well it would bother most if not all of my gay friends.
Does it bother you?
I guess I am asking, so I can point out, what I think is a thoughtless comment.
WDYT?
LilRedDevil
07-27-2005, 12:02 AM
Please delete me :confused: (double post)
3 Sheets To The Wind
07-27-2005, 12:07 AM
My mum's boss is gay, and his boyfriend is the nicest guy i have ever met, he's really generous to everyone at work, like always going in giving cakes, sandwiches, chocolate and a good laugh to everyone there.
He's cool, and i have no problem with anybody, that doesn't have a problem with me (i'm not gay by the way)
I also used to say "ahh that's gay!" when something didn't go how i wanted it to, but i grew out of it :)
thcbongman
07-27-2005, 12:07 AM
I have noticed (on the boards) when some people, think a thread is stupid, they call it gay, now it bothers me and I know damn well it would bother most if not all of my gay friends.
WDYT?
I can say I'm one of those guilty of that, but it's from a bad habit since elementary school. When I say it, I intend to use it in an aspect where a thread is lame. Obviously I could've used better choice of words, but all degoratory terms have multiple meanings. However not until you raise awareness that I realized the term offends people. People use it so casually you don't really think twice.
Bender
07-27-2005, 12:10 AM
Doesn't make a difference to me.
I agree with that.;)
jadeius
07-27-2005, 12:25 AM
I second that! :)
And now I have a question........
I have noticed (on the boards) when some people, think a thread is stupid, they call it gay, now it bothers me and I know damn well it would bother most if not all of my gay friends.
Does it bother you?
I guess I am asking, so I can point out, what I think is a thoughtless comment.
WDYT?
actually, nothing really bothers me anymore...i went through that phase in high school, and i'm way past it really, i catch myself calling stuff gay sometimes...
i'm a rather unusual little queer boy though, i like heavy metal as much as i like the dance music, and i used to be the most gothic person i know of...i don't too much like clubs, i don't do crystal meth, i'm not a whore, and to be honest, there's a whole lot of gay people out there that i don't agree with myself, but hey, their lifestyle, their business...
you see, gay people have set their own stereotypes, and i can't feel bad for them when they are exactly what people shun them for
and y'alls crazy asses thought i was a woman, HAH! i'd make one aggressive lil' redneck woman!
Ousted
07-27-2005, 12:46 AM
I have no problem with gay people. I've worked with a ton of gay men, all as different as snowflakes. Some likable, some not. IMO anyone is capable of being gay if they found the right person, its not just about sex, though preference generally is the ultimate deciding factor. There are obnoxious gay people just as there are obnoxious straight, what they like to do in the bedroom has nothing to do with them as a person or how they do and/or should interact with other people.
What I dont like is "cliche gay". If I may explain - men and women who follow the stereotypes (mainly from the media) to a tee, compromising any and all characteristics that makes them unique, interesting, and an individual. And its not just "cliche gay", it could be "cliche punk" or "cliche goth" or "cliche rebel", even "cliche pothead", any form of conforming in the name of being a non-conformist. I like people who are individuals, who are true to their character and self. Whether or not they have sex with members of the same sex or simply have body piercing or smoke weed shouldn't effect their personality to such a degree that it seems they no longer have one. When people fall into stereotypical behavior it makes me feel as though they are dishonest and lack interesting personality and character.
I hope that makes sense.
Jadeius, though Ive only seen your posts in this thread it seems to me you seem pretty true to self, and are dimensional. I really admire that. Cuz it really could be so easy to fall into the stereotypes given the enormous amount of pressure and expectation to do so. Bravo. :)
forestcouch
07-27-2005, 12:56 AM
no biggie, i toke with a bisexual guy and a gay guy frequently
tylerkane
07-27-2005, 01:48 AM
To quote the great Billy Bob Thorton
"Haha, gay queer, gay gay gay"
something like that.
It doesn't bother me
KronicKing
07-27-2005, 02:13 AM
my brother's gay and he used to be my best freind...our not talking has nothing to do with him being gay,but him being selfish,arrogant and ungratefull :( ,but oh well,i find that when people call things gay,or use it as a derogitory remark i get much much more offended than my brother,i guess some people are to stupid to realize that there are well over 6 billion other people on this earth too...
MeatRulz
07-27-2005, 02:55 AM
i know some gay people that dont mind it, i dont know any that do mind it, unless they are immature, then who wants to hang with em newayz, still akward when i let it fly though. its like droppin f bombs around parents who just recently stopped caring.
Fattie
07-27-2005, 02:56 AM
sry that was me on my bros account.
I must be the only gay male on this website, or at least openly...all the other ones must be on gay.com, whorin' around as usual...lol...they set such a bad name for people like me
you smoke weed, that makes you righteous in my book. i admire your ability to come out and say that, but you can't expect much bashing from a board of stoners.
MeatRulz
07-27-2005, 06:13 AM
stoned.
jadeius
07-27-2005, 03:15 PM
haha....thx guys for the kind words....yeah i find that most stoners don't really care anyways....don't worry i won't hit on ya lol...i have a "husband" whom i love very much and i wouldn't stray anyways....just lookin for something to do to pass the time like everyone else...yeah i just didn't want everyone to think i was a woman anymore lol...i can see why you'd think that
quite frankly i wouldn't care if some gay basher did have something bad to say...let 'em get it out they might feel better about their own inner homosexual tendencies....you'll find that when someone hates on you for something, that usually means they just wish they could be brave enough to be like that themselves...people that hate on stoners secretly admire that lifestyle and wish that their social barriers would allow for that in their life...same with gays, african-americans (their lifestyle is pretty damn appealing if you ask me), whatever you might be....
i always say, if you can't be proud of it, then you're probably not happy with it...
lurve u guys it's been real so far :p
dooman
07-27-2005, 03:23 PM
this thread is way too gay...
jadeius
07-27-2005, 03:25 PM
gay is as gay says lol
KronicKing
07-27-2005, 03:46 PM
haha,i'm glad you can stand up for whats good :),dooman,even if jadeius doesn't mind i have to say grow up.if you can't deal with the fact that people are gay and that they are normal people too(sometimes better people because of the ridicule and scorn they take just for likeing someone of the same sex)i would much rather have a joint with jadeius than with some little kid who can't handle his own issues,grow up and get a life stop pestering the good people in the world....
dooman
07-27-2005, 03:55 PM
????
huh???.......sarcasm my friend
jadeius
07-27-2005, 03:56 PM
ehhh what the hell...he might have just been making a joke, after all, we have been talking a lot about how people say threads and such are gay...
for the record, yeah i'm as gay as i can be, i'm one happy mo'fo'
I have noticed (on the boards) when some people, think a thread is stupid, they call it gay, now it bothers me and I know damn well it would bother most if not all of my gay friends.
Does it bother you?
yeah it bothers me ALOT but i just tend to ignore it cause what can you do.....
jadeius
07-27-2005, 05:09 PM
yeah it bothers me ALOT but i just tend to ignore it cause what can you do.....
exactly....i thought all those years in high school i could do something to stop the prejudice, and i did actually do a few things, i had a speech read over the intercom to the whole student body, by the principal, and it hit everybody hard, but what does that kind of blow do to an ignoramus? just makes them that much more hardcore...they realized how dumb they were for their stupid comments, and they just made more comments...so yeah, it made me feel good for making them feel dumb, but it didn't by any means stop anything, just earned me more respect from the people that DID like me...
jadeius
07-27-2005, 05:11 PM
i'm all about human rights, and that's a result of what i've been through i guess, living in a small redneck town, coming out to the public, funny thing it is...half those people that had something to say about it in high school came back to be my good friends after it was all over
likemclever
07-27-2005, 06:00 PM
????
huh???.......sarcasm my friend
Hey man I totally got your jokeâ?¦I laughed actually. You were using sarcasm.
Hell, Jadeius himself said that he calls things gay sometimes and I though that was funny too (that would be whatâ??s called irony.) The guy was making a joke.
KronicKing
07-27-2005, 06:12 PM
????
huh???.......sarcasm my friend
sorry dooman :) i didn't detect it,and this is something i get really heated over,it's good to see jadeius knows he's ten times the person they are and is smarter than each and every one of them too,so sorry that was a little rude on my part ;) no hard feelings eh?
Da1lungwonder
07-27-2005, 06:18 PM
Right on Bro!!!!!!
I have 2 friends that are a gay couple, they have been the ABSOLUTE best friends i could ever have to me and my girl..
I dont get to see them much as they live 5 hours from me but we talk everyday,"Mary" as he calls his BF dooesnt know he chiefs, so whenever i go up there, i always make sure we have soewhere to go and do some thing and i get him lifted...lol
ezjim
07-27-2005, 06:19 PM
steer clear from torog tho man. im sure you know why.
i laughed my ass off when i saw this .. poor torog he cant catch a break ..you would think some one who smoked pot on a regular basis would be more worried about waffen ss type police than what 2 people do in the privacy of thier own home
jadeius
07-27-2005, 06:39 PM
Right on Bro!!!!!!
I have 2 friends that are a gay couple, they have been the ABSOLUTE best friends i could ever have to me and my girl..
I dont get to see them much as they live 5 hours from me but we talk everyday,"Mary" as he calls his BF dooesnt know he chiefs, so whenever i go up there, i always make sure we have soewhere to go and do some thing and i get him lifted...lol
that's funny because my man knows i smoke and drink and even knows i do pills once in a while, but i do them behind his back sometimes because he gives me hell about it, and godDAMN what a buzzkill that is
andy704
07-27-2005, 07:02 PM
my sister is a receptionist at a GreatClips and theres 2 gay guys that work in there. basically they are just like will and jack in will&grace (the tv show). i dont have anything wrong with them. they're actually really funny
Questionable
07-27-2005, 07:05 PM
more power to ya for comin out. word up, mang! stay strong, and don't let anyone give you shit
Questionable
07-27-2005, 07:16 PM
gay is as gay says lol
grow up
jadeius
07-27-2005, 07:17 PM
?? :confused:
yeah he was joking, and i was joking, in case you haven't noticed yet
?? :confused:
yeah he was joking, and i was joking, in case you haven't noticed yet
some people neglect to read the previous posts...
...i like what you said about people being insecure about their own, unidentified tendencies. i see that a lot, people who depict another person usually have the same traits that they're hating on...how else would someone notice it so well?
i'm not sure if this will make sense to you, can't really find the right words right now.
jadeius
07-27-2005, 09:34 PM
well ganj, if you're talking to me, then i see what you're saying....as for everyone else....i'm sure they see it too...they're pretty damn understanding...like i said, if you hate it, you're probably unhappy about it, and if you're just really that unhappy about it, then you must be unhappy about something within yourself....the self dictates what we think about others...after all....others ARE exactly what make us ourselves....paradoxical? i think not.... you just have to put it in the right order.....others that we grew up learning from taught us things that we learned, and lo and behold, what you learn is what you demonstrate....monkey see, monkey do...human see, human do....so to everyone...you are basically a demonstration of all the different things you've learned and experienced...you reap what you sow....and that's the true meaning of it if you ask me....sorry i'm pretty GD drunk...
mlleyeuxbleus
07-27-2005, 10:46 PM
Jadeius, hi! I, like some of the others, thought you were female because of your location... silly me. :) One of my dearest friends is an out & open guy; we are two of the least judgmental people I know, lol. It's nice to have at least a couple of people you can just be true with, very precious indeed.
As for all negative posting, eh. It's all about love, people. And by 'it' I mean this life. All our connections with others, our happiness, our clarity... it's all love. That's the ingredient that makes us feel alive and fulfilled, & not mere romantic love either, but a general state of being & interacting with everyone in one's path. Acting from that place within creates the most beautiful magic in the world. Everything else is just static.
del...
07-27-2005, 11:24 PM
as long as we're all being so PC now...what's the deal with "retard"?
i see no diff with using gay...well, actually one is more offensive...eh?
LilRedDevil
07-27-2005, 11:42 PM
as long as we're all being so PC now...what's the deal with "retard"?
i see no diff with using gay...well, actually one is more offensive...eh?
Thank you Del! I agree and almost brought it up a few weeks ago. Another site I go to kicks ya off for using such an ignorant term! I think that I was more pron to falling into that sort of talk when I was like 13, after that I see no excuse.
I find some people to be so freakin rude! As a matter of fact my son was grounded for saying a friend acts like some dumd retard :mad: Boy that pissed me off!
I am glad you pointed this out, sometimes it only takes a person hearing that "most people" find something rude before they even realize it themselves, I hope!
ezjim
07-28-2005, 12:09 AM
as long as we're all being so PC now...what's the deal with "retard"?
i see no diff with using gay...well, actually one is more offensive...eh?
retard is offensive when used to describe a mentaly challenged person but when used to describe a run of the mill moron or asshole i think it is ok ..not apropriate but ok
rastabill89
07-28-2005, 12:17 AM
i dont have no problem with gay people, your gay so good for you
Mogizzle
07-28-2005, 12:18 AM
haha....thx guys for the kind words....yeah i find that most stoners don't really care anyways....don't worry i won't hit on ya lol...i have a "husband" whom i love very much and i wouldn't stray anyways....just lookin for something to do to pass the time like everyone else...yeah i just didn't want everyone to think i was a woman anymore lol...i can see why you'd think that
quite frankly i wouldn't care if some gay basher did have something bad to say...let 'em get it out they might feel better about their own inner homosexual tendencies....you'll find that when someone hates on you for something, that usually means they just wish they could be brave enough to be like that themselves...people that hate on stoners secretly admire that lifestyle and wish that their social barriers would allow for that in their life...same with gays, african-americans (their lifestyle is pretty damn appealing if you ask me), whatever you might be....
i always say, if you can't be proud of it, then you're probably not happy with it...
lurve u guys it's been real so far :p
I don't agree with what you say in bold.
You are trying to minimize any negative responses by claiming that they are secretley gay themselves for speaking out against you.
That pisses me off alot. And I just don't like gay people.
I won't go flaming you but I wont go helping you either.
jadeius
07-28-2005, 02:12 PM
I don't agree with what you say in bold.
You are trying to minimize any negative responses by claiming that they are secretley gay themselves for speaking out against you.
That pisses me off alot. And I just don't like gay people.
I won't go flaming you but I wont go helping you either.
well, it is just opinion, and no i'm not trying to minimize negative responses, trust me, i'm like a rubber ball, it just bounces off of me...three years of nothing but negative comments toward me in high school is accountable for that...say what you want, you have the right to dislike anything or anyone...but just remember that i have the right to also dislike you for your intolerance and ignorance, i bet you don't know the first thing about gay people except they buttfuck, and that's not always even true, so yeah say what you want, but i guarantee that you're the only person that thinks you're not ignorant...
F L E S H
07-28-2005, 02:35 PM
as long as we're all being so PC now...what's the deal with "retard"?
i see no diff with using gay...well, actually one is more offensive...eh?
I think we sometimes puch the whole PC thing a little too far. There are so many tyhings that are not PC, but make no sense. For example, why is it rude to call a blind man blind? Or calling a deaf person deaf? And what's the deal with extremely stupid expressions like "vertuically challenged?" But that's just me...
As for Jadeius, I don't really care if you're gay or not. In the end, it's not even any of my business what you do in your bedroom. So let's all toke together and be friends :)
Mojavpa
07-28-2005, 02:44 PM
I must be the only gay male on this website, or at least openly...all the other ones must be on gay.com, whorin' around as usual...lol...they set such a bad name for people like me
I'm an openly gay male too. Nice to meet you ;)
jadeius
07-28-2005, 02:58 PM
wow, one other gay guy huh? didn't see that coming
jadeius
07-28-2005, 02:59 PM
queen team! :D
looseends
07-28-2005, 03:03 PM
honey you smoke. that's all that matters.
amsterdam
07-28-2005, 03:06 PM
my buddy always calls me breeder,and is one of the greatest people to party with.
Mojavpa
07-28-2005, 03:06 PM
I think all the gay drug users are on meth.com lol
Mojavpa
07-28-2005, 03:13 PM
my buddy always calls me breeder,and is one of the greatest people to party with.
Yup. Gay people are just better at partying than our straight friends. We're also have better fashion sense. Thats why we look so fantastic day-after-day. lol
amsterdam
07-28-2005, 03:17 PM
Yup. Gay people are just better at partying than our straight friends. We're also have better fashion sense. Thats why we look so fantastic day-after-day. lol
thats funny and so true.i could have sworn green and purple matched?lol. :D
jadeius
07-28-2005, 04:28 PM
hahahaha well i guess that's possible, depends on what ur wearing...look at carson kressley (queer eye for the str8 guy), he can make anything match, or so he thinks
Lily420
07-28-2005, 07:20 PM
awww man, be proud! I was Bi once before...but i met someone who changed that. *shrug* I dont intend on going back to the way I was.
:D Welcome!
Ms420
07-28-2005, 07:33 PM
and y'alls crazy asses thought i was a woman, HAH! i'd make one aggressive lil' redneck woman!
Dude, I AM an "aggressive lil' redneck woman" and if your ever around my neck of the woods look me up and we'll smoke down!!! :D You rock!
jadeius
07-28-2005, 08:30 PM
Dude, I AM an "aggressive lil' redneck woman" and if your ever around my neck of the woods look me up and we'll smoke down!!! :D You rock!
right on...my kinda girly friend
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