Country girl seeks answers

[nuggetgirl]

Howdy everyone, I was just thinking how much different life would be if I lived in the city. I live in the middle of like 500 acres of cornfield in a spooky 100 year old house. The closest town is population 55. I have a huge yard. I have alot of questions for a city person, like, when you go outside does it bother you to have people around? Or to hear cars going by at night. Do you ever have problems finding parking spots? Is there really gangs that stand on corners? Is there certain areas you won't drive down? Maybe I am a gullible country girl, but I'm just curious. I come from a place where there's not even a cop. There's no shootings, nokidnappings. I'm a pretty good looking 21 year old girl and around here I'm not afraid to walk anywhere alone. If you put me in the ghetto, I'd be dead in like 30 minutes. The thought of a place where I had to be afraid to walk down the road kinda makes me sad. Anyways, any questions, just ask.

[OreO]

well i love the crowdedness(like my word) of a city and i dont think i could stay in a secluded country area for long without wanting to go back home. Parking sux tho...it does. Not really gangs on the corners but more like groups of people. Ill drive anywhere...theres nothing really to be afraid of in the city, just dont be stupid and piss someone off. And u saying if u goto the "ghetto" ull b dead...thats not really that tru, just dont be dumb and piss ne1 off.

[4thpower]

so, how do you get weed if there's no one around?

[nuggetgirl]

I have like 2-3 people I get smoke from, they've been my dealers for like 3-4 years. One of thems an hour away, but it's cheaper. 25 for a quarter, 50 for a half, 100 for an ounce. The other couple people I get smoke from are like 20 minutes away but it's more expensive 20 eighth, 40 quarter, 80 half. So most the time I drive an hour away to get smoke. I also have a good hookup in Topeka, KS (like a 5 hour drive) where I can get OZs for 60 bucks. Or 200 for a QP.

[OreO]

damn thats reaaaal cheap its 20 a gram here 100 for a quarter

[JSTA]

I like the country much more then big cities. Actually, I really like mid-sized towns, like around 20k. I find those people to be much nicer.

[nuggetgirl]

damn thats reaaaal cheap its 20 a gram here 100 for a quarterThere's no way I would pay 100 bucks for a quarter! I get mad when I have to pay 40! I like my quarters 25.00. I smoke like a half every 2-3 days. I would be spending like 400 dollars a week if I paid 100 for a quarter.

[OreO]

ya it sux and niki(the bitch) is that u? and y u a bitch u seem nice

[carmzilla]

I have alot of questions for a city person, like, when you go outside does it bother you to have people around? Or to hear cars going by at night. Do you ever have problems finding parking spots? Is there really gangs that stand on corners? Is there certain areas you won't drive down?

I think it depends on the individual, whether or not they like having people around. I also think it is possible to experience culture shock, especially if you are going from a small community/town to a large city. You will eventually get used to it and the same with the noise. Parking depends on the location and what is happening nearby. I believe that the idea of gangs hanging on corners is more of a tv/movie thing. And I will drive in all areas of a city. Mind you there are some areas where I am more alert of my surroundings but not to the point where I am frightened for my life. Look up the city you are moving to on the internet. Maybe post the city you are moving to and someone more familiar with it can help out.

Good luck with everything! :)

[TheLion]

damn thats reaaaal cheap its 20 a gram here 100 for a quarter
Same Here.

[OreO]

thelion i think we get close the same shit cause this guy from cali im friends with sayd that the bud we get here in VA is a lot like the good shit in cali, i think nugget girl prob gets mids posssibly but i could b wrong...only stuff cheap as hers around here is schwag/mids

[TheLion]

Ya man, I don't think I could even get mids if I wanted to. I had never heard of mids or schwag until this site. The stuff that I smoke is incredible. I've been smoking for years and have never had to smoke more than one bowl to get roasted (granted, I have smoked more than one bowl, but I didn't need to).

[del...]

i've lived in las vegas for 12 years, 8 blocks from the hilton, close to the strip in an older, well established neighborhood with churches, parks and schools nearby...and it sucked something fierce!!! noise always, filth in the streets, graffitti wherever a blank wall once existed, yelling/arguing neighbors...etc etc etc...NO THANKS!

i moved to a small town 100 miles away 3 1/2 years ago and don't miss the big city one bit. peace and quiet mean a lot to some...like daniel boone said many years ago, "Elbow room!"...

only gangs up here belong to the FFA or FHA (future farmers/future housewives of america)...plus no one messes with my gardens here! a major plus over city-living...

[PureEvil760]

I want to come live with you...I hate living around people.

[DonnieDarko]

There's nothin like cities when you wanna go out to clubs, concerts, or just raise hell. When you're 21 and want to party with your peeps, the city rules. Most cities are very safe because there is tons of pplz out at night, all hours. Just stay out of the gangsta hoods, cause of the drive-bys.

I do have a serious question for nuggetgal ..... with the area so rural, not alot of pplz, it must be hard to hookup w/ppl yur own age.

For me its best to live in the burbs, and cruise to the city for some action.

[nuggetgirl]

The bud I get from topeka for 60 an ounce is actually the best, it's extremely compressed. 1 bowl will get you baked. The stuff I buy if mainly commercial, but it's not bad. I can go pay 60 for a quarter of some good nugs, but there's no northern lights, or blueberry, or alcopulco gold, or maui wowie or nothing. Come see what I got, I'll share. Oh yeah, oreo, I'm not a total bitch, but I speak my mind. People around here call me a bitch. I take it as it comes. I'm just a bit odd.

[TheLion]

Oh yeah, oreo, I'm not a total bitch, but I speak my mind. People around here call me a bitch
That's one thing about the city (or at least San Francisco), people applaud you for speaking your mind, they don't call you a bitch for it.

[PureEvil760]

alright ill get on the first flight to iowa in the morning

[nuggetgirl]

It's gonna sound pretty sad, but I really don't have any friends. My old man is my best friend, and his brother. But he just went to rehab for 30 days. I sit at home all day with my kid b/c there's not much to do around here. I'm a mechanic, so most chicks don't like me b/c I work with their boyfriends. And yes to all you guys wondering, there is such a thing as a hot female mechanic. I got the picture to prove it.

[TheLion]

Let's see it.

[makor01]

im not convinced, i think you might have to post it.

HEHE ;)

[nuggetgirl]

How do you post a picture?

[TheLion]

Click on the thing that says "manage attatchments".

[EverydayJunglist]

Theres certain roads you don't go down in the city because if your on it your either buying drugs/selling drugs or a cop.And yea thats ghetto,but theres places out by me in the country where you don't go down certain streets.Like alot people won't even go on the indian rez's at night.
I've lived everywhere,and each has it advantages.But i definetley prefer living in the boonies.I used to live in 20 acre ranch and ithought that was alot.But 500,damn,sell me 10 acres.Ill move to iowa,shiiiit.

[makor01]

tic toc =) :p

[nuggetgirl]

not too bad for a corn fed Iowa broad. I'm really tall I'm not sure exactly how tall, but I'd say 5'10''. This pic is like 2 months old. My hair is a lot blonder now.

[makor01]

i had to turn my monitor upside down to look at that. i should of taken a pic of myself doing that...Yall would of laughed your asses off. Nice Pic there.

[nuggetgirl]

So now this embarks on a whole new question. Now that yall know what I look like I want to know if you think I'm fuckable. I've been married 5 years so I'm outta the loop, I know I use to get a lot of dates, but not anymore.

[DonnieDarko]

WOW .... You are very fine .... You got strap-on tools ????

[del...]

jeeze, you're asking these testosterone-infused, hormone raging kids a question like that? half of these young men are so horny they can't pass a crawdad hole without catching wood...lol


and themes such as this would be better in the sexuality room...please...thanks.

[TheLion]

Lol, yes, you are indeed "fuckable", as you so eloquently put it.

[makor01]

i'd vote "yes" on the question at hand. Why are you asking tho?

[nuggetgirl]

Around the house I got my own little hand tool ;)

[TheLion]

I have to ask, did you willingly marry? and, are you happy with your marriage?

[nuggetgirl]

Well, if there is any older people out there, as in not in High school, you know that after a long time with somebody you get comfortable in your relationship. My old man doesn't tell me I'm beautiful as much anymore. Sometimes I wonder if he still likes the way I look, ecspecially b/c I got married when I was 16. I have definitely changed alot since I was 16. I now have a womanly body, and I wonder if he doesn't like it.

[TheLion]

That's why I asked. I'm sure you have grown a lot since you were 16. 16 is just a little girl. My sister is 16, and I can't even fathom her being married.

[nuggetgirl]

If I would've know now what I didn't know then, things would have been different.

[makor01]

Well im 26 and ive had a few long term relationships and in all long term relationships shit like that happens. When i was 21 marriage was the last thing on my mind...So maybe that thought "is there anything else out there?" has crossed someones mind. Marrying at 16 is way young so maybe that is the case.

[EverydayJunglist]

Lol, yes, you are indeed "fuckable", as you so eloquently put it.
Word

[TheLion]

If I would've know now what I didn't know then, things would have been different.
That hit me deep for some reason. It's like I can feel the pain and unhappiness deep inside you...

[nuggetgirl]

At 16 you think you're grown up already, you think you know everything. Has anyone ever heard of a paradime shift? It's where all of a sudden you wake up and see the world from a totally different perspective, it all feels different and suddenly you think you understand it all now, but in most likelyhood, you will have several paradime shifts in your life. I think it's all a part of learning lessons and growing wiser. My mother just passed away in April from cancer. I believe her death has caused my paradime to shift and look at the world from a different viewpoint.

[JSTA]

Is that a cross on your neck? And your asking guys on a message board if you're fuckable? lol I found that kind of funny. And yes, y ou are.

[TheLion]

I'm sorry to hear about your mother...
I'm going through one of those paradime shifts right now. I think it's a combination of many things. I feel I am a much better person now because of it.

[nuggetgirl]

Christianity has a fucked up viewpoint in the world. I used to be a Wiccan. I then married a preachers son. I became a christian. I am very spiritual, but I do not believe you have to go to church every sunday to go to heaven. God accepts me and all my faults, ecspecially sex, drugs, and rock and roll. He may not like the things I do, but he still cares for me. I have lived an extremely hard life. Like right now, I do not have a mom or dad, all my other relatives are long gone. I just got done spending 3 months with my mom watching her die. I do not have all the answers on my faith, right now is a fucked up time. But I know there's someone up there watching out for me.

[makor01]

on boards like these youre bound to get some douchebag comments ;)

dont sweat it.

[TheLion]

ecspecially sex, drugs, and rock and roll.
That's what I like to hear. ;)
Alright, time for work :( . Catch ya later.

[nuggetgirl]

So is anyone here from Iowa? I get to talking to some of you guys, and I wish I could actually hang with you ya know? If there was someone here from close by, I would toke it up with you.

[makor01]

Waaaaaaaaaaaay far from iowa here. :)

I was born in Kansas tho haha!!! :eek:

[nuggetgirl]

Man that sux. I need to get off here and make some pipes, I have orders to be filled.

[JSTA]

on boards like these youre bound to get some douchebag comments ;)

dont sweat it.

If you were referring to me, screw you. I have my opinions and I can chime in when I feel like it. If she wants to post that, then I can speak my mind about it. Plus, I've never met a christian in my life who does stuff like that. It was interesting to hear her view on it. Plus, I dont' see you being the most productive poster on these boards.

[Creeper]

I used to live out in the city, in europe and when I lived in North Carolina, but I live out in the country now....nothin but potatoe fields, and I love the piece and queit, and theyres not many cops around to fuck with ya, the ones that do are assholes though. But the only thing I hate about the country is in a small town if you grew your hair long your a hippie stoner fuck who does nothing but drugs (according to these people when I had long hair), but all in all, stay in the country, :p

[makor01]

HAHA nice edit =) anyhow...next topic =) dont hijack her thread

[nuggetgirl]

It is true, I put it out there, he made his opinion. I'm just a different kind of person I suppose. I'm kinky, not too many men have met a kinky woman.

[JSTA]

What, did you see the sentence ending in you.... I didn't want to be hostile :)

[nuggetgirl]

and theyres not many cops around to fuck with ya, the ones that do are assholes though. that is so true, we have this one cop here named Trapper.
And everybody is always like Trappers gonna get cha. He's like Barney Fife on crack.

[JSTA]

I used to live in Oklahoma and my friends and I kenw a couple cops. It was always funny when one would pull up while we were skating or something, then thinking we were screwed, just to find out the cop just wanted to chat with us. I've run into a couple Houston PD here and they're dicks. It's no fun dealin with 'em.

[nuggetgirl]

I just got a 348 dollar ticket for no insurance. It sucked!

[rhino44]

is all u get a ticket from no insurance i thought they could take your car, i ask cause mine just ran out

[nuggetgirl]

I'm not sure, states differ on law. Here you get a 348 dollar ticket, and have 30 days to pay it. When you go to pay it though, you must show that you got insurance.

[rhino44]

dmv and insurance sucks a big one. having a dui doesnt help. but damn 348 they aint fuckin around thats 3 months inurance for me.

[Reefer Rogue]

I love living in the city and i would never want to live in a rural countryside.
"In the city there's a thousand things i wanna say to you" not sure why i posted that, probably because i'm listneing to that song right now and i'm too lazy to go back and delete it.

[nuggetgirl]

Yeah, I got a dwi too. Where you from rhino?

[rhino44]

charlottesville VA home of UVA though i lived in the country. i live in charlotte nc now and i miss the country. i cant piss outside i cant let my dog out without leash and i cant have field parties. so i think i need to move back plus people here are so uptight and in a hurry. i like the slower down to earth atmosphere that the country provides.

[hardon]

Hey nuggetgirl, I am from iowa, near Creston (dunno if you know where thats at) anyways, im only 16 so obviously theres an age gap there haha.

[NoosaHeads]

I know I come in Late...

I grew up In the City I completed My Trade and spent a few years(21) Living in the city.
I know Live In the country(past 8 yrs) and I can gaurentee you Its Miles Better In the country..

I have returned to the city only once and realised as soon as I arrived there why I left.

The Noise Of the City after living in the countrly is almost unbearable for the first couple of nights Back But I soon got used to all the noises and it was good to catch up with my freinds..

Im Happy in the sticks..:)

[nuggetgirl]

Hey, I looked on the map and creston is really close to me, like 45 minutes. Do you got a good hookup on smoke? I'm looking for some nugs, not just commercial mids. Anyways....holler

[Etrain]

half of these young men are so horny they can't pass a crawdad hole without catching wood...lol

Hahah Del.

Oh, well living in San Francisco...I love the city. I was born and lived there, moved up to oregon, now I still work and live down there for about 4 months of the year. There are some districts which one wanders into with caution or can get a little nasty (hunters point), but I love the city. :cool:

[hardon]

Hey, I looked on the map and creston is really close to me, like 45 minutes. Do you got a good hookup on smoke? I'm looking for some nugs, not just commercial mids. Anyways....holler

hmm... normally all i can get is commercial mids (compressed, dark green, about 1 bowl will fuck ya up). 80/ half oz. :( sorry I cant help you out there.

[marsboy]

Howdy everyone, I was just thinking how much different life would be if I lived in the city. I live in the middle of like 500 acres of cornfield in a spooky 100 year old house. The closest town is population 55. I have a huge yard. I have alot of questions for a city person, like, when you go outside does it bother you to have people around? Or to hear cars going by at night. Do you ever have problems finding parking spots? Is there really gangs that stand on corners? Is there certain areas you won't drive down? Maybe I am a gullible country girl, but I'm just curious. I come from a place where there's not even a cop. There's no shootings, nokidnappings. I'm a pretty good looking 21 year old girl and around here I'm not afraid to walk anywhere alone. If you put me in the ghetto, I'd be dead in like 30 minutes. The thought of a place where I had to be afraid to walk down the road kinda makes me sad. Anyways, any questions, just ask.

I would trade my life for your life in a heartbeat. I was born and raised (and still live in), the 7th largest city in the United States- San Diego, CA. It was not too bad when i was younger - but now!! 7 years ago, I moved from my peaceful little suburb of San Diego, right straight to Downtown San Diego!! It is like living in Iraq(And I know, I am a Desert Storm Veteran). It is horrible, it is worse then only getting sex every year!! If you need a guide on your first ghetto tour, let me know. My e-mail is [email protected][/email] In the meantime, you should be counting your lucky stars, country virgin girl. Good-bye for now.
Marshall

[A Foo Says]

I wouldn't trade the city life for anything. So much stuff to do and see and to be apart of. I don't know why everyone hates it, especially the gangs and stuff. Maybe it's different where you're from. I'm not afraid to drive/walk anywhere, I've never been messed with (probably because i'm 6'4 170 lbs but still).

I mean, the city is great, as long as you're confident you can go pretty much anywhere, just don't be smug, just be nice and don't fear people.

[thcbongman]

City life is the shit, but some day, when I'm older I would that quiet life in the country, preferably in the mountains not to far to drive to ski :)

Gangs don't even worry me, I only been fucked around with once and that's because I kinda asked for it.

But concerts, clubs, just being apart of the scene is why city life rules.

[nuggetgirl]

But concerts, clubs, just being apart of the scene is why city life rules.Hey guys quit, you're making me jealous I want a night out in the city!

[Ammie]

I have lived in both the country and the city, and let me tell ya I got outta the city as fast as i could. Its just not my thing, not because of the crime or anything which in Detroit theres lots:eek:, but when u grow up and its always quite at night and ur used to things being a certin way and being able to walk around at time day or night and just be safe.
you dont have to worry about anything or anyone. I missed just being able to go the lake and fish when i wanted or swim when i wanted. I didnt get to go mudd runnin because theres no two tracks in the city either:(. It was so frickin nosie too!! that i just couldnt handle. I like being able to look out my windows and see the stars. I noticed in the city the bright lites kinda make them disappear.
and i dont know for some reason I can just breath better in the country air :D

[napolitana869]

i wouldnt walk anywhere alone in the city at night. its just not the best thing for a girl to do.

[lagstronaut]

At 16 you think you're grown up already, you think you know everything. Has anyone ever heard of a paradime shift? It's where all of a sudden you wake up and see the world from a totally different perspective, it all feels different and suddenly you think you understand it all now, but in most likelyhood, you will have several paradime shifts in your life. I think it's all a part of learning lessons and growing wiser. My mother just passed away in April from cancer. I believe her death has caused my paradime to shift and look at the world from a different viewpoint.

I think I had one of these a week ago, suddenly I kinda feel differently about things and routines I go through, and I am trying to shed the image I have of being a lazy ass motherfucker that all my friends and family have of me.

[JuggaloAtTheDoor]

I used 2 live in the city but now live in the country, but honestly I found it so much safer in the city.. like our here, I have to worry about drunk hicks tryna act tough and wild coyotes n shit that live in the forest behind my house.. tho some cities r rlly rough.. like toronto n detroit

[dryst]

toronto is tough? lol...detriot aint really that bad unless ur down town

[dryst]

I think I had one of these a week ago, suddenly I kinda feel differently about things and routines I go through, and I am trying to shed the image I have of being a lazy ass motherfucker that all my friends and family have of me.

wow...u just summarized my life...

[JuggaloAtTheDoor]

ya torontos tough.. lots of gang shit go on in it

[dryst]

u should come down to baltimore or DC for a week :D

[friendowl]

is the spot to be

[bentleygtgirl]

i hate when people from the midwest act like they've never been in a city in their whole life, im from the midwest and i know whats up. im from nebraska but i dont live on some farm or anything. no, any city in the midwest there arent going to be any gangs or anything like that, minus like omaha, chicago, kc or atl. i hate the dumb midwest image, i live in florida now and everyone thought i was a dumbass at first just because im from nebraska.

[Smokalotxxx]

:rasta:

[upinsmokeuk]

nothing wrong with living out in the middle of nowere at least you can grow a good yield*

[cole]

i lived in houston all my life and i like the city, but i also like the country when i dont have to be botherd by people, i realy hate people lol they piss me off but when theres a lot of them you tend to blend in and not be seen and i like that, also i like being where there is always somehting happing like cars driving arround , helocopters planes ect. In houston theres many gangs but i usualy dont go to those parts of town for my best intrests :P but i wouldent mine living somehwere with alot alot less people

[Reefer Rogue]

is the spot to be

Sick whips.