need a womens advice

[flyinghigh4u]

ok were to start.....

thers this girl that i just cant get out of my head, she drives me crazy! i have felt this way for about two years now and i ahvent even talked to her ( i know im pathetic) well i moved away and havent even seen her in a year but shes still got ahold of me.

she has a boyfriend but i know she doesnt care for him because she told my friend that she wanted to brake up with him but didnt want to hurt his feelings..( and i know im better looking than him) that was a year ago and there still together.. she knows i like her thanks to my dumbass friends who have told her...so they made me look like a shy little kid..so inturn i was afaid to talk to her now... we always made eye contact for a quick second and one of us would look away.. i dont know if that just because she knows a like her or because she likes me too... what boogles my mind is that im all most positive she does but have no solid proof.. i mean if she likes me why would she be with him..im thinking she wants "someone" and doesnt want to take the risk herself?? ( i know i know im pathetic i should jsut alked to her but im scared ill admit it, i dont want to fuck it up i have really strong feeling for her)

i guess what im asking is how do you girls act when you like someone??

and what should i say to her??

i fell like such a tool but i needed to tell someone


let me say again that ive never felt this way about someone before especailly someone i dont even know

[muncheemama]

the facts are that she has a boyfriend, and wether she is with him for the right reasons or the wrong reasons, she is still with him. You have to respect that. Unfortunately its one of those "if its meant to be" scenarios. You should find someone who is available to you.

[nomadherbman]

im not a women but id say go for it, talk to her already, if you fell this strongly dont wait to see if " its ment to be" go get her!! worst is she'll turn you down and you'll get over it and move on!

remeber you might be shy but girls are a hell of alot more shy....dont expect her to make a move

[naturalmystic]

I'm not a woman either. But from my experience, i'de go for her, boyfriend or not. If you hook up with her, it'll give her boyfriend a reason to break up with her, then she'll be happy. I've been in this exact situation, where a girl i liked had a boyfriend who she didn't really like. So i fucked her,(dont say anything, muncheemamma) and he dumped her for cheating on him. (this happened like last week).

Second thought, maybe she doesn't even like you. Since you moved away. Maybe she DID like you, but since you left, doesn't anymore. Just a thought. Either way, get some ballz and talk to her. Its all downhill from there.

[Cheery Cherry]

Hello!
Well, it really depends on if you can go on thinking about what you could've had or if you really want to do something about it and find out! I don't know if she likes you or not from just what I've read. Every women act differently when they like someone. I've known women who purposely not pay much attention to someone they were attracted to hoping that the person they are attracted to will approach her first.

What should you say to her? Anything. Keep it simple at first. Say hello. Think of something to say to make her smile. Develop a friendship first. You will know by how she responds if she is interested in getting to know you better.

[BluntArtist]

Beat her boyfriend's ass.

[nomadherbman]

^^^ya that'll teach her!! lol...jk