weed etiquette

[formethisisheaven]

All right, so I have this friend who I think is using me for weed. I get it for free so I share it with him, and he doesn't think that he should repay me whatsoever for it. I at least think that he could get some weed and split it with me, but he doesn't. We drive around most of the time to smoke cause there's no where else safe to go (we stop driving once we feel it's no longer safe), and he's only driven twice out of the many, many trips we've taken (and never pays me back for gas, or the food I buy him for the munchies). He never calls to just hang out, only when he wants weed or wants to smoke.

Is it right to expect some reciprocation from this kid, or should I just be happy I've got someone to smoke with, since the weed is free and he knows it?

(the weed is free cause I have some mad hookups who don't mind, well, hooking me up for free.)

[nakedgunner]

so all u guys do together is just frive around and smoke? he never hangs out with u ?. werid

i live in pa wat part or pa do u live in

[formethisisheaven]

so all u guys do together is just frive around and smoke? he never hangs out with u ?. werid

i live in pa wat part or pa do u live in

yeah, we used to hang out when we didn't have any weed to smoke, but once I told him about my connection it's the only reason he calls me.

I live in Bucks County... Allentown/Doylestown area. You?

[Kramerica]

Cut him off :)

[mrdevious]

What a shamefull mooch, ditch him.

[BalliN]

fuck that guy

[HighTimeStoner]

Next time he calls tell him your out and see what he says.
Nothing wrong with smoking with him tho since you do get it for free, however spending your cash for gas and eats I feel you should take turns on that.
I would anyways if he doesnt wanna do that then smoke by yourself and tell him to eat shit IMO.
A friend is one thing a scavenger is another :D

[FunkyMonkey]

You call him up to hang and plan something different that you like to do.
Smoke your spliff on the way to get him and dont offer any when he gets in the car. Youve already got your tune on. Just wait for him to ask for some handouts and tell him you sold your stash for some cash for gas and if he knows anyone he could buy off of youll drive him there.

[NoosaHeads]

All right, so I have this friend who I think is using me for weed. I get it for free so I share it with him, and he doesn't think that he should repay me whatsoever for it. I at least think that he could get some weed and split it with me, but he doesn't. We drive around most of the time to smoke cause there's no where else safe to go (we stop driving once we feel it's no longer safe), and he's only driven twice out of the many, many trips we've taken (and never pays me back for gas, or the food I buy him for the munchies). He never calls to just hang out, only when he wants weed or wants to smoke.

Is it right to expect some reciprocation from this kid, or should I just be happy I've got someone to smoke with, since the weed is free and he knows it?

(the weed is free cause I have some mad hookups who don't mind, well, hooking me up for free.)






Next time He calls up..
Go for a drive out into the middle of nowhere and Leave his sorry sponge of an arse out there...
I bet he never calls you again....;)

[stoner spirit]

Do not always bum people for weed, it is not cool unless they are willing to give you some. If he doesn't go by that, ditch him. He should at least return the favor.

[420ultimatesmokage]

what an asshole, he should at least hook it up with some gas money seeing how you are providing the smokes

[canadianstoner69]

im in the same fucking boat with a few guys but i tell em fuck themselves now, get your own fucking green. he's just a hurting mooch tell him to fuck off

[likemclever]

Yeah, get rid of his sorry ass...he is taking advantage of you...it's not like he's doing you a favor by smoking with you...that guy is no kind of friend. He wants all of the benifit but none of the risk (driving.) The fact that you get your smoke for free makes no difference. If you guys got pulled over he would soooooooo give you up (in a heart beat) to save his own ass. The only reason this guy walks on you is because you let him. And from now on don't tell people you get your smoke for free.

[lilee]

Yeah, get rid of his sorry ass...he is taking advantage of you...it's not like he's doing you a favor by smoking with you...that guy is no kind of friend. He wants all of the benifit but none of the risk (driving.) The fact that you get your smoke for free makes no difference. If you guys got pulled over he would soooooooo give you up (in a heart beat) to save his own ass. The only reason this guy walks on you is because you let him. And from now on don't tell people you get your smoke for free.



agreed

[formethisisheaven]

agreed yeah i know but i thought he was a close friend so that it was like, an okay thing to say, not just like some douche i just became friends with. that why it sucks, cause he's supposed to be a close friend. i'm thinking not, now.

[ScarlettCrush]

He may not even realize how moochie he is being. Sometimes your friends get so used to you being generous, they start taking advantage on the grounds of familiarity. If he calls and you like smoking out with him, then do it, but tell his ass up front you need gas money and he needs to be paying for the McDonalds this time. If he can't handle that, then tell him just how you been feeling. Either he will straighten up and realize he is fucking over a friend, or he won't and you will know he isn't one.

[ScarlettCrush]

oh yeah, and send him to this shit. www.smokingwithstyle.com it lays out weed etiquette for newbies and jackasses with no clue. (it says in the website that everyone hates a mooch)

[smokey]

smash his nose over his face then tell him to fuck coz he just taking u for a ride

[likemclever]

He may not even realize how moochie he is being. Sometimes your friends get so used to you being generous, they start taking advantage on the grounds of familiarity. If he calls and you like smoking out with him, then do it, but tell his ass up front you need gas money and he needs to be paying for the McDonalds this time. If he can't handle that, then tell him just how you been feeling. Either he will straighten up and realize he is fucking over a friend, or he won't and you will know he isn't one.

I agree with all of that...

And man, I know it can be tough but you just can't let this guy walk all over you even if he is your friend.

[formethisisheaven]

I smoked with him again Thursday, to see how it goes. He said that he might be able to get some to combine with what I had (a nice gesture), but oho, no dice. He said he had a nick, but didn't offer to smoke that with what I had. He drove, and we didn't buy any food. With all the stuff everyone has said, I have decided that I'm not going to smoke with him until he can provide his own shit.

Thanks.

[likemclever]

I know it's tough man...especially since you have been friends for a long time. But if you let him take advantage of you it won't get better for you...only worse. I hope it works out for you.

[Porkchop]

We call those scavenger's.

[ScarlettCrush]

Sorry about that for ya, I thought maybe he had come on hard times or something...sounds kind of like he just got selfish. Sucks when that happens.

[KronicKing]

i kinda mooch of this one kid,but i do go down there just to hang out,but he never calls me or wants to hang out if he knows im dry and he is too,but i also make sure it is out it the open and i do apologize,i'd smoke with him with my weed but the problem is i have no income(and i cant work this summer because im leaveing for 3 weeks right in the middle[in 9 days acctualy :) ] so im kinda stuck were i am :( ) if that weren't the case then id smoke my weed with him as much as he smokes with me...but then i never have anything i can call my weed :( i hate being broke and no being able to do anything about it

[koshea]

if hes your friend dont call him out just be like, dude, i dont mind smokin u out for free, but i gotta buy gas, so either gimme gas money, or food, and itll be cool, and if you ever get weed, like you get hit in the head with a bag somehow, then ill pay for gas, or for food

its a rule around here, unspoken rule, if yer burnin in somones car pitch in for a gallon, chances are you wont be drivin more than 20 miles anyways, and if you do, we all pitch in more

[Lurker]

get a weed buddy who'll always watch you're back that's impt.. fuck him!
i miss my weed buddy..:( so been smokin alone for months now..

[formethisisheaven]

get a weed buddy who'll always watch you're back that's impt.. fuck him!
i miss my weed buddy..:( so been smokin alone for months now..
i smoked alone for the second time ever like five minutes ago and it is the strangest high ever, i think. i feel so weeeeeird.

[RidingHigh]

hell yea dude, when i was living in the city with all my Group of Friends *WINK* I had acouple friends that would give me accouple J's or accouple bowls of bud and in return when i had bud and they was in need i would break them off a chunk thats just a good friend.WHen we all find a nice place to chill we'll break out the party bong and who ever had weed we would all smoke it, No one smoked in our circle that wasent able to provide something 2 the group IE Munchies a Kewl place to smoke, Bong Pipes, Weed,a ride u get the idea.

[RidingHigh]

theres a realy good site that shows u all the basics for smoking with friends the Do's and Dont for smoking with a group. Realy useful for newbs SHows how to role blunts different styles of Joints ect ect realy kewl site.

[formethisisheaven]

theres a realy good site that shows u all the basics for smoking with friends the Do's and Dont for smoking with a group. Realy useful for newbs SHows how to role blunts different styles of Joints ect ect realy kewl site.
haha yeah, i'll just tell him to go to www.smokingwithstyle.com to the etiquette page. haha

[RidingHigh]

http://www.smokingwithstyle.com/weedetiquette.htm yea rofl finally found the page and u had to go and post the web addy =P

[formethisisheaven]

http://www.smokingwithstyle.com/weedetiquette.htm yea rofl finally found the page and u had to go and post the web addy =P
haha woops, sorry to rain on your parade.

[i.m.high]

What a freakin mooch. He should buy the munchies every time. I know I would!

[mono repin]

I say as far as weed goes, if your getting it for free be free with it as long as your not going without. The other shit I can understand getting pissed about, and if using weed to make you point about the other shit is what needs to be done, than so be it. I wouldn't think you were a dick if you did it. He's being a douche for skipping out on gas/food.

[RidingHigh]

haha woops, sorry to rain on your parade.
i'll get over it=P[