anyone else like me?

[Non]

whom will never find love, or a girlfriend, whom the entire species of female humans utterly and totally hate me even though they may not know it.

who is the lowest of the low, who is a worthless peasant, who is a weak coward like meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee eeeeeeeee, who

is just the worst creation in this entire universe.

[Squiggle]

Ive felt like that in the past...

dont let it get you down...

Burn a bowl and chill...

Youll find a stoner chick one of theese days.

[psychocat]

I've never felt like that , I've always known I was a charming fucker .
Believe me when I tell you if you don't see good in you how is anyone else going to.
Work is needed on your confidence and when you feel better about yourself you will project that to the opposite sex . Confident men have more success with women because they have self worth. Start counting what you can do instead of concentrating on what you can't, try new things and don't worry about success or failure.
You will discover your strengths if you stop inspecting your weaknesses.

[StickyfingahZ]

if you don't see good in you how is anyone else going to.



You will discover your strengths if you stop inspecting your weaknesses.

These are some things you need to read over and over.It's good advice.

[RileyG]

I was there for a long time don't worry about it. It will happen for you eventully.

[greenhorngrower]

wow.. thats guff.. i give valid advice to this guy, and the mods delete the post and neg rep me.. what I said was exactly what someone in this dudes situation needs to hear.. I mean c'mon am I the only one who thinks this kid needs to chill out.. low self esteem linked to marijuana.. i dunno.. but he's clearly giving us smokers a bad name..

Nothings gonna happen for this dude if he just keeps whining about his problems like this... I wasnt trying to insult him so much as to get a message across.. he needs to buck up

[JD1stTimer]

greenhorngrower, too bad I don't have a way to know whether you're right. But as to non, I think that comes from a chemical problem in your brain. For me it's caused by not seeing people often enough. If I stay in my house for a whole week I begin to have delusions of not being a human being. When I get back out in society I feel as though I don't know how to interact properly. But if I force myself to be as pleasant as a can and be in as many social situations as possible, then I slowly merge back into the species. Do you have guy friends? "Friend" friends who are girls? If you do, hang out with them at EVERY opportunity. Spending time alone will drag you backwards.

[greenhorngrower]

greenhorngrower, too bad I don't have a way to know whether you're right. But as to non, I think that comes from a chemical problem in your brain. For me it's caused by not seeing people often enough. If I stay in my house for a whole week I begin to have delusions of not being a human being. When I get back out in society I feel as though I don't know how to interact properly. But if I force myself to be as pleasant as a can and be in as many social situations as possible, then I slowly merge back into the species. Do you have guy friends? "Friend" friends who are girls? If you do, hang out with them at EVERY opportunity. Spending time alone will drag you backwards.


Well put, I can relate...:stoned:

[Gandalf_The_Grey]

I've felt like that too, and I still don't know if I'll ever experience a relationship. But one thing I have learned as of late is that you need to shift your focus. I've recently escaped a very bad, depressive, unproductive mindstate. A key factor in this was learning that you have to stop longing for companionship, and start appreciating the parts of your single life that you do have. Only by stepping back and away from the problem, can you see how to fix it. Maybe I'm still alone, maybe I will always be, but I'm a lot more productive than when I was beating myself up and feeling like crap. You can't fix a problem until you step out of it.

[affasd]

ya i agree with gandalf. im turning 19 in a few days and ive never been in a relationship.i might never be or at least for a long time either. but i could care less. theres more important things to me. "money over bitches such an easy decision" - lil wayne .....lol. Plus im already dating mary jane and palmela anderson :wtf: ;).

but anyways i guess if your really obssesed about getting a girl then you have to stop feeeling sorry for yourself and take pyscocats advice

[hreskofreight4]

its weird our society expects us to grow up and be in relationships and get married. im 18 ive had a gf once for like 10 days and i dont know whats going to happen down the road with my relationshop status but it doesnt matter because who gives a shit if i get married, if i get in the position to and it seems right then ill do it. anyway you just made the post to make people feel sorry for you and make yourself seem inferior to everyone but you arent because all humans are human, and "even the president of the united states must sometimes have to stand naked." anyway im high so i hope that made sense

[potsmokingnome]

Yeah know, if you feel that way towards yourself it shows. It shows in the way you present yourself towartds the opposite sex. Not many woman are attracted to the I'm the lowest form of life, will you please please go out with me kind of attitude. If ya wanna girlfriend, stop and think about this first. Would you be attracted to a girl who thinks she is the lowest life form on the face of the planet?...So do somethin about it, change yourself for yourself, and after that things will fall into place, try to improve your confidence, and your self esteem, and then woman will be more attracted to you, and one day when you least expect it somethin amazing will happen and you will meet a fantastic girl. But there is no use rushin, and tryin to get a gf, it happens in due time. Take this time to improve yourself, and feel better about yourself, and then you will become a better, and more attractive person!

[Chaotixxx]

Yeah know, if you feel that way towards yourself it shows. It shows in the way you present yourself towartds the opposite sex. Not many woman are attracted to the I'm the lowest form of life, will you please please go out with me kind of attitude. If ya wanna girlfriend, stop and think about this first. Would you be attracted to a girl who thinks she is the lowest life form on the face of the planet?...So do somethin about it, change yourself for yourself, and after that things will fall into place, try to improve your confidence, and your self esteem, and then woman will be more attracted to you, and one day when you least expect it somethin amazing will happen and you will meet a fantastic girl. But there is no use rushin, and tryin to get a gf, it happens in due time. Take this time to improve yourself, and feel better about yourself, and then you will become a better, and more attractive person!

Truth.