Having problems "Down there" plz help.

[daZenfmeister]

Okay I'm 17 verile and usually hard as a rock but last night when my g/f wanted to do it (for the first time) I just couldn't cut it, I had beat off that morning which was probably part of the cause but I think it was the condom, because when i put it on I was hard but went limp a few minutes afterward. It was REALLY akward and bad because she was so horny (litterally shaking everythime i started to touch her. I managed to get it in when we moved to another possition, at first i was on top of her in between her legs then she got on top of me and it help. I was getting pissed so I took off the condom and I got really hard really fast. I was using ultra thin's though so I don't understand what the problem was. Could it be because I was fingering her for like an hour beforehand and I got sexually exausted from having a boner all the time?

Please help me with this because its REALLY embarassing any tips/comments would be great!

[Maui Wowie]

Get a better condom?

[McCauley Caulkin]

have you been eating or taking anything that you werent before?

A few years ago, McCauley Caulkin went on a fitness trip and began to take many vitamins and supplements, McCauley Caulkin didnt realize it at first but they were affecting McCauley Caulkin's sexual performance. McCauley Caulkin stopped with the pills and sexual performance was fully regained.

Also it could be not enough lube on your condom, try that.

[mellow mood]

SHUT THE HELL UP WITH MCCAULEY U FAG.

and yea man its hard to be in erection for more than a hour, lol

[Encatuse]

Some people have problems getting an erection with a condom.

I know this sounds fucked up, but use a condom while jacking off and see if the same thing happens.

[Encatuse]

SHUT THE HELL UP WITH MCCAULEY U FAG.

and yea man its hard to be in erection for more than a hour, lol

Jesus Christ Mellow, he's more of assett to this board then you are being. At least he gave his opinion and his advice. All you did was flame and then talk about how your dick doesn't work right.

[makor01]

yeah condoms are the devil for sure. Tell her to get on the pill or you wont give her your man meat anymore, that always works well for me.

Then again i never get laid so i guess it doesnt. HaHa j/k

[McCauley Caulkin]

mellow mood please remove your lips from McCauley caulkin's penis, McCauley caulkin is simply spreading McCauley Caulkins infinte wisdom to fellow potheads.

furthermore you are from canada and therefore your comments are pretty much null and void.

[daZenfmeister]

lol @ makor thats great dude....but seriously she is already going to get on the pill in like 1.5-2 months and so l got that covered but she still wants me to wear a condom even when shes on the pill so thats pretty much moot.

But i guess it much have been the whole maintaining an erection for so long because i usualy dont do that. Oh well next time I'm gonna fuck her right away so that I dont get this problem.

[hipEstoner]

i agree with mellow mood,,, at least stop saying McCauley caulkin cuz it's beggining to be a fucking buzzkill

but yhea, it's probably the condom,, try that new trojan man warm pleasure,, lol

[justinsane]

dont finger her for an hour dude! haha, do it for like a few minutes, then go in.

[mlleyeuxbleus]

Two things that may help: 1. Some men find that a cock ring can help maintain an erection (put on once already erect). Bonus... some of these have fun things for your gal also... nubs, lil vibrators, etc. 2. Here's a tip that may help make condoms feel more natural for you... before you put the condom on, put a drop or two of heating lube on the frenulum area. Then apply condom & proceed as usual. The heating lube can be either the yummy, fruity stuff from a specialty shop, or as simple as the new heated KY sold practically everywhere now. The friction of intercourse will gently heat the lube (it doesn't get piping hot unless you blow on it), which some guys say creates a more natural feeling.

Smart girl you've got, insisting on a party hat for backup. My mom was on the pill 28 years ago, & oops, here I am! :) In any case, don't stress too much about it... nobody has a perfect, porn-quality sex life 100% of the time. Just relax & have fun!

[SmokinThaHaze]

Hey man wussup, dont forget ur not a pornstar, im sure we wish we were lol, but yea man that happens ta tha best of us......... an mcauley u funny as hell lmfao.......

[wutang123456]

dude, first time, with a condom, its hard to get it up, but just keep trying.

the secret is, use non-lubed

[wannagethigh]

dude, first time, with a condom, its hard to get it up, but just keep trying.

the secret is, use non-lubed

UNless ur girl is wet like a faucet, bad advice. My first time a few months ago the same fucking thing happened to me. I was so pissed about it i told the girl i needed to smoke weed to feel better and possibly make me perform better. Toked up, and what do u know, fucked her rock hard for 30 minutes.

[mlleyeuxbleus]

I agree with wanna... non-lubed not so good. Lube is our friend, lol! :) One thing, though, best to get lubed but *not* the kind with spermicide. That horrendous spermicide (nonoxonyl-9) has many bad side effects, & there are rumors that it may be taken off the market eventually. It can give sort of a numbing effect to the guy & the girl too, & also can be very irritating for both (but generally moreso for the girl, & can cause yeast infections, burning, etc.). Best to keep such toxic substances away from the naughty bits!

[mlleyeuxbleus]

An informative link about nonoxynol-9: http://www.hivandhepatitis.com/recent/transmission/092702a.html