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Marko123
06-04-2005, 01:16 AM
If you had the chance to be with someone other than your significant other and there was no chance your significant would ever find out, would you? And if you would, does that mean your relationship is not a good one?

Me, I am too old for that stuff, but I will tell ya, there are a lot of sedutive woman out there. Frankly, I think women can be more forward than men.

NoosaHeads
06-04-2005, 01:33 AM
Nah i wouldnt...

I have been with my girl for 4 yrs & we've been living together for three.

I enjoy other womans company But I'd never go over that boundry...

MisstreeNny
06-04-2005, 01:38 AM
Mr big.

Chris noth, OMFG!

Chuck already knows this.

blunt0429
06-04-2005, 02:16 AM
i got a girlfriend and she is really cool, but i would mess around on her in a heartbeat. why not, its not like we're married. besides you only live once and the most important thing in life is poon. then weed. then shrooms. maybe money and a future should go in there too. anyway, live it up man. peace.

mrdevious
06-04-2005, 02:21 AM
i got a girlfriend and she is really cool, but i would mess around on her in a heartbeat. why not, its not like we're married. besides you only live once and the most important thing in life is poon. then weed. then shrooms. maybe money and a future should go in there too. anyway, live it up man. peace.


I don't think not being married is an excuse to not respect her and to hurt her. however, this might not be a very serious relationship, I don't know, so I won't judge.

mellowman420
06-04-2005, 02:29 AM
i'm single right now :(. me soo sad, really. talk to me ladies

4252
06-04-2005, 03:08 AM
Odd sort of thing; many of the the women in my life seem to have been faithful in spite of my (discrete) extracurricular activities, and the ones I've been faithful to have often fooled around on me. This would seem to lead to an obvious conclusion, but it doesn't quite track, so I play it by ear, so to speak.

Having said that, I've gone to great lengths not to hurt anyone. I can't say that for a lot of other people.

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blunt0429
06-04-2005, 03:12 AM
serious relationship? not at this stage in my life. i only want one thing...well maybe two....or three....

blunt0429
06-04-2005, 03:14 AM
oh by the way, i wouldn't disrespect anyone...what she doesn't know...never happened..right?

Hektik
06-04-2005, 09:38 AM
I would, only if she never ever found out, cuz then it didn't happen :p

RidingHigh
06-04-2005, 09:52 AM
i like cheese=/

Reefer Rogue
06-04-2005, 09:57 AM
If she would never find out i would.

StonedHonda
06-04-2005, 10:34 AM
If you had the chance to be with someone other than your significant other and there was no chance your significant would ever find out, would you? And if you would, does that mean your relationship is not a good one?

Me, I am too old for that stuff, but I will tell ya, there are a lot of sedutive woman out there. Frankly, I think women can be more forward than men.



VERY ironic question at this time. I am married to a wonderful woman. I have just recently recived e-mail from an ex whome I have never lost love for. I love my ex in a totaly differetn, deeper way then i love my wife. Now dont get me wrong I LOVE my wife and woudl not hurt her., but if I had the chance to do it over. I would have waitied so that i could now marry my ex.

My ex feels the same, she still loves me and cry herself alseep every night thinking of me. We split due to parental problems.

So to answer your question. Ye sif i had the chance to be with the other girl I would in a heart beat.

But they say. if you cant be with the one you love. then love the one your with.

ermitonto
06-04-2005, 11:06 AM
Hey if I had the chance to be with anybody that would be great. By the way, monogamy is unnatural. Throughout history truly monogamous cultures have been pretty rare, and in the animal kingdom there are very few monogamous animals (there's vultures and some species of tapeworm, I think). Even in our modern society, adultery rates are 60-80% for men and 40-60% for women.

Marko123
06-04-2005, 11:39 AM
If it is 60-80% men and 40-60%, who do the extra 20% men fool around with? Each other? LOL

Speaking of screwing around, there was a hot and I mean hot married woman I worked with who was into sex with anyone at any time. She would even go to a bar with her husband and pick-up women for threesomes. Not that there is anything wrong with that!

jadeius
06-04-2005, 02:34 PM
i would never leave my man in the dark about anything, if i ever did want to leave him bad enough for someone else i would tell him, we're just straightforward like that, he would treat me the same

the only person that would even make me consider it is vin diesel, or maybe bruce willis :eek:

DonnieDarko
06-04-2005, 03:21 PM
My wife and I have had this hypothetical conversation.

Even if there was NO CHANCE she would find out, she said that I am not allowed to call upon another booty. So I wouldn't.

On the other hand my answer to her was that she could hook-up with whomever, if hypothetically, I would never find out. SO far, I haven't found out anything, so it's all good.

spliffstar22
06-04-2005, 03:29 PM
Well I fool around on the side all the time. I don't give a fuck really. I don't fool around with girls in this area, that'd be pretty fuckin stupid, but i''ve heard worst. THis one fuckin retard from my HS was fooling around with a girl that was in his homeroom, and his girl had the same homeroom. THey booked it, and he gets left alone with nothing but his hand lol . If my girl fooled around though, and told me, i'd be pissed, i don't want to know. I've been seein her on and off for 2 or 3 years now. She's never caught me foolin around. When I get a serious relationship, by serious, i mean marriage, i'll stop foolin around. Or if i find the girl of my dreams, than i'll stop foolin around. Until then, i'll keep foolin around..

jadeius
06-05-2005, 01:52 PM
But they say. if you cant be with the one you love. then love the one your with.

that's good words to live by

StonedHonda
06-05-2005, 02:47 PM
my wife just told me and her best friend tonight after our 3 3some that anytime she wanted my d!ck, she can come get it. as long as she told my wife first and she knew it was happening. I was like :eek: :eek: :D

Marko123
06-05-2005, 05:03 PM
"my wife just told me and her best friend tonight after our 3 3some that anytime she wanted my d!ck, she can come get it. as long as she told my wife first and she knew it was happening. I was like"

Honda, you gotta be full of crap or you are just living every guys dream. I think you need to post a pic of 'the friend' so we can all live through you. LOL

Az.
06-05-2005, 05:06 PM
no i wouldnt...no chance....my girl of nearly 4 years has been at uni since september and i could EASILY of cheated on her....but thats not really fair...cause i trust her to do the same.....its a trust thing i guess

DonnieDarko
06-05-2005, 05:13 PM
no i wouldnt...no chance....my girl of nearly 4 years has been at uni since september and i could EASILY of cheated on her....but thats not really fair...cause i trust her to do the same.....its a trust thing i guess


Your right. For lots of people, it's about keeping a very important promise. The promise is not "I promise not to get caught", the promise is "I will be faithful to you". You should be admired for that.

mono repin
06-05-2005, 05:16 PM
Cheating is fucked up. I don't do that shit. It's never been about getting caught for me anyways.

StonedHonda
06-06-2005, 07:37 PM
"my wife just told me and her best friend tonight after our 3 3some that anytime she wanted my d!ck, she can come get it. as long as she told my wife first and she knew it was happening. I was like"

Honda, you gotta be full of crap or you are just living every guys dream. I think you need to post a pic of 'the friend' so we can all live through you. LOL



Yeah, every guy is going to anounce that his wife said that *roll eyes* I could care less if YOU belive me or not.

Pic? Get your own wife and own open relationship.




And rember, it's not cheating if your spouce agrees to it.

BUZz UK
06-06-2005, 07:39 PM
I play it by ear, so to speak.
lol, you 'ole dog, heheh ;)

sToNeDpEnGuIn420
06-06-2005, 07:42 PM
But they say. if you cant be with the one you love. then love the one your with.
Lol im really baked and i dont know why but that seems really sadistic or something....lol *runs off*

and no i wouldnt do it to the person im with now, i really love her to much.