What should I do to go above and beyond for my girl?

[daZenfmeister]

Okay so I've been going out with the girl for like a week and a half I know I know thats not very long at all but I really want to go above and beyond with this girl and make her love me the way I love her. I can't get her weed because thats something I already do and it wouldnt be very special. So if anyone could think of something that I could do or get for her this weekend I've got lots of $ so that ain't a problem its just the ideas that I'm lacking. So anyways this sunday I'm getting a bottle of Hynotic (sp?) for us so maybe that could be the time to do whatever or give whatever...

I don't want to fuck her just yet (unless she wants to) and so please don't say anything sexual (first post is going to say fuck her! i know it!)

Help me out here guys I'm a loser and don't know what to do!!! :mad: :confused: :confused:

[koshea]

buy her a bouquet of red and white hybrid roses with babys breath and have a surprise pic-nic in the park, thats what i did for my girl and shes beenc razy for me ever since

[NowhereMan]

just be you
if that aint enough
she aint worth it
most relationships that go bad are cuased by FAKE ass persona
you put on some front
and later they get to know the real you and say
what a asshole.,,

as far as impressing a chick
be attentive and nice but not some suck up ,hard up type
listen to her,get to know what she likes and DOES NOT like even more important

good luck and aint love a wild ride
peace

[poorman3]

just love her man! git-er done! been with mine 20 years, love it!

[GreenGaucho]

buy her a bouquet of red and white hybrid roses with babys breath and have a surprise pic-nic in the park, thats what i did for my girl and shes beenc razy for me ever sinceListen to this man, he knows what he's talking about. Oh yea, and buying a bottle of alcohol definitely won't make her like you. =\

[daZenfmeister]

methinks it wont either but she really wants the stuff so hey whatever...

[daZenfmeister]

good idea about the picnic in the park she loves go to the park at night and stargazing with me

[kyle]

I spent the whole day with her, we talked and fooled around (yay!). Then I took her to dinner and took her to the movies, I payed for everything and just showed her I cared and talked to her and looked into her eyes alot and kissed her.

[daZenfmeister]

Oh my god its so weird cause everyutime i pay for her for aNYTHING she gets pissed i payed for her lunch once and we got into a fight she says that she can pay for herself so she should but i still buy hey shit every once in a while the trick i use is to buy it say i dont want it and give it to her!

[2600]

Oh my god its so weird cause everyutime i pay for her for aNYTHING she gets pissed i payed for her lunch once and we got into a fight she says that she can pay for herself so she should but i still buy hey shit every once in a while the trick i use is to buy it say i dont want it and give it to her!


Hahahahah sorry man, I've got bad news for you then...

[SmoKa]

stop loving her your on the train to get your heart broken. But you wont beleive anybody when they tell you this untill it happens. its really quite funny if you ask me.

[OreO]

dude i kno you LIKE the girl a lot...but u dont love her...i mean i dont know ur feelings personally but ive been with a couple diff girls for a month or more and thought i was inlove...i was a teen too, still am(18) but i was 14/15, trust me ur not inlove...good for u tho that u found a girl u really like, it can change into love tho if its real within time.

I was inlove like 4 diffrent times and then i met my girl now and we've been together for 3 years now and i love her i kno i do, Im just saying time will tell if you really love her cause before you kno it the bitch might get to ur brain and get on ur nerves(trust me happened to me a couple times)

o ya and if ur not a teen i apologize just seems like ur jumppin the gun and weed is not a good present ever for a girl if ur trying to impress...bring the weed with u just not to romance her, weed is more the fun thing to do with her

[kyle]

I agree with Oreo - nobody ever thinks about the what is obviously going to happen. "Love" if there is such a thing, does not last. I found a girl I really like too; but in the back of my mind I can't help but think - "fuck, sooner or later it is going to be over."

Yeah, weed is more a recreational activity to do with her.

[ScarlettCrush]

Tell her nice things, compliment her, be sweet to her, but don't lie. Tell her things you really think, like..... if you look at her and you think she looks pretty, tell her. Being emotionally closed off is a good way to lose your girl.

[ScarlettCrush]

let me also add, love does last if both of you would like it too. It isn't always easy to love another person, even if you love each other a lot and it takes both of you wanting it for it to work. If you sense something going wrong, don't get all angry and internalize everything...ask her whats up and work on it together.

[daZenfmeister]

Yeah I know this isn't going to last forever im not like 10 I'm 17 years old, but I really like her and I have already asked her why she's with me cause im in no way perfect or even close. All she said was that she really really likes me, but that's a pretty generic answer, she also said that she always happy when shes with me which is unusual for her. She also likes to act soo cute around me, she stumbles and falls down alot (like shes drunk but i know shes not cause i be with her all the time) well anyways I dont lose any sleep over this relationship anymore my moto is just to try as hard as i can to make it work out real good and be myself and just love her for what she is, which i do, and then just see what happens. If she just wants to screw around for a while then dump me then i guess thats okay but im not investing too much into this i just like seeing people happy.

Also she likes to talk about her ex alot (in a bad way msot of the time) and i dont really like to hear about her ex. So my question is should I ask her to not talk about him so much or sould I just ask her to tell me everything about him and her so that she can get everything off of her chest?

[OreO]

Ya if she doesnt understand why, then you shouldnt be with her. Never bring up ur exes to the person you are trying to get with. Be nice and kindly explain how u dont aprreciate hearing about her ex, i mean shit if shes with u she shouldnt be thinking about him

[XTC]

Well, find out what she really enjoys doing. Go to a fancy resturant, followed by a walk on a river walk or beach near you. You could always send her flowers to her home/work.

[Not Enough Herb]

one good tip:

DONT GET HER PREGENANT

and everything is fine

later

[Darkneon420]

i say fuck her! Lol just playing man :D I think its really sweet you wanna do something specail for her but it is really too early in your relationship to show commitment like that. Perhaps you should wait until 4 months have passed to see how things are working out before buying her things. Besides, not all girls want something from a store. Hold her, kiss her, if she wants to fuck look her int he eyes and say something like "Are you sure baby?" and smile. :) Good luck.

[iclotsofpills]

without sounding like too much of a sweetheart id suggest

tell her that you really like her as genuinely as you possibly can.

allow her to buy you lunch, but stick by your guns when it comes to paying the bill when you feel like it's your turn, or better still, tell her its because you just want to and its not a macho thing. then follow that with a hug and leave it there and say no more of it.

just be happy for the time your together. your 17, so likleyhood is you'll have lots of relatonships before your 21. Kyle has a point, although a pessimistic one. it will all be over one day, one way or the other, shit will happen, that's a certanty. just be glad that's it's happening to you.

ive got a girl calling over now to sleep with me, she's a friend of my flatmates.im not going to have a relationship with her but i do have a connection with her that were makng the most of. so everything doesnt have to be complicated.

be yourself, be chilled out and accepting, listen to her, and think before you speak.

as far as the boyfriend thing goes, she'll probably stopranting about that anyway eventually. but next time she talkes about him make an effort to take her mind off it and change the subject at the same time by doing something spontanious and/or endearing.

anyway the oracle must go and have a shower so enough basking in my reflected wisdom for one day, go out there and live it up.

pills.

[IntrepidS]

Buy her a gram of cocaine and have sex with her. She will love you.

[smokinlowrider4u]

let her pop your pimples for you . she will love it.j/k if you know her then pick somthing about her that makes her happy. somthing along that line..