WTF DID I SAY?

[Not Enough Herb]

holy shit...its a fuckin official i dont no anything about girls

i was making plans with this one girl for monday and i asked her if her parents where home...she said probly not....then she said but that doesnt matter anywhere! and like snapped my fuckin head off


wtf did i say...all i wanna do is spend time with and i dont wanna have to like move apart everytime her parents walk by

god dammit


later

[Gothen]

then she said but that doesnt matter anywhere

I'm assuming you meant, "But that doesn't matter anyway." Or something to take effect.

I'm guessing she thinks you just want to be around her when you wanna "sex her up." ^_^ Try calling her back and explaining what you just said. Remember to say I'm sorry.

[Not Enough Herb]

^ yta sorry i ment anyway


blah fuck her im pretty she was out fooling around with sum friends of mine tonight so fuck apologizing :(

o well...time to move on

later


--- wow she just said she wanted to talk to me about sumthing tomorrow.....i asked her if it was bad and she said tomorrow she would tell me........

blah i dont even no what to say other then im completely crushed

later

[Gothen]

Were/Are you dating this girl?

[Not Enough Herb]

i have in the past and we were planning on going out again

but now i really dont fuckin care

i give up all this relationship crap.........



later

[mysteria]

It's okay, girls are crazy, it's hard to figure them out.
And I'm a girl myself.
Doesn't sound like you really did anything wrong. I mean, unless you didn't ask it casually at all and was like "Hi, are your parents going to be home? ;) ;D ;*" and if in the past you've only used her for sex or something... Then I can understand her side a little more.

If she didn't say whether the talk tomorrow will be good or bad, then it's probably bad, but it sounds like you know that already. Don't take it personally, especially if (IF) she's fucking around with your friends. There are always better girls out there.

[tagnamestek]

damn man, i think its offisial you have bad lukk wit girls. just keep goin at it eventually youll find one thatll treat you right.
PS: girls aint that hard to figure out and get what you want, trust me ;)

[Not Enough Herb]

ya well i decided to update this i guess

well i talked to her about if it she was mad she said she ment that it didnt matter if her parents were home cuz she still wanted to b with me. well i found out what she wanted to tell me. turns out sum guy was trying to kiss her and go down her pants. she said she told him no and cant pushing him away. i hope its tru. she said she only likes me and asked if i still liked her, i said ya and she said she was so sorry and gave me a big hug.

hmm i dunno, i really like her so i guess if everything she says is tru then i just wanna move on with her and forget about this


later

[caddyman]

Just tell here to fuck off .

[jadeius]

Either way, whether she was concerned about you only wanting sex, or even if she really meant she wanted to be with you regardless, it doesn't sound like anything to take too seriously or read into too heavily. She probably meant to express a mixture of both. It's all about the confusion and mixed feelings, along with the fact that some people (including me) don't react well on impulse. She may have said it in a way that she didn't mean to. I sound bitchy sometimes when I'm really trying to be pleasant or funny. Sometimes we just don't communicate well, and that's the problem with 100% of all good, faithful relationships that go bad....LACK OF, or POOR, communication. Keep talking with her dude, it might pay off, then it might not...weigh your risks, is she worth the time? If she breaks your poor confused heart, then will you see it as having been worth all the time you put into in the end? It's all in what you value, man. If you like her that much, take a gamble; if it fails, then in the end, you can just lay back and say, "well, I gave it my all, but the bitch didn't take to my effort; oh well, they're millions of other fishes in the sea!"
Good luck...

[caddyman]

Very nice reply jadeius, Im looking for a counsellor do you think u would like to help

[jadeius]

Oh, and one more thing, her telling you about some other guy trying to mess with her is probably her way of trying to make sure she's still desirable, and her telling you that she resisted was her trying to express her faithfulness. I mean, why else would she bring that up anyway? I don't think she was trying to piss you off, or else she wouldn't have said she resisted. Keep at it, you'll be much prouder of something you have to work at.

[jadeius]

sure caddyman, I always like to help out when I can...talk here or email [email protected]

[caddyman]

im in mental turmoil here, I somehow dont think i can afford u jadieus, so tell me what do u charge an hour

[jadeius]

lol you're silly. I'm not certified in any legal sense. I just know a lot about certain things, especially relationships, since I've gotten myself into some pretty fucked up situations and some pretty stupid arguments. I charge only respect at an hourly rate. :p

[Not Enough Herb]

^ thx a loit man

im gonna see her tomorrow and hopefully things go good

we both talked and after it i said is everything good now? and she said ya. so ya if it doesnt work out then i move on i guess

later

[jadeius]

I hope all went well...and remember, folks, just ask a gay guy!