sex sex or love sex

[naluman]

we have entered a new era of sexual revolution....

i was wondering what people prefer.....just sex sex or love sex.......what is the difference in your opinion...... how long can you just fuck someone untill you are emotional hurt or addicted to selfishness of your own desires...

[maryjanemama]

we have entered a new era of sexual revolution....

i was wondering what people prefer.....just sex sex or love sex.......what is the difference in your opinion...... how long can you just fuck someone untill you are emotional hurt or addicted to selfishness of your own desires...
Fantastic question! I tried sex/sex one time, and I guess I probably didn't feel anything emotionally for about 3 weeks. Though I tried to remain cool about it, it didn't work. I ended up with my heart stomped on and handed back to me (fucking NICK!).

At the time I was devastated, but now I look back on it as a learning experience. I am happy that I am able to care for someone and not hide it, I am not an emotional icicle like him (fucking NICK!). It didn't work out...and I am better for it. :)

[mellow mood]

i guess women are easily emotionally attaching to men when they have sex/sex. thats a small problem :(

[Cheery Cherry]

I prefer making love with someone I care about. I have had fuck buddies in the past and as long as you have an understanding with the other person that the attraction goes no further than sexual attraction, then there should be no problem. You have to have this honest talk before having sex though...

[DonnieDarko]

Guys have always been better separating the emotion from the physical pleasure of the act. If there is a "new era of sexual revolution", there must be some women developing the same attitudes. Like to hear more from 20-something single gals on that.

I have always been turned on by the idea of anon sexual encounters, but because I am married, have never acted on the fantasies. Wifey and I do have fuckbuddy encounters with each other, but that's another thread.

[djaio]

i want to at least like them, or feel somehow connected to them.

[slipknotpsycho]

yea me too....i always feel like i'm taking advantage of the chic unless there's a connection there....but there has been a couple of one night stands with me.....i didn't like them too much tho

[daZenfmeister]

Well with my g/f it's ALWAYS love/sex because I really do love her. Also it's the only sex I get so it's good enough for me. I don't think that I would even like sex/sex that much because it kinda voids the whole purpose of having sex which is to share your love with your partner!