just got caught

[brrg744]

Well, today morning my mom asked y the room smells like smoke. I told her i dunno and the conversation ended. later she called me and said o come home. I got home and she showed me a piece of paper with cashed weed. I fucked myself up by saying my friend snuk in at night and i let him smooke in my room(i didnt rat anyone out, i just made up a name and said he smoked). wat should i do? I was pissed as hell taht she went through my fucking trash!
Im 16 and have been smoking for about a year. any advice would help. should i mabie come clean? they are calling pot a "narcotic" and acting like its the worst thing in the world

[RedRainDrop]

yeah i came home from school once with all my pieces and bottle tokers on the table... and dimebags and shit. THat was a bad day... the first time i got caught. Just wait it out, my rents are prolly worse than urs (my dad pushed me through a phone table today) and even they trust me after i wait a few months without getting caught, got caught a few times recently, got threated to get kicked out.

[kyle]

I'de say your busted. I've been caught twice, the first time my mom went through my backpack. I came downstairs and my mom and dad confronted and made me swear I'de never smoked pot, first mistake. Than my mom pulled out a bag, a film container - all with weed in it, and my lighter. Like buddy said "that was a bad day". Then I was caught AGAIN less than a week later. They still think I do it, and well; they're right. There is nothing you can do, but they will deal with it and then get over it.

[The Brotherhood.]

my mom used to care but dont really no more cus she knows there is nothing she can do to stop me and plus if my mom looked through my trash,backpack and all my shit i would be like "what the fuck...are you crazy bitch." but i know my mom would never do it cus she already knows shes gonna find it and i can just get it anyway and she cant do shit about it.

[slipknotpsycho]

here's some advice...tell them before they going putting stuff down so easily to read about it and find out BOTH the positives and the negatives...and show them you can be responsible with it....if they're bush supporters tell them to stop listening to that fuck head becasue he's a hypocrite anyways....anyways tell them to atleast bother to look up the facts on it before going all scitzo over it.

[Bwueh]

Wow the dude above me needs to grow up. Bush was one of us when he was younger fuckbag. Besides it don't matter what you think anyway, you got one vote, one voice.... AND YOUR FUCKING NEIGHBOOR HARDLY HEARS YOU.

[mellow mood]

after a while parents get more tolerant. just talk to em, and explain em your situation and the effects of cannabis.

peace

[slipknotpsycho]

Wow the dude above me needs to grow up. Bush was one of us when he was younger fuckbag. Besides it don't matter what you think anyway, you got one vote, one voice.... AND YOUR FUCKING NEIGHBOOR HARDLY HEARS YOU.
i don't like bush because he is so blindly fueling the war on drugs....he wants them all erased from existence (which won't happen so i'm not worried about that) and he wants to take money from people who need it just to send more americans to die in iraq.....you watch he's going to have so many damn soldiers over there this country is going to become weak and vulnerable and that's when the terrorist are going to strike.....they're not dumb and i'm sure they see the same thing i do....we have minimal ammounts of soldiers over here, and have like waaaaaay to many over there. oh and i don't vote, one reason why you have to register and once you register you can be selected for jury duty....so yea i'm not registering to vote anytime soon....and don't give me no shit like well if you didn't vote you don't have a right to bitch...because i have just as much right as everyone else....even if i had voted we'd still have him it's not like he won by 1 vote....

[jadeius]

Yeah but Bush is working on a lot of good things too, nobody's perfect dude...I think this energy bill will go thru by the time he's out of office, and that will help out a lot because we won't depend on the Middle East for their oil so much...we can use other stuff (ethanol, hydrogen, find our own oil, etc.) if their prices go up so badly like right now...then once that's done with, and the Iraqi militia is trained well enough, we can get the hell out of Iraq and go on our merry little way...he's got a brain on him, and he's got a lot more going on up there than people think...just because he sounds southern, people judge him...and he's definitely not pushing god on anyone, for those religious (or anti-religious) folks out there, he plainly said last night that his faith is a personal matter and that nobody should be judged based on their faith...I was skeptical about him a while back, left-wing all the way, but he's getting back to business here...

[jadeius]

Put it this way, is there any other president that would be doing better? Sure, they would be doing things differently, everybody's got their own opinions, but even in a different scheme, we'd still have the same problems in the same amount...politics leads to just more and more problems, in my opinion, and those get solved and we get over it, and then there's more problems, and the big issues don't happen because of who's president...the only thing the president has to do with it is how it's all fixed, and there IS no right or wrong answers...

[mortalbic]

Well, you're 16 and there's not much you can do when you're living at home.

[whyamiwhite]

well brrg744 i've been caught many times by parents teachers, even my team leader in the army, one thing that may help go for a walk when you smoke a joint or find a spot bout a block from home or so and go there, smoke then go back home. as for the roaches try swallowing them or just flick em out when you're done with em. swallowing roaches does taste like shit but it'll give you a mellow addition to your high.

[Day Dreamin Faze]

get good grades and do what u need to do and your parents wont have a excuse to say smoking weeds bad..I think i should take me own advise lol.

[ChuckECheese]

yeah dogg, I feel you on that one... I got caught about a month ago - they know there's not much they can do, but they make more of a joke of it. like when my mom asked me what I wanted for my 18th bday, she was like "a pound of pot?" and I was all thinking "yeah? ;)" even though I just laughed and said no. as long as I don't get arrested or expose my sis to it, they'll be cool.

[bhallg2k]

How does this turn into a defense of an utterly inept president?

[Dick Justice]

It started with the condemnation of an utterly inept, blatantly hypocritical president.

[bhallg2k]

Oh. Makes sense.

[slipknotpsycho]

definition for inept:
1 : lacking in fitness or aptitude : UNFIT
2 : lacking sense or reason : FOOLISH
3 : not suitable to the time, place, or occasion : inappropriate often to an absurd degree
4 : generally incompetent :


lol yea that's him

[5HT]

if your doing well in school, argue that the high from cannabis is helping.

[40oz]

Yeah when I remember when I was first caught. I had been smoking for about 6 months before I was caught and my parents were very nieve about it. They didn't know much about pot but they hated cigerets and I had been caught with cigs before, so that is all they would check for. They would do smell checks for cigs every night I got home (changing cloths in the car and using alcohol pads on my face and bathing in Axe helped me over that hurdle). If I didnt smell I was fine. There wre times where I baked out a friends car right in front of my house, waled inside 15 mins. later and my parents didnt suspect anything.

Well one early saturday morning my dad wanted to take my car to get the alignment fixed. When he asked for my keys I remembered I had a backpack full of alcohol in the trunk. I told him I needed to get my backpack out, hoping he would buy that. I had various smoking paraphinalia stashed trhoughout the car, but I knew he wouldnt find that unless he looked. So I got the backpack and he followed me outside and asked me to open it for him. Right there I knew I was fucked. He found about a gallon of alcoholic beverages and dumped them all down the drain in front of me. Then after a little bit of yelling I had to go to work. While I was at work he went to town on searching every crevice of the car and my room to find bowls, blunts, cigerets, lighters. Luckly I had no burn on me at the time. When I got home from the longest day of work I ever had, he sat me down at the dinner table and him and my mom went throught the whole I can't beleive you are ruining your life speech. It was harsh.

It blows over though and it can be turned into a good thing. I told my parents I would never do it again, and I think they want to beleive me, but I don't think they do, so it has turned into a sort of you can do it, but don't let us catch you attitude. Sort of like everybody knows a person robbed a bank, but they did a good job of destryoing all the evidence so nothing happens. The only lasting punishment I got from that is I have to be in a house with parents home by 11pm everynight, and my parents want to talk to the others. It's not so bad, there are millions of ways to still have a good time, like finding a friend's house whos parents sleep like rocks and you can just chill on the deck and have a good time. Pretty soon that won't even be a problem anymore once I get my senior lisence in June.

If I were you I would tell them the truth now. Even if you do get away with it this time, they will probably still be pretty harsh on you and check you like nazis every time you get home. If you tell them now it will all blow over in a month or two, right in time for summer.

[brrg744]

The only thing that pisses me off is that they think all my friends smoke(this is true but they do it on occasion and dont let it control their life and they have no proof of this eather) they also said that even if they tried pot once makes them a bad person. They are calling all my friend narcotic addicts wich pisses the hell out of me.

[greenlemon]

i've been thru that too, and is not nice, but you can try putting more attention on what you do, be more ordered, smart and clean specially when its about da' stuff, also, if opportunity arises and you have a discussion with your parents, and they bring false facts about weed, it doesn't hurts to enlight'em a bit with proven facts, so they dont feel it as being that bad, or that you do it without thinking about consequences, but that may never change anyway, parents worry about their offspring, they like to think that your friends are the ones to blame, not their beloved son.

[soldier1944]

my dad caught me and i just explained everything to him about the health effects,i also keep my grades up, he dont want me smokin it but he knows i do so he just tells me not to smoke in the house

[Brokedown Palace]

My parents were hippies, and they're lenient.

So I can't really relate haha. Sorry.

My parents agree they would rather my friends and I smoke here, as opposed to somewhere where we coudl get caught easier. Most of my friends parents tend to agree.

Yay.

[StarcommanderX]

awww what a dissapointment. i thought this was "just got caught.....masturbating" that would make for some better reading.

[sanganja]

man you are in a fuck up situation, your family is over reacting, i think you should tell them that you smoke weed and that doesnt make a bad person..... try to make them understand you...... do what you think is the best ..... wish you luck man

[supersonicchronic]

Hey Brokedown Palace who is that? Bob Dylan? My parents are hippies too, they would much rather me smoke then drink. Your 16, you only have to put up with them until your 18, then let them pay for your college where you can drink, smoke, and have casual sex with lots of fine ass freshmen girls. Until then just try to convince your parents that it's not a narcotic, and tell them your going to be out of the house in two years, and it's you'll have such a better relationships with them if they were more friend like. Good luck

[spliffstar22]

Well this has been the worst year of my life so far. And i'll tell you why I went 2 years without getting caught for anything, and as soon as 05 started it all fucked up...
I am 16
In january after xmas break, i got caught at school for being drunk(my teacher smelt it) So I got 5 day suspension. My mom was pissed, my dad said he was arite with me drinkin' just not at school.

In February I came home fresh from smoking a blunt, 2 hours late after school, but my mom was never home after school, and guess what, this day she is. Takes me to doctor's, blood and piss test. Failed test, but told doc not to tell my mom, and he didn't, but the dumbass said there was an abnormality in my blood, that was not health related, which basically meant drugs or alcohol. Doc told me to come back in a month for a test. So she suspected drugs.

3 weeks later, my mom finds pack of cigarettes

3-4 weeks ago, i came home, drunk as fuck, so my mom starts yelling, and i'mtelling her i ain't drunk, slurrin and shit lol So she knew i was drunk AGAIN

2 weeks ago went for blood test, and i think i passed because they didn't call my house yet. They only call your house if there is something in your blood they wanna talk to you about, or if there is something wrong, like cholesterol and shit...

So there ya have, the worst year of my life, and we're only 4 months into it, lol

[brrg744]

Well my problem is solved! After telling thim pot aint thet bad they bitched at me for a while so i just said "say all u want but ur not gonna change my mid, if u think pot is a narcotic then look it up and prove me wrong, and guess what? most of my friends smoke and theyre my friends so theres nothing u can do about it, and by the way dad, u smoke almost 3 packs of cigs a day so dont say shit about pot being bad for my health". I just left the house for half the day and cam back at night. (this took place yesterday)... Today they just said they dont want to see me with it, meaning that i can smoke but i cant do it around them. :D

peace out...........

[supersonicchronic]

glad to hear man

[jadeius]

well that's cool, just don't become a dumbass and like fail your classes or something stupid because that'll give them another reason to bitch...when you get to a good point with your parents then you're gonna have to fight hard to keep it there...