THANKS to my motherfucking parents

[powair]

I got fired from my job today! THANKS MOM AND DAD! I APPRECIATE THE HELP "GETTING MY LIFE ON TRACK". FUCK YOU BOTH, YOU'RE GONNA GET YOUR FUCKIN THROATS SLIT.

That's what I want to say to them, but I'm not going to...heh, I dont feel like being thrown into a mental institution just yet.

[Syrus]

WTF? How they get you fired? I would of thought a job was the first step to getting your life "on track".

[powair]

Because they kicked me out last night, just all the sudden kicked me out and locked the doors, and I had to work this morning at 9 on the other side of town and I had to sleep in a park with no transportation.

[Syrus]

Thats pretty bad, and cruely ironic. Good luck sorting everything out.

[GTC21]

That's fuckin' rough mate. How old are you?

[GHoSToKeR]

sucks, dude.. i'm out of work now too AGAIN! but it was my fault, i admit it lol good luck, though.. being out of work sucks

[robert42]

^Yup Ghost bein out of work sucks, depressed thoughts and too much time on ya hands. Unemployed till they fix me leg.

Better Days are coming ;)

[ermitonto]

Only one of your parents is a motherfucking parent. The other one is a fatherfucking parent.

[smokejaguar]

Are you sure you were fired.Employers are human too.Its worth it to ask like an adult.-usdi Agaluga

[powair]

I'm 17, and I'm sure that I'm fired. They told me I don't pay attention to my job anyway.

[Epic]

So if you got kicked out, whoes computer are you on?

[GreenGaucho]

Aren't you supposed to be in school? If it is drug/marijuana related, you might think about quiting.

[Etrain]

Yeah man, for real.

[sawleaf]

Well we have your opinion. I wonder why your parents decided to kick you out??? No parent would just do that for no reason. Straighten yourself out!

[Syrus]

No parent would just do that for no reason.

I think you might be giving to much faith to humanity. Remember the woman who beated her child up because he wouldnt roll for her, some peopel just have no sense of decency, you should see some off the places in the town where i live.

[sawleaf]

I think you might be giving to much faith to humanity. Remember the woman who beated her child up because he wouldnt roll for her, some peopel just have no sense of decency, you should see some off the places in the town where i live.

True, but how many kids do you see on here that bitch and complain about their parents? You never do hear the parent's side of the story. They are usually trying to help and protect their kids. It's funny how people are quick to jump on a side even though they don't know the full story. :rolleyes:

[RIP ODB]

So if you got kicked out, whoes computer are you on?


LOL

[Syrus]

You do have a good point, if only we could hear the full argument. heh, maby we should invite powair's parents on the board to discuss the topic :D

[sawleaf]

You do have a good point, if only we could hear the full argument. heh, maby we should invite powair's parents on the board to discuss the topic :D

That would be pretty funny. It would be one hell of a group therapy session!! :)

[GHoSToKeR]

I agree with ya, Sawleaf.. Powair, no offence, dude.. But, like, most of the time our parents (or parent, in my case) are just doing what they think is best, and most of the time we don't agree.. That's another thing I have to thank weed for - making me able to understand other people's point of view more clearly.. Partly thanks to weed my relationship with my mum is really good. Good luck, Powair.. I think you're older than me, so maybe I shouldn't be trying to give you this kinda advice, but hey lol :)

[Looker]

Unless your parents are totally irresponsible losers who are harmful to you, all I can say is this...

Be kind to your parents...

Someday you'll have to bury them..... :)

[llamaman666]

They did it for some reason, and its not to be mean. Probably so you can see what its like in the real world. Not as fun now eh? Crash at someones house and get a job

[powair]

OK EVERYONE SHUT UP! No one has any idea about my situation. First of all, I dont live at their house anymore, haven't for 2 months. I use my friend Amber's computer all the time when I can't use this one. Yes, I am at home now because I was at the hospital last night and need IV antibiotics every 8 hours. Good thing my dads a doctor because he can just do it at home.

My parents had no legitimate reason to kick me out and make me sleep in a fucking park.

[A Foo Says]

What were the reasons they kicked you out for?

[Climbing High]

yea there must be some reason

[sawleaf]

OK EVERYONE SHUT UP! No one has any idea about my situation. First of all, I dont live at their house anymore, haven't for 2 months. I use my friend Amber's computer all the time when I can't use this one. Yes, I am at home now because I was at the hospital last night and need IV antibiotics every 8 hours. Good thing my dads a doctor because he can just do it at home.

My parents had no legitimate reason to kick me out and make me sleep in a fucking park.

Of course they didn't. :rolleyes: We don't know the situation because you only posted your side of the story. If you don't want people's opinion's, then don't post.

[del...]

judging by the way you're acting here (amongst friends, no less!) i'd say there was a very good reason for getting yourself tossed out for a couple days. hell man, look what ya wrote here on your 1st post of the thread...!
FUCK YOU BOTH, YOU'RE GONNA GET YOUR FUCKIN THROATS SLIT.

in CAPS ta boot!!! i suggest you chill on your folks. it'll make your life much easier and simpler. it is their house after all and just like here, the house rules. but making threats on your own family like that...come on man. it's made public, probably already been googlized...use your head! where's the love...?

[Looker]

AMEN BROTHA....

[koshea]

you guys i talk to rachel on a regular basis, but i havent recently and now i guess i know why....her parents are excentric and she has a really fucking hard life, give her a break for gods sake shes just trying to vent about her life and you guys are accusing her of lying. shes a very smart person and shes made a few mistakes, but who hasnt....it seems to me from what i know (and i know more than nearly all of you guys) is her parents think short term and dont really want whats best for rachel but whats best for their reputation.

have a fucking heart and give her some compassion

i wish the best for you rachel

[A Foo Says]

you guys i talk to rachel on a regular basis, but i havent recently and now i guess i know why....her parents are excentric and she has a really fucking hard life, give her a break for gods sake shes just trying to vent about her life and you guys are accusing her of lying. shes a very smart person and shes made a few mistakes, but who hasnt....it seems to me from what i know (and i know more than nearly all of you guys) is her parents think short term and dont really want whats best for rachel but whats best for their reputation.

have a fucking heart and give her some compassion

i wish the best for you rachel

She's made a few mistakes? We have no idea of her homelife or her mistakes. She probably really messed up a few times, and if I were her parents I'd be pissed off too. Trying to vent? Cheer up emo kid, write a poem for fucks sake don't take it out on a web forum about weed.

[SO.LETS.TOKE]

i say you stab them

my rents kicked me out a couple timez n im only 15 cant wait to see what happens in the next couple years :rolleyes:

[GreenGaucho]

Just quit whatever it is they are kicking you out for and tell them you're done with it and you'd like to come back. Your parents are educated, and more than likely know what's best for you in the long run. They've been around the block more than once I'm sure. The only reason I've ever seen people kicked out of home (and I've seen it happen plenty of times), is because they were completely fucking something up and not only harming themselves, but the people around them also. This includes both emotional and physical harm. More than often it's drugs and the family suffers because of this. Judging by your first post you don't have much respect for them (maybe reasonably so) and seem rather immature, but if you don't even say what they are kicking you out for, I'm forced to believe it's your fault.

[GreenGaucho]

sry double post

[4252]

I won't take sides here; it's already been said that only one side of the story has been presented. But I've been around too, and have witnessed more than a few situations where the parents were indeed out of whack. There's no way for us to know, really.

Rachel, we've talked before, and I know you're an intelligent person with a lot going for her. I know, too, that you've had your difficulties. It's would be easy for me to speculate about what's the right thing to do, but I can remember what it was like to be 17 - 18, and know that I had a long way to go before I started getting my act together. So, no holier than thou here, just a bit of understanding based on personal experience. You can't control your parents, but you can control yourself, and maybe find some middle ground where everybody's at least at a level of mutual tolerance. Sometimes you have to bend a little, but if anybody had told me this when I was 17, I'd have had a hard time relating to it. It's probably impossible for your parents to understand you completely, but it's not their fault; they had parents and problems of their own, no doubt, when they were young. They do the best they can with what life's taught them. Sometimes life is an unworthy teacher. That goes for us all.

You're a beautiful, intelligent girl. So if you can focus yourself on living within certain boundries, the ones we all have to deal with, you could have quite a good life.

If I can just add one more thing, it's that the more substances and wild lifestyle stuff we do, the more confusing and difficult our lives become. Sometimes it helps a lot to take a vacation from living on the edge, just to get your head together.

Good luck.

you know who

[A Foo Says]

Wtf? Intelligent girl with alot going for her? Her sig is 'Smoke weed, get drunk, and fuck!' She sounds like just another slipknot listening teenager, I bet she even shops at hot topic. I have terribly low tolerance for indivuduals that like 'whoa is me, my parents suck, let me smoke weed to show i am a rebel, whoa is me, i'm full of angst'

In case you are one of these people, next time when you reach for that razor blade, cut a little deeper next time, you'll get more attention that way.

And incase you're not one of those, Buck up little camper, don't be sad.

Sorry to be really rude and blunt, but does it really matter?

[koshea]

Wtf? Intelligent girl with alot going for her? Her sig is 'Smoke weed, get drunk, and fuck!' She sounds like just another slipknot listening teenager, I bet she even shops at hot topic. I have terribly low tolerance for indivuduals that like 'whoa is me, my parents suck, let me smoke weed to show i am a rebel, whoa is me, i'm full of angst'

In case you are one of these people, next time when you reach for that razor blade, cut a little deeper next time, you'll get more attention that way.

And incase you're not one of those, Buck up little camper, don't be sad.

Sorry to be really rude and blunt, but does it really matter?


you are quite possibly the most inconsiterate person on the face of the planet. you get pissed when people stereotype potheads im sure, but you go off and be a hypocrite and stereotype her ebcuase she is a teenager...let me tell you a litle about rachel. she is 17 yeas old (or she was when i met her) she has been kicked out by her family on many occations, she is forced to live homeless on the streets or at a shelter alot, shes been addicted to many hard drugs and she is also one of the most intillectual persons ive ever met, and i would bet my life that in a battle of whits she would own your ass in a hand basket, dont be a fucking asshol because you arent impressing anyone, and dont even say your not trying to because if you know anything about psychology (wich i highly doubt) youd know that the subconsious desires like the urge to be accepet by peers often leek through to concious actions in which you attempt to act devine or place yourself at a higher level than that of the person and trash talk a girl with a hard life

and also, what is wrong with venting on the boards, who here hasnt made a thread about personal problems atleast once in their stay here at cannabis.com?

its assholes like you that make little children cry

[GreenGaucho]

Wtf? Intelligent girl with alot going for her? Her sig is 'Smoke weed, get drunk, and fuck!' She sounds like just another slipknot listening teenager, I bet she even shops at hot topic. I have terribly low tolerance for indivuduals that like 'whoa is me, my parents suck, let me smoke weed to show i am a rebel, whoa is me, i'm full of angst'

In case you are one of these people, next time when you reach for that razor blade, cut a little deeper next time, you'll get more attention that way.

And incase you're not one of those, Buck up little camper, don't be sad.

Sorry to be really rude and blunt, but does it really matter?
LoL

[4252]

Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one.

42

[del...]

"and also, what is wrong with venting on the boards, who here hasnt made a thread about personal problems atleast once in their stay here at cannabis.com?"

threatening to slit throats is far from venting...no offense but if you consider yourself experienced with life you are in for a huge surprise...the fact you resort to name calling to attempt to make your point says a lot buy itself and backing someone dwelling so heavily into violence... face it...she fucked up and needs to get her life straightened out and it sounds like tough-love is being used as a last resort.

[A Foo Says]

you are quite possibly the most inconsiterate person on the face of the planet. you get pissed when people stereotype potheads im sure, but you go off and be a hypocrite and stereotype her ebcuase she is a teenager...let me tell you a litle about rachel. she is 17 yeas old (or she was when i met her) she has been kicked out by her family on many occations, she is forced to live homeless on the streets or at a shelter alot, shes been addicted to many hard drugs and she is also one of the most intillectual persons ive ever met, and i would bet my life that in a battle of whits she would own your ass in a hand basket, dont be a fucking asshol because you arent impressing anyone, and dont even say your not trying to because if you know anything about psychology (wich i highly doubt) youd know that the subconsious desires like the urge to be accepet by peers often leek through to concious actions in which you attempt to act devine or place yourself at a higher level than that of the person and trash talk a girl with a hard life

and also, what is wrong with venting on the boards, who here hasnt made a thread about personal problems atleast once in their stay here at cannabis.com?

its assholes like you that make little children cry


Dude, lol.

I don't get made when people stereotype potheads, sure they're ignorant but they can't help it? I'm a teenager my self, I'm not stereotyping teenagers, I'm stereotyping the whiny-ass ones. Addicted to many hard drugs you say? WHOS FAULT IS THAT? IT'S NO ONE ELSES FAULT BUT HER OWN. Kicked out on many occassions? SHE'S ADDICTED TO DRUGS + PROBABLY INTO OTHER BAD SHIT, I'd kick her out too.

The bit about me wanting to fit in made me laugh too. Sure, I like to have friends, but I refuse to just sit and stare at whiny asshole's rants about 'omgz my parentz SUCK LOLZ.'

The part about me trash talking a girl with a hard life? She made it hard for herself.


K thanks.

[SO.LETS.TOKE]

Wtf? Intelligent girl with alot going for her? Her sig is 'Smoke weed, get drunk, and fuck!' She sounds like just another slipknot listening teenager, I bet she even shops at hot topic. I have terribly low tolerance for indivuduals that like 'whoa is me, my parents suck, let me smoke weed to show i am a rebel, whoa is me, i'm full of angst'

In case you are one of these people, next time when you reach for that razor blade, cut a little deeper next time, you'll get more attention that way.

And incase you're not one of those, Buck up little camper, don't be sad.

Sorry to be really rude and blunt, but does it really matter?

you fuckin asshole i've never met rachel but shes obviously not just looking for attention and u dont fucking know her parents how the fuck do you know that there not twisted assholes and if they were good parents they would love her no matter what not fucking kick her out of her house so fuck you and u know nothing about rachel u dont even know if she fucking cuts dont pretend u know what ur talking about and NO ONE is makeing u read these so stop pretending like ur being forced into readin this shit and we all hate poser bitches but im sure you were one at some point

[jacquelyne]

Thats very strange i think i could have bashed my mum done everything bad she would never kick me out she wanted all her kids home till 30 lol.She still calls me her baby girl and im 27.Your parents must be really cold hearted to do that i think and hope all goes well for you.There are alot of cruel people out there.LOOK AFTER YOUR KIDS NOBODY ELSE WILL.

[SO.LETS.TOKE]

Thats very strange i think i could have bashed my mum done everything bad she would never kick me out she wanted all her kids home till 30 lol.She still calls me her baby girl and im 27.Your parents must be really cold hearted to do that i think and hope all goes well for you.There are alot of cruel people out there.LOOK AFTER YOUR KIDS NOBODY ELSE WILL.

amen to that

[A Foo Says]

Haha, I'm not a poser bitch.

True, no ones making me read this, but I feel the need to post something besides 'OMGOSH YOUR PARENTS SUXK FEEL BETTER ASAP LOLZ <3'

I like your use of the word Fuck, truly shows the diversity of the word.


Well, If I know nothing about rachel, neither do you, so...wtfmate?

Her parents probably do love her, that's why they're showing her tough love. but anything that hurts has to be harmful right? her feelings got hurt, lets all crowd around and demonize teh parents.

[SO.LETS.TOKE]

eh w/e ur right

[GreenGaucho]

you fuckin asshole i've never met rachel but shes obviously not just looking for attention and u dont fucking know her parents how the fuck do you know that there not twisted assholes and if they were good parents they would love her no matter what not fucking kick her out of her house so fuck you and u know nothing about rachel u dont even know if she fucking cuts dont pretend u know what ur talking about and NO ONE is makeing u read these so stop pretending like ur being forced into readin this shit and we all hate poser bitches but im sure you were one at some pointPeriods "." = your friend.

[Bel Acres]

Haha, I'm not a poser bitch.

True, no ones making me read this, but I feel the need to post something besides 'OMGOSH YOUR PARENTS SUXK FEEL BETTER ASAP LOLZ <3'

I like your use of the word Fuck, truly shows the diversity of the word.


Well, If I know nothing about rachel, neither do you, so...wtfmate?

Her parents probably do love her, that's why they're showing her tough love. but anything that hurts has to be harmful right? her feelings got hurt, lets all crowd around and demonize teh parents.

You're probably right but do you have to call her on it? It's fucking pointless to try to make her feel worse.

[SO.LETS.TOKE]

Okay. I will type with periods.

[del...]

now everyone is calling each other names...what we in the biz call a "piss fest" and one of the main reasons for a thread being pulled...(which might not be a bad ideal anyway) .so don't be surprised if.................................

[A Foo Says]

You're probably right but do you have to call her on it? It's fucking pointless to try to make her feel worse.


No it's not, apparently she doesn't understand what's going on, and is even saying 'ima slit their throats.' Apparently she doesn't feel bad enough.

[SO.LETS.TOKE]

arite well i dont know if rachel put this up for us to pity her or bitch about her

[wannagethigh]

Well i'm a teenager and i've been friends with someone for probably 8 years who is now 21. Not only was he my friend but he and his mom lived in the same condo building as my family. He had gotten kicked out of the house a few times and there were the very few times it was the moms lack of reasoning but 90% of the time it was his fault. Yes he was into hard drugs, like rachel, and did a lot of stupid things and took lots of stuff (such as cars and college) for granted. His mom just used to get fed up with his bullshit and kicked him out a few times. AND LET ME TELL YOU, IT WAS BEST FOR HIM. He's not 100% straight now, but from all his experiences he has gotten some shit together and his life is back on track. At the time he hated his mom and said things like 'I am going to slit her throat' but i'm sure if I asked him now, I bet he would say he was wrong.

After living out of her house for a year or 2 and saying sorry their mother-son relationship has never been so good. They have both excepted eachother and everything has pretty much worked out for the best. This just shows that after all the rough shit his mother's love is unconditional, as it naturally is for many.

Rachel, i'm not accusing you of anything. I just think you should maybe chill back and think about the whole situation. I really do hope the best for you and would love to hear an update in a few days. Good luck!

[powair]

Wtf? Intelligent girl with alot going for her? Her sig is 'Smoke weed, get drunk, and fuck!' She sounds like just another slipknot listening teenager, I bet she even shops at hot topic. I have terribly low tolerance for indivuduals that like 'whoa is me, my parents suck, let me smoke weed to show i am a rebel, whoa is me, i'm full of angst'

In case you are one of these people, next time when you reach for that razor blade, cut a little deeper next time, you'll get more attention that way.

And incase you're not one of those, Buck up little camper, don't be sad.

Sorry to be really rude and blunt, but does it really matter?

Fuck you buddy! I don't listen to slipknot! I shop at catholic charities! I don't want your motherfucking pity! I'm bitching because my own parents tell me I'm not good enough, that I embarass them because of what i wear, how i talk, whatever. They're fucking stuck up bitches that dont know they first thing about compassion, love, or tolerance. You're a fucking fag dude, people like you need to grow up, realize the world does not revolve around you, you arent as mature and serious as you pretend to be, and maybe chill out a bit.

[powair]

arite well i dont know if rachel put this up for us to pity her or bitch about her

NEITHER! I put it up because i was mad and i thought maybe other people on here would UNDERSTAND. That isnt pity.

[Etrain]

Hmm, well...interesting views/opinions. As for my two cents on "rachel" (I've never even talked to her on the computer-reasoning for quotes)....Just get better and stick through it. Peace~

[del...]

i'm sure we all see the problem now...

[powair]

You know, I didn't ask for pity, for some reason people just assume that. Anyone who got uptight over this, felt they needed to prove how wise they are and how fucked up I am, needs to chill the fuck out. I'm sorry, next time I'll post my life story with any problems just to avoid confusion. I wasn't aware that I needed to spell it out, but I suppose if that's necessary I will.

[GHoSToKeR]

Woah, this thread's got kinda heated since the last time I replied..

Rachel, Powair, whatever you wanna be called.. I didn't mean any offence by my post, so if you took some from it, then my apologies. In my opinion, you should listen to what 4252 said. He seems like a really smart guy that knows what he's talking about. Taking advice from people like me, A Foo Says, etc, is probably a bad idea, because we're all probably in the same kinda position one way or the other, or at least can relate to what you're saying.. only some people express it differently, or deal with it differently.

I take back what I said earlier about your parents 'doing what they think is best'. For all I know, they could just be sadistic bastards with nothing else better to do than torment their daughter.. I don't know the facts, so I shouldn't have commented (something I should have learnt a long time ago :)).

My advice (and it probably won't help much, but it's the best I can do) is keep your head up. We all think we're living in hell until we turn 18 (are you 18 yet?) and then BAM, we're free... So keep your head up, and maybe one day you'll learn to forgive them, and maybe even empathise with them. Who knows? :)

[powair]

I didn't take offence from your post. You're one of the more intelligent.

I don't turn 18 till december, but I'm leaving on the 22nd to hitch hike around north america lol, so I'll be free........!!!!!!!

[GHoSToKeR]

lol Awesome, dude! You should go to Europe, too.. I cant wait til I save up enough to go travelling around Europe.. I'll make sure I save Amsterdam til last, coz if I go there first then i'll never get anywhere else lol

[powair]

I've actually been to Europe twice and seen a lot...I havent seen much of north america yet. I'd like to get back to europe one day though...

By the way, you should go on msn so i can msg you! or else just add me [email protected]

[del...]

look chickie...we all went through parental probs. mine sound exactly like yours...only diff is mine were both bankers. but still very concerned about what the neighbors will think, my pants are too tight, blue jeans? never...only po white trash wear em...same stupid meaningless shit you're going through now. it hasn't changed and it's not just little poor you either. the more ya fight it the worse it'll be. you have what...2-3 years left at home? chill and enjoy life at home while ya can...

[powair]

Actually I haven't even lived at home for the past two months, and I'm leaving again for good in a couple weeks. I do not enjoy life at home, never will.

[del...]

then why all the drama...?

[RIP ODB]

Actually I haven't even lived at home for the past two months, and I'm leaving again for good in a couple weeks. I do not enjoy life at home, never will.

Sorry to butt in, but I would reccomend that you enjoy the free room and board as long as you can...

Here's my 2 cents - your parents are actually trying to help. I doubt they are really as bad as you say, you just may have been venting or whatever. And I know it sucks and its bull shit, but if you dress up in all black, tons of piercings, etc. other people will look at you and say "what's wrong with her parents?"

You know what i mean? Walk a mile in your parents's shoes for a sec. And this isn't meant to be rude, but it seems like you're just going through the "me-me-me" phase of growin up.

Again, sorry for butting in.

[Syrus]

Jese, since ive been gone 2 pages have apeared, ive jsut woken up so i cant really read all of it so im jsut gonna say good luck again.

[tir na nog]

is it jus me r has poor del got a lot of work to do lately??

[Reefer Rogue]

if you dress up in all black, tons of piercings, etc. other people will look at you and say "what's wrong with her parents?".

Firstly, what kind of person says "whats wrong with thier parents?" just because they may dress in black and have piercings? Secondly, why would you care what those kind of people thought? I'm not trying to start anything here, i'm just curious.

Rachel, All the best with whatever you decide to do, wether it be hitchhiking around N. America or trying to rebuild your relationship with your parents. :)

[RIP ODB]

Firstly, what kind of person says "whats wrong with thier parents?" just because they may dress in black and have piercings? Secondly, why would you care what those kind of people thought? I'm not trying to start anything here, i'm just curious.

Rachel, All the best with whatever you decide to do, wether it be hitchhiking around N. America or trying to rebuild your relationship with your parents. :)


Reef-

I know those people are stupid, but sometimes people like that can impact your life. I know I have had plenty of jobs working for and with people just like that. I'm not saying you have to care what people think, but if you present yourself in certain ways, certain people (mostly igrorant ones) pass judgement.

And if you look at the post more carefully, I said "I know it's bullshit" right before I started talking about it. Sorry for not being more clear.

But you're right, it's just a shame that appearance matters to people that dumb, and these are the people you may have to work for, or kiss their ass some day. Pret-ty frustrating.

And also Reef, nice avatar.

-DB

[Reefer Rogue]

Oh yea, i didn't see that bullshit part, you're rite, it is bullshit lol. Cheers about the avatar :D *Passes the joint*

[DrGonzo]

welp I got kicked out by my parents, at 16 years old...mostly cause I was selling weed, and they didn't want that sort of thing around my young siblings (even tho I just came home to sleep really, w/e I understand what they meant). luckily enough they gave me a week to get my shit together; I found a place that I could afford on my pizza place/dealing income, and I lived on my own two feet for 8 months...and it was fantastic, no doubt aboot it, but it wasn't to last...took a couple E one night and ended up three hours drive away from work, alone and sketchy...getting home was a fun two days tho.

That two days cost me my job, and suddenly I couldn't afford to live on my own anymore...called my folks after 8 months of not talking, went over for dinner and a nice long talk, and moved back in that weekend...with some rules (basically no drugs in the house, or you're gone for good...and they did check my pockets for a couple weeks after that)

point I'm trying to make is, they had a reason to kick me out...and they had a reason to take me back...both times it was cause they loved me.

I don't know what you're looking for posting this...could be a plea for help, could be a fit of anger, could be drugs. Whatever. Doesn't matter. Did your parents have a reason to kick you out? Even if that reason doesn't make sense to you? Were your actions the reason you got kicked out? maybe theres something you should change...I was lucky, I had a job to support myself. 16 is not a good age to be unemployed with rent due, especially if going home is an option (albeit conditional)

[Looker]

Fuck you buddy! I don't listen to slipknot! I shop at catholic charities! I don't want your motherfucking pity! I'm bitching because my own parents tell me I'm not good enough, that I embarass them because of what i wear, how i talk, whatever. They're fucking stuck up bitches that dont know they first thing about compassion, love, or tolerance. You're a fucking fag dude, people like you need to grow up, realize the world does not revolve around you, you arent as mature and serious as you pretend to be, and maybe chill out a bit.

OH SNAP!!

[tomgirl]

A lot has been said here, some heated and in my personal opinion rude and others were just spouting their opinion. Personally I can sympathize with Rachel in some things but in others i cant. I am 16 and my parents kicked me out for their own reasons one was because i started dating a guy behind their back, two was because yea i can tend to state my opinion and get mouthy, and three they just didnt want to deal with me at the moment because my dad is dying of cancer. One thing i would never say about my parents is that i want to slit their throats. I love my parents I just dont get a long with them very well. So I just had to learn when i am around them to button my lip and just not argue. I also thank my parents for the great oppritunities they have opended up to me in my life. One they homeschooled me all the way up until december and then i passed my college entrance exam with flying colors and am currently attending jr college for my associates in engineering. My mom, who is prolly the one i dont get along with the most, pushed me to apply for an essay scholarship that i didnt want to try for because i was nervous and now the next two years of my schooling are paid for. They have also introduced me to the most important person in my life, God. Without God i would have been a goner a long time ago. Just try to look at things from your parents perspective, they only want to protect you not hurt you.

So Rachel there is so much you can do with your life. You claim to be an itellectual so why not try for some scholarships and go back to school. Yeah hitchiking around the states would be a great learning expierence but its nothing like what you would get at school. I just hope and pray that if i can help you at any time let me know. I know that i am younger then you but we all have lessons that we can teach each other.

[4252]

I'm concerned about the hitch hiking around part, I did it when I was in my late teens, and feel it's a risky thing to do. Had a lot of unpleasant encounters and near misses. And I was just a boring, ugly, teen age "boy", albiet it street wise enough. A reasonably good looking girl would probably attract a lot of trouble on the road.

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[NowhereMan]

I'm concerned about the hitch hiking around part, I did it when I was in my late teens, and feel it's a risky thing to do. Had a lot of unpleasant encounters and near misses. And I was just a boring, ugly, teen age "boy", albiet it street wise enough. A reasonably good looking girl would probably attract a lot of trouble on the road.

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A reasonably good looking girl would probably attract a lot of trouble on the road.

the roads are never ending
now im not saying anyone is shit
but
'shit attracts shit eaters' and shit eaters will eat anything
it dont half to be shit


and to the young lady who thanked her parents for the OUTPUT of support and a step up in life,the chance to do good with ya life EVEN though they have different ideas of what is what,
i thank you for them.and ask that you tell them you recognize what they have done for you, becuase trust me here parents need to hear it from your lips now and then ,dont assume they know it,
i have a kids ages 15 and 17 ,who think im a hard ass strict parent becuase i keep myself ready to "be there when needed" i except the fact i cant be liked by them at all times,that they will feel hate towards me for punishments.
i dont meddle in their lives as much as i can avoid it, but i make sure i know where they are at all times and if i dont know where they are,who they are hanging with ect,They wont get to go anywhere anytime soon,
its a fact Nobody is safe and no parent can protect a child from all forms of harm,yet we want to and we try to ,sometimes with sad results.
example
my 15 yr old was gonna stay at one friends,she ended up at another ones house,(who's mom deals btw)that i FORBID her to even be there,let alone spend a night,well she got busted ,redhanded.she blatantly did exactly what i said dont do,
i took every privlidge she had,even TOOK her off the cheerleading squad
before ya say mean ol' prick you should know,I told her in simple terms If you do go to this kids house,i will do this,and this and this and that,
she did,and i did what i said i would do.i cut all contact with friends other than In school.for weeks she had ,and i quote 'NO LIFE"
now do ya think i like having my kid feel the anger and hate it brought out?
she has earned some of her privilidges back,NOT all,i let her use the phone,and go places agian,i wont let her near that friend, her partner in crime becuase well,they just aint good decision makers when together and i wont be cheated out of my trust and smile about it.
may i add that she can sit here and smoke a fat doobie if she so desired
and that ive let her friends stay here,and dont ask or care what they do(to some degree) in her room.meaning they can get high crank up nelly and luagh all night,Not that i want them too,but id rather have her here safe,than out there with all the idiots,cuase who knows

kids will push the bounderies to the limits,few know how many risk they take
im hoping when they come of age and are making all the decisions on thier own that they realize i love thm dearly and have devoted the years to them
i could be out jamming in bars and snortin coke with my friends,but yet im here,in case im needed,id rather be playing tunes and getting high but ya know kids need so much more than food and shelter.
peace

ps.
we all must learn some things the hard way,so good luck to you all

[IanCurtisWishlist]

Just to let you know....I would delete that shit about slitting your parent's throats ASAP. I've been charged with TERRORIST THREATS because of saying dumb shit like that to my PARENTS! So if your parents are bad enough to kick you out, don't think that they wouldn't press charges. just some advice...it's a felony, you know.

[powair]

I dont think my parents are that hardcore...they could have charged with me with a bunch of shit by now but they havent.

[ardavey]

poor baby get a new fucking job you dweeb

[Looker]

Oh shit here we go again... :eek:

[Syrus]

poor baby get a new fucking job you dweeb

Yea, like no one else has thought of that :rolleyes:

Jese will you people please read the entire convo before posting.

[thewooman]

this is a pretty fucked up thread right here, and now im all fucking sad cus i got some girl saying she wants her parents own throats slit, and A Foo is saying next time you reach for that razor blade dig deaper. its made me all sad :(

A Foo Says your being a bit mean, you dissing people that shop in certain places and listen to slipknot, you know theres a thread on here about how people have no right to judge people by how they speak, dress,wot they listen to. and quite alot of teenagers are like "oh my parents suck, im a rebel" ect. its just a phase, there is no need to say next time you reach for that razor blade dig deaper and you might get more attetnion. that is such fucked up shit.

everyone just stop the insutling each other..... peace not war....

[Smokin2]

I'm not sure where you live but in he states every child is child until that are 18, therefor no parent could kick out a 17 year old without the looking at being in trouble themselves. As for the job, you can always find another one. At 17 I would think the job you are working isn't a life long position for you. I know you asked everyone to shut up and that is fine, if you would rather not get an opinion then simply don't ask. I often go out looking for advice only to find I'm quite content with my own way of dealing with things. I think others are only trying to help. We want to know what happened. Surely you didn't just walk in the door and they told you to get out, that is just not normal. That we are all normal, it's just that I think there is more to the story. Bottom line if you underage and live in the states, call the police, at least they will find you a home and hopefully someone who can help. As for the job, I said it before you can get another one. Sure it sucks, but most of us as lost a job or two in our lives, and I would bet this won't be the last for you. Good luck, I mean that, and try and understand that others really want to help but that is hard to do when they don't know the entire story.............

[steph]

I am 15 yrs old i am wasted and i think grounded 4 a bit , it was my fault i came home wiv half an O on me . I av also been kicked out a few times all of which has been my fault i av never rele been out of budd in these situations so i feel skin up lite it up and gt high

[A Foo Says]

this is a pretty fucked up thread right here, and now im all fucking sad cus i got some girl saying she wants her parents own throats slit, and A Foo is saying next time you reach for that razor blade dig deaper. its made me all sad :(

A Foo Says your being a bit mean, you dissing people that shop in certain places and listen to slipknot, you know theres a thread on here about how people have no right to judge people by how they speak, dress,wot they listen to. and quite alot of teenagers are like "oh my parents suck, im a rebel" ect. its just a phase, there is no need to say next time you reach for that razor blade dig deaper and you might get more attetnion. that is such fucked up shit.

everyone just stop the insutling each other..... peace not war....


LOL. I was showing one of a few stereotypical teenagers. 'i'm hxcore i listen to slipknot and am drepressed, i cutmy self rah rah rah'

I hope you weren't too blind to see that. I'm not dissing the music and/or clothing, I'm dissing the people who I mentioned above. k thanks