Sasha left me

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

I know none of you care, but she did. And i feel as tho life wont go on. But i guess it will. It was my fault she left, its because i cheated on her a long time ago and never told her about it. Yeah im sorry for wastin a thread about this, but i dont know what to do. I dont really have a life all i did was hang out with sasha everyday, so now i gotta try and find old friends, to hang out with again. I hate myself and life.

[F L E S H]

Don't feel too bad, and don't, ever hate yourself. This is a pain everybody goes through at some point. Once you've dealt with it, you will feel as though a huge weight was lifted off your shoulders. It just wasn't meant to be.

[TasteTheRainbow]

I'm sorry to hear that. :( I know it's rough now but it does get easier. Hang in there.

[Gothen]

It does fucking suck when your girl leaves you. Don't worry about wasting a thread. You rock, man. Though we can't be there with you right now to hang out, we are here online to talk to you. I'm sorry about Sasha, and I know plenty of people will say how there are plenty of fish in the sea or some bullshit. But...I know that those "fish" don't even BEGIN to compare to the one you had had. I know what you're going through, man. The only thing that got me through it was hanging out with my friends, and listening to some good tunes that made me happy.

Also, try to constantly keep active, man. Keep doing shit and it really does get your mind off of it. I know you may not want to, and neither did I. But, I was forced to do chores and work and shit and it made me focus on my task instead of what was bothering it.

[muncheemama]

how old are you penguin? How long ago did you cheat on her? And when you say cheating, you mean a kiss or full blown orgy? Its all good bro, smoke a bowl.

[crystal clear pepsi]

I never meant for her to leave you for me man , but im sorry we jsut feel in lov e , and that is that

[Lily420]

:( It'll be okay penguin.
Start to enjoy being single i guess?

[Anonymous]

smoke a full bowl in that hooka you got that might help....

[Euphoric]

WTF :( sorry bro...whyd she do it?

[likemclever]

Why did you cheet on her if you don't mind me asking........

[clevemire]

Sorry to hear this penguin. I know she meant a lot to you...

If it was meant to be, you will both find a way. But if not, then life must go on.

Just remember: no matter what you do in life, the sun will still rise the next day. You'll be alright. Just give it some time. Also, like Gothen said: keep busy. Don't just sit around and get high. That'll make it much worse. Now's the time to look into some hobbies.

Good luck.

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Thanks for everything guys, man today has been pretty okay for everything that happened. I had ppl come over so i wasnt by myself earlier, then had to go to the doctors at 3:30, went there got more shit for my acne, got blood drawn. Then got mcdonalds and now im going to just go hang out with friends because i cant be by myself or alone, its driving me nuts. I cant eat tho....ugh.... once again
thank you everyone, and i honestly dont know why i did, other then i guess it was just in front of me. and im 16, we dated for lil over 7 months...and it wasnt just kissing.... and it was more then once. I deserve all of what im getting. It just sucks...and thats all im going to do is try and keep busy.

[muncheemama]

good luck, and get some rebound head....

[looseends]

awwwww honey...any love lost is a bitch!!!! pickyerself up...dust yerself off. mamma's tokin' one just for you. and hang around some positive people...that always helps.

[NoosaHeads]

Mate you'd have to be the Most level headed of the younger crew on these boards.
Its sux that you had to learn the Hard way but in reality you were true to yourself
and honest with sasha in the end.
if her feelings for you are as strong as yours for her then Give her some time for the Pain to heal and you might be able to work it out with her.
I wish you all the Best Mate..

[muncheemama]

no rebound head if its just a "break" though.....ask ross about that

[llamaman666]

And I get on now, damn Im sorrry man. When I blink my eyes fold up, do it man, smoke some weed and theing rinkle your eyes and say you cried em out and shell come back, make sure she is on lsd before you come and say and then you can where the screemm mask and say LOOK WHAT YOU DID TO ME and turn like fez, stick up yer nose n arms. and YELL I'M DON'T SASHA I DON'T NEED SASHA really fucked up like and then she goes allright motherfucker and kicks your dick and you make up.

[NoosaHeads]

good luck, and get some rebound head....


since your offering....:D :p :o :(

[muncheemama]

sorry? what was that?

[NoosaHeads]

Sorry Mucheemama...
my pathetic effort at a joke...
I meant no offence to you...

[Button Basher]

Man, reading that brought back the dank feeling I had inside when I got dumped by my first real girlfriend. It's shit and nothing else.
All I can say is cheer up, If she wasn't happy then you weren't meant for eachother. I felt exactly the same when it happened to me but 6 or so months later I found the perfect girl for me, and you will too with some searching. It happens to everone, think of it as life experience ;) , all you can do is learn from it mate.

Hope you feel better soon.

[muncheemama]

button i agree, but i have a strong feeling they will be back together in a while,first loves break up at least 3 times before its really over.
Oh noosahead....I wasnt talking to you, that was directed to llamaman, i think he must be really high...but, no i wasnt offering! no offense taken. besides im old enough to be your mom.

[muncheemama]

I wanna win the stoned trophy!

Congrats llamaman.....

[ickystkyme]

awwwwwwwww pengiesssssssssssssssssssssssssss....

im sorry..

chin up..
ick.. :)

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

button i agree, but i have a strong feeling they will be back together in a while,first loves break up at least 3 times before its really over.
Oh noosahead....I wasnt talking to you, that was directed to llamaman, i think he must be really high...but, no i wasnt offering! no offense taken. besides im old enough to be your mom.
Well thats even worse, because we were going to break up but didnt, then we did break up for two weeks, and now we are broken up, and she wants nothing to do with me. *sigh* now my friend is too busy playing to computer to hang out, God im alone.

[muncheemama]

baby, youre not alone....were here for you little man

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

I feel alone, Im going crazy i dont know what to do.......

[4252]

You're definitely not alone, both on this thread and in life. Show me somebody who hasn't loved and lost, and I'll show you someone who hasn't lived. I guess the main thing is to pick up where you are, and be aware that you've learned something valuable. I know it doesn't seem like that now. It's OK to feel hurt. Try not to do anything foolish (no, I don't mean that), I mean like taking it out on the next girl or learning disco dancing. And don't forget, it's OK to be alone from time to time, helps you sort yourself out. Good luck.

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[OR Freebird]

We all learn from our mistakes. And relationships end all sorts of ways for all sorts of reasons. I got burned a few times early in life and it took like 15 years before I could really trust anyone again. But I've since learned, life goes on -- it sucks for a while, but it goes on.

Eventually you will come to peace with this. In the meantime, chill, get your head together, and think what you've learned about cheating. It sucks being on the wrong end of a cheat -- don't know if you've been there yet.

Anyway, don't get hell bent on finding a GF right away -- you'll be too desperate. Just find some cool chicks to hang out with -- and just let nature take it's course.

And who knows, she may come back -- you never know. Stranger things have happened. But don't count on it. The sooner you accept the fact that she is gone, the sooner things will begin to improve.

And down the road, should the opportunity come up, you might want to re-apologize. Even though she's gone, at least she'll know you know you f'd up.

Good luck Pengi

Mr. Natural says "Be like two fried eggs, keep your sunny side up!"

[kiwi]

:( PENGUIN....I am so sorry about your split from Sacha, theres things are never easy. Is there any chance that in time you may be able to talk to Sacha about it?
Life can be a real bitch at times, but as long as we learn from our mistakes then thats the best we can do....all the kindiest thoughts are going to you, take care......xxxxxxx ;)

[NextGen]

I wanna win the stoned trophy!

Congrats llamaman.....
no shit :D wow

[koshea]

dude, if a chick is ending it with you for kissin other gorls after 7 months she diserves to go, i made out with my ex girlfriends best friend weekley for like a month and she found out, she was pissed but we got over it, i ended up dumpin her cuz i realized datin for that long so young is fuckin gay, but i hope you feel better man, if you ever need some e-head, hit me up ill take one for the team

[makor01]

dude dumb decisions happen, all you can do is learn from them and not do them again. good luck man

-Peace

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

dude, if a chick is ending it with you for kissin other gorls after 7 months she diserves to go, i made out with my ex girlfriends best friend weekley for like a month and she found out, she was pissed but we got over it, i ended up dumpin her cuz i realized datin for that long so young is fuckin gay, but i hope you feel better man, if you ever need some e-head, hit me up ill take one for the team
nah it was more then kissing...its the worst thing you can do and i did it more then once, even tho it was in the past...i desreve all that i got....God i cant eat and wat i did eat i just threw up.

[ZigZagZeppelin]

pull yourself together, little man.

your friend mary jane will be at your side always, life will continue to go on & your life will pick up. Things will get better & a lesson is learned.

[Kramerica]

I remember about 10 years ago feeling the exact same way.
So I went out of town, started drinking and partying a lot, did new things like an eyebrow piercing :)
Then one night later that summer I hooked up with a girl that looked way too good for me, just because I wore plaid pants one night (only lasted a few weeks, but who cares)
And I realized that in just a few short months it didnt even bother me anymore
Good luck bud!

[OreO]

yup i was like that last year man...i even dropped outta highschool it was so bad,, i couldnt take seeing her everyday, i was depressed beyond belief...i couldnt cheer up for anything, except knowing i was gonna get high...but when i was high i still felt hurt...it sucks man but like people said you might get back together with her...you never know...haha the thing is me and my girl are back together right now and this was a year ago.

[mlleyeuxbleus]

Aw penguin, hugs for you sweetie. So many of the things you hear sound a bit cliché, but they are true. Breakups are soooo hard; I know that anguished feeling very well & so do most of us. Sometimes it can feel like nobody else could possibly understand, but yep, we all go through it... some of us repeatedly if you're a slow learner like I am. As hurt as you are, you honestly will recover & will be stronger for it.

And hey, mistakes are how we learn, so don't beat yourself up too much. Consider yourself blessed with a fully realized example of what not to do in the future.

I have so many other fabulous words of wisdom, & I'm fairly certain I actually had a point. However, I'm so stoned I don't even know if anything I wrote makes sense, so I'm going to just quit now. But seriously hon, this too shall pass.

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

I guess your right never know how things will turn out, and i can only hope for the best and go on with life...or try i guess. I think im gonna start going to the gym... Just be a work out aholic, i mean ive always wanted to be in shape.

[llamaman666]

Stop being down man. Get angry at HER, then you'll get pissed and become a hunkedelic fit penguim and then do her doggy style. I'll even send you a free instructional dvd

[koshea]

lol so no e-head?

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Well i just wanted to let everyone know. Yesterday i ended up walking down to the park to see her. We hung out there. Smoked a joint and just played catch and just talked for about 2 hours. Then we went and babysitted her niece. Im just so glad i even just spent time together. I made sure i let her know i knew things just werent fixed. But her sister talked to her and she helped her to realize it was in the past. But even at that im still going to prove to her, that i really do love her, because well i do.

[Lulu]

But even at that im still going to prove to her, that i really do love her, because well i do.
Aww Penguin, you are just the sweetest thing :)
Go for it, the very best of luck xx

[kyle]

No one ever beleives this (including myself). In one form or another: things always work out in the end, by the sounds it already has started getting better. By the way, do start going to the gym, you'll get buffed and she'll wanna' hop on yeah and ride you like a bull.

[XxTornXimagexX]

u noe cameron it wasnt really that long ago...

[Dick Justice]

Mr. Natural says "Be like two fried eggs, keep your sunny side up!"

-What does it all mean, Mr Natural?

-Don't mean sheeit!

[jacquelyne]

Thats sad but these things will happen to cheaters eventually.Pull your head and you should have told her earlier as she might not have left you if you did.