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[OzzyOz]

i'm really depressed :-( / i'm a asshole

ok, well i was "dedicated" to working out for football, but i have discovered i don't like football much

well it all started when i went to england for 2 weeks to visit my grandma, and i missed 2 weeks of football training.

I came in last monday to start the training late, and well i've never played football in my life. I can barely get through the drills because i'm very overweight ( well not VERY , but yeah i'm very chubby )... and whenever i want to play, the coaches won't let me play in the drill/ games... because i dont know what i'm doing because i missed for the first 2 weeks and i'm fat.

Well, i've decided not to go even though i've only gone 3 times. I didn't go last friday, or today. I feel like a loser. My mom told me just to go through with the sport because if i quit, then i'm a quitter. My response too this was " well mom, screw you, all you do is waste our familys money on stupid stuff like weight loss surgery "

Wow, IM AN ASSHole

i don't know if i should do football, because i don't really enjoy it much. Also, i need motivation to continue working out etc.

I feel like when i go to football, all i do is get criticized. I don't know if i can keep doing football all year long... i mean, if i want too...

All my friends are doing football though, so it's really hard to quit. I'm afraid that if i quit... they'll frown down upon me for quitting.

well bye.

[OzzyOz]

any ideas on what to do?
any experiences for people like this, how it turn out?

[s2headhunter]

Listen man ....im a really really athletic person im one of the people that i really good at everything yeah you know but im good at football i just cant stand it at all....so i dont play it all my friends do but i dont givva shit im not going to waste my time on something i dont enjoy

[OzzyOz]

yeah dude
i just don't want to let my mom down
she always wants oppurtunitys for her children, and wants to keep me drug free etc.
i've pretty much quit weed... just drugs right now
i figure once i get out on my own, everything will be fine and i'll toke up again

[OzzyOz]

i want to make my parents happy...
football is a big dedication, and even though it's only training... i have somewhat of a feel of it

[ImStonedNILikeIt]

You cannot make anyone else happy until you make yourself happy.

It takes effort to los weight/become fit no one sat on there ass all day smoking weed/and eating ding dongs when they got fit.Do you think when they first started they liked it?Or they did it all the time...no it took them motivtion and probably a lot of critism...

I'm sure your coah or whatever doesn't think your worthless and can't do anythin because you fat/unfit.He is just showing a bit critism to help you out.

Personally I think negativity is one of the best inspirations for me. I love it when I start putting on weight how everyone notices,and says your fat.I just smile,and remember...Don't eat that twinkie!!

You can do it. Have some faith inyourself.

damn whatever happend to a faithful stoner:)

[Cheery Cherry]

Hey Oz. I think I remember you posting about going to see your grandma in England! I hope you enjoyed yourself.

Some people work better with someone riding on them (criticizing) about getting fit and others work better when there is a lot of love and support. It's okay to want to please your parents but I really think that you should choose how you want to get fit and choose something that you will be rewarded for or make you feel empowered. Find something you can take up and then tell your parents you want to do that instead of play football and then stick with it. I think they'll be proud of you however way you decide to get fit.

Good luck and keep your head high :).

[Cheery Cherry]

Oh and I don't think you're an asshole for what you said to your mom. Obviously, you said it out of anger and maybe even pain. Talk with her though. Let her know you didn't mean for it to come out the way it did...

[OzzyOz]

well the only other intrest i have is music.
hmmm
music

maybe i'll just finish the training ( only 7 days left... not too hard ) and then i just won't do football.

I like the idea of getting fit on my own...

i like the idea of hanging with my friends after school and maybe joining a band instead of doing football practice afterschool and not getting good grades ( lol alot of football players i know don't get great grades... )

[OzzyOz]

hah well
i feel bad for her
because she got weight loss surgery and she has lost weight, i just want her to lose weight. I'm trying to make her feel bad because i care. I've been seeing her eat some bad food lately, and i think she'll get used to the surgery and go back to her habits. I really want to see her be happy and thinner.

Oh yeah, that girls ass in your icon is very nice :-)

[RaoulDuke45]

what kind of football, american football or soccor, im pretty good at football and played but i quit because i wasnt enjoying it but i say give it a year, i didnt do much playing but i made great friends playing

[OzzyOz]

well it's highschool
the thing is i'm afraid that people will hassle me for not wanting to do it.

[KronicKing]

i played football for three years and never really had any fun,weight also has alot to do with genetics,i have extra weight on my stomach,large hips and thighs(thunda thighs :) )and the average extra body fat in other places,my grandfather,my father,and my brother all have the same thing and we also all live pretty diferent life styles.but i got lucky when it came to football,i'm 6'3 200 lb and i'm 15,i'm not all that fat either i'm only 20-25 lb over weight(well thats not skinny but i'm also 6'3 so it stretches out ;) unlike my freind who weighs the same as me but is 5'7 and looks like chewed bubble gum but he's acctualy alot stronger than me) football isn't that fun to me,i'd rather get stonned and go mess around with freinds than be all sweaty and tierd.it would be fun if everyone on the team wasn't an egotistical asshole who's obsessed with how much they bench(and then can't even curl 35 lb) and the coaches are total asses who deserve to be beaten by a band of midgets weilding clip boards with play books on them.and well about your mum tell her how you feel.

good luck with everything and remember if you don't enjoy it and don't have fun doing it then don't do it.(unless it's something essential of course :) )

[KronicKing]

also,after reading your post before mine,who cares what those people think?do things for YOU.if you want to get in shape then do it but not for anyone but yourself,remember you only have to deal with those immature little kiddies for four more year(or eight if you go to college but the aplication process usualy weeds the worst ones out) so if you want to lose some weight to better yourself and improve the quality of your life then do it but if it is so immature little idiots poke fun at you then you probly wont last it out long enough to acctualy lose weight,i used to give a shit about those people too,i'd diet for three weeks or so but in the end i'd say fuck it because something as trivial as some assholes opinion doesn't give me enough will power to go though with it.but either way good luck! i hope you end up happy either way

[Cheery Cherry]

Oh yeah, that girls ass in your icon is very nice :-)

Thank you! :)

[OzzyOz]

well my mom just wants me to finish the training, what the hell is the point to training if i'm not going to do football.

[thcbongman]

Why do you have to quit smoking weed?

When I was in H.S. I was getting stoned with jocks LOL.

I don't know, maybe you really don't like football, or maybe its because you think you have to quit smoking weed in order to play football is making it less fun. I couldn't imagine training and not get blunted afterwards, that would suck.

[OzzyOz]

i quit weed ( for the most part ) in junarary when i got caught at schoool, almost expelled.

i think i'll just smoke occasionally untill i'm out on my own :-)