Depression settling in...

[Squiggle]

Yea this happens everytime I get close to a girl and she ends up with one of my friends or just some guy and she just rubs it all in my face...

I dont know if thats her way of showing me what im missing or what I did to not get that or.... She just likes to play mind games like fucking crazy.

Well anyways Im going to the doctor Friday because as of theese last couple days ive just been out of it ive been living my life 15 minutes at a time really depressed ive lost all compassion for everything and almost everyone in my life...

So I dont really know what to do right now.

Any advice?

[ToDrunkToFish]

If girls, just girls. Are the only thing depressing your life you need to take another look. Now, im not tryin to offend anyone but girls are just bitches. You play them or get played. Or in the end all is good and you both play eachother. And eventually you find that right someone.

Dont worry about girls. Just fuckin chill with some mates and if your still in High school trust me, theres always another girl thats easy to find (for me, anyway) I had a high school campus of 3K+

I dunno fuck you must be doin somthin wrong especially if they rub it in. But as said dont worry about what they do and thinkin your life sucks. Sorry if this made no sense. But theres more to life then girls. Bitches.

[randomname4888]

Yea this happens everytime I get close to a girl and she ends up with one of my friends or just some guy and she just rubs it all in my face...

I dont know if thats her way of showing me what im missing or what I did to not get that or.... She just likes to play mind games like fucking crazy.

Well anyways Im going to the doctor Friday because as of theese last couple days ive just been out of it ive been living my life 15 minutes at a time really depressed ive lost all compassion for everything and almost everyone in my life...

So I dont really know what to do right now.

Any advice?

im at the same fucking stage in my life..

[Innominate]

I'm pulling through the stage your in right now, not that it is the reason for my user name or yours, but I would recommend smoking some bud, listen to some music, and think about how you came to the present. Imagine the events in your life that caused you to become the given person before consciousness. The art of thought should never be underestimated, the more you think the better you understand yourself, thereby stepping forward to improve your mental health and life.

[naturelovinpuffer]

hey to you it is goin to be okay,


hmmm what about a guy that just stops talking to you out of no where and stops answering your calls, after over a year of doing what we were doing minus a couple of spats.

just ignores everything kinda disapears. maybe with another girl?

do you think that it is another girl?

[Innominate]

hmmm what about a guy that just stops talking to you out of no where and stops answering your calls, after over a year of doing what we were doing minus a couple of spats.

just ignores everything kinda disapears. maybe with another girl?

do you think that it is another girl?
Was it a real relationship or a beneficial connection?

[Breukelen advocaat]

hey to you it is goin to be okay,


hmmm what about a guy that just stops talking to you out of no where and stops answering your calls, after over a year of doing what we were doing minus a couple of spats.

just ignores everything kinda disapears. maybe with another girl?

do you think that it is another girl?

I once knew a guy that dumped a really nice girl just because she was overweight. He didn't tell her that. He just made it out that he wasn't happy with the direction the relationship was going, or something like that. People can be really stupid.

Don't wonder about why it didn't work, just move on. You deserve better.

[StonedJew]

I've been in your situation before. I find it best just to move on. Smoke some bud or do something else that makes you happy. You should pull through. If it isn't going well with a girl, then it isn't meant to be. If its right though, it will fall into place on its own.

[naturelovinpuffer]

it was a friends with benifits thing

[Innominate]

it was a friends with benifits thing
You have years ahead of you with boundless opportunities, take your time in the decisions you will make to ensure you follow them. You want an obligated relationship with someone but it won't continue if there is no communication or purpose (mental connection).

You would rather not make the rest of your life about men, take the smart decisions.

[jagarr]

i used to be like this about girls then i discovered that there are billions. and a great percentage are ebil, so choose wisely. there are two safe distances between you and girls!

faaaar as fck away
or their head in your lap
:D

[Infamous]

I once knew a guy that dumped a really nice girl just because she was overweight. He didn't tell her that. He just made it out that he wasn't happy with the direction the relationship was going, or something like that. People can be really stupid.

Don't wonder about why it didn't work, just move on. You deserve better.

If he didnt want to be with the girl then he had three options.

1) Stay with her anyway just to make her happy but end up being miserable

2) Tell her the truth, that doesnt want to be with her because she is overweight.

3) Say the relationship isnt going anywhere or something to that effect.

To be honest I think he chose the best option both for himself and for her. Telling a girl you are leaving her because of the way she looks can mess up their whole life. It can take years for some women to trust a man again and some never even do that. Basically if she thinks its something to do with her as a person then thats fine, theres plenty of fish in the sea. Sometimes its a lot easier for someone to change how they look on the inside as opposed to how they look on outside. Thats just my two pence mate :thumbsup:

[Metaphor]

some women aree pure evil. I just got dumped by some bitch a week or two ago after a year+ relationship. Shit is hard to get over, i cant help thinking about her durring the day and especially at night. Its fucked up, i know that shit is over and ive accepted that, its just hard to stop factoring in those 'what ifs'. Bottom line, [most] women [in my experience] are soulless bitches that feed off emotions.
The funniest thing is that if you asked me a month or two ago I woulda said that all women are these torumenting shedevils except that one.

Its either you hurt them or you get hurt. neither one really helps me sleep at night.

[LIP]

I was depressed for like 2 years after i split up from my ex, i used to go through stages where i was fine, and then stages where i was a mess. I was pissed most of the time, going out looking for trouble. Then all of a sudden i realised it was a waste of time, and going out pissed getting into fights wasnt making me happy or getting me sex. Haha. Anyway, i sorted myself out and met a great woman. If i had still been depressed and drunk i wouldnt have met her. Now lifes looking up, im stoned all the time, and me and her are both happy. Very happy. What im saying is, try and pick yourself up, or your perfect woman will walk right past you.

But your younger, so you've got YEARS ahead of you!

[Squiggle]

Thanks for all the help and positive comments =)

Well anyways it seems being a total dick to a girl really makes them just want you even more...

WTF right?

She pissed me off finally and was like ya know fuck it.... stopped calling her stopped answering her phone calls stopped texting her unless she called me like 5 times in a row then be a dick about it on the phone...

But now she just wont leave me the fuck alone and shes getting pretty close now...

Guess being a nice guy isnt the way to go...

But to bad most girls are bitches no matter how nice they appear to be in the beginning....

Ive already seen this girls bitchy side I really dont want anything to do with it any more... oh well my friend can have it its not even worth it...

=).

Fuck I love weed.

[worm]

Weed will never betray you ;)

[ChaosPotHeadNYC]

I recommend a 3-4 month drinking period if its really got you that down. Drinking always helps forget/hide whatever is ailing you.

[Breukelen advocaat]

Don't start drinking, except in moderation. Getting drunk is not the answer, and alcohol is extremely unhealthy in excess.

[LIP]

Don't start drinking, except in moderation. Getting drunk is not the answer, and alcohol is extremely unhealthy in excess.

Too damn right. I can vouch for that.

[TheDefiler]

Mary Jane is the perfect woman! She's always there for u. She never bitches about anything. And she will never dump u.

Man i love pot!

[beachguy in thongs]

Here's an idea: Move to Oklahoma and find a nice girl, who lives on a ranch with a pig called, "Oreo".

[Gundari]

Hah I can empathize with you man, I was in a horrible relationship for 5 years, girl treated me like shit and all and in the end I just saw through all the bs and said "screw you I'm better then this and I don't need you".

Recently started dating this other girl, I thought she was the greatest thing ever when stuff started between us. But the last few days have been crappy and I've been down over it, granted I haven't really been depressed but I've been down. It's never fun to really want to be with someone then see them show you how two faced people can be, especially when you've been upfront and honest the whole time.

Honestly the best thing I can say for you to do is take a step back, spend some time with friends (friends are the best thing we have in our lives, assuming they are friends and not just acquaintances), And do whatever you enjoy. I know for me whenever something gets me down I go for a run or lift some weights, the feeling of muscle tearing, ligaments stretching and my heart pounding in my head as I push my body towards breaking point makes me feel alive as hell. The endorphin rush is a nice bonus too.

[Stoner126]

Hah I can empathize with you man, I was in a horrible relationship for 5 years, girl treated me like shit and all and in the end I just saw through all the bs and said "screw you I'm better then this and I don't need you".

Recently started dating this other girl, I thought she was the greatest thing ever when stuff started between us. But the last few days have been crappy and I've been down over it, granted I haven't really been depressed but I've been down. It's never fun to really want to be with someone then see them show you how two faced people can be, especially when you've been upfront and honest the whole time.

Honestly the best thing I can say for you to do is take a step back, spend some time with friends (friends are the best thing we have in our lives, assuming they are friends and not just acquaintances), And do whatever you enjoy. I know for me whenever something gets me down I go for a run or lift some weights, the feeling of muscle tearing, ligaments stretching and my heart pounding in my head as I push my body towards breaking point makes me feel alive as hell. The endorphin rush is a nice bonus too.

I agree, take a step back, dont look for love, it will find you

[Gundari]

I agree, take a step back, dont look for love, it will find you


Aye forgot to say that too. Love ain't something you can force, it's something you have to let happen naturally. I've found that all the best things in my life have come to me when I wasn't looking for it, just let the winds carry you where they may.

[Aliigetshyphy]

Weed never says no!

[victoriab]

You just haven't met the right girl yet. Relax don't rush things when you meet a female that you are interested in and go out without the other guys sometime (fly solo). For now the best treatment for your condition is, roll one kick back and watch a Cheech & Chong movie an laugh your ass off.