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koshea
06-29-2005, 04:23 AM
help help please, i dont know what to do, my girlfriends dad is on his deathbead with cancer, what do i say to her?!?!?! i love her so much it kills me to see her like this, i like her dad alot too so its killing me inside as well
w4terb0ng
06-29-2005, 04:28 AM
whoa, that's crazy dude. i'm not sure what you're going to do... well, i guess all you can do is either get out of the way or do something to help. i don't think there is really much more there. it's up to you to know which one is best.
SomeDude
06-29-2005, 04:31 AM
you could just listen and maybe ask questions. Tell her that if she needs to talk to someone you will be there for her. Ask her how she is feeling and if there is anything you can do for her. Maybe suprise her with a gift or something or a night out somewhere nice to take her mind off of it.
mynameismike0
06-29-2005, 04:34 AM
dude.... you should probably just be with her. that will probably mean a lot to her
w4terb0ng
06-29-2005, 04:36 AM
that's what i meant... or ...leave her alone for awhile.

some people don't like people all hugging up on em when something happens like that.
i'm just covering the other end of the spectrum there also...
unmeg
06-29-2005, 04:38 AM
my dad died when i was 11 from a brain tumor so let me tell you fitrst hand what you can do.Nothing,just be the true friend you allways have been.Things could not be worse for your friend right now it is a horrible feeling.Keep your self avalible to her.I'm sorry that you & her or going through such a terrible life experiance,just rember thats what life is sometimes.I hope everything goes well for you both be strong for each other because this is just one of lifes downs sides,you will have more good than bad over all.
NoosaHeads
06-29-2005, 06:02 AM
Koshea Thats really Sad Mate.
Unmeg has some great advice.
The Best thing for you to do is Listen to her problems and how she's feeling about her father And his illness.It sounds to me like your there for her..
and if the treatment hasnt worked then honestly he's better off cancer is a horrible Painfull Desease..
I know Im on the complete other side of the planet But if theres anything i can do for you mate Just let me know..
droopy420
06-29-2005, 06:16 AM
Sorry to hear that. :(

Talk to her and ask her if there's anything you can do for her. Be strong for her and don't let it kill you inside. Death is a part of life, you have to learn to deal with that.

Peace,
droopy