need advice...

[Deloused]

ok, theres this girl i really like, i really want to be with. However and this is a big however...She is extreamly religous. She really hates "drugs" meaning she has no tolerance for any. first off, isnt there a bible quote about that somewhere, if so, where and what is it. i've tried explaining to her this amazing bond between sensible stoners... the intelligent ones, but she wont have it? any advice?

[weedfean]

yeah, i don't know what verse but its says you can consume all plants and shit so weed would fall in that thing, and it does not say any where in the bible that you can't smoke weed eirther. but religion is bullshit you have to live in the moderan day world

[SmokinStang96]

well, religion is something youre not gonna change about her if shes hardcore about it. even if shes not so hardcore. religion is not something that you can just talk to people about and convince them otherwise. no matter what. its a never ending battle.

so if youre hardcore about smoking pot. itll never work. she has her beliefs and you have yours. and itd be alot harder to make her change her views than for you to stop smoking.

you could smoke behind her, but it still more than likely wont work. cause once she finds out. itll be over with. or you could stop smoking. if youre not willing to stop smoking, or take the chance of keeping it from her, it wont work for long.

[weedfean]

stop smoking for a chick is not worth it

[Adlan]

Tell her.
if your sure she won't rat on you
if she freaks about you tokin then your no worse off than her finding out any other way
if she dosn't freak, or at least talks to you about it, then thats progress.

[Tereyn]

Opposite attract sometimes. Most likely you can't change the girl and if she seems really into her religion and non-smokers then if you really like her you'll have to change your ways and sacrifice to quit smoking. I know it's hard but personally girls dig guys who are sober because most guys I have been with forget a lot and usually end up dropping out and have no future. I know I am a stoner myself but I would stop for someone if I knew they loved me. I do have a future I want to go to college. So smoking has not taken over my life. It doesn't have to take over yours. If you must you should tell her "look, I smoke but I can quit for you if we ever decide to have a relationship because that is how much I care about your feelings." just some tips. sorry i hope i helped.