i must have some kind of personal problem

[teknodppr]

Ok well here is my prob in the short version. I liked this girl. We were kinda dating until i found out that she had a boyfriend that she was tryin to hide from me. Now I dont talk to her at all but i still see her occasionally. I was pretty depressed when I found out about her manipulation. That was about 2 months ago. Now I see her about once a week and i still have some hurt feelings inside. I totally have the fuck her attitude and a lot of the time I dont care and im over her. But other times I still get depressed because we were friends for like 4 months before I let her know i was interested. She was really nice to me. It just makes me upset because I thought I knew her. Im pretty busy all the time. I have 8 hrs of college mon-fri and work about 31 hrs a week. Even now I still cant just forget about her because I still see her. All I want is for this to just be over, but Im goin 2 see her about once a week for the next 2 yrs. See a lot of the time things will be going good and Ill not think about this at all. Then ill have a dream about her or sometihn and wake up all depressed. Dont get me wrong, this is not affecting me in any way whatsoever, its just uncomfortable getting depressed over stupid bitches even when I dont care about her anymore at all. Anyone know what 2 do?

[REG]

find yourself another bird mate and you'll soon forget about her ;)

[mellow mood]

ya, young prostitutes are perfect!

[Rarrr]

I used to have problems with this girl in highschool who use to teas me (sexually) but would never go out with me. It made me quite depressed.We were really good friends and all and eventually i just got fed up with it and purposely lost contact with her until recently (a year and a half later) and she has gained a lot of weight and her life hasnt gone where she wanted it to whereas Im a completely changed person (for the better) am finally starting to enjoy life and have everything going right :D
So the moral of the story is not to worry about these emotions cos they will go in time and dont get angry about her cos that wont help with your feelings towards her anwway in the end karma will bite her in the ass!

[crystal clear pepsi]

GET DRUNK

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[juggalo420]

well either get over it, or randomly terrorize her and her family.

[crystal clear pepsi]

well either get over it, or randomly terrorize her and her family .

That will work too !!!!!!!

[teknodppr]

Hey Im doin everything i can to get over it. I started school last week. That helps keep my mind off it. I used to pretty much just lay around thinkin (if i wasnt workin) and gettin depressed about the whole thing. It sucks because I wish I could just not see her anymore. But since I work with her, its kinda unavoidable. Especially when I see her, its kinda like i start liking her again because I think about how fun she was when i would talk to her, but at the same time it gets me depressed because i know things wont ever go the way i would like it. Plus she is really pretty. I dont mean like hot pretty (although i could say she is damn hot). But kinda like a really cute little girl. Id say that i cant really be friends with her because i know ill want more than just friendship and ill just go hurting myself again. uh...... no im not going to terrorize her. im above that. I think the thing that makes me more mad is the fact that I know Im being overly sensitive. Id say that i am overly sensitive and it sucks. I cant really do anything about it. My feelings seem to get hurt easy. I wish i could just find another girl because i know that for sure id forget about her if that happened, but realistically its not going to happen here. the guys out number the girls like 4 to 1 and every girl worth gettin 2 know already has someone. so ya........back to the original thread title "i must have some kind of personal problem", my problem is im too overly sensitive. u guys that arent like that are lucky.

[ermitonto]

Well, that's women for ya. I really have no idea why they do some of the things they do. For example: many of them like to show off their breasts and buttocks with tight or revealing clothing, yet the minute you make a compliment about these parts of the body which they are obviously trying to attract your attention to, they get really really mad. Or how about when they act all flirtatious and interested in you but then tell you you're not their kind of guy? :confused: Sometimes I'm convinced there's a gender-wide conspiracy going on to screw with my mind.

[REG]

you gotta realise you aint ever gonna get this one and move on,try looking a bit further afield for the girl of your dreams otherwise things aint gonna get any better you only get one life mate and spending chasing one girl is a waste,now chasing several thats a pastime ;)

[Button Basher]

Yo Tekno. I had almost EXACTLY the same predicament last year and your right, it hurts like a bitch but that's just natural. You got fucked over by someone you cared about, it'll probs take a while before you'll honestly feel "fuck it" but until then just try and forget about her. I'm not much of a ladies man so I just steered clear of relationships until I felt fit. That was a year ago, and now the girl's single and lonely 'cause her boyfriend turned all her friends against her and i'm seeing someone most DEFINITELY worth my time :D . Soon enough, you'll share my satisfaction mate, no worries :p .