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sToNeDpEnGuIn420
03-08-2005, 11:19 PM
*Gets balls*
ok yeah so i cum a lil fast not like in 1 second or anything its just like not long enough that i tihnk my gf enjoys it...even tho she said she doesnt care but i know she still does, i tried the whole jacking off first thing doesnt work, sometimes i think tho its cuz like either she give me a handjob for awhile and then head or not and then we fucked like after shes given my a handjob for like 10-20 minutes so ya i d0nt know lol but i dont like how fast i cum pisses me off, i have no clue what this thread is for but here ya go!
sToNeDpEnGuIn420
03-08-2005, 11:20 PM
Oh and btw i forgot to mention its only when we fuck cuz like handjobs or head i can go forever
Encatuse
03-09-2005, 12:04 AM
Sounds like we should switch girlfriends.
Anyway, for fucking her. Buy Durex Extra Thicks. Or buy a Lifestyles Desensitizing one. They work really well. ((I can't even cum with them on...))
Dick Justice
03-09-2005, 02:00 AM
Slide a pin into your dick. That should keep the ol' love gravy at bay!
I think this is the first time I've ever posted in this section.
jacquelyne
03-09-2005, 09:52 PM
No kidding my bf is the same.Normally sex dosent last very long and there have been times when i have even counted the strokes in my head.In all seriousness i usually get less than 1 minute of sex in a session.Ive been with him for 2 yrs and he has even seen a few doctors because he thinks i will leave him.At first it bothered me because just when i was really start to enjoy it he blows and its all over red rover.I am used to it now so i know what to expect.When he does take a while to cum say 5 mins i get suspicious because its not like him.I think its a problem that cant go away but there are exercises that u can do to help.He will cum with a headjob too but takes a bit longer maybe 10-20 mins but at first he never cum from that i just got to know what he liked to speed it up a bit lol.
sToNeDpEnGuIn420
03-09-2005, 09:58 PM
No kidding my bf is the same.Normally sex dosent last very long and there have been times when i have even counted the strokes in my head.In all seriousness i usually get less than 1 minute of sex in a session.Ive been with him for 2 yrs and he has even seen a few doctors because he thinks i will leave him.At first it bothered me because just when i was really start to enjoy it he blows and its all over red rover.I am used to it now so i know what to expect.When he does take a while to cum say 5 mins i get suspicious because its not like him.I think its a problem that cant go away but there are exercises that u can do to help.He will cum with a headjob too but takes a bit longer maybe 10-20 mins but at first he never cum from that i just got to know what he liked to speed it up a bit lol.
wow well im glad to know im not alone, and yeah thats how i feel i think she will leave me or cheat on me because i dont please her ya know? yeah and thats why i worry to cuz im always like man this isnt just about me, so i just make sure to play with her pussy and eat her out :D gotta make up for what i cant do with my dick lol
maryjanemama
03-09-2005, 11:58 PM
Hey, Penguin, I don't see Sasha complaining, so I think you must be doing something right. ;) You're 15, it's OK. You'll get better at it as you get older, and if you don't, a woman who loves you (Like Jacqueline loves her bf) won't leave you all because of a quick trigger.
jacquelyne
03-10-2005, 12:09 AM
Thats the way to go.Give her an orgasm and she will be happy no matter how long you last.
wow well im glad to know im not alone, and yeah thats how i feel i think she will leave me or cheat on me because i dont please her ya know? yeah and thats why i worry to cuz im always like man this isnt just about me, so i just make sure to play with her pussy and eat her out :D gotta make up for what i cant do with my dick lol
jacquelyne
03-10-2005, 12:13 AM
lol i dont know about that my fella is 27 ??????? Hmmmmm
Hey, Penguin, I don't see Sasha complaining, so I think you must be doing something right. ;) You're 15, it's OK. You'll get better at it as you get older, and if you don't, a woman who loves you (Like Jacqueline loves her bf) won't leave you all because of a quick trigger.
sawleaf
03-10-2005, 12:16 AM
Dude, if you feel like you are getting close to cumming, just stop and take a break for like 10 seconds or until the feeling passes. Or switch to a different position. Why keep going if you know you are going to blow too soon? :)
Climbing High
03-10-2005, 02:25 AM
or just think about the image on tubgirl.com
that should keep you from finishing any time soon.
Not Enough Herb
03-10-2005, 02:52 AM
^lmao speaking of tubgirl
my buddy wanted sum good porn sites, so i told him to go to tubgirl.com b/c it has good pics of chics in the shower...lets just say he will never ever ask for porn again lol
later
I like never cum man. I'm not bragging, its a serious problem. I have to really really try.
phillykid420
03-10-2005, 03:50 AM
I remember reading something in men's health that sheds a bit of light on the whole thing. As adolescents we try to cum fast when jerking off cause we don't want anyone walking in on us as a result you probably don't have practice at lasting longer. When you're wrestling your snake get to the point where if you go any further you won't be able to stop, find this point and then like the other person said, stop and wait till it subsides, then work to that point again, it's like practice, do it a few times before cumming. Wait till your folks are really out of the house lol.
Next time your with her and she's giving you hand jobs and head for awhile, please her afterwards before having sex, it'll give you time to let the little guy rest up for the main event. And if you cum to fast and she's not really getting off help her after sex with your hands or tongue, don't just roll over and fall asleep. Too bad you're too young to buy a vibrator, maybe you could online or something. and use that on her.
SashaOxOxMarie
03-10-2005, 06:10 AM
haha this is so enteresting to read lol halfway because it envolves me.... haha aha
GHoSToKeR
03-10-2005, 10:08 AM
lmao
Encatuse
03-11-2005, 01:00 AM
Too bad you're too young to buy a vibrator, maybe you could online or something. and use that on her.
-laughs- When eating out my old girlfriend my tongue would always get cut on the bottom from scraping against my bottom teeth. We were like 14 and we went into spencers and bought a water-proof vibrator that for about a year saved my tongue a great deal of pain.
s2headhunter
03-11-2005, 01:56 AM
no doubt about the tounge shit..that shits hurts for like a week lol but anyway yeah man just be confident no matter what ..i heard girls think confidence is sexy but caulky isnt but i dunno im a guy i think pussy is sexy and hairy pussy isnt lol but anyway just stay cool, work your tool, make sure ya girl know you aint a fool, lol wow i just smakced myself for saying that
Juggalotus
03-13-2005, 03:23 AM
I should smack you too...lol, but anyways...The thing about flooding the panic water...yeah, just jerk off to some really crappy porn...(so you dont get too into it) and just quit!!! completely...just go look at ur cat or somthing, errr or anything that turns you off. I dont care what it is...and then when ur almost down to bein limp start jerkin again to the SAME PORN, put it on repeat, do this like 5 times man...each time you beat off...or try to get a lot of head, and dont look...it makes you last longer...close ur eyes while having sex, get ur mind off of the pleasure...YOU'LL always get off, she wont so make it more fun for her yanno..cuz you can beat offf anytime..
Doobie Snax
03-25-2005, 02:10 PM
If you feel like u are about 2 cum, grasp the base of ur dong lol and squeeze, applying enough pressure for it to stop, works for most ppl i think.
Dragonslayer4200
03-28-2005, 12:53 AM
well i cum fast but i am like 5 inches so i can keep hard and i just keep going with the same condom on till she cums and usally i cum like fucken twice before she cums once and if im really in the mood ill keep going till i cum like fucken 3 or 4 times lol it sometimes the cum gets on her cunt lips but doesnt go in so yea i think you should do my technique lol. but do what you want.
wannagethigh
03-28-2005, 01:23 AM
well i cum fast but i am like 5 inches so i can keep hard and i just keep going with the same condom on till she cums and usally i cum like fucken twice before she cums once and if im really in the mood ill keep going till i cum like fucken 3 or 4 times lol it sometimes the cum gets on her cunt lips but doesnt go in so yea i think you should do my technique lol. but do what you want.
I was convinced that this is an excellent way to break a condom and get the girl pregnant?
Also, dragonslayer, i was wondering how ou do this becaus ei've tried but after I cum my dick gets real sensitive so it actually doesn't feel good to fuck more after cumming. How do you get over that? What i do is when I cum I go down on her, and at the same time change condoms. Then I wait until she is about to cum for me to stick my cock back in her and fuck her hard until we cum together.
Not Enough Herb
03-28-2005, 03:02 AM
^ dude i wish my problem ws coming to fast
I CANT CUM AT ALL
i get a 30 minute handjob and the girl gave up cuz her arms were starting to hurt
i think its from doing morphiene which im fucking stopping for sure
later
Garden Knowm
03-28-2005, 03:06 AM
Practice, care.. remind yourself that you love her and that you want her to be happy.. keep reminding yourself that this not about you. Change the way you think about sex.... it can be done.... By doing this I stumbled upon the most amazing thing...
I can have 10, 20, 30 orgasms without cumming.... or I can cum in 2 seconds....
It is all about self less ness
But it used to be all about me and then it only lasted 2 seconds.. sometimes I'd cum in 1 second... Now it is about her ...her.. her... and ...well you get the picture..
Garden Knowm
03-28-2005, 03:07 AM
Penguin.. one more thing.. don't stress about it at all.. that only makes it worse,.. and don't use the jack off first method... that will bite yo in the ass when you get older... I think?
Not Enough Herb
03-28-2005, 03:16 AM
^ how will it bite him in the ass
if he cums once then cumming again will b a lot harder
the jack off method works man take it from a dude
who has a penis
WHICH IS BROKEN RIGHT NOW
but ya give it a quick wank the go at it like rabbits
later
SmokinThaHaze
03-28-2005, 03:48 AM
Most guys have that problem man, but sum dont........dont fret man once u start having sex alot u SHOULD last longer and longer etc......... but that whole condom thing about using it multiple times, wtf u crazy mite as well not use one at all, lol unless u aint hittin it hard enough, jk, but damn i sound like an old experienced person, i'm 17 man and it takes me about an hour or more, it starts gettin boring after a while lol, but 4real once u start havin sex more ull last longer, and shell enjoy it more when u get older an mini me starts to grow ;) , i think u dont stop growin until 21 yrs old correct me if im wrong? but yea i still have 4 yrs to grow and im at 7 1/2 wooo hooo , lol aint all that but no complaints yet.............. :D
Doobie Snax
04-12-2005, 03:07 PM
so ur 17 at the mo smokinthahaze? im 15 as a matter of interest what were u when u were my age?
powair
04-12-2005, 04:33 PM
I'm a girl and I cum quickly usually every time, I feel bad for girls who take soo long to get off, that must suck. But my point is I like guys that cum quick too, lol, and I'm sure every girl would if she could just let herself GET OFF for fucks sake.
GHoSToKeR
04-12-2005, 04:36 PM
uhhhhh.. powair.... how you doing? lol
powair
04-12-2005, 04:38 PM
I have you on my msn but we never talk lol, maybe we should ;) heh
GHoSToKeR
04-12-2005, 05:51 PM
hehe definately! you should msg me some time so i can add youcoz i dont have you, at least i dont think so, but im stoned
damn i am the opposite i can never cum i have to beat off at the end. well i use to be like that. I was in a rehab for 8 months and i finally got some good pussy last week i cummed a quater of the condom lol :) it was a site.
jadeius
04-13-2005, 02:18 PM
An easy way to avoid cumming too quickly is to buy benzocaine. DON'T use orajel or anbesol or anything like that for mouth sores; there's a kind you can specifically get for your penis at sex shops, spencer's gift shops, etc. BENZOCAINE is a local anesthetic that will numb any sensitive area you apply it too...don't worry though, it only lasts about 5 minutes or maybe less...but trust, it WILL buy you some time while you're in her...don't use it while she's giving you head, though; her mouth will go numb and she may drool! Apply the benzocaine directly to the head of your penis (like lubricant) and THEN PUT A CONDOM OVER IT...you don't want the benzocaine to touch your girl's sensitive parts, it numbs them too! Good luck....
dgann
04-13-2005, 10:28 PM
Hey Dude,
Dont worry about it. Just go to your local drug store and buy a little tube of this stuff called DETANE. You smear a little on the head of your pecker and that does the trick. You may need to keep going for about 30-45 minutes but I guarentee you wont get a nut. It really desensitizes the head of your pecker. Me, I dont have that trouble. I dont have a pecker, I have a COCK. And a pretty nice one too, about 10.5 long and about 2.5 in diameter. A wonder worker. Find her g'spot and work on it. Its up a little ways inside her cunt. When you find it, trust me, she will tell you, then just work on it a while. Usually, when a woman cums when you are rubbing this, she will REALLY cum, I mean, squirt like a water fountain. Dont fret over it, because it aint pee. Its honest to goodness love juice. Every woman can do it, getting her there is half the battle (fun) but once you do, you will never have to worry about HER leaving again. :D
davyboy
They make condoms they sorta numb your penis. Their made for women's pleasure mostly. Just make sure you put the numb side of your dick
Hey Dude,
Dont worry about it. Just go to your local drug store and buy a little tube of this stuff called DETANE. You smear a little on the head of your pecker and that does the trick. You may need to keep going for about 30-45 minutes but I guarentee you wont get a nut. It really desensitizes the head of your pecker. Me, I dont have that trouble. I dont have a pecker, I have a COCK. And a pretty nice one too, about 10.5 long and about 2.5 in diameter. A wonder worker. Find her g'spot and work on it. Its up a little ways inside her cunt. When you find it, trust me, she will tell you, then just work on it a while. Usually, when a woman cums when you are rubbing this, she will REALLY cum, I mean, squirt like a water fountain. Dont fret over it, because it aint pee. Its honest to goodness love juice. Every woman can do it, getting her there is half the battle (fun) but once you do, you will never have to worry about HER leaving again. :D
davyboy
or just listen to smuchk the boy who brags about his dick size and know everything about women's sexuality.
Oh I kid I kid :D
Encatuse
04-16-2005, 04:47 PM
Hey Dude,
Dont worry about it. Just go to your local drug store and buy a little tube of this stuff called DETANE. You smear a little on the head of your pecker and that does the trick. You may need to keep going for about 30-45 minutes but I guarentee you wont get a nut. It really desensitizes the head of your pecker. Me, I dont have that trouble. I dont have a pecker, I have a COCK. And a pretty nice one too, about 10.5 long and about 2.5 in diameter. A wonder worker. Find her g'spot and work on it. Its up a little ways inside her cunt. When you find it, trust me, she will tell you, then just work on it a while. Usually, when a woman cums when you are rubbing this, she will REALLY cum, I mean, squirt like a water fountain. Dont fret over it, because it aint pee. Its honest to goodness love juice. Every woman can do it, getting her there is half the battle (fun) but once you do, you will never have to worry about HER leaving again. :D
davyboy
hahahahahah, I sincerely pray this post was sarcasm. If not that'd be weird. And you'd be a goofy cock-waver.
jadeius
04-18-2005, 12:32 PM
Most guys have that problem man, but sum dont........dont fret man once u start having sex alot u SHOULD last longer and longer etc......... but that whole condom thing about using it multiple times, wtf u crazy mite as well not use one at all, lol unless u aint hittin it hard enough, jk, but damn i sound like an old experienced person, i'm 17 man and it takes me about an hour or more, it starts gettin boring after a while lol, but 4real once u start havin sex more ull last longer, and shell enjoy it more when u get older an mini me starts to grow ;) , i think u dont stop growin until 21 yrs old correct me if im wrong? but yea i still have 4 yrs to grow and im at 7 1/2 wooo hooo , lol aint all that but no complaints yet.............. :D
Must correct you.....sorry....I'm about to be 21 and my cock is the same as it was when I was 18....maybe it's just me though...I know girls start growing before guys (not their dicks lol)....that's why most girls are taller than guys at age 14 or 15....girls stop growing around 17 or 18 and guys stop growing around 18 or 19...after that, you don't really GROW, you just AGE....or start looking older, but not really taller or anything like that....
jadeius
04-18-2005, 12:33 PM
OH yeah, haze where did you get that avatar, that shit is cool.... I had a friend laughing in the floor the other day with that...
spliffstar22
04-23-2005, 06:51 PM
About your cum problem. When you're beating and you feel like your about to buss, just pull out, and hold onto your dick, until the feeling of bussing a nut goes away, then keep beating. If you really wanna last a long time, just get piss drunk, and fuck for like 3-4 hours. lol
jadeius
04-25-2005, 12:45 PM
hahaha yeah, drinking is the ultimate solution
mlleyeuxbleus
04-25-2005, 02:53 PM
Here's a good link that addresses this issue: http://talksexwithsue.com/premature.html. She suggests the male version of Kiegel exercises, which sounds like a great idea (us ladies shouldn't be the only ones doing them, lol). Also, a cock ring can help control premature ejaculation as well; they can be purchased at your local adult store or on sites such as www.adameve.com. Some rings also have 'nubs' to help stimulate the lady as well, woohoo! :)
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