Need advice on which girl to go after

[THClord]

A couple months ago I asked questions about how to get girls. Since then I've become a pro at attracting girls, but haven't closed the deal yet.

Ok, so one of my roomate's friends back from high school is Kim. I've known her for a while, we always meet at parties and stuff. On Friday my roomate Dave and I run into Kim and her roomate, Alexia who I met for the first time. Dave was catching up with Kim, and at the same time I got to know Alexia. We hung out for about two hours. My game was textbook, I am sure I made a good impression on Alexia.

Then on Saturday I go to Kim's party. I arrive late, and Alexia is already wasted by then, so I don't start anything, we barely exchanged a couple sentences during the night. I had an awesome time though cuz I had a lot of buddies there.

So here's the problem. Today, going to class I run into Kim, and the way she looked totally surprised me. She was suddenly very shy, I've never seen her shy. Everything about her was suddenly shy, her facial expression, her posture, her voice. It was like the inexperienced girl trying to approach the guy she likes, and the guy is me. I've seen this a lot of times, and I'm sure I'm right about it.

I will probably meet both of them at the same time next, when they throw their next party.

Alexia: She's hot, definately interested in me, but far more experienced than me for sure

Kim: She's OK, not someone you'd notice walking past you but kind of pretty. I'm pretty sure she has a crush on me from what I saw today, but the problem is, that she is pretty close friends with my roommate and I don't want to make awkward situations, though I don't see her too much, and it's almost always in bigger groups, so it wouldn't be that bad

Can I play it off to get Alexia? Kim has no idea I know she likes me. If I were to get Kim, should I expect awkward situations or will it be cool. Dave does not want to be anything more than friends with Kim, he's made it very clear. And should I just go after Kim, because she'd be an easy target? I am still a virgin after-all.

I know it's hard to answer questions like this when you only know so little. Just post whatever you want even if it doesn't answer my question. I'm not gonna limit myself by rules for sure, but having a little strategy going in could help.

[dragonrider]

This is a completely unscientific and worthless answer, but I've always found girls who are named Kim to be very well worth dating.

[Metaphor]

dragonrider is the man, he should get both those ladies.

[Purple Banana]

Yeah, I'd say Kim would be more satisfying in the long run... Go for it!

[napolitana869]

If the two girls are room mates chances are that Alexia knows that Kim likes you (if you're right and she does) and wouldnt do anything with you that would cause drama between them.

[dragonrider]

dragonrider is the man, he should get both those ladies.

Yes! I should get both those ladies! Ha Ha!
I need to check with my wife first, but I'll get back to you and let you know if you should send them over....

[WeedyBoyWonder]

You must genially like one more than the other, it would make sense to chose that one and stick with it.

[Spoken Word]

You already have great advice.. but I just wanted to add.....it really all depends on what you want the girl for.
For a relationship or just to have sex with.

From what I've gathered, Alexia gets wasted and makes you think she's more expierenced than yourself. hmmm, that sounds like trouble. I wouldn't want to start a relationship with someone like that. And since you are a virgin, you might not please her. But you could maybe learn a lot of technique......"first-hand" haha

and then you have the more conservative, not as good looking but has you interested and last but not least....SHY kim. She sounds like a sweetheart.
You could easily learn about sex with her and not worry about her being bored to boot!
and of course, she's more relationship worthy.


i'd choose Kim.

Good luck, man. girls are fun!:thumbsup:

[Conehead]

I think u shoulld go for Kim. She seems sweet and like spoken said she wont get bored with sex and u can feelmore comfortable with her which will make it better for u both. anyway if doesnt work out u have popped your cherry and can move on to alexia hahaha. she sounds like a bit of a tart dont think the dating her roomate will stop her lol.ignore me im a bad influence :jointsmile:

[WeedyBoyWonder]

I think you should go for Alexia,but on the other hand Kim sounds truly sweet. Try them both...then choose who you like.

try them both and lose them both I think, inless your some sort of machine. :jointsmile:

[murderouspanda]

why choose one or the other?

just get them both at the same time :rastasmoke:

[dragonrider]

Try them both...then choose who you like.

Simultaneously? You dog!

[dominionxp]

why choose one or the other?

just get them both at the same time :rastasmoke:that sounds good to me! :thumbsup::jointsmile:

[dragonrider]

trust me dude, go with whichever is the one that makes YOU happy. listen to your heart.... i made that mistake long ago and i regret it every single day. somtimes your head tells you to go against your heart and if you listen to your head i promise you will regret it.

And if you listen to your "little head" you are probably going to get into even more trouble...

[yiGity]

hahhaha... you want to be their friend first and be able to kick it with them and it not be awkward for either.. ive learned in my experiences in my young life with girls especially younger highschool - college girls that they want a person they can talk to and be friends with rather than just some guy thats just tryin to get into their pants.. just keep it real with the ladies dont seem overally intersted in one or the other, but keep talkin wit both and others for that sake... you should want to get to know the girl your trying to get with before you try and get into any kind of a relationship or whatever your aiming at... once your at that point where ur both comfortable around each other and u start bonding thats when the fun starts... keep it real be yourself and be confident!!!!!!!!! and if the beezy isnt down for you then fuck it move on to the next one... thats just my two cents gl wit the ladies!

[beginerbuddah]

And if you listen to your "little head" you are probably going to get into even more trouble...

hahahaha very true :thumbsup:

[THClord]

Thx for all the advice. If I come to think of it, it's better to ignore Alexia more than I have so far. I played it good, so she keeps trying to get MY attention. :D
I've got to set myself apart from other guys, who would obviously ignore Kim when Alexia is around.

[luvfriday]

Invite them both over, get them high. You might not need to decide, they may suprise you.

[yiGity]

haha

[dragonrider]

Invite them both over, get them high. You might not need to decide, they may suprise you.

Somehow, this post gave me a nearly overwhelming case of horniness...

[Ganj]

This is a completely unscientific and worthless answer, but I've always found girls who are named Kim to be very well worth dating.

Also, Margaret, Brittany, Louise, Jennifer-oh she's a good one! They're all worth dating if you can squeeze-in between their legs long enough to make them fall in love with you.

[beachguy in thongs]

Talk to them on the phone. If you close your eyes, go with the one who doesn't pierce your brain.

[Ganj]

Talk to them on the phone. If you close your eyes, go with the one who doesn't pierce your brain.

Good point, beachguy. And yes, above all else do not go with the one whose voice reminds you of those nasally sounding, pop-culture rockers.