Flesh420
04-12-2011, 04:15 AM
Ok here is the deal. One particular night im out with this chick and her friend and all that good stuff and she was drunk. Told me she had a thing for me. So I was like ok I have a thing for you as well. The next day I told her if she is interested here is my digits. No response. About a month later I confront this chick on telling me that, and she straight up lies to my face about it. Saying that she never said that and stuff like that. So you know what ever I chalk it off as a loss and move on. A few months later we kinda start talking again, but this time after a night of hanging out, the next day I wake up to a face book message and she is basically asking me out. So you know I was like we will talk about this tonight when I come over. So I go over there and she gets all weird on me. I tell her how I feel a few days later and she says she cant just drop the guy she is with. So I was like that's fine but you better never tell anyone you like about that because anyone with some sense would stay far far away. This chick is and was involved with a 30 some year old dude, that is currently seperated from his wife. She is 23. I don't know the whole story of how that whole situation came about but it did and I know she is not happy. Now after telling her how I felt after and us kinda talking and all that good stuff she left this dude for me that same night, but the thing is. Is I get all weird when it comes to emotions. I got selfish and decided to just kinda walk away from the situation because I felt that it was going to just blow up in my face and or I was pushing her into something she didn't want to do. A few weeks ago I asked if she wanted to try again (she is still with this guy) she says no we are better as friends. So I said ok. This is the thing that is bugging me the most though. Anytime she is having troubles in paradise she always starts texting me. Just the other day I know they where fighting so she sends me a facebook message telling me she is going to call me in one minute wanna hang please answer. I never got the message because I was at a buddies. But she knows I have a phone and could have texted or even called like she said she was going to. So it sounds very weird, she is emotionally damaged and gets really weird when it comes to being straight up about her feelings. So I need advice. I really dig this chick. But I think I may have fucked it all up and im totally regretting it now. What do you guys think I should do? Should I just lay it out all out again and just let the chips fall where they may or should I just walk away? Ive talked to everyone I know about this and I need a women's perspective.
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