Why didn't I pop her cherry the first time we had sex?

[ilovebecky]

Okay, so I just had sex for the second time with my girlfriend. She was a virgin before i had sex with her last Saturday. On Saturday everything went just as it should except her cherry didnt pop. I just figured she got rid of it herself. Today as soon as I inserted she started bleeding and claimed i just popped her cherry! WTF?! is this possible?! Insight please?!

[kb70]

sure you had the right hole? Not that the other hole ain't right..ifn you know what I mean

[ilovebecky]

Yes, I am sure I had the right hole both times. Even she didnt know what to make of this. She said this happened to one of her friends but she didnt know either...

[slipknotpsycho]

.......MAYBE SHE'S ON HER PERIOD???????????????????????????????????????

[muncheemama]

hmmm I agree, she may be embarassed about starting her period....at least shes not pregnant hehee! keep it wrapped up junior....

[slipknotpsycho]

you know of course they can still have a "period" durring a pregnancy? up to three months is more common but in rarer cases all the way through pregnancy.....not saying it's a high probability...just saying it is a possiblility.....

[maryjanemama]

hmmm I agree, she may be embarassed about starting her period....at least shes not pregnant hehee! keep it wrapped up junior....
This sounds right. Thank God I am no longer a teenager. I forgot how rough figuring out all this sex stuff was.

[henrypj]

hey guys just cos shes a virgin doesnt mean shes THAT young. why dont you just be straight and ask her?

[ilovebecky]

She wasnt on her period cuz she finished it like half a week earlier.

[muncheemama]

hey guys just cos shes a virgin doesnt mean shes THAT young. why dont you just be straight and ask her?
ilovebecky...how old is this young lady?

[ilovebecky]

She is 15

[Daisy420]

maybe you were not the first and her cherry had already been popped by someone else and then on the 2nd time she started her period........ just a thought. play it safe kids ;)

[ilovebecky]

I know she was a virgin and I know she wasnt starting her period cuz i know when she gets hers.

[Encatuse]

Maybe your penis is small and you didn't thrust deep enough to pop it the first time.

[muncheemama]

Maybe your penis is small and you didn't thrust deep enough to pop it the first time.
ive seen this before....well maybe not, but is it possible you didnt get all the way in the first time? ibelieve the, uhh, cherry is pretty high. dont fret about it. are you hurting her? just talk to her and listen. i bet shes pretty nervous too.

[ilovebecky]

yeah probably...does anyone know how deep in hymans usually are?

[muncheemama]

ummm, no, not off hand. but its not just chilling down low dude. you gotta get it in there.
vaginas are made to spit out kids... believe me, there is alot of area there and you wont hurt her(very much) if you listen to her and make her comfortable....get her stoned

[ilovebecky]

yeah she says it hurts a lot but after like ten minutes or so she really gets into it

[supersonicchronic]

Shes an alien

[muncheemama]

that means she isnt comfortable. it was not meant to hurt! she doesnt want to disapoint you by saying stop, so she isnt. dont hurt her man. Any seasoned veterens out there able to help this kid with something? for beckys sake....

[IrieAllie]

Two first timers are like monkeys in a barrel. Bumbling all over the damn place, jamming this here, sticking this there. Make the lady comfortable. Are you using any lubricatory aids? I would think that, under the circumstances, it ain't the Nile down there. Take your time, work up to it, and it will all be fine. FYI, the standard hymen depth is 8.8". Just kidding...don't over-analyze...it's meant to be a GOOD thing :)

[IrieAllie]

One more thing...this whole "cherry" deal. It's not a given...that there is going to be this "pop" and squirt of blood or something. If she's used "artificial" means to be "happy" in the past, that could have done it. Hell, HORSEBACK RIDING can do it. Don't worry about what's happening WHEN it's happening...go with the flow (no pun intended!!!)

[slipknotpsycho]

don't forget riding a bike after a fresh rain and having slippery pedals ~cringes~ i remember the times of the seat being forcibly jammed up my ass and just standing there for 10 or 15 minutes..i'm sure that could pop a cherry too lol

[IrieAllie]

Yes Slipknot...I am SURE that could do the job. As a child of the 70's, the banana seats we had on those bikes were HARDLY comfortable!!! Thank GOD I traded in a bicycle for an ATV! LOL

[mellow mood]

ok i may look dumb, but what is "poping his cherry"? does it means to brake the hymen? ??

thx for the response

[muncheemama]

yes....but its not an accurate description for what really happens. silly kids

[mellow mood]

wrar anybody can answer my question?? what does mean poping cherry?

[slipknotpsycho]

breaking the hymen of a girl....it's the thin peice of skin/flesh inside of their puss for whatever reason i dont know

[muncheemama]

go to this...www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm theres even a pic

[mellow mood]

LOL i fuckin know whats breakin an hymen jesus im not a 10 years old kid i just never heard this expression

[Creeper]

you werent fuckin her through panty hose or anything were you dude...lol. Naw but seriously maybe you didnt get it in there right the first time or something, but I still think thats pretty trippy that you didnt pop it the first time....

[ilovebecky]

yeah it was kinda weird

[Poppy Razzi]

Ya know there can be vaginal tearing. It happened to me the second time I had sex, of course dude was hung like a horse. I popped my own cherry months before the first time, but bleed during the 2nd time.

So my guess was it was a vaginal tear.

[ilovebecky]

maybe thats what happened...i dont think i'll ever know

[Juggalotus]

vaginal tearing happens all the time when you got the right equipment...usually it doesnt hurt the girl...but it happens like her 3-10th time. Hell...my friend, she didnt "pop her cherry" until the 3rd time... She said that the guy was aiming downwards in her vagina and it never hit hard enough? hell if i know...I dont have the problem.

[McCauley Caulkin]

McCauley Caulkin feels that the reason might be because you have a tiny penis, and therefore did not reach her "cherry" the first time, hahaha.

j/k dude.

your probably hung like a horse
































.......fly

[ilovebecky]

im not that small...im not that big either but im not that small

[muncheemama]

hey, I saw you post on another thread....how goes everything with becky....is she enjoying herself?

[ilovebecky]

everything is going fine with becky and yes she is enjoying herself

[DeeLoc187]

I know i fucked her before you did. I knew i recognized her pic. you need to check your bitch. She's playing you man.

[kaela]

i know exactly what you mean i had this problem the first time i had sex. in fact the guy popped my cherry 2 different times. the first time it just wasn't all the way popped and only bled a little and the next time it bled a lot more.

the hymen is very deep and you probably just didn't go deep enough the first time.. happens all the time and it's nothing to worry about.

remember: use a condom!

[CALIKINDBUD]

how'd she get a cherry in there? lol,... sorry

[ilovebecky]

thanks kaela and no thanks to you dee and lol to you cali

[ontariogrower]

Maybe she had a really flexible little bitch of a cherry. My woman's cherry doesnt pop ever. You can shove a fucking hairbrush up her and it wont bust. Nothing can break it. I've heard of girls getting pregnant and still being virgins technically. Some girls cherries dont even pop after sex. Or maybe your dick is just really small. who knows. check if the thing is still there manually. Just spread her open and if it's not there she's a bullshit liar and has had sex OR sometimes girls pop themselves by accident. Girls can pop themselves by doing the splits sometimes or by riding a horse. It's not that uncommon. Just cuz she doesnt have a cherrry doesnt mean she's lying to you. Some dont' even develop a cherry.

So she has a very flexible almost unbreakable cherry like my woman, or she's lying and got popped by someone already, or she broke it herself by accident riding a horse or doing the splits of skiing or something or masterbating or something. If she's a liar and lies about stuff all the time then she's probably justbullshitting you. I guess you'll kinda have to figure it out

[bongo]

This sounds right. Thank God I am no longer a teenager. I forgot how rough figuring out all this sex stuff was.
Yeah all that craps just starting to happen. I asked one girl out and she waited a month to tell me she didn't want to after all, that included 2 weeks of sobriety. now my sisters friend whos kinda slutty likes me, so if i go out with her all that slutty energy can be focused on me. :D Nothings happened yet, but i sense wierdness with pleasure, but more pleasure of course.

[420purplehaze420]

damn after readin this thread im glad my girl was in some sort of gymnastic style crap :D she went to the doctor for a check up and after he told her mom that her hymen had been tore she thought that she was fuckin and said that i wasnt aloud to come to the house anymore :eek:

[LimpBizkitRMV04]

......... ever wonder what happened to sex education in school.........

[ilovebecky]

they dont mention anything about not breaking the hymen until the second time in sex ed...

[Juggalotus17]

Popping the cherry is breaking the hyman, yes.
And from what I hear virgin pussys are about 4 inches deep, and they expand from there. So i'm guessing if she was a virgin, unless your dick is smaller than your finger..... shit i don't know where i'm going with this man..

this is just another way to prove how confusing girls are.

[Encatuse]

-laughs- Sorry for my mean wording in my first assumption.

I still standby my assumption that you probably just didn't thrust deep enough the first time. Some hymens are deeper then others. Sorry if I insulted your equpment.

((I pictured you as a younger kid, with a still growing penis, who was doin it. Not a fellow seventeen year old. Nothing personal, just my stoned brain.))

[s2headhunter]

My girl was a viring when i got with her and i have banged the fuck out of her and never has blood come out so i dont know if she did it herself or what..