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Smokey McPot
06-14-2005, 02:24 AM
How long for all you guys and girls does it take for you to come? Put your sex and how long it takes. I cant tell if im premature or what cause i dont know what is a regular time.

slipknotpsycho
06-14-2005, 07:19 PM
There is no such thing as premature ejaculation, when it's time it's time. Men dont' suffer from premature ejaculation, women do!
lol well that's pretty much true and robert is a stand up comedian not part of this board but i don't know a way to quote him without it says "originally posted by" and it all depends for me. i can make myself last for hours or i can be done in under five minutes...just depends on what i decide to do.

mellow mood
06-14-2005, 11:39 PM
how can u stay for hours? and what is considered as prematured ejaculation?

DonnieDarko
06-14-2005, 11:49 PM
With practice you can control when you cum. The important thing is to cum when your partner wants you to. Not too soon, not too late. When she starts screaming so loudly that the neighbors call 911, you probably should finish within the next couple of minutes. LOL.

I'm 48, male, and on average, usually start with about 20-30 minutes of foreplay (oral, 69, making out), then tap that ass for another 15 minutes.

It's alot quicker (10 minutes ??) if we're in the back seat of the car.

mellow mood
06-15-2005, 12:09 AM
yes but how cant u come? how can u stay with all the excitment? i fear i may come too fast when ill fuck a girl...

DonnieDarko
06-15-2005, 12:40 AM
yes but how cant u come? how can u stay with all the excitment? i fear i may come too fast when ill fuck a girl...


Think about baseball.

flyinonice4
06-15-2005, 05:36 AM
Dude on keeping urself from coming, I have gone for another like 15 minutes after thinking of that tubgirl person That is the sickest stuff on the web. I wont even post the link. But yea, lacrosse or football or the infamous tubgirl. Gives you at least another 15 minutes or so of leeway.
John

kronick
06-16-2005, 02:23 PM
yes but how cant u come? how can u stay with all the excitment? i fear i may come too fast when ill fuck a girl...


if u REALLY need to stop from blowing...pull it out untill things calm down. then ull be good to go for round 2. i say, if its the first time banging a chick, make it last long and make her cum. what ever you do...make her cum. foreplay is a necessity and if u do make her cum, 9 outta 10 times, that wont be the last time u bang her. study "tantric sex".


"the infamous tubgirl." LOL who hasent heard of her? i first met that link in cambrian college in sudbury ontario canada.(in a bathroom stall) never again.

mytm
06-16-2005, 02:44 PM
How long for all you guys and girls does it take for you to come? Put your sex and how long it takes. I cant tell if im premature or what cause i dont know what is a regular time.
8-12 min the frist shot the next shoot 15- 22 min then i can hold it until she cums with this girl i am with now is about 40 or 50 min its alot of work getting a girl to cum get in shape i am lucky right now this is one of the easier ones.

robert42
06-16-2005, 03:00 PM
average male takes: 3mins 14 secs i believe

GTC21
06-16-2005, 09:46 PM
It would also depend who you were banging. If it was some super hot pornstar I don't think I could last more than 10 seconds:)

OreO
06-17-2005, 04:45 AM
with me...when im doin the thing if i feel like im going to bust i pull and and change positions, it gives me a break and a new position, THEN after a while of swapping positions your dick(atleast mine does) gets so used to not cumming i keep going...if i want it to be quick i just do the opposite. Also think about other shit while fucking it really works

bruiser
06-17-2005, 06:38 AM
depends really on who I am cuming in! lol.......fat hairy chicks may take me awhile lol.

slipknotpsycho
06-17-2005, 07:28 AM
eww that's grodey...fat hairy chicks..yuck i'd rather fuck tubgirl and use her shite as lube....well ok maybe i won't go that far >< and add numbers in your head to make it last longer, you odn't have to think about something total disgusting or turn offish (last thing you want to do is go limp) just distract yourself from what're you're doing....i add numbers 1+ 1 = 2 2+2 = 4 4+4 = 8 8+8 = 16 16+16 = 32 and so on. works without a hitch

YabaYabaDoobie
06-17-2005, 08:19 AM
yuck i'd rather fuck tubgirl and use her shite as lube....

Hahaha, oooh man that is sooo fucking nasty.

LOVElife
06-17-2005, 09:31 AM
Depends how tight their Clout is for me personally!

If its too tight, cant get a decent stroke going and takes ages!
If its like a WIZARDS SLEEVE, its no good neither!

JUST SOMETHING THAT HUGS IT QUITE TIGHT!

WHEN YOU THINK YA GONNA COME, PULL YA BALL SACK REAL HARD! HJHAHAHAHA

spliffstar22
06-18-2005, 02:02 PM
i just pull out, and stop for 2 seconds, change positions, and go again, i'm only thinking about the girl i'm hittin, i don't wanna be countin fuckin #'s

kronick
06-18-2005, 03:30 PM
tap that ass yo

SomeDude
06-18-2005, 04:33 PM
try not to concentrate on your cock. Divide your awareness onto all parts of your body and hers, and when you breathe imagine the sexual energy building up in your genitals spreading all over your body. Imagine a circle of energy when you are kissing her going from your mouth through her body and back into you via your genitals and back through your mouth and into hers again. This method takes the burden off your cock and when you do come it'll be a full body orgasm.

jacquelyne
06-20-2005, 03:51 AM
If you come too quick just say to her that she was so sexy and such a turn on that you couldnt control yourself.Im sure she will feel great about that just turn it all around to make her feel good then the focus will be taken off you and she will probably think your fantastic.

kronick
06-20-2005, 04:20 AM
HA! that's the greatest back up plan ever! thanks in advance...LOL

Encatuse
06-21-2005, 02:51 AM
If you come too quick just say to her that she was so sexy and such a turn on that you couldnt control yourself.Im sure she will feel great about that just turn it all around to make her feel good then the focus will be taken off you and she will probably think your fantastic.

I used to use this one in the olden days. Honest.

jacquelyne
06-21-2005, 02:59 AM
LOL yes i would definatley say that if i was a guy and i had a little premature ejaculation problem.But after say 10 bonks she might get suspicious lol

Hektik
06-21-2005, 08:27 AM
I can control my self. Just takes practice i guess. Playing the skin flute is good too. P:

Lily420
06-22-2005, 07:37 AM
takes me awhile....for him well he doesent take no time

infamousg8845
06-23-2005, 02:06 AM
i cant go on for hours if i pace myself.... i dont know for me it takes longer to cum when im with a girl... at home i can cum by lookin at porn in 5 mins or so..... but when im with a girl i actually have a hard time to cum unless i jerk off myself lol.... idk call it wierd but girls love it either way lol...... but yea u have to pace urself.... pull and stop if u feel the urge... or just think about ur mommys mom masturbating.... (idk im high ah)

Creeper
06-25-2005, 05:56 AM
If you cant get her off with your dick, and you get off, then use your mouth, as long as she gets off, she doesnt really care.....or at least in my experience anyway.

kronick
06-25-2005, 09:48 PM
i bet thats what its like for most women but there are the odd few that wont be satisfied until u get off. if u find one of those girls, dont let go of her.

IthoughtIknewitall
06-27-2005, 04:24 AM
8 hours before the date Jack Off. Go to sleep. Wake up, take an aspirin. By the time you get aroused again you wont cum for awhile.

HaZarD
07-03-2005, 05:36 AM
It would also depend who you were banging. If it was some super hot pornstar I don't think I could last more than 10 seconds:)

Fact: Because of the MASSIVE ammounts of make up and air brushing in real life alot of pornstars aren't really that hot

Leftover Crack
07-03-2005, 06:08 AM
Takes me a good amount of time, usually doesn't take the guy too much time however I was with a guy who could last for hours.

Why does it always seem the guys that are terrible take the longest. It's like torture.

kronick
07-03-2005, 02:42 PM
Fact: Because of the MASSIVE ammounts of make up and air brushing in real life alot of pornstars aren't really that hot


fact: as long as they dont look ugly when ur banging them, it dosent really matter. cause if they can look good in a porno, than they can look good when ur fucking em too. besides, jenna jameson...nuff said.

mlleyeuxbleus
07-03-2005, 06:17 PM
Jenna's actually hotter without all that makeup. Jane magazine did a "makeunder" (where they take high maintenance girls & give them a natural look) on her a few months ago. She's soooo adorable with no makeup at all; I was surprised! :)

Adrenaline Rush
07-04-2005, 07:42 PM
I'm actually pretty quick to draw the gun...I get mad at myself sometimes for cumming to quick (average time: anywhere from about 2-5 mins)...It all deends on the mood I'm in...The good thing is that I can go for about 2 or 3 times in a row just like when I was 15 or 16 (may have something to do with me working out)....Also, If i drink, it hels because I can go longer (usually about 5-10 mins).

My shortest time was probably about 2 mins.
My longest lasting was probably about a good 35 mins. (I was drunk)

Also, it depends in the foreplay, if I get sucked pretty good, then I'll finish quicker on intercourse.

BluntArtist
07-05-2005, 03:25 AM
Does any other guy know what I'm talking about when I say I can control my orgasm? I know a couple other guys that can do it. It's hard to explain...it's sort of like cutting off your pee but it's a lot more difficult and you can feel it below your testicles...idk it's weird...anyone else know what I'm talking about or can do it?

kronick
07-05-2005, 02:35 PM
Does any other guy know what I'm talking about when I say I can control my orgasm? I know a couple other guys that can do it. It's hard to explain...it's sort of like cutting off your pee but it's a lot more difficult and you can feel it below your testicles...idk it's weird...anyone else know what I'm talking about or can do it?


ya man i know what u mean. definatly like holding in pee but way fucking harder once u get close to climax. the longer u hold, the more intense the orgasm. cock rings do the same thing but with less effort. eventually, if you do it enough(practice holding in the cum, itll work out those muscles and make em stronger), you can become tantric and last for hours.

somebody someone
07-05-2005, 03:27 PM
this'll help too... here (http://www.hai2u.com/)

kronick
07-05-2005, 08:07 PM
YOU'RE FUCKIN SICK...DON'T CLICK THE LINK

ontariogrower
07-09-2005, 02:20 AM
I am male, 20 years old. I could cum fast in about 2 minutes when i jerked off but i could go for a long time. Now it takes me about 30 minutes to an hour to cum for some reason and i can fuck forever. I can go for about an hour and half if i have to but usually it's about 50 minutes. I take forever to cum now. But it's good cuz it's not all over within 10 minutes lol. I kinda like having a long session in the sack.

ontariogrower
07-09-2005, 02:24 AM
I can control orgasm to a point. I don't really know how your supposed to do it but i don't have trouble lasting anyways. I've heard you like clench your muscles down there and it stops you from cumming but thats b.s cuz when i'm jerking it and try that it makes me cum faster!!!! in fact i have to clench those muscles to cum i can't just lay there motionless i have to move and clench the muscles and stuff. So i dont know what all that muscle training b.s is about. Anyways if i'm going to cum too early i just do the opposite kinda like trying to pee but you dont pee i just push and it stops the pleasure kinda but allows me to keep going but watch out cuz you will fucking fart while doing it sometimes so i wouldnt reccomend it unless your partner is cool..it doesnt happen alot but it's happened before so i wouldnt do it if you were trying to impress a woman on the first date..i can usually last about an hour before i need to do that.

kronick
07-09-2005, 06:56 AM
I've heard you like clench your muscles down there and it stops you from cumming but thats b.s cuz when i'm jerking it and try that it makes me cum faster!!!! in fact i have to clench those muscles to cum i can't just lay there motionless i have to move and clench the muscles and stuff.

well there are 2 kinds of muscles to clinch. the one that helps you cum is more of an ass clincher and the other one is just like when ur trying to stop peeing(or hold pee in)


Anyways if i'm going to cum too early i just do the opposite kinda like trying to pee but you dont pee i just push and it stops the pleasure kinda


thats will work too. its similar to breathing and eating. you can only use one tube at a time. the tubes are like a "Y" shape. breathing is to cumming as eating is to peeing or breathing is to peeing as eating is to cumming. how ever u wanna put it, its all the same in the end. now with that said and done, my point is if your peeing, you cant cum. this dosent work for everyone tho, cause u need to know how to work the right muscles.

infamousg8845
07-09-2005, 09:55 PM
omg that picture is so gross.. id slap the ho if she threw up on my cock... Altho i wouldnt force her to deep throat it and hold her head down until she gagged.. IV been lucky to get girls who can deep throat with no help at all lol.... but yuck... o and i can control when i cum in a way.. The only way i can cum is if i jerk off or i do a girl in the ass... MY g.f was a virgin nd nice and tight but nothin beats the tightness of an ass...

NightProwler
07-19-2005, 05:44 AM
2 minutes..... :(

Dragonslayer4200
07-20-2005, 09:10 PM
yea dude i got one of thos girls that if i dont get off she dont lol she likes it when i cum and she doesnt she tells me shes a pleaser so i dont ever have to make her cum unless she wants it its awsome. im going to marry this women lol.

Smokey McPot
07-21-2005, 01:09 AM
Fact: Because of the MASSIVE ammounts of make up and air brushing in real life alot of pornstars aren't really that hot


Ive seen ugly pornstars but all the ones in playboy that are airbrushed (and even alota other popular mags, hustler, penthouse etc.) they are all hot no matter what. Id bang em all

Smokey McPot
07-21-2005, 01:10 AM
that link is GNARLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![I][B]

9ski9
07-21-2005, 01:34 AM
8 hours before the date Jack Off. Go to sleep. Wake up, take an aspirin. By the time you get aroused again you wont cum for awhile.

Ha, eight hours before the date? WTF? I mean, your right about jackin' off before hooking up with her will help stamina, but eight hours? I was thinking more like 20 minutes.

Is the asprin for good luck?

420purplehaze420
07-21-2005, 03:32 AM
i can go as long as i want, you just gotta think about school work and all the homework and projects you should be doin, and pullin it out and changin positions works good, if i do happen to cum before my women ill go in and do the rest with my tongue lol

professer evil
07-21-2005, 03:48 PM
right i was eating a sandwich with pudding and bacon and brown sauce and as soon as i looked at that sick fuckin link i puked on my fuckin key pad


i cant bear to look at the link again,its really fuckin sick but notice the bloke is still squeezin the chicks nippel,id be giving her a dig to the fuckin head

kronick
07-22-2005, 05:19 PM
lol...banned

Canadabis
07-24-2005, 11:53 PM
im a man, and it depends.
I can finish any time, if i really want to i can be done in like 2 minutes, pretend like i hear someones coming, get up and leave, but in general its after shes done once or twice i let myself go. generally twice, unless she tightens up after the first and shes done for the night lol
I go when i want to, Controll fool, controll!

Da1lungwonder
07-27-2005, 03:29 PM
1-2hrs most of the time, i usually cant get off before she says she hurts and we have to stop.But, the meds i take are the reason.. If im not on meds 20-30mins on av.

Hardbud
07-28-2005, 08:52 PM
1-2hrs most of the time, i usually cant get off before she says she hurts and we have to stop.But, the meds i take are the reason.. If im not on meds 20-30mins on av.

You need viagra

Ha ha

Hardbud
07-28-2005, 08:57 PM
I'm actually pretty quick to draw the gun...I get mad at myself sometimes for cumming to quick (average time: anywhere from about 2-5 mins)...It all deends on the mood I'm in...The good thing is that I can go for about 2 or 3 times in a row just like when I was 15 or 16 (may have something to do with me working out)....Also, If i drink, it hels because I can go longer (usually about 5-10 mins).

My shortest time was probably about 2 mins.
My longest lasting was probably about a good 35 mins. (I was drunk)

Also, it depends in the foreplay, if I get sucked pretty good, then I'll finish quicker on intercourse.

Ha ha What?

If i was you i would stop drinking and gain some self control

Hardbud
07-28-2005, 09:05 PM
I can have sex as long as i want and dont need no viagra.

kronick
07-29-2005, 12:52 AM
You need viagra

Ha ha


no he dosent...ur dumb. cumming has nothing to do with erections. viagra makes ur cock hard, when ur cock cant get hard. if u take viagra and ur not horny...u wont get a boner. u can still get off with a soft dick...its just way harder....no pun intended.

Hardbud
07-29-2005, 07:21 PM
Guess what

I friend told me about his experience and said he got hard for like 3 hours.

Im not sure if it is cool taking it sounds kind of stupid unless you realy need it.

mikeo14
07-29-2005, 07:32 PM
im young I can do a quickie with palmela handerson in 5 minutes flat

kaela
07-30-2005, 08:18 AM
Takes my boyfriend like 30 minutes sometimes. Probably due to major stonerage.

kronick
07-30-2005, 04:00 PM
hahahaha, stonerage. im gonna use that word from now on.

Imotep
07-30-2005, 04:24 PM
Think about baseball.

i cant help but think of baseball when i go into bat :D

partyguy420
07-31-2005, 01:01 PM
for me its probly about 10 to 20 mins... never realy bothred with counting how long it takes me to cum... but sum times its only 3 mins... and to the person that said he wouldnt even last 10 seconds with sum hot supper model... fuck man i would probly bust a load in my pants... but to day.. i beat my monkey about ten times and went and fucked sum fat chick at the mall... it was sick... i hope i didnt get any STDz

partyguy420
07-31-2005, 01:04 PM
and to slipknot.. what happens when u get to numbers that u cant count past... like me its 36... JK... but im not very good at adding number so...

to intire fourms: ohh and what i ment to say after the fat chich part or after the STDz parts is it toomk me an hour to cum

kronick
07-31-2005, 11:11 PM
to intire fourms: ohh and what i ment to say after the fat chich part or after the STDz parts is it toomk me an hour to cum


didnt wanna forget that now did ya?

u prolly blew no different than u normally would have.

NOTEHOOK
08-01-2005, 01:09 AM
you fucked a possibly-STD infected fat chick for an hour. congrats

STDzRus
08-01-2005, 02:45 AM
It's all in my mind.

When my girl wants to pull a quickie I can go in about five - ten minutes i don't really look at the clock

When we want to have good sex I last at least 20 minutes....


When I'm jacking off I try to get my business done as quick as possible probably five minutes at the max.

Da1lungwonder
08-01-2005, 07:31 PM
It's all in my mind.

When my girl wants to pull a quickie I can go in about five - ten minutes i don't really look at the clock

When we want to have good sex I last at least 20 minutes....


When I'm jacking off I try to get my business done as quick as possible probably five minutes at the max.

See maybe im an egotistic fuck, but it tkes me FOREVER to cum if i jack off.. its not even worth my time really.. I need a women............and boobs..i think its all about the boobs....lol

STDzRus
08-01-2005, 07:35 PM
See maybe im an egotistic fuck, but it tkes me FOREVER to cum if i jack off.. its not even worth my time really.. I need a women............and boobs..i think its all about the boobs....lol


Yeah pussy is way better than you hand...I never knew until last thursday though, been using my hand for 17 years until last thursday

Da1lungwonder
08-01-2005, 08:16 PM
Yeah pussy is way better than you hand...I never knew until last thursday though, been using my hand for 17 years until last thursday
CONGRATS on your first go at the dirty monkey dance...lol

sToNeDpEnGuIn420
08-23-2005, 07:17 PM
Usually its around 3-8 minutes. Im usually disappointed,cuz i worry im not satisfying my gf, but she says i am....sooo i'll belive her. If im drunk i can go forever, also comin down from dxm i can go forever. If i jack off once or twice before we do it, then i can go like 15-20 minutes.
Oh and jacking off i can be done in like a minute.

mellow mood
08-23-2005, 09:23 PM
wow lol. when im drunk i can last about 2 hours, and when im not drunk and i use a condom i can last about 1 hour.

lizka4200
08-26-2005, 07:31 PM
hey guys girls can make thesmelves cum to so just casue she says she came dont mean ur any good ahah

VeeZee
11-05-2005, 06:20 AM
just curious..how can you bee bad at sex..just stick the dick in the puss and get to work...aint much else to it

Polymirize
11-05-2005, 11:53 AM
^^
I think your question really answers itself in the asking actually.

powair
11-05-2005, 05:42 PM
Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months and prior to him, I did not know what it was like to have extremely satisfying, wonderful, intensely pleasurable sex. He can make me orgasm in under 5 minutes. Probably under 3. Its cool because we have a lot of control over when we cum. Different ways, rhythms, pressures, and we can put it off to 45 minutes sometimes. And we always cum at about the same time now, it is so fucking cool! As soon as one of us is on the verge we just say it, and the knowledge of that is extremely exciting to the other, who just about always cums at the same time, or a moment after. I love him, he is amazing.

beachguy in thongs
11-10-2005, 05:01 PM
I've never had to say when I'm gonna cum in order to achieve simultaneous orgasms. It happens.

I can fuck in whatever position, juice when you want, and still stay hard.
That's my motto, from now on.