theccman
01-15-2011, 07:17 PM
This is not a site to slam others, we all have different perspectives, personalities, etc.... This site is supposed to be about helping others find the right match for one another more than cheap med's.
If you can't get along, there is no need for public assassination of ones character regardless of you experience with them Seeing as how I've been on this post board longer than anyone in the "I TAKES BALLS!!!!" Thread let me help shine some light on reality for you.
Everything is subject to interpretation. I can teach a class of 30 students and get 30 different messages. Each student thinks I said something a little different than the other, that is just a fact of life.
As a CG, you are all looking for balance, even the legitimate compassion centers acknowledge the need for a sliding scale price system. Even they understand that people are going to be taking advantage of the system from time to time. How would you feel if you were outted as a crook and you were not? You are not God, yet you judge without knowing? My experience tells me that those who judge need to start with judging themselves first. It's easy to blast someone and we do it quite often when we don't understand how to deal with the frustration of our lives....
We fire away at just about every chance we get to vent our own disgust with ourlives, our environment and our country and hurt many innocent people just because we feel we have the right to unleash this building anger inside of us. Even if the target isn't the root cause of this madness, we still unload. Never taking the time to realize that it may feel good at first, but the consequences are, we really just annihilated another piece of our own humanity. Eventually, we will be no better than the animals we think we are superior too!!!!! Lashing out of pure emotion with no control.
The one thing I've noticed, and I've been keeping an eye on this particular chat room a lot longer than I've been a member, is that people just need to stop trying to gang up on others. RI has earned a very bad rap throughout the nation because it's citizens have a tenancy to come to judgement without clarification and refuse to evolve. Without taking the time to inquire and are way to quick to jump to conclusions without calming down and usig that intellect that separates us from the animals of the world. Well, boys and girls, that gap is getting smaller and smaller everyday.
THIS IS NOT A PLACE TO VENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There is a reason our economy is one of the worst in the country and its because what I said is true..... The proof is in the pudding.
Stop fueling the fire and evolve for cryin out loud. So what, you felt burned. Did you ask why so much, do you think its fair, can you help me out? Even if they still persist, YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON IN THERE WORLD!!!!!
I too had to shed my prior CG because he was charging 300 an oz and I can barely afford 200??? I informed him of my point of view, he amicably said I was obviously not happy, I affirmed his assumption. We parted friends and still keep in touch from time to time to exchange grow tips (I'm a research nerd). We were both frustraited but ended on such good terms he gave me an OZ. of some of the best head med's I've had in a while.
ALL BECAUSE I PARKED MY EMOTIONS AT THE DOOR, DID NOT LET HIM GET ANGRY BECAUSE I CLARIFIED MY HONEST HUMBLE INTENTIONS WHEN I NOTICED HE WAS GETTING ANGRY AND CLEARLY TOLD HIM, "I like you, I just can't afford you and it make me both sad, frustraited and mad....
NOTHING PERSONAL......PLEASE CAN WE ALL JUST GET ALONG????????????:hippy:
If you can't get along, there is no need for public assassination of ones character regardless of you experience with them Seeing as how I've been on this post board longer than anyone in the "I TAKES BALLS!!!!" Thread let me help shine some light on reality for you.
Everything is subject to interpretation. I can teach a class of 30 students and get 30 different messages. Each student thinks I said something a little different than the other, that is just a fact of life.
As a CG, you are all looking for balance, even the legitimate compassion centers acknowledge the need for a sliding scale price system. Even they understand that people are going to be taking advantage of the system from time to time. How would you feel if you were outted as a crook and you were not? You are not God, yet you judge without knowing? My experience tells me that those who judge need to start with judging themselves first. It's easy to blast someone and we do it quite often when we don't understand how to deal with the frustration of our lives....
We fire away at just about every chance we get to vent our own disgust with ourlives, our environment and our country and hurt many innocent people just because we feel we have the right to unleash this building anger inside of us. Even if the target isn't the root cause of this madness, we still unload. Never taking the time to realize that it may feel good at first, but the consequences are, we really just annihilated another piece of our own humanity. Eventually, we will be no better than the animals we think we are superior too!!!!! Lashing out of pure emotion with no control.
The one thing I've noticed, and I've been keeping an eye on this particular chat room a lot longer than I've been a member, is that people just need to stop trying to gang up on others. RI has earned a very bad rap throughout the nation because it's citizens have a tenancy to come to judgement without clarification and refuse to evolve. Without taking the time to inquire and are way to quick to jump to conclusions without calming down and usig that intellect that separates us from the animals of the world. Well, boys and girls, that gap is getting smaller and smaller everyday.
THIS IS NOT A PLACE TO VENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There is a reason our economy is one of the worst in the country and its because what I said is true..... The proof is in the pudding.
Stop fueling the fire and evolve for cryin out loud. So what, you felt burned. Did you ask why so much, do you think its fair, can you help me out? Even if they still persist, YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON IN THERE WORLD!!!!!
I too had to shed my prior CG because he was charging 300 an oz and I can barely afford 200??? I informed him of my point of view, he amicably said I was obviously not happy, I affirmed his assumption. We parted friends and still keep in touch from time to time to exchange grow tips (I'm a research nerd). We were both frustraited but ended on such good terms he gave me an OZ. of some of the best head med's I've had in a while.
ALL BECAUSE I PARKED MY EMOTIONS AT THE DOOR, DID NOT LET HIM GET ANGRY BECAUSE I CLARIFIED MY HONEST HUMBLE INTENTIONS WHEN I NOTICED HE WAS GETTING ANGRY AND CLEARLY TOLD HIM, "I like you, I just can't afford you and it make me both sad, frustraited and mad....
NOTHING PERSONAL......PLEASE CAN WE ALL JUST GET ALONG????????????:hippy: